Where to ejaculate?

[alias 15]

I was curious when swinging where do most guys cum? With the condom on or on the lady? Does the lady usual request? I was curious about these mfm or more guys to girls situations?

[xxoticangel 99]

When swinging I prefer my partner to cum either on me or in my mouth. Cumming in a condom seems like such a waste. A lot of guys have a difficulty reaching orgasm with a condom so if I sense that he just isn't getting there I'll take over and finish him orally or with my hand.

[WesternSwing 504]

In my experience, until the woman is comfortable with the guy (meaning they've played together a couple of times) it is usually in the condom. But I've had women ask me to cum anywhere and everywhere on them. Sometimes I'll ask where they want me to and sometimes they just tell me straight out. Mrs. WS likes it on her tits, but again, I've never seen her do that with a first time playmate, she also needs to be a bit more comfortable with him.

[montresor 19]

Ms P likes it best deep in her pussy, likes to feel a man's semen in there afterward, but also likes to swallow. On her breasts is okay too, especially if she's been using her generous tits to bring him off.

 

Ms F will only let a guy cum inside her pussy if he's got a condom on. She will suck to completion but doesn't swallow, lets it run back down. She also likes cum ALL over her body and is waiting for that time when 3 or 4 guys cum on her simultaneously.

[Vespertine 31]

I think each encounter would be different.

 

Women's likes and dislikes vary, regardless if they're new to the scene or not. Your best bet would be to ask prior to playtime.

[txduo2000 18]

I just wish our single guy would come anywhere besides his HAND!

 

I have told him I can't get pregnant. I have told him I do not mind if he comes inside me or on me or whatever. But he always pulls out and comes in his hand.

[mrs good times 73]

I think your best option is to ask. I like it when a partner asks me because the answer will depend on my mood at the time but I usually like him to cum on my breasts.

[95mustang 15]

Well, for us for now it would be somewhere on the body, since we are soft swing only. However if we ever progress to full swap it would always be in a condom since I can still get PG. My dh would also always cum in a condom even though he had the big V. Just a preference for us.

[Carol_Danny 17]

There is nothing wrong with asking where you should cum. Some women enjoy the feel of cum on their bodies, face or in the mouth, while others prefer you just to cum in the condom when you are ready. Carol just ends up asking the guy where he would like to cum, and then takes care of him

[valley 25]

In me ,not on me.I think its a real waste,and not erotic,to come on me.I love it in my mouth especially.If its a new 'friend' I will have it that way. If he wants to fuck me I insist on a condom.A guy we met 2 months ago,who suited us beautifully and us him,had blood tests ,at my doctors,to prove his sincerity.Needless to say I enjoy his bare flesh.Im not so concerned about the taste of cum,but I adore the 'feel' of it in me.

 

Why does posting usually give one a tingle...you know where? :-)

[janaandjames 24]

I agree that the best policy is to ask, to talk about it before ...

we must just be old fashioned but we just dont get this obsession with guys coming on her tits, on her face .. in her mouth, whatever.

we prefer men come in her mouth, or in the rubber in her pussy ... sometimes she will let someone do it on her tits ..

j

[Guest letsplay33]

For me it all depends on the mood and how things are going. I will always tell the guy where I want him to cum. If things are really hot I want him to cum deep inside me. If so so I will tell him to cum on my chest. It really all depends on the mood.

[Dude45 15]

TxDuo2000....that is the strangest thing I've ever heard of. I've never heard of such a thing! And I've seen and heard alot of things in my life regarding sex. that could be a new poll:

How many men pull out and cum in their hand as oppose to in or on their partner?

 

Maybe I shouldn't make fun...but thats funny!

[estelle_r04 15]

my man cum where ever he wants. I like it just about anywhere, so I usually leave that up to him. At first he was shy about it, but after a while he let himself go

[luvscum 17]

Hello

We have many male partners and I prefer that they cum in my mouth.Even when getting fucked ,I most always ask them to pull out and let me suck them dry. But I love the taste and texture of cum

[sexyshelby 19]

Personally, I'd rather have a guy cum in the condom...no clean up invloved. But that's just me! Definitley no cum on my face though

 

~SS

[lordy 15]

why not if it makes him happy. why not allow him to cum on your face ? it is all about enjoying the moment right ?

[In2curiosity 15]

why not if it makes him happy. why not allow him to cum on your face ? it is all about enjoying the moment right ?

 

 

It is about making everyone happy and it isn't going to make me happy if a guy cums on my face. facelick

[Spoomonkey 421]

It is about making everyone happy and it isn't going to make me happy if a guy cums on my face. facelick

 

Excellent point. If all partners aren't having fun, it just doesn't make much sense.

 

Spoomonkey

[Thrax 384]

I've always found that MY orgasms (yes, ME, I care about ME) are better when they occur in some willing woman's orifice, either condomized (most of the time) or not (only two ladies) if it's intercourse, or in her mouth, her swallowing optional, as far as I'm concerned.

 

However, I have no problem with following her rules, whatever they are.

 

I never really understood the idea of cumming on someone's face, although that is an obvious thrill for some guys. I don't know what it is, but even if she gives me a handjob to completion on some random part of her body, it doesn't compare with the intimacy of me cumming inside her. Maybe I think of the other methods as comparable to me just whacking off, and frankly, as a single male, I've had enough of that. More than enough.

 

I can't TELL you how much...

[valley 25]

Thrax....You say youve had enough,but I bet you do it again.(go on...admit it,you cant keep your hands off yourself,nudge ,nudge,wink,wink) However,I am in full agreement with you.Why would a man want to pull out of a perfectly good body to ruin a good orgasm.In fact it is an act totally in reverse to man's primal urge.It is instinctive to ejaculate into a woman.

 

My personal opinion is that only the 'pornographers' put a lot of time and effort into the image of women being abused and/or humiliated.I sincerely doubt many men actually do it,or many women would allow it.I will concede that some among us might like to have it between our breasts ,or on some occassions on our tummy,but I do not agree that 'facials' are a common occurance.I can assure you that if that was requested of me,he would be out the door so fast his nose would bleed.

 

Besides,the fact is, I think its a lovely feeling,a man ejaculating.

[Thrax 384]

Thrax....You say you've had enough,but I bet you do it again.(go on...admit it,you cant keep your hands off yourself,nudge ,nudge,wink,wink) [/Quote]

Much more than I'd like to, but, well...these are desperate times... (Very OFTEN desperate times)

Besides,the fact is, I think its a lovely feeling,a man ejaculating.

Quite...lovely...yes...

[sbthegra 15]

And why do pornographers focus so much on "facials" , gross appearing multiple doses all over some woman's face ? I have many fantasies, but this one just leaves me going - WHY ?? Seems a very impersonal way to puctuate a hopefully very personal experience.

I have always preferred the feeling and visual of in the mouth to anything. My favorite partners have understood the visual part and made that a priority. Second favorite is deep inside any orifice, an emotionally satisfying thing when both are in tune to it.

 

If you don't focus on your partner's pleasure isn't it just masturbation with company ?

[Tantra 48]

We've had somewhat limited full swap experience. I've always had the fantasy of cumming in a gorgeous woman's mouth and her swallowing every last drop. It's so primal and sexy for me. Unfortunately my wife, who is ever so beautiful and sexy is intimidated (maybe disgusted - not sure because she's never done it) by this and cannot, at this point, do this for me.

 

My question is this .. do most women feel the way my wife does or are there women who prefer a man to cum in her mouth?

 

Also, what about the taste - I have tasted my own cum and I can see the aversion that some have.

[newbees001 15]

Personally, I'd rather have a guy cum in the condom...no clean up invloved. But that's just me! Definitley no cum on my face though

 

~SS

Do you mean inside of you in a condom or pull it out then cum in a condom?

[JaneAndJohnDoe 17]

My question is this .. do most women feel the way my wife does or are there women who prefer a man to cum in her mouth?

 

I guess you could argue that I am addicted to his cum. I love when he cums in my pussy, ass, on my body (anywhere on my body, including face), and most definitely in my mouth! There's just something so sexy about the way he feels and tastes when he cums...very hard to describe.

 

This has not always been the case with other men, however, which brings me to my next response...

 

Also, what about the taste - I have tasted my own cum and I can see the aversion that some have.

 

An interesting thing about the taste...

 

I have been with men in the past and couldn't stand the taste of their cum. if they came in my mouth, I swallowed fast, tried not to make a face, and drank some cola as soon as possible to erase the flavor from my throat and tongue.

 

BUT, with John it is completely different, and I know why.

 

We are semi-vegetarians. We don't eat meat or poultry, but we do eat seafood. This has made a huge difference to the flavor of both his cum and the taste of my own pussy. He actually tastes sweet, like an almost honey flavor. of course it has a slight saltiness to it...all semen does...but it is very muted and almost not there at all.

 

Amazing!

[sexyshelby 19]

The food you eat definitely has an impact on the taste. Try eating plain foods: rice, pasta, nothing too spicy.

 

But for some, no matter what you eat or don't eat, some women still just don't like the taste of it...I am one.

 

And to newbees, I mean cum inside me with a comdom on. I love when a man cums inside me.

 

~SS

[Lovinlife59912 17]

Tantra, let your wife know that both of you are missing out on a great experience.

I don't think I've ever let my husband waste a drop. If we are really into it then he cums inside me but any other time I suck him dry.

Just for good measure I'll surprise him and take care of him just because and I get no arguements from him. facelick

[BiloxiCouple 695]

I prefer to cum right out the end of my penis. Where it lands nobody knows.

[magnum 78]

I was curious when swinging where do most guys cum? With the condom on or on the lady? Does the lady usual request? I was curious about these mfm or more guys to girls situations?

 

The couple that I play with most, we cum on her face... Good fun, makes for good photos too...

 

Magnum

[newbees001 15]

The couple that I play with most, we cum on her face... Good fun, makes for good photos too...

 

Magnum

That's sounds awesome!

[rachan 53]

I like for the guys to cum on my face and chest, especially when we have mfm encounters. My husband likes for me to suck him while my bf fucks me and they both cum on me.

[twobears 16]

ok everyone what happen here to safe sex? yes, there is no such thing as really safe sex, you can lower your risk of contacting STD's by using condoms. It really upsets me to hear that alot of people on this board talking about this subject and getting to know a person better does not make it safer!!!! The moment in time when you read a HIV test clean, it could show up positive the next month, it takes time to show it's nasty head. I swollow and I get excited too but I do not want to take that chance and go to bed with everyone that the person has had and that is what you are doing when you swollow someone cum. Yes, we have meet swinging couple who do it and we let them have my hubby's cum if they want it but I do not swollow anyone's cum except my hubby's. I give a good blow job too with a condom on and the men do enjoy it, some extra lubricant on tip of the penis does wonders in a condom and I always try to make it a sexy experience or for I like to put the condom on the male. I think you can get the same enjoyment out of it with the right attitude and that is usually the catch. oh by the way alot of men seep semen during oral before they cum, so why would you not wear a condom and pull out and put it one anyone tits, might as well go the whole risk and just swallow it all or cum inside but again everyone has right to do as they please.

[keysync 15]

So far the only guy to have sex with my wife is fixed just like me and we've known each other for years so it's not a big issue.

We don't use condoms. BUT the wife and I only play with that couple and have for years.

Point is Myself and the other male friend if it's a MFM night cum in my wifes pussy. She loves that feeling and absolutely refuses to take it in her mouth.

[MikeandDawn 59]

I was curious when swinging where do most guys cum? With the condom on or on the lady? Does the lady usual request? I was curious about these mfm or more guys to girls situations?

 

It's always inside her, either in her mouth, pussy, or both.

[rw53aust 17]

My wife insists that everyone (me included) come inside her. She has only one "facial" which stung her eyes so much that she doesnt want to go there again - ever, besides that she loves the sensation - throbbing, warmth. This suits me as i havent pulled out to cum since i was a young teenager trying to avoid pregnancy.

[MrsHidalgo 25]

The original question was.....where to cum when swinging.

 

I ALWAYS want it in my mouth if I am giving oral. ALWAYS. The satisfaction that it gives to the guy is awesome. And I aim to please him. facelick

 

If I am having str8 up intercourse then the guy 99% of the time has a condom on, and I won't break stride to do anything except let him cum in me with the condom.

 

Don't want it on my face or in my hair. YUCK! Now, on my tits is another thing altogether......

 

The very, very BEST cum that has been bestowed on me is the first time Mr.Hidalgo & I were doing anal. WOW! Feeling him cum inside my butt was a HUGE feeling that I had never dreamed of before.

[bigjoehd 26]

I think everybody can agree that no women likes it in the eye

[magnum 78]

I was curious when swinging where do most guys cum? With the condom on or on the lady? Does the lady usual request? I was curious about these mfm or more guys to girls situations?

 

For me, as the single guy in a mfm gig, I/we usually cum on her face and on her tits for the photo opp fun.

 

I now have a gf, "I have not yet convinced her to participate in a mfm or mfmf play date" but hopefully some day. But my gf really likes it when I cum in her mounth and on her tits.

 

Magnum

[Roman Hands 15]

ok everyone what happen here to safe sex?

 

AGREE!!!!!.....but we seem to be in the minority!

 

There is a difference between a calculated risk and deliberate indifferance!

[cplnuswing 4,713]

On 11/12/2005 at 2:57 PM, WesternSwing said:

In my experience, until the woman is comfortable with the guy (meaning they've played together a couple of times) it is usually in the condom.

This has been our experience too.  Like many things in swinging, the more comfortable people get with each other, the more doors start to open.

[Anon321 521]

It always depends but most of the time (especially in a situation like you said with multiple men) they shoot it on my GF's face.  But every man and woman is different.

[Fitlakecouple 451]

Cum wherever she directs you to as long as it doesn't violate your own rules.

[EastInWest 1,524]

Facials are mostly an "us" thing. If she's fucking, Mrs. E always likes to finish that way, so in the condom. Tantra's old question about whether or not some women prefer to swallow: for oral, she actually does. She's meticulously tidy and if it's got to go somewhere, she prefers getting rid of it instantly, but if she knows it's easy to wash up, her chest, too.

[couplers 4,614]

If I let a guy in me anywhere (pussy, mouth, ass) I assume that he might ejaculate there and it is fine with me, he doesn't need to ask.  The question was whether he would like me to make a show of rolling his semen around before swallowing, or trying to push it out of my vagina or ass.  Some guys really like seeing the results of what they've done.

 

In my mind, cumming outside of me is a waste.  Because of my Catholic school upbringing, sex education, called "family health," emphasized the reproductive aspects of sex.  So my mind as a horny mid-teenager was fixated on the sperm of the guy I was fantasizing about living in my uterus for days, days!  It is still a fetish of mine to think about a living part of a man (or men!) living in me for days after they ejaculated in my vagina.

 

Thinking about it now, there's always some guy living in there for the last 12 years, except when I used to go on long business trips.

[Anon321 521]

20 minutes ago, couplers said:

If I let a guy in me anywhere (pussy, mouth, ass) I assume that he might ejaculate there and it is fine with me, he doesn't need to ask.  The question was whether he would like me to make a show of rolling his semen around before swallowing, or trying to push it out of my vagina or ass.  Some guys really like seeing the results of what they've done.

 

In my mind, cumming outside of me is a waste.  Because of my Catholic school upbringing, sex education, called "family health," emphasized the reproductive aspects of sex.  So my mind as a horny mid-teenager was fixated on the sperm of the guy I was fantasizing about living in my uterus for days, days!  It is still a fetish of mine to think about a living part of a man (or men!) living in me for days after they ejaculated in my vagina.

 

Thinking about it now, there's always some guy living in there for the last 12 years, except when I used to go on long business trips.

My GF is not a big fan of guys cumming inside her pussy but like you said, if you let someone inside your pussy, ass or mouth there is always the possibility that they will cum in there.  And guys have cum in her pussy, ass, and mouth sometimes with and sometimes without warning.

 

I think on a 1-on1 session it makes more sense to cum internally but the OP is referring to situations where the girl is outnumbered.  And in those situations it's still fine if everyone is on the same page but it's not something I would prefer.  I was fucking her with 2 other guys once and one came in her ass.  I'm not a huge anal guy but I definitely wasn't going to put my dick in there after that.  Although it didn't stop my other buddy from going in so everyone is different.

 

I think in general we prefer cumming on her face in a group setting where it's MFM or more than 2 men.  It's very sexy, fun to do, watch, and it doesn't really get in the way.  Once you cum on her face the guys can still fuck her while she wears it.  And if it does get in the way it's easy cleanup.

[couplers 4,614]

23 minutes ago, Anon321 said:

... everyone is different.

From what you and I have said, obviously.

 

23 minutes ago, Anon321 said:

... the OP is referring to situations where the girl is outnumbered. 

I can understand that with casual partners it is different.  The couple of times I have had four men go into me in one sexual session (I've only had sex with five different men in my entire life), they were all long-term partners which included the two men in my poly family, Lora's ex-husband, and the boyfriend we currently share (Lora and Clair were there as well).  So I had sex with each of them numerous times before, and their cumming in me was no big deal.

 

  

23 minutes ago, Anon321 said:

guys have cum in her pussy, ass, and mouth sometimes with and sometimes without warning.

It's not that there is no warning, it's just that when a guy is about to cum he wants to push in, not pull out.  I think that's instinct at work.

[couplers 4,614]

28 minutes ago, Anon321 said:

I was fucking her with 2 other guys once and one came in her ass.  I'm not a huge anal guy but I definitely wasn't going to put my dick in there after that.

In my experience, men are just as willing to go into a woman's bum as they are her vagina for sloppy seconds.  Are you OK going into a woman after another guy has ejaculated into her vagina or mouth?  

[couplers 4,614]

4 hours ago, couplers said:

It is still a fetish of mine to think about a living part of a man (or men!) living in me for days after they ejaculated in my vagina.

 

This just in: "... sperm cells are actually spinning their tails asymmetrically in one direction while also rotating their heads at the same time. The tail spinning and head rotating balance each other out, propelling the sperm forward."

https://gizmodo.com/how-sperm-swim-may-be-nothing-but-an-optical-illusion-1844571256

 

I'm getting excited.  Time to replenish.

[Anon321 521]

4 hours ago, couplers said:

In my experience, men are just as willing to go into a woman's bum as they are her vagina for sloppy seconds.  Are you OK going into a woman after another guy has ejaculated into her vagina or mouth?  

No I'm not.  If a guy cums in her pussy or ass I'm not going in after.  They have cum in her mouth and I've gone in after she swallows.  I'm a bit of a prude I guess.