Jump to content
sunlovers75

Help! He has a Big Cock!

Recommended Posts

We are a primarily a mfm couple, most of the other men have just been regular in size. We have a new contact who would like to meet with us and he has a massive tool. I (Mrs Sunlovers) am a little nervous about it. I have had a couple of kids and thought size would never matter but this has me scared I might tense up because of nerves and make it painful.

 

If anyone has advice on this would love to hear it...positions that are best etc or should I tell him forget it. Part of me wants to say no way, the other half says might be fun!

 

Let me have your thoughts or experiences! BTW I am 5' by 105 lbs so am not a big girl...

Share this post


Link to post

Whether you are a big girl or not...in stature...should make no difference. It's a muscle, or rather set of muscles, and all muscles can stretch and still maintain their elasticity. If you have ever fantasized about a large cock you may have tried using a large dildo at one time to allow yourself to be comfy with the extra size. You will feel very full, like you can't move or you'll split, at first, but with practice comes the ability to learn to control those muscles.

 

Take your time and use lots of consideration for his plight (as far as keeping it up while maneuvering is taking place) and take your time with foreplay. Allow him to work on your pussy and try to stretch it out with his fingers. That should be delightful for you. Since he's sooo big, he should have some ideas as to how to help you with the situation too.

 

Good luck...should be a fun time.

Share this post


Link to post

What do you consider massive? No matter the size though, if you take the top you will have more control during penetration.

Share this post


Link to post

I can't agree more, take your time. I have had a very thick one before and I was scared to death. My partner took the extra time to get me ready and was very gentle during penetration. Lots of lube also helped.

 

Enjoy it!!

 

Tracy

Share this post


Link to post

my advice is to lay back and enjoy :)

ahhhhhhhhhhh

 

We had a regular for awhile, for mfm, and he was very large. I was nervous and all, but he took it slow and it worked out well. Actually, I was sore for a few days after that. felt like some muscles had been worked out. But like one of the other posters said, you can stretch it out some.

 

it took a few times, and it may take you a few times as well, to "loosen" up, but you will.

 

And once you do, that's when you can lay back and enjoy, but be sure to stay on top until you get acclimated :)

 

I've always said size didn't matter, but a really big one is nice. being "filled up" is great :)

 

jana

Share this post


Link to post

I have never been a fan of huge dicks. I mean, I like good size dicks, I don't like small ones. but really large penises make me feel limited with oral and anal, and when they're too long it just hurts my cervix.

 

After my husband gets my pussy wet and swollen from head, whether I'm fucking him or he's using a slightly larger dildo on me, it's the speed of the thrusts, not the thickness that makes me cum from vaginal stimulation.

Share this post


Link to post

Size really shouldn't be an issue. If it is girth you are worried about, as DBL D stated it is muscles and they will stretch. If it is length, hopefully he is experienced enough to not try and go too deep. The best advice I can offer is to become comfortable with him. Make sure you can talk easily with him, and be sure to talk even during foreplay. That way he can ask you what feels good, and you can tell him if he needs to adjust something without feeling nervous.

 

He is going to want to please you, not cause you discomfort in anyway. If he goes too deep, or thrust too hard tell him to ease up. You will both enjoy it a lot more. Good luck with your first "big Unit". It really can be great. :facelick:

 

mrs hmr :)

Share this post


Link to post

In our experience his size only ended up being an issue for certain poistions. He was 10" and pretty thick. When it came doen to it she was so wet they didn't even need lube. After some warming up she was letting him,actually ordering him, to harder and faster! Just make sure he listens to your desires with positions/depth or else you take control. Unless your guy has severe elephantitus of the dick or somehitng I bet it will all work out :cool:

Share this post


Link to post

No matter if your a "big girl" or a "skinny minnie" your body will adjust to fit! Give it a try.. relax and use plenty of lube!

Share this post


Link to post

Up-Date!!!

 

Meet with Mr. BigUnit...and things went great...make that fantastic!!! It was all about relaxing and getting to right level before penetration. Yes was little sore the next day but was worth it ::P: It also helped that the gentleman was very sensitive to my needs. Are we going to do it again??? Yes!!! However don't think it would have been pleasant to have him pounding away with total abandon. Thanks for the support!!

 

Mrs. Sunlovers

Share this post


Link to post
Up-Date!!!

 

Meet with Mr. BigUnit........and things went great....make that fantastic!!!

 

Always great to hear that things worked out! :D

Share this post


Link to post

Mrs. Sunlovers, we are glad to hear it went great and we concur with Dbl D... can't say enough for someone that is a gentleman.

 

We had a friend that was about 10" and as thick as a coke can. (I never look at soda cans the same since). He had to go very slow at the begining, but once we both got comfortable, look out!! Being filled up is an unbelievable sensation and cumming like that is wonderful. I will take the soreness for the next day or so. Never did we try anal and giving oral to him was a challenge, could never get him in my mouth... but when there is a will there is a way to compensate, just think of something that may do the trick... we did and I loved it.

Share this post


Link to post

It is something that my wife (MrsPlaytime) ran into one night. We were all in the same room doing our things, then I heard my wife say "Oh my God". Well I turned around and about feel of the other bed, it was huge. Our advice would be take your TIME and LOTS of LUBE. MrsPlaytime said it was very, very filling but not for everyday. Enjoy it.

Share this post


Link to post

Some advice from one who has been in this situation from the other side (inserting the big unit) - Yes, lots of lube is a must; start in a position that will make it easiest to receive (not with the woman on top); relax and take your time - insert or receive as slowly and gingerly as necessary and usually it will get in comfortably

Share this post


Link to post
sunlovers75 said:
Met with Mr. BigUnit........and things went great....make that fantastic!!!

 

It is so nice of you to reply back to your thread and tell us how things went. Thank you so much.

 

One of my biggest turn-ons is to watch a woman enjoy sex with a very well endowed and attentive man. I'm glad that you enjoyed the experience.

Share this post


Link to post
Mrs. Sunlovers, we are glad to hear it went great and we concur with Dbl D... can't say enough for someone that is a gentleman.

 

We had a friend that was about 10" and as thick as a coke can. (I never look at soda cans the same since). He had to go very slow at the begining, but once we both got comfortable, look out!! Being filled up is an unbelievable sensation and cumming like that is wonderful. I will take the soreness for the next day or so. Never did we try anal and giving oral to him was a challenge, could never get him in my mouth... but when there is a will there is a way to compensate, just think of something that may do the trick... we did and I loved it.

 

You put it so well "being filled up is an unbelievable sensation and cumming like that is wonderful". That is so hot. A thicker penis moves the folds more giving more indirect stimulation to the clitoris. It also pushes on the g-spot more and increases friction and sensation, making for an intense orgasm.

 

Oh, and what a sight for the hubby to enjoy!

Share this post


Link to post
JacobSky said:
You put it so well "being filled up is an unbelievable sensation and cumming like that is wonderful". That is so hot. A thicker penis moves the folds more giving more indirect stimulation to the clitoris. It also pushes on the g-spot more and increases friction and sensation, making for an intense orgasm.

 

Oh, and what a sight for the hubby to enjoy!

 

That last sentence says a lot that some might gloss over. What a sight for the hubby to enjoy, indeed! When I met my wife's friend for the first time it was a surprise because he was older than I had expected. My wife had selected him though and I had approved because of his "experience".

 

While undressing my wife that thick penis was showing more and more. I gulped as he dropped his boxers and I must say it was a lovely sight even for one who is as "straight" as I.

 

The above posts better describe what the wife and server feel and think but for a loving husband seeing his wife treated so gently and with such respect while getting her ready is a sudden mixture of extreme emotions.

 

The massive cock he displayed to us both did just what he wanted. My wife with a mixture of "want" as well as "concern" about the thickness. For me it caused a bit of humility and jealousy.

 

The penetration came suddenly amid gasps and a few groans.

 

What a sight for this hubby to enjoy.

Share this post


Link to post

younger1, thanks for letting us know about you and your wife's experiences with a bigger unit. It sounds like the size added to the experience for the two of you. That is great.

 

For some men, he is strong where I am weak , is a running theme in their strongest fantasies about watching their wife with another male. It is an acceptance that differences can be pleasurable and give the woman added pleasure. It is somtimes a way to face insecurities head on. This theme doesn't always play out right because some males don't have the skill to go with their looks or big unit, but some do.

Share this post


Link to post

JacobSky, Do you just mingle with the crowd where you find couples to serve or perhaps advertise as more of a bull? I find it pretty erotic either way but I'm particularly interested in your approach when it comes time for the meeting with husband and wife. It's the more important to us because in spite of her experience she's still young and relatively shy.

 

She's not into anything very kinky but loves a good deal of foreplay and imagination from a new partner. I'm always wanting to observe everything up close and I get very anxious about my wife's welfare as you can readily understand. Her responses to a new partner drives me wild.

Share this post


Link to post

Regarding size, there is another thread actively discussing Confession: I like smaller penises!

 

This thread has a lot of actual statements from a lot of couples about the personal likes and dislikes of a big versus average or small and subsequent effects. It is worth reading.

 

Cheers

Share this post


Link to post

boy toy

younger1 said:
JacobSky, Do you just mingle with the crowd where you find couples to serve or perhaps advertise as more of a bull? I find it pretty erotic either way but I'm particularly interested in your approach when it comes time for the meeting with husband and wife. It's the more important to us because in spite of her experience she's still young and relatively shy.

 

Maybe I came across ass sounding like the well endowed single guy, but I'm not. I have an average size penis that is 6.75" long in bone pressed erect length (ruler pressed against the pubic bone and held straight out) by 5.25" in mid-shaft erect girth. I'm certainly no bull concerning my attitude, but I could have been more considered a boy toy in my past experiences. I started when I was 22, I'm now 26, and all of the women were 40+. I am the type that gets pleasure in giving more than receiving. I'm really into foreplay and try to go at the woman's pace.

 

As for meeting the couples, I met them through a personal add on adult friend finder. The first two couples met me in public first, and the last one gave me directions straight to their home. I have been considering the swinger's personals site affiliated with this forum, but I just don't know how many member will be near me. Many here like clubs also. I like couples that don't have too many partners. I prefer low circulation couples that are willing to go bareback with frequent testing and proof after getting to know me. I have never felt that I'd meet a couple from this forum, but it can happen. I just haven't pursued it, and many seem to live far away from me. Also, I tend to pour out my opinion here and share all of my thoughts without concern for impressing anyone. Long post are annoying to many, but I do like to write and put things into words, so that's basically what I do here. I love sharing views and perspectives. Even in person. Good conversation is a major plus with a couple!

 

Ok, back to the big units... I don't have one, but I still like this thread!

Share this post


Link to post

You know, you guys always amaze me by knowing the exact measurements of your penis lol. Jay is the same way. He can't remember his anniversary or what he wore on his wedding day, but by golly he knows the exact measurements of his willy.

Share this post


Link to post

I have a question I guess would be for the ladies. I keep reading that size doesn't matter and typically that's probably pretty accurate. But, in situations when you are with a guy who is 10 or 11" long and thick too how could you possibly go back to being satisfied by your hubby or boyfriend if he is the average 5 to 6" length with an average girth. Let's be honest here.

Share this post


Link to post

You dont expect an Honest reply do you?? just think of their Hubbys who read their answer and are not happy about what they say other than "my Hubby is the best" and "A change is as good as a rest but hubby still the best" ect.....

 

 

Steve

Share this post


Link to post

Of course I want an honest reply. Thats why I posted the question.

 

Thats what the liefstyle is all about.....honesty.......right?

Share this post


Link to post

Because 5, 6, or around 7 DOESN'T HURT.

 

I have never measured Dog. I think it is a silly thing to do. I like how he feels, just right, even he bottoms out on me.

 

I HATE that feeling. So I can easily say that I would be more then happy to go back to Dog's size afterwards. Hell I will likely run back part way through playtime with Mr. Bigdick.

 

For some pain is cool. Great you go for that, for me the bedroom is no place for that.

 

Good comment though.

Share this post


Link to post
InNY said:
But, in situations when you are with a guy who is 10 or 11" long and thick too how could you possibly go back to being satisfied by your hubby or boyfriend if he is the average 5 to 6" length with an average girth. Let's be honest here.

 

Honestly, there is no problem going back at all.

 

First of all, there are very, very, very few men who have 10" or 11" dicks. Secondly, the vagina is an amazing body part; it's designed to stretch and return to its normal size.

 

I like big dicks...a lot...but, I've never had a problem after fucking one that is larger than Ted with not being satisfied by Ted's. In fact, it's something that we enjoy immensely. We have a very large dildo that we play with quite often, the feeling of Ted sliding into me after the large dildo has been pulled out is indescribable :facelick: . My nerve endings are so uber sensitive, the vaginal muscles clamp down and grip tightly and the sensation is utterly mindblowing...how could I not be satisfied with that?

 

When we play with men who are larger than Ted the feelings are doubly intense as well...a real dick does feel better than a dildo. Ted is not a small man, but he's not an overly large one either...a bit above average we figure as from our experiences there's only been a few times we've found a man who had a large dick to indulge in this with but...they were times we remember fondly :D.

 

And....

 

Darkblue said:
You dont expect an Honest reply do you?? just think of their Hubbies who read their answer and are not happy about what they say other than "my Hubby is the best" and "A change is as good as a rest but hubby still the best" etc.....

 

This is an honest reply....Ted knows I enjoy big dicks...he is secure enough in who he is and what he has that it does not bother him in the least and he's very encouraging and supportive in helping me fulfill this particular kink of mine. But, just so you have no doubts that I'm being honest...

 

Ted,

I like being fucked by BIG dicks!!!

 

Teresa

Share this post


Link to post
I have a question I guess would be for the ladies. I keep reading that size doesn't matter and typically thats probably pretty accurate. But, in situations when you are with a guy who is 10 or 11" long and thick too how could you possibly go back to being satisfied by your hubby or boyfriend if he is the average 5 to 6" length with an average girth. Let's be honest here.

 

I'm curious, did a man or a woman ask this question? It's got to be a man, because women know they certainly can be just as satisfied and MORE satisfied with a cock less than 10-11".

 

For many women, maybe even most women, a cock that big and thick would hurt. It's not comfortable to be over-stretched by something too big. My husband is bigger than average at 8" and I'm sure I can't take anything bigger. I definitely enjoy average and smaller men when we swap. Yes, I'm being 100% honest about that. ;)

Share this post


Link to post

Thanks :)

 

We do understand what you were trying to get at...even in a lifestyle like this where honesty with ones SO is paramount, there are those who will, at times, not tell the whole truth and/or those that can't handle the truth.

 

Kind of like the old joke of .."Honey, does this dress make me look fat?".

 

Teresa

Share this post


Link to post

TNT , I really liked your replies to this thread. Ted, you are one lucky guy having Mrs. TNT for a loving partner. I so dearly hope to one day be in a LTR with a woman that craves to feel that "full feeling" from time to time. I sure do like large toy play also.

Share this post


Link to post
TNT said:
We do understand what you were trying to get at...even in a lifestyle like this where honesty with ones SO is paramount, there are those who will, at times, not tell the whole truth and/or those that can't handle the truth.

 

That's what I was trying to get at!! I don't think a guy wants to know that his wifey/girlfriend likes a bigger cock than he has!!! It's a man thing!! :eek: and big blow to his ego if he knows about how she prefers bigger...

 

Steve

Share this post


Link to post
InNY said:
I have a question I guess would be for the ladies. I keep reading that size doesn't matter and typically that's probably pretty accurate. But, in situations when you are with a guy who is 10 or 11" long and thick too how could you possibly go back to being satisfied by your hubby or boyfriend if he is the average 5 to 6" length with an average girth. Let's be honest here.

 

Hubby is around 8" and fantastic and still at times I really enjoy a smaller man. I have a lover who is 6" who is very good; even right after being with 8" hubby 6" can rock my world! :drool:

Share this post


Link to post

So my husband has a big dick...by my standards. I have never measured it with a measuring tape, but it's a little more than two fists. I have yet to meet with anyone at a hotel party, house party or date that has been more than a one fister. Okay, so one guy was a little more than one fist, but not two. I have talked/webcammed with only one guy who was a two fister also. Because I like anal, i don't mind the one fisters. It doesn't hurt and goes in real easy with little lube. It is a very rare occasion that i can do anal with my husband, even with lube. But I am working on it. Plus if a woman can push a 8 pound baby out that thing why couldn't they take a 9 or 10 incher? Babies are 19 inches long on an average. Small guys don't satisfy me vaginally. or maybe they are just doing it wrong??? :confused: Or maybe it's me??? :confused: But anal is just fine.

Share this post


Link to post

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.


  • Similar Content

    • By Wendans
      My fantasy has always been to watch my wife get fucked by another man. We have been with another woman before which is a whole story in itself that I’ll tell you about later.
       
      One night several years ago my wife and I had gone to a club. Not your ordinary club, but a good club for swingers and singles. The night had started out rather slow and we were not finding any action that I had hoped. My wife knows what she wants and that is what we go with. And that night we found what she wanted and it was such a great experience she knew she wanted to do it again. She had gotten fucked by a black guy and she had enjoyed it. So, when we got the chance, she wanted to try it again.
       
      Being at a swinger’s club isn’t really her thing, but fucking in front of people or listening to them fuck is a big turn-on for her. Since we don’t live close to any swingers’ clubs or anything of that nature, we don’t get many opportunities to do anything like this.
       
      A couple of years ago we got a chance to go to another club. Yes, one of those clubs. We were looking for a little fun and hoping to find something as good as the last time we were out. We talked to many people as the night went on and my wife was trying to figure out what we were going to be doing to have fun that night. There was a hot blonde that was interested in us and kept on grabbing my cock which my wife was loving because this was getting her going. My wife and I decided that this was not what we had in mind for tonight, so we just kind of let that slide and we went on to pursue something else. She said she would know it when she saw it.
       
      My wife had put a couple of drinks down and was feeling pretty good now. She was a little more daring and said she wanted to go change outfits like she did when we had been to a club previously. We had brought the very same sexy outfit that was see through, so she went and changed into it. When she came back out, there was not one guy's eyes on anyone but her. Even the women were looking on in awe. She is a beautiful woman that knows how to control a room.
       
      One guy came up to me and told me he was jealous. He said he would do anything to get to fuck my wife, but she just didn’t feel right with him, I guess. As we were standing around, in came this well-built younger black guy and I think she almost came right there. The look on her face was almost mind blowing. She got this horny grin and told me she was ready to start our night. As he walked by her, she gave him this dirty smile and took her hand and rubbed down by her cunt. He stopped walking and came over to her and asked if he could help her with anything. She just smiled and said that I think you already know what you can do. They danced around a little bit, but I could tell she couldn’t take it anymore, so she quickly unzipped his pants and took out his cock and grabbed it and lead him into another room like a dog on a leash.
       
      I stayed back a couple of minutes to give them some time to get to know each other. When I did finally get to the other room, they had already undressed and she was sucking his cock. It was larger than mine. Not much longer, but thicker. I could tell she liked it.
       
      My wife had picked a room where people would be able to watch if they wanted to. I stayed back in the wings and was kind of hidden so she really didn’t know I was even there.  As I watched my wife in action, I could tell she was enjoying every second of this guy’s cock. She was sucking it like there was no tomorrow.
       
      Now it was his turn to return the favor. He got his face down to her pussy and started licking like it was candy. She was turning red and I could tell she was already about to cum. She was squirming and shaking and he was getting her cunt all ready for his big shaft. But before he fucked her, he now spread her legs out and started fingering her pussy to the point that she started squirting fluids all over the sheet they were laying on. It was like the flood gates had opened up and all the juices were flowing.
       
      She finally had all she could take because I’m sure she had cum multiple times already and I could tell she just wanted to have him inside her. I heard her say to give me your big, black cock. He asked her if she wanted him to put on a condom and she told him no, she wanted to feel him inside her cunt.
       
      He took her and spread her legs wide and slowly inserted his bbc into her tight cunt. She told him to go slowly because she said it was so big that she needed to get used to it. After several minutes of the slow movement, she said she needed him to fuck her harder so he started to go full penetration into her dripping wet cunt. She was telling him how good his cock felt, and how she loved fucking him.
       
      They switched positions multiple times with her sitting on top of his cock and riding him like she has never ridden before. My wife took his whole cock inside of her as deeply as she could, rubbing back and forth and cumming time and time again.
       
      They finally switched back to missionary style and were fucking hard when I heard her say to him, she wanted him to cum in her pussy. She said she wanted to feel his cum drip out of her pussy all night long. When he heard her say that, he started to pick up the pace and finally started moaning and said he was about to cum. My wife was now cumming herself and as he shot his load inside of her, she started squirming and shaking with every pulse of his exploding cock. Her body was red from all of her orgasms, and I could tell she was getting worn out. They had gone for almost 40 minutes of nonstop action. Not to mention that all the other people that had gathered around to watch started going to other parts of the place as they had gotten a show that they would remember forever.
       
      When he pulled his now soft cock out of my wife, I could see the cum dripping down her ass. She was getting what she wanted, I guess. She would be able to feel his cum dripping out of her the rest of the night. But I didn’t realize that she was not done yet. She wanted more. My wife took his cock and started sucking on it again. I guess he was young enough that almost instantly he got hard and she took his cock and guided it into her cunt and said she needed more of his cum. He fucked her for another 10 minutes until he exploded with more cum inside my wife’s pussy again. Again, as I watched the cum drip down her ass, she was getting what she wanted. She was going to feel this the rest of the night.
       
      They both started cleaning up a little and I slowly came out of the crowd that had gathered. She saw me and gave me that dirty little smile she sometimes gets. My wife asked me if I had enjoyed her show. She said she needed to have a little more cum in her pussy tonight and she now wanted mine. Her new little friend just kind of sat back in the corner and decided to watch us.
       
      I knew I wouldn’t last long because I had almost cum multiple times just watching her. With some of the crowd still watching I got undressed, and slid my wet with pre-cum cock into my wife’s cum-loaded pussy. I fucked her until she started cumming. Her cunt convulsed so hard that it squeezed my cock and made me start to cum. I came in her pussy, mixing my cum with my wife’s new fuck buddies cum. I pulled my cock out and watched it all slowly slide down her ass. She got up and went over to our young fuck buddy and she gave him a long passionate kiss and said thank you for such a great time. He gave her one last little finger fucking and handed her a card of his if we were ever in the area again.
       
      He left after he got dressed and we got cleaned up and went out to the main room. I had multiple people including women and even the bartender say that my wife was one of the women they would like to fuck if they ever got a chance after seeing her in action. I guess I’m the lucky one here.
       
      Later that night when we were driving to our resort, she slipped her hand down pants and put her fingers in her pussy. She brought them out and rubbed them on my face. She smiled and said we gotta do this again sometime as we pulled into the parking lot to call it a night.
       
      And what a night it was.
    • By C3po
      This all started around forty years ago when my wife Beth and I had dated for a few years then married. It wasn't long after we married that I introduced her to her first big realistic porn star dildo.  When she first saw it she laughed and said, "That'll never fit in my pussy, are you nuts?!" But she agreed to trying and found not only did it fit but she really enjoyed it. She was amazed by how much she enjoyed it.  So much so that she requested I use it on her quite a lot. She also discovered she enjoyed big cock porn, she was fascinated by it. Soon was I combining using a huge dildo on her at the same time she watched big cock porn, this led her to experience huge orgasms. She couldn't get enough. She was finally exploring her sexuality and expanding her outlook on sexual pleasure.
       
      One night after some really hot sex I  questioned her if she ever fantasized about fucking other men, especially well-hung men. She responded that of course she did, stated that most women had this fantasy, and she believed it was quite common. So I pursued it further and asked her if she wanted to try another man's cock and how much did she really desire to do it? She said that it sounded exciting and fun but she would never do anything to endanger our marriage. I said,  "What if I told you that I wanted to watch you have sex with another man, one that had a really big cock. Would you then consider it?" She laughed and said she'd be game if it was something I was serious about and really wanted her to do. She said, "Come on, let's be real. It's exciting and fun to imagine it, but to really do it? Please! That's a major game changer."
       
      So I said, "I'm very serious. I've watched the way you enjoy the dildos especially while watching big cock videos. It turns me on big time seeing how excited you get and how many times you climax from doing these two things at the same time. I want to watch you do it for real. No BS, just watching you getting slammed by a big cock would be a huge turn-on for me. So what do you really think now that you know that I'm serious and am giving you this opportunity?"
       
      I could see her giving it some serious thought, she didn't get mad or upset at me or the idea, no resistance whatsoever to my request.  The more she considered the idea the more it appeared to me that she was very intrigued with the idea and it excited her.
       
      She started asking all kinds of questions, like wouldn't I be jealous, or think the worst of her, or what if she really enjoyed it and wanted more or didn't feel comfortable screwing another man, then what? Were there any rules and what were the consequences? Was I absolutely sure that I really wanted her to do this, because once done there was no going back!
       
      After she finished asking everything she had concerns about I answered all her questions and we talked about the rules/boundaries we would have in place to keep it fun and exciting without any reservations or guilt. This was to make sure she fully understood my concerns and alleviate all of hers as well. It seemed she came to a decision at which point she smiled and enthusiastically said yes, she'd do it! Did I have someone special in mind she wondered? She said she had to agree to my choices for her sexual escapades or it wasn't gonna happen.
       
       I then informed her I was thinking of Bruce. Beth squealed with glee, she admitted she has had fantasies about Bruce for some time now and I couldn't have picked a better choice for her first time. She would absolutely love to fuck Bruce. She said she was getting wet thinking about sex with him.
       
      A few days later I met up with Bruce for an after work drink. As we enjoyed several drinks we talked a lot. Soon I steered the conversation towards my wife Beth. I asked  Bruce to be honest and tell me what he thought about Beth. He admitted he thought Beth was smokin' hot. She had a killer body and was just gorgeous, always was friendly, and liked flirting with him when they were together. I asked him if he' ever had the chance would he consider having sex with her? He looked a bit concerned by my question but answered yes, he wouldn't hesitate to take advantage of such an opportunity. So I told him that Beth really wanted to have sex with him, and that I was okay with them hooking up. I explained that was my kink watching her get fucked by other men, it really turned me on. Bruce considered it for several minutes then said okay sure, he'd love to fuck Beth. Just give him the details when we're ready to make it happen.
       
      When I got home I told Beth about my conversation with Bruce and what he said. She looked startled and said she couldn't believe I did that. So I asked her if what I did was so wrong and did she still want to go through with it? She excitedly said Oh hell yes she did, and no I wasn't wrong! So we made plans and set a date for Beth's first cock. 
       
      The night arrived finding Beth both excited and hot with anticipation. She was dressed to kill showing off her sexy body wearing no underwear. When Bruce knocked on the door I answered it and escorted him into our house. Beth entered the living room and gave Bruce a big hug pressing her chest and pelvis into him and then kissed him on the lips. Bruce kissed her back and he sat down pulling her on to his lap. Nether one of them wasted any time, tongues going everywhere, hands exploring and groping each other, clothes coming off. Soon they were both naked and Beth got a pleasant surprise, Bruce was very well hung. She giggled with delight.
       
      Beth took Bruce's hand and led him to our bed. She pushed him down on the bed and went to work on Bruce's big cock giving him an enthusiastic blow job. After a while Bruce flipped Beth on her back and went to work on her pussy and clit. Beth orgasmed in minutes, fully enjoying Bruce's skilled tongue. I stood in the background watching the show.
       
      Soon Bruce moved into position between Beth's legs. As he rubbed his cock against Beth's open pussy and clit she responded with loud moans and started pressing her pussy against Bruce's cock. As he slid his huge cock into Beth's pussy she had a big climax. As he went deeper he increased his speed and Beth climaxed again. She was enthralled with his big cock pumping her pussy, she was moving her hips and swearing, telling him his cock felt so good. She looked over at me and said she loved how good his big cock felt inside her. She told Bruce to stretch her pussy good, to fuck her hard. She was in sexual ecstasy, a place she'd never been before. Her facial expressions showed pure bliss and the sounds she was making were hot as hell. I never seen her so turned on, she must of had a dozen orgasms, many of which were huge.
       
      They fucked each other hard for a good twenty minutes then Bruce erupted into Beth's pussy, filling her with his cum. This gave Beth another climax. Afterwards he laid on Beth for a minute then rolled off her. He'd destroyed her pussy, it gaped open with his cum dripping out of her. They kissed and he got up to dress while Beth laid there spent. She looked at me and smiled big time. She said, "Your turn!", so I took sloppy seconds and enjoyed it beyond belief. Bruce watched us have sex then commented that watching real sex was so much hotter than any porno ever could be. He understood my enjoyment of watching my wife fuck other men. He said he'd like to do it again and Beth was all for it. So they made plans to hook up again. Then Bruce left.
       
      Beth and I talked about how well things went, and how she wasn't prepared for how much she enjoyed his big cock. It was mind boggling! She thanked me profusely for asking her to do this, the opportunity to experience such awesome sex. She says she'll never be the same again and is looking forward to more big cock sex. So our new lifestyle began.
    • By swingcouple69
      OK...we seem to be having a problem that I never thought would be a problem. A little history...before we started swinging, I had never had sex with any man other than Hubby.
       
      Well, it seems that my Hubby is ummm...gifted with the size of his package. I of course didn't know this because I had nothing to compare it to. My friends even accused me of lying about his "measurements" when we'd talk like women do about sex and their men.
       
      So now the problem is that we chat and make great friends which is wonderful. But, then the male half (it is usually the male half) asks for his "measurements." I think it becomes an insecurity issue but I thought that swingers are secure in their relationships? The female halves that do ask...some are very interested...but others are like "NO WAY". They all say how attractive and sexy Hubby is but apparently his size intimidates them.
       
      I won't lie and neither will he because let's face it the couples or females are going to notice his size eventually and who wants to be with dishonest people? How the heck was I supposed to know that 5 inches is normal. Hubby exceeds that by more than an inch or two...lol.
       
      Help?
       
      Thanks!
    • By CandT33
      The very 1st time...
      Was it exciting, nerve racking, defeating?
       
      What was the conversation after the fact, did it effect you two negatively?
      Also did you discuss it before it happened?
       
      We are new and I am just unsure how it will effect me and/or her.
      She has been with 3 other guys since we started about 3/4 months ago.
      I have not had to deal with the above question yet, so looking for some insight from others.
    • By stupidquestion
      This is a real hangup/massive insecurity of mine. I posted a similar topic a few years ago and I still struggle with this. I'm an average sized guy. If my wife has/had sex multiple times with men who are larger (specifically girthier) than me, will she feel looser as a result? Would she feel tighter if I had been her only partner to date? Or does it bounce back 100% every time? How many encounters with larger men would it take before she feels looser, or does every encounter take something away tightness wise? Ideally I'd love to hear that peoole here have wives who have been with much bigger guys, yet remain just as tight as they always were pre the big guys. 
×
×
  • Create New...