How loud are you in bed?

[Miss_Piggy 98]

I didn't search this one out too too thoroughly, so if a similar poll exists, I apologise... As far as I can remember there isn't one.

 

I recently surprised someone by my... umm... loudness... in bed. From my perspective, there was a time when I didn't know people could be so quiet.

I had just assumed that I was normal and everyone else was also loud. Now, the quiet ones must think that they are the norm.. Since we know that porn can't be trusted... how are we to know?

 

With a poll!

 

So, please do tell, how loud are you? You can vote for both a man answer and a woman answer or just one depending on your situation.

[good times 991]

Another great poll Miss P, I am not really loud, in fact, until I started swinging I thought loud sex was just for porn movies.

[WesternSwing 504]

I'm always loud, Mrs. WS always tells me to keep it down at home. Mrs. WS is more reserved at home, but when we are alone in a hotel room or swinging she is very loud. Other men seem to love it. I know I do. It is a boost to my ego that I'm doing it right.

 

Mr. WS

[Fantasy_Partner 16]

We just took your poll and yes I guess I do get rather loud. Comes from living in the country with no close neighbors

 

Nice poll, I wish mine from this morning would have worked out this well.

 

Mrs Fantasy Partner

[Mrs Spoomonkey 118]

I'm pretty loud, especially with Spoo. Of course he gives me lots of reasons to be loud.

 

When we are in a play situation I will usually be a little quieter but I still can make quite a noise. If I try to hold it in and be quiet I forget to breathe.

[mrs good times 73]

I have always been quiet but since we started swinging I have been trying to be more vocal so my new partner knows if he is doing things they way I like it or not.

[sexyshelby 19]

I can be very loud. Very, very loud. But then again, there are times when I'm very quiet.

 

For me it depends on the sex. If it's rougher, wilder, animalistic sex, then I am LOUD. But for more passionate love making, I tend to be quieter, mostly whispering. It just depends.

 

Very interesting poll though.

[hfire269 16]

Im (Mrs) very very quiet. I tend to hold my breath when I orgasm. I've only scared one playmate. So now I warn potential playmates.

[Pepper & Drew 384]

I'm porno-movie loud . We don't have any kids, have always lived in a free-standing house, so I tend to let 'er rip. I think, (and Drew agrees) that it's a lot more fun when he's 100% aware that he's hit the right spot....

 

Pepper

[EvilMJ 65]

Alas I try to be quiet because we have a four year old in the room next to us.

 

However, when we are kid free I tend to let things get get a little more wild and then I am much more vocal. It also depends on who is doing what to me and how much I like it

[playmatesinpgh 18]

Mrs P is very loud. I especially love to hear her when I am in another part of a house/club when she is building up to an orgasm and then cums. For me, there is nothing more erotic then hearing her cum. Now, if we are home and the children are there, she is much more quite but sometimes she still has to bury her head in the pillow....

 

I am pretty quite most of the time but do start moaning when I am building up to an orgasm.

[StarCrossed420 15]

I have been trying to quiet down ever since my oldest son was born, but it isn't working. The better the sex, the louder I get . I gave up on quieting down, instead we bought a bigger house ... lol!

[NandTfromCA 84]

Mrs. N and I are definitely on the loud side. There's something about the breathing that goes with the moans that just intensifies and prolongs the pleasure for me. I have found I can keep on orgasm right on the edge for a very long time by deap breathing (and moaning) a certain way. I'm not sure how...I just do it, and LOVE IT!

[jandainla 15]

I'm on the loud side. Hubby always worries I'm going to wake the kids when it's just him and I. When we are playing with others, I don't hold back. He's got the cutest little grunts and they can get pretty loud also. If we are anywhere but home or a hotel, I usually have to cover my mouth with my hands so I don't wake parents or others.

[DutchGirl1176 15]

Yeah we've had the cops called from a concerned neighbor... The cop's face was priceless... LOL!

[starryeyes 23]

I consider myself pretty loud and since the weather here is rather nice in the spring/summer we "sleep" with the windows open. Several times we've heard the neighbors slam their windows shut... guess I was a bit too loud. Moaner and screamer.... lol But he has never complained, go figure.

 

Oh and on several occasions I will grab a pillow and put it over my face kinda muffles.

[wewannabebad2 85]

I gotta admit it. I get VERY loud especially when hubby hits just the right spot. Being quiet is just to damn hard.*lol* Whenever family visits hubby has to "shush me" every other minute.

[Hot Raleigh Cpl 164]

L is usually audible to the neighbors ... sometimes in the next county.

 

One funny incident... once, she and I were going at it in a video booth in the arcade area of a local adult bookstore. We were hot and -- ahem! -- "enthusiastic" (aka, loud) in our play. Eventually we finished, caught our breath, and put clothes back on our sweat-soaked bodies. When we stepped out of the booth, everyone in the arcade was standing around looking at our booth. They all broke into applause and cheers. What we'd been doing not only sounded better than the soundtrack of the videos running, it drowned out all them.

 

On a couple of occasions, L has been loud enough in motel rooms that she's inspired the neighbors to go at it themselves. So as we're relaxing the the post-play "ahhhhh" moment, we hear the neighbors get cranked up.

[Chris&Amelia 253]

We both tend to lean towards the "Not silent, but not loud" category. Moans, groans, and gasps are pretty much what you'll hear from us. Of course, once we get closer to the big O, we get a little louder, but nothing that will scare the Pocono wildlife.

 

Not like some people I know.

[havefuninsun 122]

My natural instinct is to be loud. When I don't have to "think" is when I'm having the most fun. With kids in the house (and neighbors mowing the grass), I have to be conscious of my loudness. But when we're alone, boy, watch out!!

 

[daisy girl 34]

I try to monitor my loudness but so far I haven't been successful .

[Tia Vampire 167]

If that sweet spot is touched, and the children are not at home, I can disturb the neighbors. When the kids are home though, I keep it down to a low moan.

[JustMrJ 178]

Mrs.J gets pretty loud when we are alone, but if our neighbor and his son are home, we either don't do it (which is less and less) or we keep a bit quieter with TWO doors closed between our bedroom and the adjoining wall.

 

Me, I tend to get moaning some toward orgasm... my breathing also intensifies.

 

I really enjoy hearing Mrs.J or any other woman being vocal... steers me toward the 'fun spots'.

[jimnjan 16]

I've told people that I'm a vocal road map....you're going to know if what you're doing is right!

[imsherona2 15]

I have to say I am LOUD and verbal during sex, whether we are at home alone, a club, a house party, whatever...that's just me! My SO gets loud when he is about to cum.

[Playful1 434]

I am all over the place. Generally I tone it down in group settings. I also am much quieter in general with random partners unless they really work unusually well for me. Now, with the person I play with the most, who is the best I've ever had, I could probably wake the neighbors. When that happens at a party, I've been told people down the hall can even identify me by my sounds, lol *blush*.

 

on average at parties and group play, I am moderately loud.

[EnchantedBiLove 30]

Are you kidding me - I orgasm better when I can just let it all out and scream like a Banshee lol. Of course, we do have a child down the hall, so I have to restrain myself.

[srlkokie75 15]

I am totally loud, I get into it, and during orgasm, OMG. How can anyone stay quiet, lol

[3sumff 31]

We both tend to get a little loud! Thanks goodness we live in the mountains.

[2inSanDiego4u 181]

The Mrs. can be quite loud sometimes. We keep waiting for that phone call or knock on the door when we're in a hotel!

[Malachista 170]

I can scream silently.

But I try to let it out for real if playing with someone.

On the other hand I really believe that good does not have to equal loud.

[I'm his 15]

My God--I can bring down the ceiling

[PB&J 1,086]

If our kids aren't home or we're at a house party- I scream. Damn I love that.

[Precocious 94]

We live on a farm. We are considering moving back to the city... Mr. P. is worried of what our neighbour's will think if we move back to the city...

 

To heck with the city and neighbours! I spent many years holding back or holding a pillow over my face and biting it instead of letting loose. We have an empty nest now. I think that is reason enough to stay on the farm!!!

 

Mrs. Precocious

[MrkLin 393]

I chose "I'm a man: I make the odd moan, but I'm not LOUD." Now Lin, on the other hand, has been known to make the neighbors crave a cigarette when she climaxes. When we were stationed overseas, we lived in an upstairs apartment for a short time - a first for both of us. We quickly learned to close the windows when we 'got busy' after we had three or four people yelling out their windows at us to do so in a language we didn't understand yet. Yep - gotta make that good first impression...

[CXXC 435]

Mrs. CXXC can get pretty loud. I even saw the neighbors smoking after we had sex once. So, yeah, that was a loud night.

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

My noise level varies greatly. I don't try to control it and rarely have reason to... I think it just goes in connection to how hard I'm getting off.

[LFM2 1,482]

I don't scream or anything, but I do occasionally get a bit vocal because of the pleasure I might be feeling.

[Speed & Trixie 162]

I see Trixie voted very appropriately for us.

I just LOVE it when she gets loud... means I'm doing it right!

 

And yeah, I'm no screamer, but I will sure let you know that I am cumming.

[NCfuncouple98 367]

I can be loud, but not always. If I know the kids are awake, I try to stay quiet most of the time. But sometimes a few cocktails in me just makes me go wild...

 

Apparently our teenage boys have warned a friend recently "They have date night, so you can spend the night, but bring earplugs".

 

So a night at the club apparently does equal loudness when we get home. Maybe Mr NC will just have to tie me up next time and cover my mouth.

[hiskitten 22]

How loud I am varies with the mood, but I'm always at least a moaner. If we're making love it's usually quiet moans and coos of pleasure as he's thrusting into me. My moaning does get louder whenever I cum and I usually let out audible gasps when I'm feeling his cum spurting into me. If were just in it for the raw sex I'm much louder and vocal. Then I urging him to fuck me good, to give it to me nice and deep, and begging him to shoot is cum deep inside me.

[SheLovesTheSun 40]

I'm not too loud in general, but I'll make sure to keep quiet when the kids are in the house. When it's just the two of us or we're at a club, I'll make some noise. My boyfriend will make some noise too, but he's generally not loud.

[SecretAsianMan 348]

I've had to learn to muffle most of my vocalizations (having sex in a tent with nothing more than a thin sheet of nylon or canvas separating you from your neighbors means NOT disturbing them in the middle of the night with your mad-monkey-love noises!)

 

*grins*

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I picked "I'm a man: I make the odd moan, but I'm not LOUD." I'm usually quiet when I'm by myself but I like to let my wife (or other) know that I'm cumming. I LOVE a screamer. A woman who is very vocal when she cums and who is very active, bucking and squirming under me, gripping me with her hands or raking me with her fingernails.

[TnMtns 16]

I'm a moderate to loud moaner, DH is more quite.

[Guest BamaRide]

I'm vocal... but tend to be proportional to the one I'm with.... but true be known NOTHING turns me on but audible feed back from my partner.. You want to send me into space.. scream in pleasure!

 

BamaRide

[PB&J 1,086]

Read this and thought of this thread.... 47 decibels!!

Caroline Cartwright, British Woman, Taken To Court AGAIN For Noisy Sex

[Let's Play 15]

I didn't know how to respond to this poll, because it definitely depends for us. My brother lives with us and we have 5 kids, so obviously we have to be quite reserved at times. On the other hand, the kids have gone to bed early and my any other adults are out, and I (Mrs) can be a bit vocal. When we lived in an apartment I've had our neighbors give me looks the next day. The hubby does make some noise, but not as much as I do.

[Sweet.Pea 15]

My ex would become frustrated with me because he wrongly interpreted my quietness as an unspoken criticism of his technique. According to this pole, I am in the minority. But I am comforted to know that there are others.

[Justalilbit 48]

This poll made me chuckle, heard a while back on a radio station that there'd been some "Scientific Survey" which proved that women only get loud to and I quote "manipulate the man" which I found laughably absurd.. Hell I even get loud masturbating if my kids aren't home! So who am I manipulating then I want to ask the scientists.. but hearing a man/woman I'm with will also bring on a whole new wave of orgasms from me, guess I'm just built that way.. but you won't hear me complain about it