Do white women enjoy swinging with black men?

[perfectloverman 15]

As a black man I have a great time swinging with my wife. We love to make new friends, however not a lot of white men are happy to see me and their wives together enjoying each others company. Is there some place in North Carolina where I could swing and make friends with everyone and enjoy ourselves? Is there a black swingers club? A lot of white women secretly want to enjoy my company even if it is for the experience only. We both find a great deal of satisfaction and friendship in swinging. Does anyone agree?

[perfectloverman 15]

Can anyone comment on there experience with black men. Is this something that is o.k? And are we making to much of color? My experience with people of other races has been very eye opening and pleasurable Can anyone share more information?

[Dare2Share 16]

This may not answer any of your questions, but here goes.

 

My husband is black, I am white. I have run across more profiles than I would have expected that state "not seeking black men" or "not seeking interracial couples." One of them stated that they would be willing to consider a black woman but not a black man.

 

As far as my personal situation goes (I may get slammed for this, but oh well) my husband has told me that he doesn't want to swing with another black man, single or part of another couple. I see that as insecurity on his part (he knows that I am VERY attracted to black men...our last MFM was with a black man) but some might see it as racist. My point is that people have their own preferences for their own reasons and they might not be what somebody looking from the outside in would assume. Maybe it's the wife that said she wasn't interested in black men and the husband isn't mad at you, he's just shocked to shit seeing her chat with you.

 

Anyway, good luck to you.

 

 

EDITED TO ADD: Ok, you made another post stating that you're single. Which one is it? I kind of feel silly now for having answered your question because it seems like you are just trying to have a bunch of women tell you that they want to hook up with a black man.

[Dare2Share 16]

I gave you an answer to that on your other thread. Be patient and people will reply! It's the Saturday after Saint Patrick's Day...people are sleeping it off.... LOL

[Chip_n_Muffy 16]

So if you have a great time swinging with your wife and the friends that do accept you, what is the problem? Everyone has a right to preferences, everyone has a right to swing with whomever they want. If I was ever foolish enough to specify "We don't swing with redheads" that would be my right. And the redheads of the world would have to accept that and move on. Other people predjudges may limit your opportunities, but it also limits theirs. My two cents worth.

 

Chip

[Dare2Share 16]

There's definitely a difference between preference and prejudice, I wouldn't think that those two words are interchangeable in matters of race, especially.

 

Unless someone comes right and tells you they're racist, you just can't assume anything.

 

I agree with you Chip, as long as you're having a good time, who cares?

[Chip_n_Muffy 16]

Having read some of his other posts where he is waiting for his first experience, he is single, he is attached, he is married, has experience, no experience ......... none of this adds up. I sense troll or cheater. Either way, this is no longer worthy of my time.

 

Chip

[Deptydog 15]

I think you are going to find prejudice no matter where you go. I know that when my wife and I used to attend the PDC parties in Greensboro, there were several black couples who also attended and they seemed to be welcomed with open arms (and legs )

 

Have you tried PDC?

[perfectloverman 15]

Well i have spent twenty yrs with the same woman and have divorsed howver I have since engaged but want to swing. I am thankful for all your responses and hope to have my first experience soon. i have noticed that white women either fantisize about being with a black man but won't tell their spouse thu s this fantsy goes unfullfiled.

[perfectloverman 15]

please tell me what is the pleasure received by white women from blak men. and how could i be sure to please her. I s it that black men are typiclally thicker or longer in size or is it the care and time taken during love making/ I'd like to hear from you in this issue. additionally what is it that women enjoy mosy is it foreplay or the act itself? help me to understand. facelick

[WesternSwing 504]

I s it that black men are typiclally thicker or longer in size or is it the care and time taken during love making/ I'd like to hear from you in this issue. additionally what is it that women enjoy mosy is it foreplay or the act itself?

I think you're falling into the BBC syndrome here... Big Black Cock. It's fact that generally black men are not much if any longer then white men, you just see more of it in porn because that is what that audience is looking for.

 

Black men can be just as bad lovers as white men. Color of skin does not denote a person's lovemaking ability.

 

From my experience, women enjoy it all. I think for most good foreplay leads to intercourse itself being better.

i have noticed that white women either fantisize about being with a black man but won't tell their spouse thu s this fantsy goes unfullfiled.

Hmmm... This is a leading question, one that would lead right into a racial argument.

 

Mrs. WS has never fantasized particularily about being with a black man because he is black. And my best friend is black so you could see I have no issues about her being with a black man. It's the man himself that turns her on, not the color of the skin. Although yes, there is something erotic or exotic about people of different races, why else would so many caucasians (both men and women) be into Asians, Hispanics, and African-Americans and visa-versa?

 

Mr. WS

[Dare2Share 16]

please tell me what is the pleasure received by white women from blak men. and how could i be sure to please her. I s it that black men are typiclally thicker or longer in size or is it the care and time taken during love making/ I'd like to hear from you in this issue. additionally what is it that women enjoy mosy is it foreplay or the act itself? help me to understand. facelick

 

 

You are really spending too much time on this race issue. No, it isn't true that all black men are more well-endowed than all white men. No, it isn't true that all white women fantasize about being with a black man. You're being very stereotypical and if you WERE to meet another couple with that attitude it would be a major turn off.

 

I very briefly dated a guy with that attitude. He was obsessed with the fact that I was white and it made me uncomfortable. He wasn't very good in bed but he really believed that because he was black he was fulfilling my every need. He wasn't.

[lovedoctor 15]

Color doesn't matter to me. It's what's inside your head that matters.

[JnCC 24]

do white women enjoy swinging with black men?

I think it depends on the length of your vine.

 

"Tarzan" did OK, and he was white.

[Wildthingplus 47]

I'm new to this forum, but I just had to respond to the question about black guys. I'm a white girl, and I love black men. They are the most kind, considerate & sincere guys I've met. I'll hook up with a black guy before any others! They're just too sweet to pass up!

[JnCC 24]

I'm new to this forum, but I just had to respond to the question about black guys. I'm a white girl, and I love black men. They are the most kind, considerate & sincere guys I've met. I'll hook up with a black guy before any others! They're just too sweet to pass up!

Mr. Chairman -

 

Based upon the statement that was just read into the record by one "Ms. Wildthingplus," I hereby bring a motion to declare March 20th of this, and every year hereafter, to be "National Take a Negro to Bed Day"

 

Will somebody second my motion?

[curiousagain 326]

JNCC, I would but I'm afraid somebody would take me seriously.

 

Jiminy Freaking Christmas, where do these people come from? I hear that song "Trolls to the left of me, trolls to the right of me, stuck in the middle with you again".

 

Being in health care, I've seen more penis than a crack whore. You can't sell the BBC idea at my house. Perfectloverman, judging by your name, your post, and your attitude which is obviously unfettered by reality, you're only verbalizing a fantasy. Well, that and taking up good message board server space.

[janaandjames 24]

I hereby bring a motion to declare March 20th of this, and every year hereafter, to be "National Take a Negro to Bed Day"

 

 

lol, sounds good to us.

we have been swinging 3 years, and jana has had sex with about 25 men.. 3 of which were black.

she says there isnt much of a difference .. depends on whats inside.

jj

[curiousagain 326]

You know, it might not be a bad idea. I've had some black FBs I wouldn't mind seeing again and then there's that new girl at work, she's black, she's cute, she's built, and she keeps patting me on the ass. ......... The Ayes have it.

[Wildthingplus 47]

In response to Jncc and janaandjames: Anyone who uses the term "Negro" the way you do is just plain white trash. How can you be so disgusting? It's offensive. This forum is for fun, not for speading your Nazi trash!

[mybeeps 15]

I'm new to this forum, but I just had to respond to the question about black guys. I'm a white girl, and I love black men. They are the most kind, considerate & sincere guys I've met. I'll hook up with a black guy before any others! They're just too sweet to pass up!

 

 

 

ya know, here's the thing, every race, white, black, spanish, mexican, german, whatever, they all have "kind considerate, and sincere men" and each and every one also has assholes, that you want to punch until they bleed.

 

"In response to Jncc and janaandjames: Anyone who uses the term "Negro" the way you do is just plain white trash. How can you be so disgusting? It's offensive. This forum is for fun, not for speading your Nazi trash!"

 

Nazi trash? wow, thats kinda harsh dont you think? and who are you to tell anyone how to say anything, reverse racism lives, and is strong..and comeing from you i think....and of course, I AM allowed to say, what i feel, and what i think, because this is a fun great forum for all.

 

~beepers~

[Deptydog 15]

OK, here's my 1/50th of a follar.

 

This forum is, IMHO, supposed to be for the free exchange of information, ideas, and friendship. In every group of people, there will be some who say (or post) things which, intentional or not, are going to offend somebody. Unless the post is obviously meant to be offensive, grow a thicker skin people.

 

And in case anyone is interested in joining, I'm the president of my local chapter of P.O.O.P. which stands for People Offended by Offended People.

 

Ok, rant over.

 

My wife and I have swung (swinged?) with black couples as well as white couples. No difference for us. We concentrate on what's inside the skin rather than what's outside of it.

 

BTW, funny story. I was once dating a girl between marriages and we had been sleeping together for about 3 months. One day, after bumping uglies, we started talking about our first time. I mentioned that I lost my virginity to a black girl. My girlfriend got up, got dressed, and threw me out of her house. She said that I had been tainted and refused to speak to me again.

 

Ahhhh America. The land of enlightenment.

[curiousagain 326]

In response to Jncc and janaandjames: Anyone who uses the term "Negro" the way you do is just plain white trash. How can you be so disgusting? It's offensive. This forum is for fun, not for speading your Nazi trash!

 

OMG! You used the word Nazi. That is such a cliche'd knee jerk response from somebody with a holier than thou attitude. To the best of my memory Nazi's were all against the free exchange of ideas so you are right there with them. The word Negro is not a racial epithet in any way. Maybe a bit outdated in the popular slang but that's it's only possible offense.

 

Pontificating the idea that anyone is better or worse much less best or worst at anything due to their race alone is about as racist as it gets so you might want to be looking in the mirror when looking for racism.

 

JNCC and JannaandJames did not call anybody any names, you called them white trash. That is a personal attack, and while the free exchange of ideas is promoted, personal attacks are not. Chill.

[CB_n_Red 16]

I think it depends on the length of your vine.

 

"Tarzan" did OK, and he was white.

 

Not only white.... he was English!

 

I'll add what I've said before in discussions of this sort. Colour is irrelevant to us when it comes to deciding who we swing with, attraction is what counts. But we certainly wouldn't want to swing with any couple who expressed racist views.

 

CB

[CB_n_Red 16]

OMG! You used the word Nazi.

 

And thus by the "rules" of the internet they instantly lose the argument.....

 

JNCC and JannaandJames did not call anybody any names, you called them white trash. That is a personal attack, and while the free exchange of ideas is promoted, personal attacks are not. Chill.

 

I'll second that.

 

Reminds me of a "funny" story though. A friend of a friend visiting the US was described by people there as "African-American", which he found very offensive and no surprise, his parents having come from Ghana and him having been born and brought up in England. The correct term would have been "English". We don't tend to bother putting anything hyphenated in front of that. The terms would get rather long....

 

All evidence of a rather strange attitude among the people he met we thought! They felt the need to pigeonhole him and didn't know how, so they latched onto the first thing that came to mind.

 

CB

[perfectloverman 15]

hey you guys and gals cool out. while this is not a scientific test we have a question just for the ladies. In this question we will deal soley with white women. All women are beutiful and have your own since of what you like in a man. a study I did found thatmost women 483 out of 500 questioned wanted honesty, loyalty,sincerity,good in bed/foreplay first on thier list.

here is the question

And be honest: WHICH RACE OF MEN HAS GIVEN YOU THE MOST SEXUAL SATISFACTION AND WHY? BE HONEST !!!

Husbands cool out you might learn something soon .

The next question is for black women

[TNT 1,155]

hey you guys and gals cool out. while this is not a scientific test we have a question just for the ladies. In this question we will deal soley with white women. All women are beutiful and have your own since of what you like in a man. a study I did found thatmost women 483 out of 500 questioned wanted honesty, loyalty,sincerity,good in bed/foreplay first on thier list.

here is the question

And be honest: WHICH RACE OF MEN HAS GIVEN YOU THE MOST SEXUAL SATISFACTION AND WHY? BE HONEST !!!

Husbands cool out you might learn something soon .

The next question is for black women

 

 

Most of your post so far seem be be aimed at causing discord here on the board. If that is your main purpose here, it's time you stopped. There are numerous sites that deal strictly with white women and black men, you might be more at home on one of those as you seem to want everyone here to say that black men are better lovers than white....sorry dude...not going to happen...Most members here could care less about race, we're more concerned about the person not the color of their skin.

 

A good male lover is NOT...I repeat NOT determined by his skin color....neither is a good man (or woman).

 

Get off the race issue...what the hell does it matter if some women enjoy black men, yellow men, white men, brown men, blue men or little green men? :rollseyes Answer: Not a damn thing.

 

 

Teresa

[Dare2Share 16]

Get off the race issue...what the hell does it matter if some women enjoy black men, yellow men, white men, brown men, blue men or little green men? :rollseyes Answer: Not a damn thing.

Teresa

 

Well said, Teresa

 

I'm not sure about everything you said though because someone told me before that the best sex they ever had was with little green men. I've been trying to find one ever since for a MFGM (male, female, green man)

[sexyshelby 19]

:claps:

 

Nicely said, Teresa!

 

~SS

[curiousagain 326]

I remember having sex one time with a little green woman. I wish I had realised she was green because she had drank too much and was about to puke.

 

 

edit: Ditto to what Teresa said.

[Dare2Share 16]

I remember having sex one time with a little green woman. I wish I had realised she was green because she had drank too much and was about to puke.

 

 

edit: Ditto to what Teresa said.

 

So was it good? Okay, question for everyone who's been with a little green man/woman....

 

HOW MANY GREEN PEOPLE HAVE GIVEN YOU THE MOST SEXUAL SATISFACTION AND WHY? BE HONEST !!!

 

[JnCC 24]

In response to Jncc and janaandjames: Anyone who uses the term "Negro" the way you do is just plain white trash. How can you be so disgusting? It's offensive. This forum is for fun, not for speading your Nazi trash!

Well, as one who's walked the fields of Dachau, who's stood where the crematorium once stood, and who recently spent a day at the Cincinatti Freedom Center which chronicles the struggle to end slavery and the role the "underground railroad" played in helping them to freedom, I could say "It wasn't very hard...I guess I'm just an offensive, disgusting guy"

 

However, if you can compare the use of the word "Negro," with the stated policies and goals of the former National Socialist German Workers Party ("Nazi's") then I could say that "either I have a lot to learn about anthropology, or you have a lot to learn about politics and world history."

 

If it will make you feel better, I'll forward your post to the United Way, along with a request that none of my annual contribution be used to support "The United Negro College Fund."

 

Would that make you happy?

[JnCC 24]

I remember having sex one time with a little green woman. I wish I had realised she was green because she had drank too much and was about to puke.

I've had sex with green women, but it was only after they'd puked...

 

Yeaaaa buddy...split-pea soup and Hamm's beer. That's always a good combination...

[Chip_n_Muffy 16]

Well, as one who's walked the fields of Dachau, who's stood where the crematorium once stood,

 

I toured the Dachau site in '74 while I was stationed in Germany. I swear I could smell death in the air, the feeling was bleak and oppressive. The experience was depressing. When I left there, I felt as if I had escaped something evil. Did your tour of Dachau have the same effect on you? Just curious.

 

Chip

[curiousagain 326]

I've had sex with green women, but it was only after they'd puked...

 

Yeaaaa buddy...split-pea soup and Hamm's beer. That's always a good combination...

 

After?? I think I'm a little queasy now.

[JnCC 24]

I toured the Dachau site in '74 while I was stationed in Germany. I swear I could smell death in the air, the feeling was bleak and oppressive. The experience was depressing. When I left there, I felt as if I had escaped something evil. Did your tour of Dachau have the same effect on you?

The impression I took away from Dachau, aside from the knowledge of the misery and evil that had once existed there, was how quiet and peaceful the town itself was. Most of the buildings were built long before the war, and not being of any strictly military significance, hadn't been damaged much by it. It was just a nice little town full of bakeries and fleischeries, and where people went about their business much as they had from 1937-1945.

 

The camp site itself was like a huge, ugly scar on the landscape.

 

(For those that have never been there, "Dachau" is basically a farm town which lies outside of Munich. I would compare it to any of the small communities that lie throughout the midwest)

 

I was there with my then-wife who was a bonified, certified psychic. Although I had the same visceral response to it that you did, the place gave her the willies so bad that we were forced to cut our visit short. What disturbed me even more was that this happened in a modern civilized society, and was facilitated and orchestrated by people not unlike myself. (we both had significant German heritage in our families)

 

I know this isn't the place to discuss politics, and I hope I'm not crossing the line, but I think one could argue that the blackness of that place and the many others there has haunted, and will continue to haunt, Deutschland for centuries to come.

 

A "Thousand Year Reich" indeed...

[Mrs Spoomonkey 118]

Most of your post so far seem be be aimed at causing discord here on the board. If that is your main purpose here, it's time you stopped. There are numerous sites that deal strictly with white women and black men, you might be more at home on one of those as you seem to want everyone here to say that black men are better lovers than white....sorry dude...not going to happen...Most members here could care less about race, we're more concerned about the person not the color of their skin.

 

A good male lover is NOT...I repeat NOT determined by his skin color....neither is a good man (or woman).

 

Get off the race issue...what the hell does it matter if some women enjoy black men, yellow men, white men, brown men, blue men or little green men? :rollseyes Answer: Not a damn thing.

 

 

Teresa

 

Teresa, as always a right on post

 

I have to admit I get sick of the who "black men are better" thing too. I've been with a black man. Normally not attracted to them but that's just me, I'm not partial to blondes either Go figure.

 

Anyway, the black guy I was with was about average. Not better not worse than other guys I've been with. It's all about what I find attractive and what kind of connection the two of us have. I never think about "color" (I am married to a purple monkey after all) I just go with it if there is a connection...do I think he's cute, are we flirting, can we carry on a conversation? All things that are more important then whether or not the color of his skin might make him better in bed.

 

Mrs Spoomonkey

 

p.s. I don't know about green men... but you haven't lived until you've had a purple monkey facelick

[beaverz 18]

Originally Posted by: Dare2Share

HOW MANY GREEN PEOPLE HAVE GIVEN YOU THE MOST SEXUAL SATISFACTION AND WHY? BE HONEST !!!

I had sex with a green alien once and she just about ripped my ears off, I’m sure why.

[BiloxiCouple 695]

Fishy fishy in the brook,

Daddy caught him with a hook.

Momma fried him in the pan

and baby at him like a man.

[Floorman56 16]

I know this is unreal but I do have a funny story about one of the deathcamps. We had some friends in the AF that went to one of the camps and the 3 of them were in one of the gas chambers when one of the guys ....farted... a min later a group of people came in and as they were looking around one of the people said ...my god this place STILL REAKS OF DEATH!!!... my friends said it was everything they could do to not laff out loud in such a evil place.

[Chip_n_Muffy 16]

Yeah, beer and brats will do that to ya ..........

 

Chip

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

I just like sex with men who I'm attracted to, whatever color they may be. Heck, I'd even consider doing a monkey if he was cute and purple.

[Spoomonkey 421]

I just like sex with men who I'm attracted to, whatever color they may be. Heck, I'd even consider doing a monkey if he was cute and purple.

 

I got your purple for ya right here, baby

 

Spoomonkey

[LOL_OMG 130]

It's not easy being green....

 

especially the next day.

 

Mrs LOL

[hrnycoupl414 15]

In response to Jncc and janaandjames: Anyone who uses the term "Negro" the way you do is just plain white trash. How can you be so disgusting? It's offensive. This forum is for fun, not for speading your Nazi trash!

 

 

I don't think it was meant to be hurtful. I thought it was funny. We as black people (yes, the mr. is black and the mrs. is white) need to lighten up a bit with a lot of this racist stuff. Just cuz someone makes a slightly off color joke, black people tend to blow it out of proportion. I would like to apologize on behalf of all of the lighthearted black folks out there!

[fun4Ds 1,098]

oh that little green lady from mars

took me on a trip to the stars

she said thers nothin sweeter

than to have a human peter

oh that little green lady from mars

[Alura 2,775]

Perfectloverman (TeeHee!) modestly asked:

 

WHICH RACE OF MEN HAS GIVEN YOU THE MOST SEXUAL SATISFACTION AND WHY? BE HONEST !!!

 

I asked Mrs. Alura this question.

 

She said her greatest sexual satisfaction has been with a 5'3" mixed-breed Native American. Go figure...

 

Why? Probably because he didn't consider himself a "perfect lover."

 

Mr. Alura

[luvscum1 17]

Hello

I cant speak for all white women. But I love to swing with black men. we are,older, been swinging many years.wwwwwwwwwe have 3 regular black men on our list,

[Darkane 18]

My wife and I are white, and she is a magnet for attention from most black men she encounters (sorry to sound sterotypical, but it's her booty). I know she finds black men who are of mixed color attractive, and some fully black men attractive, but she doesn't want to have sex with any black men. I've asked her why she doesn't want to if she finds them attractive, and she says it's because of the way they treat her in bed in the past, before she met me. I have no idea what that really means, but I don't press the issue. I have heard that before though from other women when the subject has come up. Maybe too rough? I dunno.

[MrsPlaytime 17]

We have played with numerous black men and couples it all depends on how we hit it off. It is just exciting for MrsPlaytime to see the contrast in the color of skin, that is a turn on for her but not the only thing. There is alot more to a person than their skin. We also have white men and couples that we play with also.