Does penis size matter?

[BarneyandBetty 15]

That phrase is always tossed around, but I would like to hear it from women who know. I would love to watch my wife have sex with a man with a BIG one and I have told her that. She says it wouldn't make any difference. She says she's never had a large one, except for a blowjob in college. I want to hear from women who have experienced large AND small. So tell me once an for all... does size matter?

[jennandjamesinm 87]

Hi ya'll - This is a much talked about topic, there are quite a few links that discuss penis size. Overall, It seems to be a myth that a larger size penis is what the ladies want. Check out the old threads, they will help ease your mind.

 

Also, Welcome to the board!!

 

Jenn

[Spoomonkey 421]

does size matter?

 

Only when you're trying to squeeze a couch into the back of a Honda...

 

Damn small Hondas...

 

Spoomonkey

[mybeeps 15]

i think that it does matter.... but of course that's my own opinion. i have had 8.5inches, and 5 inches.. i prefered the 8.5, he was also larger in the girth area as well.

 

for me, i dont orgasim through sex, i have to do it myself, so, when i have sex, i want to feel what's going on down there, not imagine it.

 

again, my own opinion

 

~beepers~

[4Aleixs 16]

Alexis had only been w/ me until a few months ago. Shes always said she though I was large. After being with other guys in MFM the other guys comment on my size and yes the other guys were a bit smaller. She does not mind them smaller or maybe a little bit larger than mine (just to see what it maybe like she says) but the much smaller ones she says she did not want to put it in her mouth to give him oral. SO she just had sex..what a girl..lol

[rachan 53]

Not for me. My husband's cock isn't large at all but I've had great sex with him. One of my lovers is 9inches and thick and the sex is great but I'm not hung up on huge cocks. Just one woman's point of view.

[Dare2Share 16]

I'm not too turned on by extra large penises. My favorite position is doggy-style and that tends to hurt if the penis is too long or if your cries for help are mistaken as cries of pleasure. Also, I enjoy giving blowjobs and pride myself on being able to suppress my gag reflex but even my most heroic attempts will not allow me to swallow an extra large member. That hurts my pride.

 

My husband, while of average length, is very very wide. I find that to be more enjoyable, personally.

[The Fuse 1,012]

I just don't care...if I like the man, I'm going to like his penis.

 

Mmmm....

 

What was I saying again?...

 

If they are extremely large or extremely small, it can cause a few issues, but it can be worked around. I echo Dare2Share's comments about giving blow jobs to very large men though...I like to be able to get it all in my mouth. Ditto to the doggy style comment too; this just happened to me this weekend.

 

Very small ones...well, I've never seen one up close smaller than about four inches (and skinny too),a long time ago. But there are certainly lots of ways to make the experience enjoyable for all.

 

Peoples' fixation on size, while I understand the reasons for it, is perplexing to me in its sheer intensity. I am fascinated by the differences in cocks...the way they curve, their texture, the way they point, etc. Now that we are swingers, I get to explore more than just one.

[janaandjames 24]

I am fascinated by the differences in cocks...the way they curve, their texture, the way they point, etc. Now that we are swingers, I get to explore more than just one.

 

>>>>>>>

 

same here

experiencing new ones is what i like

variety is the thing,

like someone said earlier, if i like the guy, ill like his penis.

 

jana

[SweetTXCouple 16]

I personally dont think size matters to be totally honest.

I was blessed with being well endowed in both length and girth, but I have personally seen my wife recieve quite a bit of satisfaction from a partner smaller than me. In fact, my length has been a hinderance at times as deep thrusting causes her to wince with pain, this in turn sets up a momentary pause during our lovemaking so that I can allow her a chance to recouperate from the pain...this bothers me as I can never really tell when Im about to strike a nerve inside her. She can accomodate my entire length provided she takes me in very slowly. Now this is something I personally love, to be completely engulfed by her vagina and the senstations that brings with it. There are times we simply stay connected withoutout moving and just enjoy a few pelvic thrusts here and there...its quite a thrill...good for a night of movie watching etc, etc..

In a nutshell, I have to be careful how I use my erections so both my self AND my partner can enjoy the act...

 

ANDE

[taosswingers 16]

I love them all... large and small

[Chicup 41]

Yes it matters.

 

Mrs. Chicup had a run in with a little one a few months back. She later laughed about it and said 'it didn't do much for her.' So yea it matters at least to her.

[WesternSwing 504]

Mrs. WS is more concerned about who it's attached to. If there is no physical and mental attraction it doesn't matter what his member is like. If she likes the guy enough to get naked with him then whatever his penis is will be just fine. Although she does say she prefers average length and girth penises the most because she can comfortably do more things with them. Larger members limit the available activities.

 

Mr. WS

[strathmore 20]

Well,.....since only the first 2" of the vagina are highly sensitive, 2.5" should be enuff.

 

Of course, it would help to pack about 5.5" of girth with that.

[Tybee Swing 286]

I want to hear from women who have experienced large AND small. So tell me once an for all... does size matter?

 

I don't enjoy intercourse with very large, larger than 8" long. My husband is 8" long and girth of 5 and 3/4", which is about the max I can handle and not fear the pain. Even with hubby, he has to be careful with me especially in certain positions. I wouldn't enjoy it with any bigger than that, and if I'm not enjoying it, why bother? My cervix doesn't appreciate a battering ram.

 

Smaller ones are perfectly fine. But to be completely honest, very thin ones aren't as fun as thicker ones.

[edmustang 19]

I read an interview with a famous porn star (I'm pretty sure it was Asia Carrera) in which she said about size; "You can reach my G-spot with your finger. Anything more than that is overkill."

[Billygoat 443]

Not a woman.....but can speak from experience and observation as well as knowing my Queen’s preferences. Penises like breasts come in all sizes and shapes. Not knowing how to use them in play or enjoy them is the biggest issue. I’m not huge but a good size and I have learned slow and take my time. I’m there for here pleasure and mine is secondary. We have had very hung men at our parties in the past.....sadly most had no game. Of the women who spent time with them none including my wife could give them a decent rating and most all where never invited back. Similar theme. He laid there waiting to be worship for his size and did nothing. Most would not know how or try to use their hands or oral. Most every one wanted to penetrate right away....slam it home....bang around furiously....all deep pumping. And a number of them could never get hard...fully hard or cum. Not to say we didn’t have a few winners. But only a few. Most women attending our parties and events liked the idea...the fantasy....and were very disappointed. Sad. But like I said we did have a few that were great....gentle and had skills. They were always welcome. The most popular man at our parties and events “G” man. A shortish, bald late thirties guy, funny....talkative....a little over weight. Sported 3.5” hard. Had huge energy. Could cum 5-6 times a night. According to our lady friends and my Queen...Very skilled with his hands and mouth. Great kisser. And he didn’t fuck. Well didn’t thrust. Almost couldn’t. But had the whole hump and grind thing down pat. Women who never orgasmed from penetration did with him. For lack of size he had mastered his moves. Every gathering he had a line of women waiting. And he still complained and felt inadequate with his size. It’s a male thing. Read, talk, learn and practice practice practice.....any size will do as long as it works.

[JessicaJamison 862]

So sex is a mental game, its not like I get to see the size of a guys dick before I've decided to fuck him.  Its about the flirting and the arousal.  But I will say if I pull his pants down and he is sporting a big dick, I'm a very happy woman.  So do I like them?  He'll yes!  Are they a deal breaker?  Nope.  

 

Reverse question do you like big boobs?  Would you tell a woman with small boobs to hit the bricks?  How about do you like thigh gap?  What do you tell women with thick thighs that don't have it?  Do you like women with tight assets?  What if she has a big butt and a little cellulite?  As women we are often expected to look like the women in magazines, that are airbrushed perfection.   Its crazy because even the model doesn't look like that.  We all deal with body image issues, but confidence is sexy so just let it go.  

[tkntd 59]

Well, not really. I mean, as long as it’s not TINY tiny... I’m more about the overall look. But, and no offense to anyone, I can’t do and am not attracted in any way to uncut ones. Sorry ??‍♀️

[Numex 2,420]

My wife says she's never had dick she hasn't managed to orgasm with.  She takes it as a challenge. 

[couplers 4,654]

49 minutes ago, Numex said:

My wife says she's never had dick she hasn't managed to orgasm with.

Me too, so long as he puts it in my pussy and tries.  The one bad lover I had always wanted to put it in my bum, cum, and that was it, not even a good licking.