Senior swingers

[echo7 15]

Hi, we are new to writing, love your site, We are married, 11yrs, swinging 4.5 yrs, on & off. Would like to see more subjects & thoughts on seniors that are still active.our ages are 74&62. Have been active up till 4 month age. Found that the age factor after 65, is a problem with couples.Would love to hear more about seniors, thoughts on this & other subjects that come to them as we age.Had to have my prostate removed.Doing very well now. i was lucky to catch the cancer in time. If this subject of age is of interest, do get back to us. thanks for listing. Have a happy. F&J Conn.

[jedi6942 18]

I, too, am interested in some topics related to age and swinging. Feel free to start any discussion you like and others like myself are sure to join in.

 

Tell me more about the the prostate surgery. How did that leave you functionally? What kind of swinging are you able too do since then? I have a strong interest in this subject, lately.

 

(By the way, I enjoy swinging with "older" couples. )

[JnCC 24]

Would love to hear more about seniors, thoughts on this & other subjects that come to them as we age.

There's a couple that attends one of our local clubs...she's in her late-60's, he's 70-something. I've never talked to him, but she's an absolute hoot, and seems to get as much attention from single guys as she wants.

 

There was another couple that used to attend house parties in our area. Again, both were well into their 60's. I had the privelige of spending (by choice) a little time with her alone one evening. What a sweet, sweet woman! Still great in the sack, too!

 

Assuming I live long enough, there will come a time when most of the woman (or women) in my life will be about her age...mid-60's. I want them to be women just like her...

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

Hello!

 

Welcome to the Board.

 

I think discussing swinging issues for those of us in our 50's and beyond would be great.

 

I am 53 and my husband 59. We do have challenges that most swingers in their 30's and 40's don't have.

 

LM

[Mike and Jan 20]

Hey, I've always enjoyed older ladies.

 

It's just getting harder to find them!

[ItTakes3 19]

Sadly, most folks our age are content to be couch potatoes and get their sexual pleasures from watching hard bodies on the tube. In our case, we are tired of clubbing and that limits the opportunities to meet. I'm sure there are some older folks who would love to play, but the number of meeting places are limited if getting blitzed and listening to rap are not your thing.

 

I wish some computer savvy person would start a forum website for the over 50 crowd.

[DBL D 120]

I think it's super that you guys are still out there having fun.

 

M.D.

[Karenandtom4you 15]

Don't know how "senior" we are -we are both about age 50. Age ultimately is in the eye of the beholder-at least in the Lifestyle it seems. Many people will not contact us because we are "old." We have no problem meeting couples of any age. We find that personality is what is important-do we click personality wise or not. There seems to be an age consciousness in this country in all parts of life-such should not be the case, but that is the reality we see-at least as how we view it. Comments welcome.

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

I wish some computer savvy person would start a forum website for the over 50 crowd.

Do you think there are enough swingers over 50 years of age that could support such site?

 

If they're out there, where are they hiding?

 

What would you hope to find that you are not finding in the general swinging world, besides more people your age?

 

LM

[dinkydow4us 15]

Would be interested in any info on age related topics. We're a couple of pre senior couch potatoes 58&53 looking into the lifestyle. We can't stand rap either I would also like to know your limits, if any, since surgery. Since this is pretty common now, there's a lot of us who could be in the same boat as you down the road. Good luck, D.D.

[singleagain 26]

What would you hope to find that you are not finding in the general swinging world, besides more people your age?

 

LM

 

Wow, what a question In both the vanilla world and the swinging world the issues seem to be the same. The most discriminatory practices in the world relate to age Look around you...entertainment, church, Sunday School, housing (yes they have housing for over 55 now where kids are not allowed)...the list goes on and on. So it is no suprise when we who are over some magical (it seems) age find ourselves being considered not as enticing.

 

Just this week a nice mid 40's mixed race couple had given me the thumbs up based on what I said in a few emails and looking at pics of me at my current age It was when I told them I am 61 that they broke off all communication without any explanation at all Now mind you, I am not complaining, just observing Surrender I would never want to have recreational sex with someone who might think they are doing me a favor.

 

On the other hand, if experience, patience and a genuine desire to help with hightened pleasure for a nice woman in an mfm situation is something they were looking for, they might have discovered that the wisdom of age does help quite a bit. It might just be that instead of us that are older being know as over the hill, those that are repulsed by age might find that on the other side of the mountain there is something really fantastic

[ItTakes3 19]

What would you hope to find that you are not finding in the general swinging world, besides more people your age?

 

LM

Maybe someone who knows who Roy Orbison was?

 

Seriously, it's like anything else...common interests outside the bedroom and a better chance of making friends with others who don't look at you as a relic. As much as I enjoy sex, I find it's a different game when you get older. I also like to talk to others close to my generation, just as the young people like to talk to others from their generation.

[Thrax 384]

Maybe someone who knows who Roy Orbison was?

Wasn't he the blind guy in the Traveling Wilburys?

 

And I just found out Paul McCartney used to be in a band! It was called Wings!

 

I kid, I kid!

 

Actually, I'll be getting my AARP subscription starting this summer but I know a little bit about Roy. He had his first major hit the year before I started kindergarten.

 

"Only the Lonely" Thrax

[LOL_OMG 130]

Roy Orbison, hometown Wink, Texas

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

 

Maybe someone who knows who Roy Orbison was?

 

Seriously, it's like anything else...common interests outside the bedroom and a better chance of making friends with others who don't look at you as a relic. As much as I enjoy sex, I find it's a different game when you get older. I also like to talk to others close to my generation, just as the young people like to talk to others from their generation.

Here is where I see a major problem. Too many swingers over 50 are just as discriminatory - or more so - as they accuse swingers in their 30's and 40's of being.

 

So what if the 32 year old single guy I'm having sex with doesn't know who Roy is, it doesn't lessen our ability to connect. Do those of you over fifty know who Jonny Lang or David Gray are? Have you an interest in musicians who weren't born in your decade?

 

Mr LM loves break dancing. It's funny seeing him try it at home in the living room, and he knows he'll never accomplish most of the moves, but he's intrigued by it. He also enjoys certain rap artists, as do I; it's one of many forms of music we have taken the time to get acquainted with.

 

Common interests with swingers of all ages can be wide spread, if you want them to be. If a person stops learning, acquiring new interests, and developing new tastes for what the world has to offer, they greatly lessen their chances of being interesting to others and desirable to be around, especially as a sexual playmate.

 

If you feel you're being looked at as a relic, maybe you are becoming one.

 

We have yet to play with swingers over 50 because none have what we are looking for in play partners. It's because, as ItTakes3 said, Sadly, most folks our age are content to be couch potatoes. It shows in how they care for themselves, how they dress, and how they describe themselves in their profile.

 

LM

[Thrax 384]

So, which town claims Roy as its own: Vernon, TX, where he was born in 1936, or Wink, TX, to which his family moved when he was about 10 years old (after a 3-year stop in Forth Worth)?

 

I'd probably call Wink his hometown, too, since he graduated high school there, and that's where he started his first band, "The Wink Westerners." Fortunately for him, he was a much better songwriter and singer than selecter of band names. Probably why he went solo.

 

Okay, threadjack over. Back to the sexy seniors.

 

Thrax

[svenbrunhilde 15]

we are a mature couple, me 55, she 66. I prefer older women and she younger guys. Where are you, complimentary couples in maryland?

[kylezx10r 15]

Age is just a number... i am open to all

[CBYLW 21]

I'm in my mid 60's. I have been on and off in the swing scene since my 30's. I still love it. Occasionally I find a 40's or 50's couple where the lady likes older men. I have had some great relationships with them. But I never seem to find anyone in thier sixties. I'm sure thier are sexy seniors out there, I just haven't found them.

[ladyfirst 15]

Great stuff on this site but here we are....newbies and 53 and 52, respectively. We haven't actually played yet but I'm researching like crazy. Would like to observe in a club first. So question is do we stick out like a sore thumb in a club? We missed a couple of meet and greets because of previous engagements but I just don't want to look online forever. Any advice?

[BradAndJanet 70]

Oh my, twobears! Send my good wishes to your husband and tell him I hope he gets up and around really soon!

 

-B

[dinkydow4us 15]

TwoBears, Best wishes to both of you. Keep up the good work Good luck. D. D.

[reed&diana 17]

We also came into later in life. We are both 55 and have been swinger about a year and a half. Sometimes it is frustrating to find inticing couples that have an age cut-off of 50, Don't know whether to contact them or not. My wife wouldn't like to swing with couples younger than 35 - 40. As for me, anything from 18 up works, (Hey, I am a guy). Just ruling out older couples can be ruling out an incredible roll in the hay. Although your bodies show our age, I feel that we can be quite a fun time. I like to think that I'm still very capable and my wife can give a blow job to die for. After all, we have been at it a lot longer and had more practice. Something has to sink in.

 

Reed

[ladyfirst 15]

Well I agree with that we have had more experience in the act of making love and at this stage we don't have to worry about the monthly annoyances that women go through every month that sometimes have gotten messy

We're sort of free to be and that in itself makes me feel sexy. And I don't know why but a lot of my friends and just women I've spoken to cannot even be bothered with the lovemaking aspect with their spouses and since I've been in this "Post" stage of life, I've just kinda exploded with feelings and urges. This is much better than when I was a "youngin'" in my 30's.