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I have tried a few of the swinging websites and cannot find much on the fetish of getting turned on by fertile women swinging unprotected with getting pregnant a possibility. Does anyone know of any organized way to find people interested in this?

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This is a new one on me. What exactly is Fertile Swinging? I tried to google it and got no details either.

 

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If I'm not mistaken, it's being sexually turned on by the prospect of becoming pregnant by or impregnating your partner. And the more "dangerous" the fertile partner, the better, perhaps? For example, becoming pregnant by/impregnating someone who, maybe, wasn't supposed to be fucking anyone other than his/her spouse.

 

I think this is a pretty dangerous fantasy to make into a reality, as you're playing with the creation of a human life - all 75 years of joy and heartache of it - to get a really awesome orgasm. It ain't a kitten. You can't return it. And by the nature of it, a person with this fetish would be pregnant all the time.

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We know a couple who have tried for years to become pregnant. Recently they shared with us the desire to add others into their sex life. (long story for another thread) I think part of this is driven by their desire to have children and the cost of invitro fertilization. They didn't come forward and say it but after hearing how much they've spent in doctor bills to get pregnant I got the feeling this is what they want to do.

 

Anyone who does this should take in to consideration their health. Unprotected sex with someone other than your spouse can lead to STD's. :nono: Always play safe and wear a raincoat when it's pouring out.

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It's amazing to me the things that turn folks on...

 

I completely understand the desire to have children - and can even understand the lengths folks will go to when circumstances make them desperate. But I can't understand pregnancy as a kink in and of itself.

 

As Intuition said, there is quite a long "afterglow" associated with it - an afterglow that includes first step, first kiss, first car ... all the way through (and beyond) first senior discount on a cup of coffee at McDonalds.

 

If you just want to get pregnant - walk into any bar with a t-shirt that says "willing" and you'll get what you want eventually. But you'll find that very few swingers are out who are interested in knocking up their playmates... We've made our babies - and we love them very much - now it is all about play ;)

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This is one of the "cuckolding" lifestyle main subjects: someone more fit than the cukolded husband, the alpha male, impregnating the wife, for him to grow these childs, turning this into a lifetime humiliation.

 

I checked and the poster is a female, I was about to bet the poster was a male.

 

In any case, I believe it's easier to find out information about this in cuckolding specialized websites than in swingers ones.

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My first response to this post is...Huh?

 

I have been around over the years and realize that nothing should surprise me at this point.

 

Then again...

 

Huh?

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My first response to this post is...Huh?

 

I have been around over the years and realize that nothing should surprise me at this point.

 

Then again...

 

Huh?

 

Yep. I've knew folks in the cuckolding lifestlyle, that call what they do is swinging... except for the "Huh?" factor, that can become tricky for other swingers when they're unaware and bocme part of the "Huh?" in flesh.

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:eek:

 

I'm sure many think of us as sexual deviants, but let's keep it at an Oprah level of deviant rather than a Springer.

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I hate to say I even know the term for this, it's 'breeders'. Gang bangs are called 'breeding parties'.

 

I have to go take a shower. :eek:

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Wow now I really have heard everything. I guess there is a fetish for everyone but definately not my cup of tea. :confused:

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We hadn't started swinging back then but 15 years ago my wife had too much to drink at a party and ended up fucking a guy there. At the time she had been trying to get pregnant and wasn't on birth control. Three weeks later she informed me that she was pregnant. It was pretty obvious that she had sex because I fucked her the same night and she was still wet with the other guys cum. We still don't know for sure if he's our son's biological father and it really doesn't matter to me all that much. That may sound strange but it's the way I feel.

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We hadn't started swinging back then but 15 years ago my wife had too much to drink at a party and ended up fucking a guy there. At the time she had been trying to get pregnant and wasn't on birth control. Three weeks later she informed me that she was pregnant. It was pretty obvious that she had sex because I fucked her the same night and she was still wet with the other guys cum. We still don't know for sure if he's our son's biological father and it really doesn't matter to me all that much. That may sound strange but it's the way I feel.

 

I think I would have had a blood test anyway for our own info. That would help complete the story. I think I can accept that you didn't because maybe you didn't want to have to acknowledge that the child may not have been yours and then (I know you wouldn't) withhold paternal love because of it.

 

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I'd have to wonder since the OP had disappeared if it simply wasn't an attempt, baiting if you will, to "expose" how twisted and immoral swingers are. If that was the case, it obviously didn't work.

 

All her posts were generally along these lines.

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if it simply wasn't an attempt, baiting if you will, to "expose" how twisted and immoral swingers are. If that was the case, it obviously didn't work.

 

I've wondered this about many of the topics that have shown up on here. People who have, for example, shown up who say they are playing "devil's advocate" for the silent "majority". If it's truly the majority, then they shouldn't have any fear of having no support for their opinions. Why remain silent?

 

Nope, this is a swinger's board. That means we're open to responsible, consensual, non-monogamous sex. Period. Anything beyond that I think is just a matter of individual preference. The practice of "fertility parties" or whatever you want to call them is not something I can condone because I just can't feel right about it. How that differs from a pregnancy resulting from sex with a swing partner, I can't quite say. Maybe it has to do with my idealistic notion of children being the intentional product of a decision made between two people who wish to share in the responsibility of raising a child. That, of course, is coming from someone who believes that polyamory is theoretically more ideal than swinging. It's a tangled web for sure.

 

I guess my final thought is that lives should really be lived deliberately and with purpose. If the pool of genetic partners is carefully and deliberately selected, and the entire thing is done in a human - not animalistic - fashion, if the parents are willing to play Russian roulette with the parentage of their offspring, then who am I to tell them it is wrong? Not much I can say about that unless they are unprepared to deal with the consequences down the road when Junior needs a liver or bone marrow transplant, and Dad can't oblige...because his genes don't match. Or when Junior is obviously of a different ethnicity. What do they do? What do they say? Maybe it's shallow...I don't know...but my beliefs in the Russian roulette practice aren't strong enough to justify needing to put my kid into therapy to deal with the way he was conceived.

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I have tried a few of the swinging websites and cannot find much on this topic. Does anyone know of any organized way to find people interested in this?

 

If you are interested in fertile swinging, try placing a swinger's personal ad on any of the popular swinger sites that advertises your interest in it. As you may have already found out, most folks around these parts don't play that way.

 

Each to his own I say but it would be in your best interest to also consider the risks and consequences.

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Each to his own I say but it would be in your best interest to also consider the risks and consequences.

 

Well stated. At the time ("fertile" swinging), the excitement may be extremely intoxicating. But, the long term consequences have to be considered...

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I'm also willing to bet that the OP was someone just casting and waiting to reel in reactions. That said, I agree with the:

 

HUH?!?

 

I'm young...and have pretty much decided that I don't want kids. #1 - They're little germ factories and I have a germ thing. #2 - I'm selfish about my time, my money, and my belongings...all 3 get taken, used, and broken...I know...I was the kid taking, using, and breaking.

 

HOWEVER - Should I ever change my mind, I can't imagine someone other than J. fathering my child. What if the person you hook up with has some crazy genetic disorder that runs in their family or some mental illness, when you and your partner are just fine? Or as close to fine as any one can get. And I can't imagine how that would make J. feel. Oh hey honey - here's what I THINK is this other guy's child...love it, please? That'd go over REAL well.

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A little off topic but close, I have been asked by 2 couples to be sperm doner.

 

The first was a couple M/F who could not have a child due to his low sperm count and they could not afford the Dr's fees, We hardly knew them and stepped away very quickly.

 

The second was a gay couple that we have known for many years, at that time they had been in a commited non-monogamous relationship for over 5 years and decided that they wanted children and after they were turned down for adoption they came to us and asked if we would help them. Leah and I talked about it for several months and decided that we were ok with it, the starnge part to us was that they wanted to be pregnant together both at the same time and this took some work on my part..lol

 

They both became pregnant within 1 month of each other and have 2 wonderful boys who are now 7 YO.

 

In this case it was not a fetish of getting pregnant or just the risk of it that turned them on it was a true desire to have children.

 

We see all of them on a regular basis and no the boys do not know that I am their bio father. At some time we may tell them but not anytime soon, they know that they are loved and cared for by two of the most loving, responsible parents that I have ever seen.

 

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In the swing world when searching this topic you will have more luck if you search "breeders" rather than fertile swinging. If you are looking for a site for this type of swinging try dark caverns tho this is also a site for BBC so if race isnt an issue then I am sure you will find what you are looking for. Good Luck.

 

There is a large following in this type of lifestyle. I don't personally know anyone in it, I just have a lot of resources and have been a member of dark cavern for a long time, just curious by nature I guess.

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We hadn't started swinging back then but 15 years ago my wife had too much to drink at a party and ended up fucking a guy there. At the time she had been trying to get pregnant and wasn't on birth control. Three weeks later she informed me that she was pregnant. It was pretty obvious that she had sex because I fucked her the same night and she was still wet with the other guys cum. We still don't know for sure if he's our son's biological father and it really doesn't matter to me all that much. That may sound strange but it's the way I feel.

 

My real father who died when I was 12 gave me the fond memories of watching him chase my mother with a sweeper hose. My step father I call my dad. He never married my mother but treated me like his own and us better than anyone could or should have. I commend you on this act. To this day, I really miss my step dad, love is far more important than genes! :welldone::thankyou::bowing::claps::cheer:

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Imagine being the only kid in school on parent day, with a story that opened something llike this "My mom was on all fours in latex and collar with some stranger pounding from behind yelling Bark Bitch Bark!!

 

We are talking about bringing innocent life into the world under some selfish fantasy. And the sad thing is its probably a reality for some.:surrend:

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On another site that I am a member of I have seen people start threads about this, which die off pretty quickly. One of the things about the swinger community that I like is their general sanity. Anyone running around trying to get knocked up is obviously not sane!

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I know of a couple who were trying to get pregnant but couldn't after 3 years of trying. Turns out he had a real low sperm count. They couldn't afford the costs of artificial insemination and in vitro so it was suggested that they find somebody who looked like the husband and have him impregnate her. They carefully considered it and decided to ask a friend with similar lookks and he agreed. He came over three times a week and had intercourse with the wife. This went on for a year and still she didn't get pregnant; it turned out the friend had had a vasectomy years ago...

 

:lol::lol:

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It seems to me this person really wants to be a mother and doesn't think Mr. Right will come along during her safe fertile stage of life. We have our babies and many of us with people we wish we didn't..but we wouldn't trade our kids in just because being with their other parent wasn't good for us. I do not think this is a fetish so much as a longing with doubts of a secure future. People get pregnant everyday by mistake with the wrong person and we don't freak out about it...she has just disturbed us with her honesty. I scincerely hope she holds out for a loving relationship, but if she can't, I hope she cherishes the baby she produces from her desperate adventure.

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Cuckolding Couples and Risking Pregnacy Sex Parties are not as rare as you may think.

 

When was the last time...let's be honest... some have done the cheating thing and there were no condoms ....in the heat of the moment thing.

 

Let's face it pregnancy happens when there is sex.

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I got a reaction...but...really how many wont admit to cuckolding and did it.

 

I wasn't thinking that it was awful what they were doing....it kind of makes sense. I was thinking that the asshole that knew he was medically sterile was having sex with this poor woman KNOWING that she would not get pregnant. Wow, thats so wrong I don't even want to think about it. Had I been her husband I would have beat his ass lol.

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When was the last time ..lets be honest... some have done the cheating thing and there were no condoms ....in the heat of the moment thing.

 

Ummm... Errr... Never? :rollseye:

 

What point are you trying to make here?

 

Lets face it pregnancy happens when there is sex.

 

Not every time. In fact MOST sex occurs without pregnancy. If it did, I'd have thousands of children by lots of women. You know, safe sex - responsible sex - is not only possible, but actually quite easy to accomplish.

 

But, of course, you aren't talking about unplanned pregnancy at all. You are talking about planned parties where people get together for the express purpose of getting pregnant as a kink.

 

Right?

 

I highly doubt you will sell the mainstream on this as a reasonable sexual activity.

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I've (being the male half who is Black. Keep that in mind as I go along here) have had women in the lifestyle who have said "breed me" or "pump me full and knock me up" as there is apparently a thrill in being impregnated by a black man. Of course this all fantasy (hopefully). So from my perspective, there is a group of people who get off on this sort of activity.

 

Having said that, I have come across one woman who engages in things like bareback trains and bareback gangbangs (usually with Black men) while NOT being on birth control of any sort as she thinks that she can't get preggers (Her doctor said that she is unlikely to get pregnant for a variety of reasons, but it is entirely possible that it could happen. That's not the same thing as not being able to get pregnant in mind). However she has said on more than one occasion that it is a thrill that she could could get pregnant. Needless to say, I play with condoms with her even though I could go bareback with her (and she hates it when I glove up).

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This just opens up so many things. I mean honestly. Suppose a woman gets pregnant and the biological father, her play partner, decides he wants to be a part of his child's life. Then you have all kinds of issues that open up. I understand the logic I suppose...if you cannot get pregnant because of a low sperm count or things along that line and cannot afford expensive IVF. However, I think it would be better to have an anonymous sperm donor. It just opens up too many possibilities to me. What if Jay were to get her pregnant for instance and then 2 years later she decides she wants child support. Yep...save up for an anonymous donor in my opinion.

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Just not my thing.

 

Do I condone it? No.

 

Does that matter to those who are into this fetish? Probably not.

 

Will any advice or concerns I express on the subject have any effect on those considering this type of activity? Doubtful.

 

Do I sincerely hope that any children that might result from these activities are raised with all the care and love that children deserve. YES.

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A little off topic but close, I have been asked by 2 couples to be sperm doner.

 

The first was a couple M/F who could not have a child due to his low sperm count and they could not afford the Dr's fees, We hardly knew them and stepped away very quickly.

 

The second was a gay couple that we have known for many years, at that time they had been in a commited non-monogamous relationship for over 5 years and decided that they wanted children and after they were turned down for adoption they came to us and asked if we would help them. Leah and I talked about it for several months and decided that we were ok with it, the starnge part to us was that they wanted to be pregnant together both at the same time and this took some work on my part..lol

 

They both became pregnant within 1 month of each other and have 2 wonderful boys who are now 7 YO.

 

In this case it was not a fetish of getting pregnant or just the risk of it that turned them on it was a true desire to have children.

 

We see all of them on a regular basis and no the boys do not know that I am their bio father. At some time we may tell them but not anytime soon, they know that they are loved and cared for by two of the most loving, responsible parents that I have ever seen.

 

K

 

Very Hot!

 

I think your experience is more of a Breeding Session rather than what many might term a "Fertile Swing". In your experience conception and pregnancy were the goals whereas I think "Fertile Swing" means sex absent artificial birth control with a possibility of pregnancy whether remote or of a higher probability without becoming pregnant as the goal.

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I can't imagine anything that would be "hotter" than being already "inside" a woman, and she tells you "it's right in the middle of the month--but don't stop, please don't stop..." Think it would be a "mind blowing" orgasm for both persons.

 

Not saying it's right, just that the experience, if it happened, would be an incredible turn on. I doubt if either the M or the F could stop at that point, no matter what!

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I can't imagine anything that would be "hotter" than being already "inside" a woman, and she tells you "it's right in the middle of the month--but don't stop, please don't stop..." Think it would be a "mind blowing" orgasm for both persons.

 

Not saying it's right, just that the experience, if it happened, would be an incredible turn on. I doubt if either the M or the F could stop at that point, no matter what!

 

I'd stop so fast my dick was shrivel back into my body cavity and not come out until the all clear was given.

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I wonder if you would. My scenario is that you are already IN, and you know you are both going to have the big "O"; and then she tells you. I submit that at that point, you have passed the point of no return, and neither of you can stop regardless of any consequences. I do think it is possible to stop along the way, BEFORE you start actual intercourse, but once started, it would be near impossible to not get to the finish.

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I wonder if you would. My scenario is that you are already IN, and you know you are both going to have the big "O"; and then she tells you. I submit that at that point, you have passed the point of no return, and neither of you can stop regardless of any consequences. I do think it is possible to stop along the way, BEFORE you start actual intercourse, but once started, it would be near impossible to not get to the finish.

 

People pull out for birth control all the time. It's not the most effective, but many people do have the self control.

 

Most guys are also more than happy to pull out and come on your chest or back if requested, so starting intercourse doesn't necessitate coming inside a woman.

 

Personally, I don't find the fertility fetish hot in any way. It squicks me out completely.

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I wonder if you would. My scenario is that you are already IN, and you know you are both going to have the big "O"; and then she tells you. I submit that at that point, you have passed the point of no return, and neither of you can stop regardless of any consequences. I do think it is possible to stop along the way, BEFORE you start actual intercourse, but once started, it would be near impossible to not get to the finish.

 

Back when the Mrs. was 18, and I wasn't much older, we decided to "slip it in" sans condom. I managed to pull out no problem. Stupid, but no problem.

Many years later, she went of BC for health reasons and we were not worried about a mistake (we had 2 kids, we were sort of ambivalent about 3) so we used the pull out method for about a year. Zero children.

 

The "point of no return" is when you can not physically stop an orgasm, and I can still pull out then. My higher brain function is stronger than whatever reproductive instincts I have.

 

If a woman in swinging said something about "having my baby" I'd not only pull out (which assumes I didn't have a condom on) I'd put my pants back on, and thank god I dodged a potential 18 year bullet. Even if there was no liability to me, I'm also a moral person and would feel obligated to the child being it WOULD be mine.

 

Finally if it was just a fantasy, and a form of "pillow" talk, it would not be the kind to turn me on. It seems quite odd. "Lets make a baby" is not something which makes me want to have sex.

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Finally if it was just a fantasy, and a form of "pillow" talk, it would not be the kind to turn me on. It seems quite odd. "Lets make a baby" is not something which makes me want to have sex.

 

After 4 children I would have to agree with Chicup 100%. If for some unkown reason I did have total brain failure, my wife would end me :bash:. I think back to Friday the 13th where the machete comes up there the couple on the bed, at least I think it was that, I've seen so many 80's horror movies I can't be sure. :eek:.

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Short of someone sneaking up behind and delivering a swift kick right in the balls, there is not much more I can think of that heat of the moment or not, would be more of a total instant limp dick turnoff that hearing those words during a swing experience. I'm pretty much a no-drama type person, but that would send me over the edge too and I would be throwing some choice words over my shoulder as I was running out the door.

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I used to have a gf with this fantasy and she made me love it too. We'd be fucking without condoms, and she'd start saying things like "you wanta knock this dirty little cunt up?", & "you gonna bust in me and make a baby with me?". Then She'd get mean and say "you better get that cock outta my pussy if you're gonna bust"...I'd always promise to pull out and then she'd say when I told her I was about to cum, "knock me up now, it feels too fucking good to waste your hot load".

 

To this day, that stuff still drives me nuts.

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While having sex, if a man said to me "let's make a baby", I'm wondering what difference it would make if I said... "How much child support are you willing to pay?"

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A swing partner saying "let's make a baby" will wake up on the floor from the swift donkey double kick I give his ass. Ugh what a turn off, you'd probably see my pussy dry up like water down a drain.

 

Mind you my hubby and I conceived our child via IVF, I wanted to have my husband's child, a creation from our love. It turns my stomach to think of sharing something so beautiful with a casual sex partner. No offense to my play partners LOL

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I had so many different reactions to this thread (as a poly woman in a foursome). Mostly, I don't want to have sex with some random stranger, let alone have his child.

 

Then, on the other hand, these posts caught my eye:

 

We hadn't started swinging back then but 15 years ago my wife had too much to drink at a party and ended up fucking a guy there. At the time she had been trying to get pregnant and wasn't on birth control. Three weeks later she informed me that she was pregnant. It was pretty obvious that she had sex because I fucked her the same night and she was still wet with the other guys cum. We still don't know for sure if he's our son's biological father and it really doesn't matter to me all that much. That may sound strange but it's the way I feel.
My real father who died when I was 12 gave me the fond memories of watching him chase my mother with a sweeper hose. My step father I call my dad. He never married my mother but treated me like his own and us better than anyone could or should have. I commend you on this act. To this day, I really miss my step dad, love is far more important than genes!

And it is what hubby and Red have said to me: if I or Clair becomes pregnant, regardless of by whom, they would love me and the child. If you read my post about what happened to us recently, their commitment has been proven. Both Clair and I became pregnant and both Red and hubby love the children as their own.

 

 

The second was a gay couple that we have known for many years, at that time they had been in a commited non-monogamous relationship for over 5 years and decided that they wanted children and after they were turned down for adoption they came to us and asked if we would help them. Leah and I talked about it for several months and decided that we were ok with it, the starnge part to us was that they wanted to be pregnant together both at the same time and this took some work on my part..lol

They both became pregnant within 1 month of each other

When Clair accidentally became pregnant by hubby (she doesn't fuck Red), Clair and I decided we wanted to go through this together. As we previously discussed, we decided to put the paternity of my child in the hands of fate. So I went off birth control and continued having sex with hubby and Red. I got pregnant three and a half months after Clair. Both children turned out to be hubby's, but we have agreed that both Clair and I want one more child each. We know that my husband will be the father of Clair's next child as well, and that I will have my second with Red.

 

 

I used to have a gf with this fantasy and she made me love it too. We'd be fucking without condoms, and she'd start saying things like "you wanta knock this dirty little cunt up?", & "you gonna bust in me and make a baby with me?". ...I'd always promise to pull out and then she'd say when I told her I was about to cum, "knock me up now, it feels too fucking good to waste your hot load".

With a guy I actually want to get pregnant with, there is something to this. In my Catholic high school days our "family education" as it was called, taught us that practicing birth control would ruin the experience of sexual intercourse with our spouse because you would not be "totally open" to giving your all, including your fertility, to your spouse. But when I was intentionally trying to get pregnant (the purpose of sex after all, since I had almost forgotten) there is something to that lesson. Never before did I feel so "taken," so intimate, so fulfilled with men's orgasms, so much like a woman.

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With a guy I actually want to get pregnant with, there is something to this. In my Catholic high school days our "family education" as it was called, taught us that practicing birth control would ruin the experience of sexual intercourse with our spouse because you would not be "totally open" to giving your all, including your fertility, to your spouse. But when I was intentionally trying to get pregnant (the purpose of sex after all, since I had almost forgotten) there is something to that lesson. Never before did I feel so "taken," so intimate, so fulfilled with men's orgasms, so much like a woman.

 

I think you might be onto something with this as when my Wife and I were trying for our second child it was some of the most intimate sex we have ever had.

Now that I have had a vasectomy and can no longer get anyone pregnant the sex is different and I think it is all in my head. The subconscious idea that I can not impregnate a woman is somehow screwing with my screwing.

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I think you might be onto something with this as when my Wife and I were trying for our second child it was some of the most intimate sex we have ever had.

Now that I have had a vasectomy and can no longer get anyone pregnant the sex is different and I think it is all in my head. The subconscious idea that I can not impregnate a woman is somehow screwing with my screwing.

 

Sex is that particular kind of "excitement" (as it is called), it is orgasm, but it also the thought that what we are doing right now may create a new human being, halfsies with the person you are fucking. If the person you are fucking is someone you want to create that new human with, (especially for a woman) it is powerful.

 

Another thing we were taught in Catholic Family Ed (girls' section) was not to deny your husband sex unless you are ill or injured, and not to use sex as a weapon in an argument, that will only make things worse. You can go to bed mad, but still have sex. It is good advice. Even at times when I think I don't want sex, when we start I'm into it.

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      Even as her spasms subsided, his thoughts kept going to another man having his wife.  Thrusting into her. He was living vicariously himself as he imagined his wife fucking anyone just for the raw pleasure of a horny fuck. So raw, so animalistic, so unavoidable.  Another man’s cock just to make her feel more like a woman, more feminine, wetter, more relaxed, more hypnotized for cock.
       
      Now he visualized another wife watching passively next to him as they both just observed as their spouses fucked each other like masters.  That made his back tingle with goosebumps, the prickly hair stimulating his whole body.  
       
      Now back from his fantasy it was he that plunged into his auburn-haired wife, her butt naturally swinging back in perfect frequency to his thrusts.  She loved it. Being taken.  He could tell. Now he could not slow down.  With a few more deep strokes his nuts contracted and shot as deep as he could make his pumped lightning go, repeatedly,  just the way she liked it, rough, hard, and animalistic, delivering his seed.  
       
      IF YOU WANT PART TWO, THE CHAT, LET ME KNOW. 
       
       
    • By kc081878
      My wife and I are 42, married 19 years. We are not in the lifestyle. She has 1 rule... No anal. Otherwise she is game for whatever I come up with. Not much else is off limits. Toys, Role play, sex swing, BDSM, simulated MFM/Gangbangs, sex machine, etc. 
       
      Although we have done some pretty involved and creative role play/simulations... she says she can't imagine doing the above with others for real. If I'm honest, the reality would be a big step for me as well. Yet, I tell her I'm not opposed either.
       
      I have found that my fetish is whatever makes her aroused in new ways. I love the nuances of her sounds and how her body responds to a new sensation. 
       
      She says she is perfectly happy with our dynamic. I create the scene and surprise her. I even find myself sounding silly for writing this as if it were a problem. 
       
      We are tremendously transparent, collaborative and vocal about every aspect of our lives. But when it comes to discussing fantasies, likes/dislikes, collaborating on role play, etc... my wife shuts down or becomes flippant or gets a "how soon can we get this talk over with?" type vibe. She will say,"I just don't have anything to say." 
       
      I don't press her to share more than she wants and there are probably way more layers than can be addressed here. 
       
      So I suppose my question is...
       
      Are there couples that have experienced a similar dynamic in their journey and how/in what ways were they able to be more expressive?
       
    • By Wendans
      My fantasy has always been to watch my wife get fucked by another man. We have been with another woman before which is a whole story in itself that I’ll tell you about later.
       
      One night several years ago my wife and I had gone to a club. Not your ordinary club, but a good club for swingers and singles. The night had started out rather slow and we were not finding any action that I had hoped. My wife knows what she wants and that is what we go with. And that night we found what she wanted and it was such a great experience she knew she wanted to do it again. She had gotten fucked by a black guy and she had enjoyed it. So, when we got the chance, she wanted to try it again.
       
      Being at a swinger’s club isn’t really her thing, but fucking in front of people or listening to them fuck is a big turn-on for her. Since we don’t live close to any swingers’ clubs or anything of that nature, we don’t get many opportunities to do anything like this.
       
      A couple of years ago we got a chance to go to another club. Yes, one of those clubs. We were looking for a little fun and hoping to find something as good as the last time we were out. We talked to many people as the night went on and my wife was trying to figure out what we were going to be doing to have fun that night. There was a hot blonde that was interested in us and kept on grabbing my cock which my wife was loving because this was getting her going. My wife and I decided that this was not what we had in mind for tonight, so we just kind of let that slide and we went on to pursue something else. She said she would know it when she saw it.
       
      My wife had put a couple of drinks down and was feeling pretty good now. She was a little more daring and said she wanted to go change outfits like she did when we had been to a club previously. We had brought the very same sexy outfit that was see through, so she went and changed into it. When she came back out, there was not one guy's eyes on anyone but her. Even the women were looking on in awe. She is a beautiful woman that knows how to control a room.
       
      One guy came up to me and told me he was jealous. He said he would do anything to get to fuck my wife, but she just didn’t feel right with him, I guess. As we were standing around, in came this well-built younger black guy and I think she almost came right there. The look on her face was almost mind blowing. She got this horny grin and told me she was ready to start our night. As he walked by her, she gave him this dirty smile and took her hand and rubbed down by her cunt. He stopped walking and came over to her and asked if he could help her with anything. She just smiled and said that I think you already know what you can do. They danced around a little bit, but I could tell she couldn’t take it anymore, so she quickly unzipped his pants and took out his cock and grabbed it and lead him into another room like a dog on a leash.
       
      I stayed back a couple of minutes to give them some time to get to know each other. When I did finally get to the other room, they had already undressed and she was sucking his cock. It was larger than mine. Not much longer, but thicker. I could tell she liked it.
       
      My wife had picked a room where people would be able to watch if they wanted to. I stayed back in the wings and was kind of hidden so she really didn’t know I was even there.  As I watched my wife in action, I could tell she was enjoying every second of this guy’s cock. She was sucking it like there was no tomorrow.
       
      Now it was his turn to return the favor. He got his face down to her pussy and started licking like it was candy. She was turning red and I could tell she was already about to cum. She was squirming and shaking and he was getting her cunt all ready for his big shaft. But before he fucked her, he now spread her legs out and started fingering her pussy to the point that she started squirting fluids all over the sheet they were laying on. It was like the flood gates had opened up and all the juices were flowing.
       
      She finally had all she could take because I’m sure she had cum multiple times already and I could tell she just wanted to have him inside her. I heard her say to give me your big, black cock. He asked her if she wanted him to put on a condom and she told him no, she wanted to feel him inside her cunt.
       
      He took her and spread her legs wide and slowly inserted his bbc into her tight cunt. She told him to go slowly because she said it was so big that she needed to get used to it. After several minutes of the slow movement, she said she needed him to fuck her harder so he started to go full penetration into her dripping wet cunt. She was telling him how good his cock felt, and how she loved fucking him.
       
      They switched positions multiple times with her sitting on top of his cock and riding him like she has never ridden before. My wife took his whole cock inside of her as deeply as she could, rubbing back and forth and cumming time and time again.
       
      They finally switched back to missionary style and were fucking hard when I heard her say to him, she wanted him to cum in her pussy. She said she wanted to feel his cum drip out of her pussy all night long. When he heard her say that, he started to pick up the pace and finally started moaning and said he was about to cum. My wife was now cumming herself and as he shot his load inside of her, she started squirming and shaking with every pulse of his exploding cock. Her body was red from all of her orgasms, and I could tell she was getting worn out. They had gone for almost 40 minutes of nonstop action. Not to mention that all the other people that had gathered around to watch started going to other parts of the place as they had gotten a show that they would remember forever.
       
      When he pulled his now soft cock out of my wife, I could see the cum dripping down her ass. She was getting what she wanted, I guess. She would be able to feel his cum dripping out of her the rest of the night. But I didn’t realize that she was not done yet. She wanted more. My wife took his cock and started sucking on it again. I guess he was young enough that almost instantly he got hard and she took his cock and guided it into her cunt and said she needed more of his cum. He fucked her for another 10 minutes until he exploded with more cum inside my wife’s pussy again. Again, as I watched the cum drip down her ass, she was getting what she wanted. She was going to feel this the rest of the night.
       
      They both started cleaning up a little and I slowly came out of the crowd that had gathered. She saw me and gave me that dirty little smile she sometimes gets. My wife asked me if I had enjoyed her show. She said she needed to have a little more cum in her pussy tonight and she now wanted mine. Her new little friend just kind of sat back in the corner and decided to watch us.
       
      I knew I wouldn’t last long because I had almost cum multiple times just watching her. With some of the crowd still watching I got undressed, and slid my wet with pre-cum cock into my wife’s cum-loaded pussy. I fucked her until she started cumming. Her cunt convulsed so hard that it squeezed my cock and made me start to cum. I came in her pussy, mixing my cum with my wife’s new fuck buddies cum. I pulled my cock out and watched it all slowly slide down her ass. She got up and went over to our young fuck buddy and she gave him a long passionate kiss and said thank you for such a great time. He gave her one last little finger fucking and handed her a card of his if we were ever in the area again.
       
      He left after he got dressed and we got cleaned up and went out to the main room. I had multiple people including women and even the bartender say that my wife was one of the women they would like to fuck if they ever got a chance after seeing her in action. I guess I’m the lucky one here.
       
      Later that night when we were driving to our resort, she slipped her hand down pants and put her fingers in her pussy. She brought them out and rubbed them on my face. She smiled and said we gotta do this again sometime as we pulled into the parking lot to call it a night.
       
      And what a night it was.
    • By funcoupledayton
      I'm starting this thread in response to one in the curious section where the author felt a little bad because his wife wasn't sharing all her fantasies with him. He said he knows they are not ready for swinging, in part, because of this.
       
      Well, here I am, swinging with my husband for 3 years, and it's gone very well. But, I still have a private fantasy place I go to (in my mind). I tell my husband things I want to try, we talk all the time about what we like about swinging sex and our sex. But, when he watches me touch myself and then says, "What were you thinking about?" I won't tell him.
       
      I don't lie, sometimes I tell him generalities. It's not about a specific person or people, it's not anything that really could or would happen in real life. It's not anything I want to try, I just find it hot to think about. But, I would be embarrassed to tell anyone, and it would make it less hot for me if he knew about it. In a way, I like not telling him, I like having a little corner of my mind that's all mine. On the other hand I feel a little guilty, because it's really not a big deal and he would like me to tell him these fantasies in great detail and would probably find them hot, too.
       
      But, believe me, I have told him (and many of you also) all kinds of silly fantasies, because I have a ton!
       
      What do you think? Do you tell your spouse everything you think about to get off?
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