Wife playing alone and I'm not sure I'm ok with it
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By HotwifeHusband
Eventually they pulled down a dirt road through a wooded area to Jim's secluded lake house and I followed until we pulled into the driveway. It was a beautiful area in the woods with the lake just off the back porch. I hadn't turned my headlights off yet when Sue exited the truck she drove with Jim in. To my amazement, her panties were tied to her pocketbook, and she was completely topless. The skirt she had worn was all unbuttoned but for the very top button. I could only assume (and later verified) that Jim was fingering her pussy during part of the ride.
We got into his house and Sue put her blouse back on but didn't button it up. We had a glass of wine and talked a little bit about the plans for the following day that we'd be spending on the beach. I had shared with Sue earlier what my "ideal" fantasy would be for this trip, as she had requested.
We all stayed up a couple of hours and I eventually said, "Well, I'm ready to call it a night." I looked at Sue and said, "Are you coming?", and she replied, "I'll be right up in a couple of minutes."
I went upstairs and after about 10 minutes Sue came upstairs and put on this totally sheer black negligee. I asked her, "What was that all about?" She said my "fantasy weekend" was about to continue. When I went upstairs to call it a night, Sue had talked with Jim and told him she had never spent an entire night alone in bed with any other man but me, and that she was both interested and willing to see what that would be like with Jim. Of course, Jim was all for it.
I asked Sue if she was sure about spending the entire night? She said she wanted to fulfill my fantasy but she was also interested in seeing what it would be like. I told her the longer she stayed in bed with him, the better it would be for my fantasy. I also told her if she really enjoyed it, she could spend more time with him on Saturday as I at least had to get back to our house by Saturday afternoon.
After much tossing and turning throughout the night, I could hear them fucking and talking while having sex as my bedroom was one floor right above his bedroom. I could tell they took a shower together before they got into bed.
Saturday morning came and I could tell everything had went well as they were both in good moods and we were all having good conversations. Around noon time, when it was time that Sue and I were supposed to leave, I made a comment that "it was getting close to where we had to head back as I had some work to do at home." I asked Sue if she had packed up yet?
She looked at me, then Jim, and back at me and said, "If it's all right with you, Jim said he could bring me home on Sunday. Since you have things to do today at the house, I could stay here at the lake and come home tomorrow. If you are ok with that?"
I asked her if she was comfortable with that and she responded, "Yes, I am, and honestly, I'm probably a little too comfortable with it."
I looked at Jim and asked, "Your thoughts?" Jim laughed a bit and said, "Are you kidding me, I'd love for Sue to stay another day."
Jim then said he had a serious comment for all of us. He said he didn't want anything to interfere with the friendship the three of us had. He said it was obvious our relationship was different than most in that he and Sue get to be intimate with each other. He specifically said, it was more than just sex with him, without over stepping on feelings. He saw the relationship as being very close friends with both of us, it just happened to also include he and Sue having sex.
He also said that he brought up the idea of whether or not Sue would be comfortable on having a consistent FWB relationship IF I was also comfortable with it. I told Jim that it was a fantasy of mine but the thing we should do is consider the weekend a "test run". And once he brought Sue home, she and I would talk about how we all felt and then follow up with him on his feelings.
To be continued.
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By StartingOver60
I am curious, when you are with another partner for the evening do you tend to have a new approach to adventure?
Does the opportunity to be with someone new give you the feeling that you are free to reach out to new levels that you may not share with your spouse?
Do you do things like swallow or go down on your new partner and not your spouse?
Do you ever just let go and accommodate the requested new situation pushing the agreed upon boundaries/limits of your spouse?
Do you have stronger or multiple organism's with you new partner?
Do you have sex more times during the evening encounter than with your spouse?
Do you look forward to a specific partner that elevates your experience?
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By Sawman
I am at the mature end of the swinging demographic as are my play friends. The ladies have their share of curves and character lines and often prefer to wear something when younger, fitter ladies prefer total nudity. This is just to say clothing is totally OK if it makes you comfortable. This is not a photo shoot. This is intimacy and mutual giving. Besides, a little color and texture is nice to see and feel. When I know my partner is shy I can adjust and just observe that as a boundary.
Now, go shopping.
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By Sudhit
One of my friends was mentioning that his wife got invited for a vacation with one of their regular playmates. It would be a 4 day vacation, where only the wife goes with the BF, hubby stays back.
Has anyone any experience of this scenario, they are swinger and cuckold couple.
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By LovelyLynn
I have a question for the experienced couples on the board. For quite a while I have had the desire to be in a more sexually charged environment while having sex with my husband. Now, I have been hanging around this board and learned a lot about the maturity required to swing and I must say I am impressed by a lot of you. The reason I bring this up is because I would like your opinions. I am wanting to find some couples or groups that are open and mature like yourselves to watch while each couple has sex.
I am in my 20's and find that a lot of couples around my age lack maturity when it is called for. Of course for a lot of couples at any age it seems can barely keep their own relationships together. On the other hand it seems that a lot of you put respect and your relationships above all else. Other than the fact that I am not technically a swinger (yet ), I feel you people share more in common with my ideals than most groups of people.
I would love to try new things but I'm not near ready for a 4some or swapping. However, I feel that being in and getting comfortable as a couple around swingers would open the door to a lot of new experiences for me.
So I was curious how the couples on here would feel about having a non swapping couple around having sex in the same room as them? Does it make a difference to you if there are just 2 couples, more than 2, group sex, or swapping going on in the room? What do you think the best way to go about it would be? Is this something that Swingers in general accept?
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