Big Guy - Little Problem

[TheGame 15]

I am 6' 6" tall, and I have a 3-incher. I am a virgin, but I am eager to get back into the dating scene. Maybe even become a 3rd with a couple. I have this feeling that once a woman sees it, they'll just laugh me out of the bedroom. Any advice on how I can approach someone? Or any on anything else would be fine too. Eager to hear any feedback.

[ciscosv 26]

All I can say is: You never know until you find out

[Chicup 41]

Originally posted by TheGame

I am 6' 6" tall, and I have a 3 incher. I am a virgin, but I am eager to get back into the dating scene.

 

Why did a virgin get out of the dating scene?

[DragonsLair 26]

Is that 3" erect or flaccid? Has someone made comments to you about it? If they really care about you, your size shouldn't matter.

[TheGame 15]

I'll try to answer everyone's comments/questions. It's not a joke. I used to date, with a simple kiss goodnigh, but stopped dating to get more involved with school, making money, and a few other things. But I am ready to get back out there, but I am looking to de-virginize myself. And it's 3' hard. I did show it to someone who snickered when she saw it.

[DragonsLair 26]

I'm sorry someone treated you that way. I think it was uncalled for. There are some women who are obsessed with size. And unfortunately, they will behave like children when they see you and you don't fit their ideal.

 

I really don't think size matters. Most women don't have orgasms from penetration anyway. Most of us require clitoral stimulation to orgasm. But not all, and I suppose to them size is very important.

 

But don't beat yourself up over this. In life, we just have to play the hand we're dealt. Someday you will find a woman who will love you exactly as you are. It may be tough to get there. And yes, there will be women who will laugh and make nasty comments. Please don't take them to heart. You are not your penis size.

 

There are so many ways to satisfy your lover. Have fun finding those ways.

 

Keep looking for that special woman. She is out there.

[TheGame 15]

Thank you for your support

[darling 17]

I know women are obsessed with our looks, but men are obsessed about their penis size or lack of as they see it. My husband is average and constantly makes remarks about how I would like bigger. This is far from the truth. I am more then happy with his and I have orgasms with oral or manual stimulation not with penatration. The couple of times that I've been with men that are well endowed, I get sore quickly and can't go another round.

 

However, if this still upsets you, you may want to talk to your doctor about options.

[OhioCouple 40]

You have a lot of great qualities going here. You are educated and career oriented. What the others have told you here is very true. For most women the size of a penis is not near as important as how a man presents himself and how he treats her. I feel you need to focus more on your confidence level, and not let your penis size be a factor. There are many women who much prefer a smaller penis as penetration with even a 5" or so can be very painful.

 

Focus on your confidence as who you are as a person and present yourself in that manner. The rest will fall into place naturally. When you meet that special someone who enjoys your company and loves you as a person, she'll enjoy every aspect of your body as much as you will hers. In fact you will probably make a better lover than many singles out there that promote nothing but their cock and only think with it. For those that may snicker, they may never know what they might have missed. That is their loss, not yours.

 

Best wishes,

 

Lori

[DragonsLair 26]

Well said, Lori. I agree with you on TheGame having much going for him. He's been well spoken in his posts.

[TheGame 15]

Thank you all for your help. I can try forming good oral skills to bring any partner to orgasm. Now I know that it's not all penetration with a large penis, there's alot of areas to cover.

[darling 17]

Besides, anal sex is much better with someone less endowed!! You could advertise as the back half of a D/P!!

[sportync 20]

Darling, you must have been reading my mind! I was thinking that exact thing when I read your post. There are probably a lot of women out there who would love to try de ole' back door, but are hesitant when they actually see what's fixin' to go there. But a small guy could be their collective dream cum true! Anyway, work on your oral skills, and find positions (like her legs together instead of spread) which could provide more friction, and you shouldn't have any problems. Like they say, it ain't de meat, it's de motion dat makes dat momma wanna rock!

[DragonsLair 26]

Good idea, Sportync and Darling. I hadn't thought of a dp either. But you're both right. Sometimes smaller is better.

[kiteresa 15]

I agree with all previous post. And if I may... If my Master ever releases me I would be honored to help you find your way around any area of the females body that you hadn't covered.

 

Best of Luck.