2nten 15 Posted June 12, 2006 This sounds crazy, but I have a problem getting an erection too easily. This can cause embarrassment on my part. Anytime I sense something sexual, I jump to full mass. Just the other night, we are out with a vanilla cpl having drinks and playing darts. The other wife dances around me and grabs my waist, not meaning anything, but bam I'm out for all to see. Of course I try to adjust, but my wife says " you might want to put that hard thing up!" This of course causes embarrassment and is only one example, but it happens quite often. I do not have an "early release," but I do soak my undies with precum. I know it's crazy, but I really do have a problem with it. It happens at the oddest and most public places. Any ideas on how to conceal this problem? Quote Share this post Link to post
ItTakes3 19 Posted June 12, 2006 You can't fight Mother Nature. If you still have the problem when you reach 50, come back and brag about it. Quote Share this post Link to post
2nten 15 Posted June 12, 2006 LOL, well I only have 15 more years. I maybe short of blood by then. It's just embarrassing in public, that's really not a banana in my pocket. Quote Share this post Link to post
Chip_n_Muffy 16 Posted June 12, 2006 Duct tape. You can fix ANYTHING with duct tape. Chip Quote Share this post Link to post
Chicup 42 Posted June 12, 2006 Briefs, not boxers. Problem solved mostly. Quote Share this post Link to post
Darkblue 55 Posted June 12, 2006 Either become a Eunuch or laugh along with the others cause you know what you do with jimmy, they dont!! Steve Quote Share this post Link to post
CuriousInOregon 16 Posted June 12, 2006 No advice as how to prevent it but Its a site I like to see sorry hehehehhe facelick Quote Share this post Link to post
Everlearning 48 Posted June 12, 2006 By any chance do you work out and take NO? If you do, that's the problem. After taking NO for a while all it took was my pants leg rubbing wrong and you're right, it's hard to hide at certain times. Quote Share this post Link to post
DBL D 120 Posted June 12, 2006 Wear a skirt..they oughta be blowsey enough. Male D Quote Share this post Link to post
chetthomas05 15 Posted June 12, 2006 By any chance do you work out and take NO? If you do, that's the problem. After taking NO for a while all it took was my pants leg rubbing wrong and you're right, it's hard to hide at certain times. What exaclty is NO? Quote Share this post Link to post
2nten 15 Posted June 12, 2006 I don't take NO, I wear boxer briefs because of my job, I really like skirts but I think it would become a tent, so I guess I will duct tape it or laugh along with them. Curious, I wish ladies like to see that they excite me, but some don't they are more offended. Quote Share this post Link to post
DBL D 120 Posted June 12, 2006 Really sounds like you are on the right track. When I was 17, I dated a 16 year old and wanted to fool around with her in the worst way. Boy did she have some nice perky titties! However because of what could happen if we were found out I refrained from even petting with her. I always got the most raging hardon that I tried to shield from her touch and view...not sure if I was successful totally. I always had to go home and masturbate as soon as possible. Later on when we both of age I did meet up with her again at a New Years Party and we got to feel each other up a little. That was fun but it was a far as it went. I don't think that there is anything that you can do about it except politely excuse yourself when you feel one coming on. You like dresses eh?...Pervert! Male D Quote Share this post Link to post
sereneiders 263 Posted June 12, 2006 Instead of giving advice, may I envy you? My advice would be... DO NOT ATTEMPT to solve your "problem". Quote Share this post Link to post
intuition897 2,179 Posted June 12, 2006 Now, of course, this is coming from a woman in the lifestyle, but I have to say it: If it was me you were dancing with, and you were blushing because you were unsuccessfully trying to hide a massive hard-on that I was to blame for...well...I'd have to say that would make me instantly hot. I can understand how it would be very awkward in vanilla situations, though, and I understand how it might come off as offensive to non-swinging women, especially if one or both halves of the dancing couple are already attached/married. Chip, you kill me! 2nten might be able to get away with the duct tape trick if he happens to be hairless, but I doubt he'd like it much when it was time to remove it otherwise. I know you mentioned that you wear boxers for work, but if you know you're going out or something, and you KNOW it's going to cause a problem, consider wearing some snug briefs. Apparently, if that's not going to cut it, there are such things as jogging briefs. Probably industrial strength nut-crushers, but - hey! - I guess it depends on how big a problem this is for you. Other ideas: BenGay? Anti-depressants that kill your libido? Slamming it in a door? Thinking of Barney Gumble in a bikini... Sorry I couldn't help any more than this... Quote Share this post Link to post
turnuptheheat 98 Posted June 12, 2006 Other ideas: Slamming it in a door? ... Somehow, I am curiously stimulated....... Try "Underarmor". It is a tighter, but breathable underwear that is worn primarily in sports, but will keep Private Johnson from coming to full attention at times other than while in proper formation. Quote Share this post Link to post
Thrax 384 Posted June 12, 2006 ...I wear boxer briefs because of my job... Wow, your workplace has the most detailed dress code I've ever heard of. Thrax Quote Share this post Link to post
Menage_a_Trois 182 Posted June 12, 2006 Well from my own experiences in the lifestyle and talking to others over the years, I will say that most have the opposite problem( mine from over thinking things). So my answer to you is Don't try to figure out how to solve this problem, but figure out how to keep it. Quote Share this post Link to post
JnCC 24 Posted June 13, 2006 Whoops..I thought this was another one of those "I fart when I'm having sex" threads. Sorry to intrude. Quote Share this post Link to post
WonderWhat 166 Posted June 13, 2006 By any chance do you work out and take NO? If you do, that's the problem. After taking NO for a while all it took was my pants leg rubbing wrong and you're right, it's hard to hide at certain times. Ummm... Another ignoramus here: What's "NO"? Nitric Oxide? (Guess so, since it has to do with the biochemistry of erection.) If so, what's the "supplement"? Arginine? Nitric Oxide in its pure, gaseous form is pretty corrosive and toxic. Quote Share this post Link to post
singleagain 26 Posted June 13, 2006 Well now 2nten, since you don't give away your age allow me the freedom to assume you are relatively young. Once upon a time I had the same "problem" you have. Amazingly, in the sixties when I was in my twenties (I am now 61) there was no shortage of willing ladies of all ages who were willing to "experiment" with me on how to solve the problem. Most often it involved rapidly inserting the "offending member" into a warm, rather wet and tight body orifice belonging to one of said "willing ladies" until the "problem" had rectified itself. I spoke with my doctor about this and he made the same suggestion. He also told me that the time would come when I would no longer have the "problem" and wish I could get it back. Of course he didn't know about viagra back then. So, my advise is to find some of those "willing ladies" who would like to "nurse" your member back to its prior state of flacid health. It can be a rather enjoyable prescription for this chronic (hopefully) problem. Quote Share this post Link to post
2nten 15 Posted June 13, 2006 My age is 33. It would be nice to have a woman to take care of the problem everytime it happens, but Don't think that will happen. Wife does all she can, but she thinks it's funny when it happens in public (i guess it is??) I do shave, but I think the duct tape may bring on a rash and it would really scare people off to see my unit in gray tape (but I could use white??). As for the dress code at work, I work in athletics so I wear the boxer brief type undies so that I will not feel that cool breeze while I'm stretching. The underamour helps, but it's like $20 for one pair. Guess I just have to make an investment. Thank you for your replies. Quote Share this post Link to post
dayhiker 83 Posted June 13, 2006 This thread remined me of a funny story I read on the web. It's told from a brothers point of view. It seems the sister comes home from her first High School dance and she is very upset. He asks what happened at the dance. SHe tells him that this boys she likes asks her to dance duirng a waltz. As they go to embrace she feels this poke in her belly. She steps back telling him to stop it. They go to embrace again with the same thing happening again. She gets really ticked off and leaves the dance. The brother didn't feel comfortable explaining what was going on. Quote Share this post Link to post
Amanda69 24 Posted June 13, 2006 Is it that you are thinking of something, looking at something at the time and this is causing the reaction? If so..STOP thinking that way and STOP looking at that...other than that this is a new one on me as well. My partner can pretty much get an erection at the drop of a hat...so I try not to drop hats when in mixed company. Have you tried thinking of really awful things when it starts to happen? Something that would definately stop the reaction? Quote Share this post Link to post
2nten 15 Posted June 14, 2006 I think of dirty ash trays when I'm about to release to quick, LOL. Guess I could try that Quote Share this post Link to post
