Masturbation Parties?

[summitcouple 16]

We a very new to the lifestyle. We have read some posts here about men masturbating at clubs while watching others have sex. We do not mind as long as they "keep to themselves" unless invited. We were wondering about attending a masturbation party. We both like to masturbate, and often do in front of each other, the thought of doing it in the presence of others doing the same is something of a turn on. May seem naive, but do these exsist? has anyone been? do they happen at clubs? are we alone out here?

 

Thank You in advance

 

J&R

[sands35071 15]

Not sure where you live, but there is a very active group like this in central FL. http://www.clubrelate.com I believe is the web site. Nice goup of people, from the party I attended.

[JnCC 24]

We have read some posts here about men masturbating at clubs while watching others have sex. We were wondering about attending a masturbation party. We both like to masturbate, and often do in front of each other, the thought of doing it in the presence of others doing the same is something of a turn on. May seem naive, but do these exsist? has anyone been? do they happen at clubs? are we alone out here?

I thought the purpose of going to a swing club was so you didn't have to masturbate?

 

Going to a club, only to spank your own monkey all night would seem to defeat the purpose of going in the first place.

 

What's next...a "Banquet for Bulimics?"

[CuriousInOregon 16]

I thought the purpose of going to a swing club was so you didn't have to masturbate?

 

Going to a club, only to spank your own monkey all night would seem to defeat the purpose of going in the first place.

 

What's next...a "Banquet for Bulimics?"

 

 

OUCH I do belive the question was NOT going go to a swingers club to masterbate but is there a CLUB that has masturbation instead of full on swap, Not to jump an ass but Read before you comment sometimes words can be hurtful as far as the question goes I have not Personally heard of any 'Masturbation clubs around here but Good Luck Surrender

[sereneiders 263]

I thought the purpose of going to a swing club was so you didn't have to masturbate?

 

Going to a club, only to spank your own monkey all night would seem to defeat the purpose of going in the first place.

 

What's next...a "Banquet for Bulimics?"

 

It's obvious that for you the masturbation is the last resource to get some pleasure when you cannot get "the real thing".

 

And it is obvious for the OP masturbation is just another way to express and enjoy their sexuality, not intended to replace "the real thing".

 

In any case, theres no reason to be harsh with them just because this isn't your cup of tea.

[JnCC 24]

OUCH I do belive the question was NOT going go to a swingers club to masterbate but is there a CLUB that has masturbation instead of full on swap, Not to jump an ass but Read before you comment sometimes words can be hurtful as far as the question goes I have not Personally heard of any 'Masturbation clubs around here but Good Luck Surrender

OK, serious answer then...

 

Yes, there ARE such clubs. One is in San Francisco, and was profiled in an episode of "Real Sex" a few years ago, but I have heard of others. As I recall, the problem with them was that they were supportive of mutual-masturbation only. Meaning that, even if the mood did strike to touch another, it was not permitted in the club. It seemed like a lot of people, flogging a lot of meat, but not really experiencing anything other than a sort of "shared loneliness." It's definitely a "fringe" activity, which means it may be hard to find such a group in every locale.

 

Gee, what do you think they show on the video monitors at clubs like that? Good, old-fashioned porn, or excerpts from "Beavis and Butthead" and "Something About Mary?"

[Thrax 384]

Gee, what do you think they show on the video monitors at clubs like that..."Something About Mary?"

Ooooooohhhh...fap, fap, fap...

 

Thrax

[JnCC 24]

Ooooooohhhh...fap, fap, fap...

 

Thrax

Yea, assuming they even have showers at the club, I don't think I'd be using their hair-gel...

[singleagain 26]

When I was growing up "mutual masturbation" was called a "circle jerk". If you participated people looked at you funny

[JnCC 24]

When I was growing up "mutual masturbation" was called a "circle jerk". If you participated people looked at you funny

And when you told them that you were the "Pivot Man" they looked at you REAL funny...

[Suncouple 32]

I remember an old Boy Scout legend about a party where a small number of boys would have a masturbation contest in the dark. Masturbation noises filled the room after lights out. The first one to come would shout out "done" to announce his winner-dom.

 

The lights would be turned on when the unlucky scout shouted "done!" and the winner would actually be the mark. Everyone else was fully clothed and staring at the embarrased Tenderfoot.

 

I don't know if this ever really happened but we were all warned.

[visaman 15]

In Vancouver, there used to be a men's only Vancouver Jacks club, but it was homo based, and folded ver quickly.

[BiloxiCouple 695]

Damn, and I thought the internet was suppose to be the information highway and has degenerated to whacking with porn.

 

I guess that means those adult magazines aren't intended for art?

 

Masturbation parties are great if that is what you want. Just like any other type of party you want to attend.

 

If you are enjoying what you are doing and hurting no one, then go for it. Everyone has an opinion, some just stink worse than others.

[Wife Watcher 20]

I would love to go to a masturbation club. The thought of men watching my wife play with herself is very arousing as well as the thought of me masturbating infront of strangers. I have masturbated infront of my wifes brother who is my age when we where team driving over the road. He enjoyed watching me but that's all that happened.

[daviscpl 15]

my wife and I would love to have party like that-- people jacking and jilling for others to watch and join in the fun maybe help each other get off-- that make us hot

[LagniappeDC 313]

Yes, they do exist. For couples or mixed parties, I believe the term is "Jack and Jill" parties. I don't know how common they are though. If you can't find them through google, try the Yahoo groups. Funny thing is is wasn't until today that I realized why they call them "jack and jill" parties thanks to daviscpl's comment!!