Cleanup after sex

[rw53aust 17]

AS we generally swing within a long standing group, condoms are rarely used. Few if any women make a dash for the bathroom straight after the man pulls out. However, we were with a different couple over the weekend and as soon as the sex was over, she would immeadiately grab a wad of tissues and run off. which leads to my question. How do others feel about cleaning up after sex. Should it happen straight away or should it wait at least until the post orgasmic euphoria has subsided. Most of the women in our group tend to leave it until the HAVE to visit the bathroom. Do we have a strange subculture in the group?

[THB 15]

My preference is somewhere between extremes. We have a friend who is a bit of a germ-o-phobe and heads for the Kleenex and the bathroom right away. I find it a bit irritating, as though there is something unclean. I like to cuddle a little with my partner and catch my breath. We'll get around to the clean up in a minute or three.

[rachan 53]

When we have our threesomes we don't clean up. My husband and my bf like to cum all over me and I rub it all over my tits, tummy and even my arms. I love the smell of cum and I like the way it feels.

 

Raeann

[Charger500 30]

We use baby wipes, they work like a champ!

[kush2112 20]

One of the best things about a MFM threesome is the chance to have two men shoot inside of me! My hubby loves the feeling of doing me when i am full of my other lovers cum! so, to us cleanup is a turnoff! you just need to make sure that your lovers are clean and d/d free.

[LFM2 1,482]

I know several women who are very susceptible to (Urinary tract infections) UTI's. They too, run to the bathroom immediately after sex because, if anyone has ever had one, they hurt like a bitch. I'm thinking it might not have anything to do with being unclean, just not wanting to feel like razor blades are running through them when they urinate.

 

I don't mind laying there for a while, but if I fall asleep and don't make it to the bathroom for some cleanup, I get one. They are NO FUN!!

 

Maybe this is the reason for the hurried trips to the bathroom?

 

Even a towel next to the bed is a good alternative.

 

Just a thought?

[JP51 40]

kind of funny, no one I know of rushes off....but the first one who does, brings back a nice warm wash cloth to clean the other up with, seems the ladies kind of like that touch, and return the favor, of they have worn me out...we do keep the wipes around for those times a little more cum than normal is around ...lol.

[biblonde 22]

there is usually a towel close by but we dont always rush to clean up. We did have one guy that made me squirt (and yes he knew ahead of time i do that) he jumped up ran into the kitchen and got a paper towel like he was freaked out. made me nervous at first but then when it happened again he thought it was cool. I guess he just didnt know what to expect. It was pretty funny to talk about on the way home. Hubby asked why he did that ...we were both laughing.

[Chicup 41]

I'm one of those guys who can make a BIG mess. Its been joked about in play sessions about needing extra towels when I'm there. If you don't clean up right away you will be cleaning the floor.

[mrs good times 73]

I like to take 5-10 minutes to relax and enjoy the after glow and prefer a hand towel or wash cloth close by but then I am off to the ladies room for a good cleaning.

 

I don't think running off to clean up is necessarily a bad thing. Urinating after sex does decrease UTI's and a finger douche will help alleviate smells caused by latex or sperm.

[Pepper & Drew 384]

a finger douche will help alleviate smells caused by latex or sperm.

 

Is that what it sounds like it is? Do tell....

 

Boy, the things you learn on the good 'ole SB!

 

Pepper

[mrs good times 73]

Is that what it sounds like it is? Do tell....

 

Boy, the things you learn on the good 'ole SB!

 

Pepper

 

Pretty simple really, just warm water on your hands, and you got it, stick the finger up there a few times to rinse things out. Of course a bidet would be best but I've never seen one at a club yet.

[havefuninsun 122]

Well, I never thought about it before ... seems to me that not immediately, but the girls find their way to the restroom and the guys find their way to the sink and wash cloth ... at home, Mr. Fun enjoys a post-climatic "sauna" -- after some cuddling, I go to the restroom and warm up a washcloth and clean him up ... he swears he can fill it down to his toes. I wonder if he has sex just so he can enjoy the sauna pampering? ... nah ... (and yes ladies, I get sauna's too. Quite enjoyable!)

[marksgirl2 16]

We will languish a bit, but if it was messy to the point of needing to cleanup to save the sheets/floor/etc... then the less incapacitated of us will get up and make up a batch a facecloths dampened with nice warm water. Then we clean each other, and the others, up for them. It's really pleasurable to have someone else run a warm washcloth over your bits and pieces and take care of any mess in the process.

[EvilMJ 65]

Lucky me I am one of those women who get UTI's very very easily so I have to be super careful about stuff like that. That and I hate the smell of latex.

So yes I do like to clean up after a couple of minutes to recoup myself. It is not an insult to anyone, I just know that I can't lay there for too long with out risk of going through a lot of pain in the future. - that also means no baby wipes either.

[djjwp 129]

I know several women who are very susceptible to (Urinary tract infections) UTI's.

 

This would be my wife, nothing personal, just never aquired a love for UTI's

[deusex 15]

We use baby wipes, they work like a champ!

 

Oh yeah, we tried those by accident and turned out to be quite the.. champ.

[essexcouple 15]

A towel nearby is the best thing, there's no need to rush to the bathroom unless you really want to, just keep a towel close to you, that's what I do, its just to stop getting the bed-sheets too messy!

[MikeandDawn 59]

AS we generally swing within a long standing group, condoms are rarely used. Few if any women make a dash for the bathroom straight after the man pulls out. However, we were with a different couple over the weekend and as soon as the sex was over, she would immeadiately grab a wad of tissues and run off. which leads to my question. How do others feel about cleaning up after sex. Should it happen straight away or should it wait at least until the post orgasmic euphoria has subsided. Most of the women in our group tend to leave it until the HAVE to visit the bathroom. Do we have a strange subculture in the group?

 

Most times, we'll wait until the excitement dies down, then shower together. Althoug, this often leads to another session (or two, or three).

[JandKinBoise 858]

Usually in am mmf, J will get the area around her pretty swampy. I can sympathize with the women who get infections unless they clean up quickly. If I don't get a wash cloth and clean my crotch, I can get jock itch. So I tend to scamper off, sometimes even during sex to dry off. I always bring a warm cloth back to blot her down some. Then a glass of water and back to the races!

[Sirramm 111]

For us we like to wait to cleanup. The hubby loves sex with one or more of my lovers cum inside me. I have the greatest orgasm while hubby is inside me knowing another mans cum is in me. Not to mention hubby really gets off going down on me after I've been had by another man. NO it's not a cuckold thing he just genuinely likes the taste of cum. Besides it gets me off like mad!!!!

[oc1234 435]

When my wife and I have a threesome with our best friend, after a little postcoital bliss, I'm usually the one who gets up and showers first, allowing he and my wife to cuddle a bit. They then often take a shower together.

[GuyInMD79 1,500]

To the OP (rw53aust), no, I don't think you are strange. You are just lucky enough to be part of a group that you know is safe, and with whom you are all comfortable. Good for you!

 

When we host at home, we try to have a couple of towels available within arm's reach near the bed, along with a pack of wet wipes (they are sold for things like camping use, rather than being straight baby wipes). We also have plenty of washcloths available at the sink.

 

I don't think we are insulted if someone gets up to clean up right after sex, as long as they've stuck around until our panting has calmed down a little!

 

Mrs. Good Times, I really like your idea of having a bidet at a lifestyle club. As the Mr. of our couple, it's maybe not as directly for me, but I can imagine that the women would love it! I am going to put that in the suggestion box at every club I visit!

[dns4sexxxx 16]

The one thing I like about condoms is cleanup is a breeze. With out condom the wife and I tend to have a towel so we can wipe down pretty soon after the session is done. That way we can go right to sleep/nap if we want to.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

My wife didn't like being wet and messy until I told her how disappointed I was about her going to the bathroom to "clean up". It took a little time for her to get used to the feeling of being "wet and messy". It's an awesome feeling when she is beginning to get a little sticky and is getting a round two.

[Sophy 569]

We use two sets of towels,

Before sex (or somethimes during sex) we specify our guests which towels are for the face-sweat and which towels are for the private parts including cum cleaning.

[Lascivious L&L 866]

The best thing for quick, thorough, efficient cleaning is a device called the Bio Bidet. It goes on your toilet bowl under the toilet seat and offers the functions of a bidet for $79. I recommend the BB 270 although there are fancier and more expensive ones. It cleans both your butt and crotch with warm water very quickly. There are so many times when a quick private parts cleaning is the perfect solution that I'm surprised most swingers don't have one.

 

And no, I'm not a salesman for them or get a commission. I just love it.

[2lovers 87]

I love sloppy second. My husband knows that and usually jump in right after other lovers shoot his load in me. I also get a second orgasm with my husband then, it feel great. Then the 2 guys got warm towel and clean me up while I am just laying there to enjoy post-orgasmic )) Luvky me !!

[couplers 4,652]

Regardless of what combination of our three-woman, two-man family has gone at it, the others enjoy playing in the mess afterwards. Each of us, girl or guy, sees it as a treat to play with the consequences of another couple's love making. We girls are luckier because we can play with a messy cock or pussy, while the guys will play only with a girl.

 

 

All the yuck is cleaned up afterwards by putting the sheets in the washer and ourselves in the shower.

[Sophy 569]

At the begging, I used to wash my privates between plays in the same night, but that was causing me several problems, I was getting irritated very easily during sex and I was finding difficult to get lubricated after water entered me. We were new and we thought that was the etiquette.

Then we learn than a wash after sex was not necessary, a quick clean up externally with some Baby-Wipes is more than enough,that way I feel much more comfortable and I can resume action immediately in most cases. In the event that I was condomless with someone I usually sit in the toilet for a minute before clean myself with the Baby-Wipes.

 

That is how I do it and that is how most of our friends do it as well.

[ZoDee 81]

We use two sets of towels,

Before sex (or somethimes during sex) we specify our guests which towels are for the face-sweat and which towels are for the private parts including cum cleaning.

 

Just surprised nobody has mentions colourer cloth nappies. Grab a pack of 12 & there's plenty to go round.

Baby wipes for the final touch up if needed.

[MrDiscover 802]

Towels first and then baby wipes. We always bring a few extra towels with us since hotel rooms have towels for two people, not enough even for showering if you are with three or four.

[kikonkrome 844]

We shower quickly if moving on to another couple. We add mouth wash to the equation as well.

 

If it's the same couple, or group, there really isn't much clean up just cuddling.

[edtungsten5858 29]

We don't clean up and have said so in our ad once in a while.

[GMOFLEISURE 221]

Nothing like that post coital wet washrag toss to show u care.

[enhancer 1,585]

I like to be clean! After I am done I go to the bathroom and wash it with soap and water giving it a couple tugs to get everything out. Ms Enhancer appreciate how clean I keep it gives me lots of attention down there, because of it.

 

I used to think my system was a little weird until I read Ron Jeremy's book. He states in his book that as soon as he is done a scene he goes to the bathroom and washes his unit giving it a couple tugs to get all the fluid out. He also believes this is one of the reasons he has been able to avoid the infections that some of the others on the set end up getting. Don't know if there is any truth to this, but it sure doesn't hurt to be clean.

[Sophy 569]

well, Condomless sex with me is always a mess, for some reason I can't hold much cum inside me, as soon as the penis is removed or loses its erection most of the cum goes out... I always keep a towel handy for that part of the encounter, Then I usually go and sit in the toilet for a minute to allow the rest of the cum to run out, then a can use Baby wipes for an external clean up, I do not clean or watch inside me, that can cause me a big time irritation that will ruin my night.

[GMOFLEISURE 221]

Regardless of what combination of our three-woman, two-man family has gone at it, the others enjoy playing in the mess afterwards. Each of us, girl or guy, sees it as a treat to play with the consequences of another couple's love making. ....

 

I've found the oral clean up is more fun. Its another opportunity for the multi orgasmic woman. Never had a problem taking care of my own mess.

 

We girls are luckier because we can play with a messy cock or pussy, while the guys will play only with a girl.

 

Your men need to expand their horizons

[EastInWest 1,524]

Mrs. EastInWest is very high-energy and always busy, so she's usually cleaning herself up in a matter of a few moments. Not for hygiene reasons, just because it's the next thing on her personal to-do list. There have been plenty of times we slipped in a session outdoors/in the back of the car/etc. and she walked around or had drinks with friends full of cum for a few hours without any complaint.

 

As for me, I'm lucky that she has developed a habit of giving me a little tongue-polishing before she runs off to clean up, so she always sucks out the last few drops. It's my preference to laze around for a bit while she does her thing then pop in to rinse myself off once I pull myself together.

[Willing57 15]

I dream of putting my cock in a filled up pussy. The messier the better.

[bedwarrior2016 17]

I'm never in rush to run to clean up, but I do not like my semen sliding off my own body, which irritates me.

[GMOFLEISURE 221]

I'm never in rush to run to clean up, but I do not like my semen sliding off my own body, which irritates me.

 

I'd not mind licking it off it that will help u

[ShortnTall 15]

We keep a towel near by. Thanks

[padoc 1,703]

We live in Florida so after a romp, we often bring a drink or water and our guests out to the pool and hot tub. We combine a rinse and a float with a cuddle and sometimes start round two. If we're with friends up north or even if its just the two of us, Mrs Doc always heads for the bathroom shortly after we're done because she too is susceptible to the dreaded UTI's.

[oc1234 435]

Recently we have been having a lot of threesomes with a friend in a his waterbed. He keeps some dry washcloths in the headboard. We use those for an initial clean up because it is very difficult to get out of a waterbed, and especially difficult if you are trying to get out out without really messing up the bed.

[jappleo 15]

My wife and I are just considering swinging so I can't answer in regards to swinging, but I can say that I've been with women who have jumped up immediately and run to the shower. I don't like that. It always kind of feels like a rejection of some kind. Like I'm poisonous. I like to cuddle after sex and this kind of kills the moment.

 

My wife and I use towels strategically placed.