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Do you have face pics in your online swinger ads?

Do you have face pics in your online ads?  

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  1. 1. Do you have face pics in your online ads?

    • Yes, open (not private photos) have face pics.
      80
    • No, we keep our faces completely private.
      61
    • We wait until we get to know them enough... (how long?)
      64


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Hidden for most public albums, open for private. We are unveiled here because it seems to be 99% USA membership, the chances of us being found are minimal.

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We share face pics, but until we talk with other people for a while, we don't share any other pics, we feel that getting to know each other and talking is very important, we want to know that we all feel comfortable with each other even before sharing intimate pics and even meeting in person.

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We use white out to block the upper part of the face but left enough for the viewer to be given a reasonable idea of what we look like.

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How in the world did I miss this thread all of these years?

 

Yes, we have face pictures. We are doing nothing illegal, neither of us will ever run for a local, state, or national office, we don't care if the any rabbi, priest, minister or preacher knows (they would only be envious, in any case) and if one of the kids spotted a picture we 'd just say, "well, what were you doing at that Web site, anyway?" As far as my professional associates are concerned, they already have plenty of evidence that my wife and I are crazy and I'm still employed.

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Our jobs are too 'professional' to risk face pictures. We wait a week or so and will send a pic thru email, generally after they do-- but sometimes we are the first ones to send the pics.

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Yes we have face pictures just about everywhere. We are very open about your lifestyle. Everyone who gets to know us, vanilla or otherwise, knows that we are not ashamed of it. Even if we were to run for office we would not hide it.

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We debated about face pics. but we feel like if your on here looking then what are you looking for? prob same thing as us :rollseye:

 

While I totally understand some people's reason for keeping them private, as long as their willing to open them after contact is made then that is fine.

 

We made the mistake about meeting a couple blind.....don't think that will happen again :eek:

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While we are not in a position to worry or care about being outed, there are WAY too many fakes and picture harvesters out there. SO we don't do face pics or give phone numbers, etc out. If people want to see faces, come to the events. We don't wear masks, unless that is the deal at the event. Penis pulling pic collectors don't come to meet and greets, clubs, and parties.

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Because Mary had a public position where she could be fired for 'moral turpitude,' we only opened our private pictures which included our faces when we had made a date to meet. If our potential partners didn't understand that, we figured they/he weren't the playmates we wanted.

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No face pics on sls/aff.  But we do have some on the local swing club's page where getting membership approved in person at the club is required to get access. With the naughty bits in a private album.

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When we first registered we had blurred pictures on our profile with full face shown when we believed the others were not fake. We had full nudes, non-sexual pictures we would share as our texts went along. 
Presently our picture is blurred again. 

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