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What are your hangups & traits you hate?

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We do not like:

 

Our pet peeve are the folks that talk about others they have swung with. We have a great looking couple near us that are now well, “over certified” for our taste. (Read bed notchers) but we met them for dinner one night at a local beach restaurant and she was wonderful but he just went on and on about the people he knew and they had slept with, naming names and companies they work for!! :nono: We did not want on that list so we left asap.

 

The wife can not handle smokers (asthma) or load noise. We have really great club near us and it seemed most of the folks smoked and thus we have only gone once. The music was also too loud and we could not even talk to the couple we went to meet there.

 

Lounge lizards. It blows my mind how many guys have hot woman as their mate and post her pictures and then you see him and go aghhhhhh!!! :eek: Polyester went out along time ago guys!

 

Heavy or poorly groomed folks. It's just not what we are looking for.

 

Drunks. ::P:

 

We do like:

 

Folks that are comfortable with themselves and can hold a real conversation. We look for friends in the lifestyle, not one night stands. We enjoy folks who are easy to look at and open about any subject matter without being offended. We look for people that are as willing to give us a hand working on a home project as they are helping please the spouse. Why are these folks so had to find?

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bad teeth or poor dental hygiene

too much perfume/cologne

women who swear they can't orgasm and it is pointless to attempt it (why are they swinging?)

women with tons of makeup on

guys who try to "oneup" your husband

men who live with their mothers

people who don't show up to meetings

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1) Couples who air their dirty laundry (have a fight) while you are on a date.

 

2) Couples who share questionable things about their past.

 

3) Couples where one half seems to stand back and just allow their partner to party yet doesn't seem overly happy with the situation (see this a lot with males watching their wives go after the single males)

 

4) Stripping off too much in a club, hey leave something to the immagination.

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The biggest problem is after the swinging, the other couple wants to get into our personal life and become Facebook friends and always wanting to socialize. When we swap we want to keep our personal lives separate and just have fun. During sex is the typical reluctant swing partner or someone who can't get up. We have had some that drank too much or was pulled up.

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