Golden showers - ever done it?

[BrightonCouple 15]

Has anyone on this site ever done a golden shower or any other type of pee play? And if so, how did you like it??

[visaman 15]

I have had golden showers done on me, and I love it, just don't have done in your mouth, I learned that lesson the hard way!

[TomF_22033 17]

Is anyone on this site ever done a golden shower or any other type of pee play?...And if so....how did you like it??

 

I've done golden showers once. Nothing that turned me on, and not on my list of things to do again. But, if I had a partner or partners that wanted to be pissed on, I'd gladly do it. If they wanted to do it to me, I'd also do it, but again it's not my thing. Oh yea, as far as hard limits, I wouldn't drink it, and draw the line at being forced to. That would be a deal breaker.

 

As for those who are curious but don't want to post. The feeling is pretty much just a warm feeling. Think of water from a warm watergu.

[FlaPlaya561 48]

In my opinion it's YUCK, but in Paltalk there is a video webcam and voice room called Golden Showers and it has so many people in there you can't even join. So imagine what is going on in there???

[LFM2 1,482]

Personally, I don't even want to try it. I happen to think it's gross.

 

I have a male friend that loves them. He loves the taste, the odor, and the feeling of being showered. He has a little blow-up pool that he uses for his female friends.

 

I have a female friend who also likes it when a man showers her. She says it has an erotic feeling to it.

 

To each their own.

[ShellyM 0]

Is anyone on this site ever done a golden shower or any other type of pee play?...And if so....how did you like it??

 

NOPE. We put in our sls profile that if you need to pee please find a toilet, because you are not pissing on me lol.

[Amanda69 24]

Nope and no interest in this fetish. I don't like the smell of urine and certainly wouldn't want any put anywhere on my body or to do so to someone else.

[FlaPlaya561 48]

I'm a pretty open-minded guy. I like a lot of sexual things, but that is just plain old YUK.

[massio345 15]

Female urine is something erotic, I think. If you ask me, in a sexual relationship there are no boundaries. If someone likes a golden shower and the other does not, then there is no reason to hurt the other person's feelings. To all of those that have plain disgust in urination, let me ask you a question, did you like the fellatio with a swallow your girlfriend gave you not long ago? Or the cunnilingus your boyfriend has given you just the other day? Well the taste is the same, the amount of bodily fluids are almost the same, but just a little more cheesy.

[Spoomonkey 420]

massio345 said:

If you ask me, in a sexual relationship there are no boundaries.

 

None at all?

 

Come now... I am sure you can think of a few things you might not do - things you might consider outside of your comfort zone.

 

massio345 said:

Female urine is something erotic, I think. If you ask me, in a sexual relationship there are no boundaries. If someone likes a golden shower and the other does not, then there is no reason to hurt the other person's feelings. To all of those that have plain disgust in urination, let me ask you a question, did you like the fellatio with a swallow your girlfriend gave you not long ago? Or the cunnilingus your boyfriend has given you just the other day? Well the taste is the same, the amount of bodily fluids are almost the same, but just a little more cheesy.

 

Yes - there is a similarity in urine and other bodily fluids... In that they are all fluids...

 

I'll take you a step further and say that ejaculate does have some amount of urine in it, however minor... However, it is still not urine - and it is still not pissing on each other. There is a difference no matter how you look at it.

 

What people are interested in is fine by us - as long as they respect what we are interested in (i.e. if you want to piss on someone, don't piss on us). Quite a few folks share this fetish and it should be relatively simple to find someone who is interested in exploring it. But I doubt very seriously you would ever "sell" most of us on it. It's just not our bag.

[TomF_22033 17]

massio345 said:

Female urine is something erotic, I think. If you ask me, in a sexual relationship there are no boundaries. If someone likes a golden shower and the other does not, then there is no reason to hurt the other person's feelings. To all of those that have plain disgust in urination, let me ask you a question, did you like the fellatio with a swallow your girlfriend gave you not long ago? Or the cunnilingus your boyfriend has given you just the other day? Well the taste is the same, the amount of bodily fluids are almost the same, but just a little more cheesy.

 

I agree with SpoonMonkey. There are plenty of limits. I won't do needles, blood, scat, children, animals, to just name a few.

 

As for the taste of fluids. Again, everyone is different. Remember the brain is the largest sex organ, so if you have a hang up about the smell, taste, etc., then you won't be turned on period. To each his/her own.

[ShellyM 0]

Female urine is something erotic, I think. If you ask me, in a sexual relationship there are no boundaries. If someone likes a golden shower and the other does not, then there is no reason to hurt the other person's feelings. To all of those that have plain disgust in urination, let me ask you a question, did you like the fellatio with a swallow your girlfriend gave you not long ago? Or the cunnilingus your boyfriend has given you just the other day? Well the taste is the same, the amount of bodily fluids are almost the same, but just a little more cheesy.

 

Hey, to each their own, no problem. But I'm still not letting anyone piss on me.

[Dooode 18]

ShellyM said:

Hey,

to each their own, no problem.

But I'm still not letting anyone piss on me.

 

Oh, c'mon Shelly. Don't you wanna be pissed on?

 

No one's pissed on me neither.

 

Although I got a facial by a squirter once. If anyone actually manages to convince me that female ejaculate is piss, I might have to revise my answer.

[nice_cpl_n_bama 24]

I feel like I need a shower just reading this thread... With scalding hot water and brillo.

No thank you on the pee.

[FlaPlaya561 48]

I get the EVEE GEEEVVV'S ...thinking about it ...

[BiBootie 18]

I certainly don't want one but I guess I'd give one if asked.

[OpenToSound 15]

My girl and I love it. We take golden showers a lot. While I understand that it is not for everyone. We have always had a great time with it. Scat, we will not do and are not interested in. But golden showers have made some wonderful memories. Again, boundary respect is important, but there is also a need to have an ability to talk openly and without fear about all the weird and crazy ideas that either of you have. Open communication, and open minds have changed the world more than once. We would love to find another couple that was interested in such things but we understand why people would not like it and so thusly respect everyone's limitations.

[ohash01 20]

My "germ thing" which you will find me talking about on here quite a bit, prevents me from doing it. Health class told me that urine is completely sterile, being 95% water, but I just can't believe that. I just picture evil little germies attempting to escape by any means necessary.

 

Mr. gets a stomach bug and I walk around with a surgical face mask, rubber gloves, and a can of lysol in a cute little holster on my belt. (Ok...I lied about the holster, but if anyone on here sews, I could be convinced to buy one!)

 

I think I'm more fascinated to see a man pee standing up (in the toilet...or even in a bush) just cause I've never seen it and I'm a curious critter. I'm sure it's not as fascinating as I am making it, but it's something I can't do...therefore it's interesting to me.

[SueRic 17]

ohash01 said:

Health class told me that urine is completely sterile, being 95% water....

 

It is, unless the person has an infection. Then it isn't.

[Dooode 18]

OpenToSound said:

My girl and I love it. We take golden showers a lot. While I understand that it is not for everyone.

 

That's great that you are so open on the subject.

 

I have spoken to a few DOM's over the years and I've discussed the subject of golden showers. Aside from the humiliation aspect in a BDSM lifestyle, do you find that there is also a role of ownership or of being owned? i.e. as in a wolf marking his territory or as one being claimed as a territory?

 

I have never participated in golden showers myself, but I find the subject interesting. A couple who are swing friends had met a another couple who were into golden showers. They found it interesting, which brought up a dialog.

 

I'd like to know your thoughts in more detail as to how it relates to your fantasies. You may answer in private, if you wish.

[OpenToSound 15]

We don't see it as a Dom thing. While I can understand how it could be that is not what we like about it. I guess it all can be traced back to the fact that the lady produces a large amount of fluids during sex and it quickly became a fetish for male half. And of course we both love a squirter 😛 Also, the two of us have been able to produce an environment of open discussion and communication about everything. We will often write each other erotic stories containing the wildest of wild situations that we can think of. Some of these stories contain a fun and healthy one-up-manship trying to get crazier and push each others limits. Then if there is mutual interest or something that the other never thought about we try it and see if we like it. That is how we came up with golden showers. You never know what you are going to like. It also helps that we both enjoy situations that make us uncomfortable, not knowing what to do or how one will react is a rush that we have both come to really enjoy, so that helped as well.

 

Also, while we are always open to try new things and experiment with different activities we add a bit more. We not only want to try it but we want to understand why others like it or understand what about the activity is appealing to others. Our logic is, the more you like, the more fun there is to be had. A bad example of this may be to relate it to wine. When many people have their first glass of wine they often like white wine. Eventually they begin to enjoy red wine as well once they try it and find some that they like. The more they try the more they can enjoy. Next thing you know there is a wine cellar in the basement!

 

Again, golden showers are a bit different then wine. And it is important to always respect everyone's boundaries. Some things are not for everyone. But it is still important to respect everyone's idea of what fun is regardless of if you would consider it fun yourself. Everyone is different and that is what makes life exciting.

 

To attempt to answer your questions though, I would suggest that if it is something you are interested in trying, then have a few drinks (beer, I have found works best because it will send you to the restroom a few times through out the night and so by the 2nd or 3rd trip 'all is clear'), drink a lot of water through out the day (cuts down on odor) and be the RECEIVER first. I say be the receiver first because that seems to be the lesser desired position, so be brave, be willing to take the big step first. But most importantly, as with all new experiences, BE WILLING TO ENJOY YOURSELF. If you are not willing to open your mind and are not willing to enjoy it then you will not.

 

If you enjoy it that is great! If not then that is more than ok as well. Some things just are not for everyone.

[Tia Vampire 167]

I wish a b**** would pee on me. I swear it would be the last time he or she ever pees.

[Dooode 18]

BTW, OpentoSound:

 

Thanks for your response. I've read it a few times and worked on absorbing what you had to say on the subject.

 

I just wanted to let you know that you weren't being ignored.

[2forfunplay 15]

The smell alone bugs the hell out of us. Nothing like your partner smelling like a men's room.

 

Sorry, please move on to the next bush. Pun taken or not, your choice.

[edtungsten5858 29]

Swing bud has no interest, but I have indulged with others and I enjoy it.

[padoc 1,701]

In a pc world we speak of golden showers and scat. In fact, it is shit and piss and they belong in the little room NEXT to the bedroom!!! Anything else would be a total deal breaker for both of us.

[Guest]

It is difficult for someone to comment in a meaningful way if they haven’t experienced it. I don’t like spinach because I don’t like the smell. But, by god, those Oysters Rockefeller are just great. I did a gangbang once, was fucked, covered with cum and then had a golden shower from several participants. It was exciting. Frankly, I had never thought about golden showers to that point but given the additional humiliation it added and the “I’m such a nasty girl” frame of mine at the time, it extended the "turn on" of the whole experience. Also, after all of the heated activity, I was cold and the urine felt so warm. Guess its one of those, don’t knock it until you have tried it things. Like most of you I would have said no, and it is nothing I have asked for since, but...

[asncpl 728]

chiccouplexx said:

It was exciting. Frankly, I had never thought about golden showers to that point but given the additional humiliation it added and the “I’m such a nasty girl” frame of mine at the time, it extended the "turn on" of the whole experience.

 

Being into some BDSM and a submissive, I echo this comment that the humiliation and nasty girl feeling did it for me. I used to say no way to golden shower. If a partner wanted me to pee on them, no problem. But they're not peeing on me. Then I tried it in a BDSM setting (no sex involved) and I surprised myself that I enjoyed the feeling. It's not something I would do all the time, but I certainly have acquired a taste for it. hehe.

[nudeway 42]

The wife and I have done it a few times. I introduced the idea but it ended up that she is now more into it than I am. I had done it with two other women but I am the only one she had done it with. If you drink enough water than the taste and smell is not so bad.

[Butchj 65]

My massage therapist was quite kinky and one afternoon after giving me my massage she knew I was quite horny. She wasn’t in the mood to get me off herself and decided to play a game. She suggested I get in the clawfoot bathtub and sit down. Standing over the tub she opened up her labia lips started pissing all over my crotch. She then told me to use her pee to masturbate and come all over myself. I found out right away that urine was quite sticky and actually it made a good lubricant for masturbation. Quite turned on she watched me jack off and shoot come all over myself. She just laughed and told me to take a shower and join her back in the playroom.

[Butchj 65]

My wife now his trained herself to urinate in mouthfuls. One night before sex she took me into the bathtub making me kneel down and she put the magic blue pill in my mouth and fed me a mouthful of urine to wash it down. My first taste of gold and champagne. I swallowed without thinking and then she had me sit in the shower and wash my body with the rest of her golden fluids. She then had me clean her pussy with my tongue and give her an orgasm before we went to bed. She reassured me that if she has to take my semen in her mouth then I should have no problem swallowing her urine. She had already trained me to welcome her French kiss after sucking my cock and make me come and her mouth feeding me the entire load.

[let's do it again 412]

I love it. I never pissed in anyone's mouth and I have never drank piss and don't know if I will, but I have pissed on women in a variety of ways. I have had more women want to stand behind me and reach around to hold my cock to piss. I choice is pissing on each other in the shower or in public like on a hiking trail or woods.

[Anon321 520]

I just did this again the other day when my buddy wanted to piss on my GF.  I only piss on my GF in a group setting if there is another guy who wants to piss on her otherwise I almost never do it.  It's not really my thing especially if you're doing it as part of the sex play in between.  I feel like it breaks up the momentum of things.  And it feels much better to have a hard cock inside her pussy than a soft dick insider her mouth while pissing.  My buddy on the other hand can almost piss on demand with an erection.  She can be sucking his hard dick and he can start pissing in her mouth whereas I have to take a break, lose my erection, and then get my pissing going.  It's another one of those things where the visual is hot - seeing her drink piss and get pissed on.  But when we're actually having sex I can never think of a time where I wanted to just stop everything so I can piss on her.

[Numex 2,371]

I've never done it nor had it done to me, I'm just not interested.

 

Daniela had a lover before we met that had always wanted a woman to piss on him, but his wife wouldn't do it, so she did.  She didn't mind, but she did see the point of it either.  She said that there was also the problem that he wanted to do it as foreplay to turn him on and then fuck, which was a problem from the mess standpoint.  She would only do it either after they fucked and she had her orgasms or somewhere other than her house.

Edited December 26, 2022 by Numex