Full Swap swinging, Soft Swap swinging, or ?

[OhioCouple 40]

All swingers have their preferences when it comes to playtime. What do you prefer?

 

I have tried to set this poll up so that singles and couples who also swing with singles and other couples may be able to answer it.

 

You may choose more than one option.

 

**EDIT** Please remember to vote by preference more so than what you are willing to settle for with others.

[Mariposa_y_Oso 15]

How are we supposed to get to know one another better if we do this by secret ballot?

 

We generally don't go "all the way" the first time we play with a couple, but we prefer the full swap with some bisexual activity (Mari is bi, but I am straight). Of course, depending upon the situation, almost any of those could happen.

 

I have a question regarding the soft swap with no body fluids...isn't saliva considered a bodily fluid? Or does that just refer to touching and no kissing?

 

Cheers!

[OhioCouple 40]

Ya'll just crack me up! Well many people have a problem relaying their personal preferences in print. Therefore a poll so that anyone can vote.

 

As for the soft swap - no bodily fluids, I suppose I could have worded it better, but that bold notice says to keep it short and to the point! My meaning behind that was you only play with your significant other in every way shape and form. Ie, no exchange of kissing, or oral sex, pretty much just having sex with your mate in the same vicinity of another couple doing the same.

 

Lori

[dave_susie2001 15]

We full swap with "no exchange of bodily fluids." What I mean by that is that when we are with a couple that we know well and don't use condoms, we don't "cum inside." The reasons are varied, but here they are:

 

A) Even though there IS some exchange of bodily fluids, it's much less than a full load of semen, therefore it reduces the risk associated with swapping body fluids.

 

B) I (Dave) don't like the taste of semen, and if I want to go down on the woman, I would prefer not to slurp up a load of cum (my own, or otherwise) while I'm doing it.

[Tanman aka Mike and Marie 16]

I thought "soft" regarded anything with another couple EXCEPT insertion?

 

When did this change and why wasn't I notified?

 

:rofl: :rofl:

[CanadianCouple 18]

Lori --

 

We prefer full swap, although we'll adhere to any limits the other couple insist on.

 

Would you mind us asking where you and Gene fall in that poll?

[Regularguy 17]

Why would a guy think it is hot for his woman to lick her pussy juice off the guys dick, but refuse to go down on her afte rhe came in her?

 

When I come in a woman and she wants some more oral sex, I don't hesitate any more then a woman does when she goes down on the guy after he has been in her wet pussy.

 

Dave wrote; "A) Even though there IS some exchange of bodily fluids, it's much less than a full load of semen, therefore it reduces the risk associated with swapping body fluids."

 

Why is there more of a risk from semen but not pussy juice? I swallow as much pussy juice over 5-30 minutes then women I am with from 10 seconds of me shooting come.

[thesexmonsters 15]

Hey, you left out "Full swap - but bi-sexual activity between women only!"

[bimrdcpl 15]

The hubby and I enjoy full swap, with condoms. We just cant imagine being in a room with another couple exchanging oral and none of the other fun stuff.

 

That's our story and we're sticking to it.

 

Happy Holidays Everyone!!!!

Dawn

[vevaycpl 15]

Way to go Sexmonsters!!!! we would fall into your catagoy. We also believe it would be right there at the top of the preference poll.

[dave_susie2001 15]

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Originally posted by Regularguy

Why would a guy think it is hot for his woman to lick her pussy juice off the guys dick, but refuse to go down on her after he came in her?

 

When I come in a woman and she wants some more oral sex, I don't hesitate any more then a woman does when she goes down on the guy after he has been in her wet pussy.

 

Regular Guy...

 

To each his/her own. I don't "expect" a woman to do anything when we're with another couple. If she wants to go down on me after I've fucked her...great. If not....that's fine too. All I said was that I didn't like the taste of semen. Therefore, one of our rules was that there was no cumming inside.

 

 

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Originally posted by Regularguy

Dave wrote; "A) Even though there IS some exchange of bodily fluids, it is much less than a full load of semen."

 

Why is there more of a risk from semen but not pussy juice? I swallow as much pussy juice over 5-30 minutes then women I am with from 10 seconds of me shooting come. [/b]

 

Why is there more of a risk from semen than there is from saliva? Why is there more of a risk from Blood than semen? Hey, I'm no microbiologist...that's just the way it is (to my limited understanding.)

 

Maybe I should have said, "Even though there IS some exchange of bodily fluids,"STATISTICALLY THE RISK is much less than a full load of semen." There have been many discussions on this board about STD's and safe sex. In fact, there is a whole forum just for this subject. Everyone has their own feelings on safe sex, and from what I've seen, there isn't anything that anyone can say that will change anyone else's feelings on it.

 

In any case, to each his own. Keep doing what you like....keep expressing your opinions....and happy swinging.

[LowPurrCpl 15]

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Originally posted by dave_susie2001

In any case, to each his own. Keep doing what you like....keep expressing your opinions....and happy swinging.

Dave_Susie2001... That why I Love this group! Great attitude and well said.

 

As for the poll... The Mrs. and I are still 'feelin our way around' on this subject. Our comfort level tends to change, and depends much on the specific scenario, and how comfortable we are with the other couple(s). We've both been interested in "all of the above" at one time or another.

[NorCal Nites 15]

Where is full swap with only same sex for the women/men?

 

We full swap, but other than male/female and assistance from 2nd male, the men don't play with one another.

[Alura 2,773]

We've swapped with our playmates. But we might choose to do something different in the future. Does anyone have any good ideas?

[jcbicouple 24]

Our vote was for full swap with all parties. However, "swapping" really isn't a good term for our play experiences. We prefer one big pile, with everyone playing together.

 

Would never do separate rooms, or even separate beds. We like to enjoy the experience together, whether playing with a man, woman, or couple.

[Chicup 41]

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Originally posted by thesexmonsters

Hey, you left out "Full swap - but bi-sexual activity between women only!"

 

 

Ditto, I assume it was an oversight, male straight female bi is about the most common swing combo there is.

[hmr 25]

Never quite understood the idea of soft swap. If you are naked with another couple and having sex..... well. It would just seem to progress to intercourse.

 

And, we too like the big pile orgies.

 

[leftcoastcouple 32]

Originally posted by hmr

Never quite understood the idea of softswap. If your naked with another couple and having sex..... well. It would just seem to progress to intercourse.

OK, so it's not just me?

 

Wife and I were talking about this last weekend (during sex), and she said she'd be turned on by same room, but in a different way. I could see her point, but...not entirely.

 

If we're all there and willing to get that intimate. Well, come on, let's all play together is how I feel. Too frustrating not to.

[fun_pairTX 26]

We are also Full swap with female bi-activities

[OhioCouple 40]

Originally posted by fun_pairTX

We are also Full swap with female bi-activities

A new option is added, ya'll can now vote.

[mrnorcalnites 15]

Full swap with bi-f.

[Roxysbayou 20]

We are into pretty much anything, lol. Full swap is good, but I have to have at least some bi play. We usually just follow the guidelines set by the other couple.

 

Roxy

[Maus-Katz 16]

Big pile  

is all we've known....

 

there are other options?

[Terrileex 15]

Your poll shows only 7 for full swap people, but most of the profiles say they full swap. We too enjoy the full swap, but we also like other things that were not listed. We're sure other people do to. Thanks for the poll though, it was interesting for us.:slam"

[Greg & Sheryl 368]

We selected "Full swap all the way - no bi-sexual activity," but that was before the "Full Swap with Bi-Female Activities Only" option was added. Is there any way we can change our vote?

[Vjklander 138]

Actually, I think we qualify for 4-5 answers. Anything that includes sex and decludes MM is fine with us.

[er713 15]

We are full swap with bi-F activity. We both like it that way.

[customhardtail 17]

We like full swap with bi F play...we also like everyone in one big pile...and FMF...oh and did I mention MFM.

 

It's all good!

[Illicitlovers 17]

If we meet a couple we really like,we tend to go with what the other couple is comfortable with.Like lately we have just met a local couple who is only comfortable with girl+girl play and oral play with the other couples spouse.........i'm o'k with that.......maybe when everone is comfortable with eachother it will progress.........but the hubby and i really enjoy full swap with girl+girl play.

 

-Carole

[tribbles 490]

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We prefer one big pile, with everyone playing together

 

So there is hope for our fantasies!

We aren't doing full intercourse on the first play however, we are new at this, so need to feel our way

[allycat 15]

Full Swap with bi-females only. Can't get the hubby to take one for the team!Give me time.

[CuriousInOregon 16]

I have to say this is a great poll Really opened my eyes to how many people do not Full swap on the first meet, I am still new to the idea of swinging, We have not got out feet wet as of now, But we do have a potential meet this summer, We have discussed what we like, don't like, Rules, Limitations, and just about everything under the sun, We have only been talking online a few months but it feels like much longer, I was a little concerned about the Idea of Full Swap on the first meet, BUT we have all 4 discussed the fact that if at any time No happens then its over, We pick up and go on with our day. I am quite excited about the Prospect of seeing my husband with another woman, I am however not sure about myself being with another woman, I just thought you might like a little insite from someone who hasnt done it yet.

[txduo2000 18]

I voted full swap - no bisexual activity.

 

I (fem) am not bisexual. I am not ashamed of this fact. I am not unaware that I seem to be the minority. Chicks just don't turn me on ...

 

With that said, I will "play" (because to me, that's all it is) with another woman on a "light" basis. If she wants to do oral on me, that's fine. But I don't do it ... and I make that clear. I don't expect it, so I don't expect that women should expect it from me.

 

I am not repulsed by bisexual female activity; it's just not my thing. I LOVE, in just about every way, MEN!!!!!

 

Though I have some bi-fem friends who try to convert me, and try to convince me that I would "love it" with a girl ... I am absolutely convinced that there is nothing that a woman can do for me that I can't get better from a man. I am convinced of this because I HAVE had bisexual interludes ... I have had two different women perform oral on me. But I have had countless men, and by far, they are always the BEST.

[skewBdooB 15]

depends on the couple or person/s involved me personally i like full swap

[skewBdooB 15]

full swap

[katejustkate 15]

I voted full swap - no bisexual activity.

 

I (fem) am not bisexual. I am not ashamed of this fact. I am not unaware that I seem to be the minority. Chicks just don't turn me on ...

 

With that said, I will "play" (because to me, that's all it is) with another woman on a "light" basis. If she wants to do oral on me, that's fine. But I don't do it ... and I make that clear. I don't expect it, so I don't expect that women should expect it from me.

 

I am not repulsed by bisexual female activity; it's just not my thing. I LOVE, in just about every way, MEN!!!!!

 

Though I have some bi-fem friends who try to convert me, and try to convince me that I would "love it" with a girl ... I am absolutely convinced that there is nothing that a woman can do for me that I can't get better from a man. I am convinced of this because I HAVE had bisexual interludes ... I have had two different women perform oral on me. But I have had countless men, and by far, they are always the BEST.

 

I totally agree !!

[discreetindcpl 15]

Our preference is full swap with no-bi activity as we are both straight and like txduo2000 don't expect to change that anytime soon. She has had women perform oral on her a couple of times but those experiences seem to have strengthened her preference for playing with men.

 

That doesn't mean we don't get along with bi couples. One of our regular partners is a couple where both are bi- but knowing us, they don't bring it up and we never fail to have a terrific time with them.

[Jamie&Kieth 36]

Kieth & I both enjoy full swap with exchange of body fluids, this usually occurrs with a group sex style environment. We pretty much share everything with two other couples that we have been swinging with for the past 15-20 years. Almost an anything goes situation.

 

However, if we are with other couples who we do not know as well or not familiar with we both restrain from the exchange of fluids. Hope this doesn't sound to kinky.

[honeybee77 15]

Anything goes as long as he and I are cool with it, agree about it.

 

:-)

[Tia Vampire 167]

I could do some kissing and touching with the girl, but absolutly no touching of private parts in any form or fashion,I would watch my boyfriend do another girl while hugging and kissing on him, and full swap.

[JTcamp05 9]

Well it always starts out soft...then well gets kinda hard...That's is how it works right?

 

We really dont have rules regarding this....were both adults can decide how much or little we are comfortable with.... As long as its "safe"...we don't label it anything!

[stu 25]

it's all a dream...we are still to take the plunge.

[Spika 15]

Our preference is Full Swap with Bi-Female Activities Only....

[kywife4two 17]

Let's just have an orgy!

[ShellyM 0]

In all honesty we are 2 couples full swap only. I suppose if I'm in the mood I would consider soft swap, but if I'm into him and vice versa, same with Jay and her, we are pretty much looking for full swap.

[crazycatz 17]

I think these poll choices are a bit confusing...

What if they were two lesbian couples and they swapped is that not a full swap? Or is Heterosexual penetration the norm by which we judge everything??

 

My partner and I are both new to this and we are both bi. We've had an MMF (and there was penetration all the way around) and thoroughly enjoyed it.

 

We are now concentrating on the MFF/couple side of things though want to take things slow and start off with just girl on girl with our partners or him (if its an mff) watching and play with our significant others. Am sure we will work our way up to what is called 'full swap' (i really dislike that term) and when we do our idea is to have same room, same bed fun, hands and mouths going everywhere. We both really dislike the idea of 'pairing off' even in the same room, with a new partner. That's not what this is about for us. For us it is about helping each other have amazing orgasms using creative means. :-)

[flkeyscouple 21]

We prefer full swap, with female bi activity only. But we've done soft swap and enjoyed it tremendously. It was the other couples rule that stopped at intercourse, but we had a great night with them without the full swap.

 

And I'm all for the orgy too!!

 

Sarah

[oc1234 435]

We've had both but really prefer full swap.

[oc1234 435]

Actually we had a soft swap before we really knew what a "soft swat" was. We were on a camping trip with a much younger couple and we were staying in our camper. We ended up having sex, the other couple with themsesves and we with ourselves on the same small camper bed.

 

We all enjoyed it but didn't know we had entered the lifestyld of swinging.

[Tia Vampire 167]

full swap is our goal. we like it all. just no bi-sexual activities. spank me, gentle hair pulling, and if we come across the couple that we can mfm with, that will bring all of my fantasies to a close. for him fmf, but haven't found it yet. we just love to f***. facelick