Slight Dogleg Left, or, Grading on a Curved Penis

[Jack&Jill 15]

Another post on the board (I'd link if I had computer skills) brought up the subject of curved penises. Just curious, as a man who is slightly linearly challenged himself, what is the general feeling from the females on this? How curved is too curved? Are some curvatures more or less desireable or aesthetically pleasing than others? Or is it all about practicality? As a related question (one relevant to the post mentioned above), is one obligated to inform potential swing partners of this? Or is one obligated only in cases of dramatic curvatures that would limit possible positions, etc?

 

Mine has never been a hindrance and isn't very severe, though I confess that I'm a little self-concious about it, particularly since getting involved in swinging. Any thoughts on or experience with this sort of thing that you can share?

[prettylady 221]

I can't say this would be a real problem with most swingers.

I'm not talking from any real experience here, but what I have gathered from hanging around on the board a majority of swingers are not all that shallow.

With me it would come down to skills involving how well your hands carress my skin, not how strait your penis is.

If there is a chance that intercourse could be painful for the women, ya let them know so they can decide whats what. If it is not that much of a curve, don't worry about it.

If there is one thing I learned after becoming my own woman it is don't take yourself to seriously, you will miss all the fun.

If someone comments about the curve just say, "if you turn your head like this and squint your eyes just so, it looks like it is smiling at you".

Seriously though, smile and enjoy life

Your friend,

Prettylady

[good times 991]

Mine curves slightly to the left and I haven't had anyone run screaming from the room yet. I don't ever recal anyone even noticing it, in fact.

[Amanda69 24]

I haven't had it make any difference or run screaming from any rooms lately.

[2lookinforfun77 15]

We have a play partner who has a curved penis. Mrs 2lookin really enjoys it: it fees different and good... which is sorta the point... lol. Be honest, be open: relax and enjoy.

[Dooode 18]

Nope, I'm the same as GT: curves slightly to the left. No one's ever commented which leads me to think they've never noticed.

 

I've seen some extreme curvature on porn flicks, but I've never really seen it in real life. Can't be all that common.

[WildMiCouple 325]

Yep, I curve to the left too. Tammy will call me lefty every once in a while Never had a single playmate say anything. Well, other than....."mmmmm, that feels good" or " Oh yes!!!! Oh yes!!!! Oh yes!!!! Oh yessssss!!!!"

 

Mine curves slightly to the left and I haven't had anyone run screaming from the room yet. I don't ever recal anyone even noticing it, in fact.

Think the girls could tell the difference, Goodtimes? Blindfolded of course, without touching us Maybe give them a couple different positions to see Hmmmmm....maybe some field testing is needed

 

Brett

[intensity_too 16]

Are all of you that replied circumcised?

 

I have read that curving of the penis can be caused by too much skin being removed. . . . just curious.

[good times 991]

Think the girls could tell the difference, Goodtimes? Blindfolded of course, without touching us Maybe give them a couple different positions to see Hmmmmm....maybe some field testing is needed

 

Brett

I really like the way you think Brett, definitely need some field testing on this.

[catslaughing 45]

I tend to dress right, so many med have a direction that good tailors will even take it into account when they make your clothing.

[Spoomonkey 421]

I am rather "arrow" straight - with a bit of an upward curve. I can use that to my advantage pretty easily.

 

But to answer your question, I think it really depends on how extreme the angle is. If it is "slight" I am guessing it won't be a topic of conversation. If you erection is pointing at the people standing next to you - that may be tough to work with for some women.

 

Spoomonkey

[prettylady 221]

I haven't had it make any difference or run screaming from any rooms lately.

 

No offence Amanda, but if you had a penis I think I might run screaming from the room.

Your friend,

Prettylady

[Dynamar 246]

The OP asked about practical concerns... here's one...

 

If a gent has a particular downward curve when erect, I have a problem "fitting" with him. My parts just don't conform to that. Upward or sideways curves, no problems.

[Jack&Jill 15]

Thanks for all your responses. Just curious. I am curcumcized, btw, and have, at least as far as I remember, always been slightly curved downward and to the left (I've read somewhere that it can also be caused by early trauma to the penis shaft itself). My wife and I have never had any real difficulty with it except, on occasion, with doggie style, but we can usually modify the position with no problem, and she seems to think that in other positions the curvature intensifies her experience. My wife is very shallow, something about which her gynecologist often remarks, and this may play a role in the difficulty with doggie. Until we try out another couple, I suppose there's really no way to know, is there?

[Spoomonkey 421]

Until we try out another couple, I suppose there's really no way to know, is there?

 

That is the neat thing about swinging. All women are different!

 

Some will love it - some will hate it - some will hardly notice.

 

I would definitely think that with a downward curve, that would give you an advatage with doggy style with some women.

 

Spoomonkey

[Funcpl647 15]

We play regularly with another man whose penis, when erect, is curved downward at about 25-30 degrees. Even with the slight curvature, he has a magnificent cock. Never had a problem. My wife either.

The cock in this post, and my wife's estimating here, was bent about half way down the 5 inch shaft 45-50 degrees to the left. Like I said, we left the protractor at home. For my wife, it was too much. We just wish we would have been informed. I mean, if a woman was missing a breast, surely that should come up somewhere in discussion don't cha think?

 

From my own personal experiences, which have been more than I have digits, it is much easier to accomodate a penis that bends slightly upward or downward, rather than sideways. A 45 degree sideways bend is severe. I felt he should have disclosed this fact to us before hand. And yes, I would have declined based on a prior experience with a similar type of deformity. We both wondered why the man hasn't had it surgically repaired.

 

If you have a bend, we feel you should say something - or at least provide a pic that accurately depics the curve.

Mrs. Funcpl

[CuriousInOregon 16]

Curved is not bad I think it adds a Uniquness to the Penis, WHO WANTS BORING WHEN YOU CAN HAVE CURVES hehehehehe Seriously though unless its a Major Deformation in which it wouldnt preform whats the difference

[good times 991]

We both wondered why the man hasn't had it surgically repaired.

Well, you also said he was small, from what I have read about the surgical repair to straighten a curved penis, the repair usually shortens the penis by about an inch. Maybe he doesn't feel he has that much to lose.