What's your preference for first meets with potential playmates?

[jennifer_w_dfw 17]

I like causual, easy going places. Coffee Shops, Resturants (not fast food) type of places. Somewhere where the conversation is easy, and not having to fight over the noises of other people, etc. Comfortable meeting, to me makes the comfort level in the bedroom equal.

[twoofushere 15]

Although we have only met other friends at clubs and online, we think the drinks and dancing would be a lot of fun (no pressure but still a little touching). Still unsure about meets and greets, seems like too many single males.

[ratimadan 75]

Our preference is to meet prospective swinger couples at clubs (on or off premise), or, meets and greets. These venues provide great opportunities to meet couples who are serious about swapping mates for social as well as sexual activities, full-swap for sexual intercourse included.

 

Meeting one couple at a time for drinks to gauge compatibility, social and sexual, can mean lots of time wasted. You are more than likely to meet someone that is just fishing with no serious intent to swing. Many of the threads on this Board talk about frustration involved if one should choose this alternative.

 

One great advantage of clubs and meets and greets is that you get to chat with many couples and thereby ascertain the compatibility and physical attraction needed to think about intimate sexual activities, foreplay and intercourse with the other couple's spouse/mate. One may not want to fuck every male or female that you meet for a variety of reasons.

 

One of the best venues to meet lifestyle couples with serious intent are the LS and LS friendly resorts. We have always had good success and the opportunity to select a couple or couples to play with and go the whole nine yards swap mates and enjoy a great sexual experience.