OK for husbands to masturbate while watching their wives?

[Numex 2,416]

Not really my thing, I think it's a waste of perfectly good sperm especially when it takes quite some time for me to "reload".

I agree, but you could play with yourself and not cum until you can put your sperm where it belongs.

[couplers 4,639]

For us (the three women in my poly family with two men), so long as neither an erection nor an ejaculation is wasted, the guys can stimulate themselves. Otherwise, it is a scare resource being wasted. They can only masturbate if none of us women are not around, like if the guy is out of town. A harsh rule, I know, but necessary.

[Sunday 119]

While I don't particularly enjoy seeing men masturbate, I would automatically assume that he's keeping himself ready for when she calls him to join in. And I've been there, if I step out for a moment, i might need some self-stimulation to make sure it is at FULL mast before I jump back in. I think I'm just assuming that no one in the room is paying attention to me getting ready because there is SO many other, way more interesting things going on.

 

[Chris&Suzanne 204]

As the husband I think it is fine, especially when my wife is having a session with another woman .

[shy_couple 459]

Very old school when converting film to VHS or VHS to CD/DVD was to project from 8mm onto a clean white wrinkle free backdrop or screen and record with cam corset or digital camcorder. Then you can burn to CD/DVD-r

 

Never forget when we went to a party, we didn’t know the host or anything about his events and were looking to go out. Turned out to be a dingy bungalow in LAs San Fernando Valley in the summer with no A/C. Grabbed a drink and sat in the main room which had a little ventilation. There was pen playing from a digital projector.Turns out the guy worked in the poem industry in the 80s-90s and gad a ton of porn on VHS. He did the digital conversion and was playing it. Every few seconds the fuzzy/staticky “tracking lines” would run across the screen. Hilarious. We stayed about an hour, then decided to bail.

[Numex 2,416]

We also need to ask,

"OK for wives to masturbate while watching their husbands?"

I have seen it happen a number of times with several different wives, but must say that in my wife's case she was most likely watching the other woman, not me.

[couplers 4,639]

"OK for wives to masturbate while watching their husbands?"

I have seen it happen a number of times with several different wives, but must say that in my wife's case she was most likely watching the other woman, not me.

Hell yeah. It doesn't need to be my husband, any combination of a man and woman .

[NewSw 37]

This means that you find your wife the best porn star

[herpob 564]

On 1/25/2020 at 5:13 PM, NewSw said:

This means that you find your wife the best porn star

lol

[J&Wu 408]

For sure I stroke when she is having solo or otherwise fun. The Club that we originally joined 10 years or so ago was billed as a masturbation club although I don't see that on the currant website. Times change, male bisexuality was frowned on then but out in the open now. 

[Chris&Suzanne 204]

Especially when she is making out or more with another woman

[couplers 4,639]

On 1/21/2020 at 3:03 PM, Chris&Suzanne said:

As the husband I think it is fine, especially when my wife is having a session with another woman .

 

21 hours ago, Chris&Suzanne said:

Especially when she is making out or more with another woman

Thinking about it, we women will engage in activity among ourselves in the beginning, but once the men are ready it's heterosexual play until they are, at least temporarily, spent.  Then back to ourselves exploring what just happened while the guys rest before we attempt to suck them up for more.

[herpob 564]

OK for husbands to masturbate while watching their wives?

Why, Of Course!

 

We also need to ask, “OK for wives to masturbate while watching their husbands?"

Most Assuredly!

 

Why wouldn’t either of you ?  Are we not there to enjoy our mate, the others there, and ourselves?

[J&Wu 408]

On 8/18/2021 at 5:24 PM, J&Wu said:

For sure I stroke when she is having solo or otherwise fun. The Club that we originally joined 10 years or so ago was billed as a masturbation club although I don't see that on the currant website. Times change, male bisexuality was frowned on then but out in the open now. 

But I would prefer to cuddle in and support her shoulders and a thigh if missionary. If doggie?

[couplers 4,639]

On 7/16/2010 at 1:07 PM, willyoats said:

I have masturbated and kept myself hard several times while my wife was with another guy, although never to climax. We always finished me off with me inside of her.

When it's just me and two guys, occasionally three, that's how I demand it.  I want it and want it left inside me, but please don't expect me to take it in my mouth when I'm trying to orgasm.  DP can be good.