Couples Profile Reviews

[missseattle 15]

Hi everyone,

Quick question-how does one change your user name on SLS? I quickly thought up ours and it just doesn't really fit us.

Thanks so much.

MS

[Willing29 66]

Hi everyone,

Quick question-how does one change your user name on SLS? I quickly thought up ours and it just doesn't really fit us.

Thanks so much.

MS

 

I just went through the same thing. You need to create a new one then ask the admin to move your account info to the new one (i.e. payments and such). No biggie but you will be starting over from scratch.

[Guest winnme]

I think your profile would be improved if you added public pics of your husband. There are lots of the Mrs., but none of the Mr. - at least I didn't see any.

 

LM

 

hey i got him in the shower and add him to the profile and thank's for the comment Mrs.LM

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

hey i got him in the shower and add him to the profile and thank's for the comment Mrs.LM

Fantastic!

 

Before long he'll be handing the camera to you saying, "Honey, I'm looking pretty hot today, take another picture of me, won't you please?"

 

LM

[watchem_wiggle 22]

please review our profile..we are currently free members, but want the best chance. We think we will be paid members soon, but are testing the waters here.

 

watchem_wiggle at swinglifestyle.com

[watchem_wiggle 22]

mmm... nummy! feel free to look us up when you're in the area!

[JandCMI 15]

Would love some feedback on ours:

 

jandcmi28.swinglifestyle.com

 

We've had a mighty rotten string of luck lately (ignored emails, flaky people jerking us around when we're supposed to meet, etc.) so we did a rework of the profile in hopes of improving things.

[2inSanDiego4u 181]

Would love some feedback on ours:

 

jandcmi28.swinglifestyle.com

 

We've had a mighty rotten string of luck lately (ignored emails, flaky people jerking us around when we're supposed to meet, etc.) so we did a rework of the profile in hopes of improving things.

 

Your profile is very well done, can't really think of much to suggest!

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Would love some feedback on ours:

Would recommend to you not display your political opinions in an SLS profile. Including your Yahoo address is skirting SLS rules. Other than that, it's perfect. Showing yourselves together in pictures as a couple conveys nothing but positive messages -- that you are both looking earnestly and neither are ashamed of what you are doing. You have described your goals and let everyone know what kinds of people you hope to meet.

[fun4Ds 1,098]

Would love some feedback on ours:

 

jandcmi28.swinglifestyle.com

 

We've had a mighty rotten string of luck lately (ignored emails, flaky people jerking us around when we're supposed to meet, etc.) so we did a rework of the profile in hopes of improving things.

 

Love your profile

[Willing29 66]

Would recommend to you not display your political opinions in an SLS profile. Including your Yahoo address is skirting SLS rules. Other than that, it's perfect. Showing yourselves together in pictures as a couple conveys nothing but positive messages -- that you are both looking earnestly and neither are ashamed of what you are doing. You have described your goals and let everyone know what kinds of people you hope to meet.

Not sure what to think about the tag line. Other than that it looks pretty good, and I definitely agree with the couple photos. When we get e-mails our rule is if there are no couple photos (or at least shots of the guy and or girl) we delete it. It always makes us wonder why someone lists themselves as a couple but only shows the female. Is the guy a purple monkey or something?

[missseattle 15]

Hi all,

 

Would you be so kind to share your expertise with us? We both feel something is missing but don't know what (and we don't want to put any face shots or nakkid ones either). Thank you so much.

 

Miss S

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

missseattle said:

Hi all,

 

Would you be so kind to share your expertise with us? We both feel something is missing but don't know what (and we don't want to put any face shots or nakkid ones either). Thank you so much.

 

Miss S

Hi Miss S ~

 

Overall you have a nice friendly profile. You might want to explain what you mean by "would like to develop friendships first." I found this thread in the Archives that may help you:

 

Looking for 'friends'?

 

I noticed that you don't list your weight and I think you can get by with that if you have a couple pictures that clearly give people a view of your physique, but without that people are going to wonder if you weigh 160, 200, 250 or 300 pounds. Your profile presently has only one public pic which is too cropped to help people know if they would be attracted to you. Public pictures don't have to be nudes, nor do they need to include your faces, but I feel they should give people a sense of your physiques. Perving other profiles will give you ideas for creative ways to take pictures. I think you'll receive more inquiries if you have a different public picture(s).

 

Finally, I'd add a closing statement to your profile that encourages people to contact you.

 

Welcome to the Board, BTW. Glad to have you here!

 

LM

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

Miss S ~

 

Here are some threads discussing profile pictures:

 

Pictures that turn you off!

 

Annoying Pics on Profiles?

 

Things Not to do in a Picture

 

LM

[missseattle 15]

Thanks LM for all the advice--I/we have put it in place. Cheers for being so helpful.

[ncmd_couple 597]

Miss S,

 

I tried to find your profile on SLS and didn't have any luck.

 

S

[jc4fun7 15]

Hello Everyone,

 

If you have time could you check out our SLS Profile, and see what we can do to make it a little more attractive. We dont get much traffic through our mail box. We really do want to meet some people.

 

The sls name is the same as our user name here.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Hello Everyone,

 

If you have time could you check out our SLS Profile, and see what we can do to make it a little more attractive. We dont get much traffic through our mail box. We really do want to meet some people.

 

The sls name is the same as our user name here.

Your profile looks, overall, pretty well constructed and very attractive. No problem in that department. I would recommend re-wording the "Who we are looking for" section. I was, personally, left wondering what kind of person a "younger girl older guy" might be. "Our dream couple would be" is not a complete sentence. Would be what? I get the impression you are looking for a single woman. If so, you should not expect a lot of traffic. Single women do not, generally, initiate an e-mail exchange. You will have to initiate the exchange. Hope this helps.

 

~Michael

[Willing29 66]

Your profile looks, overall, pretty well constructed and very attractive. No problem in that department. I would recommend re-wording the "Who we are looking for" section. I was, personally, left wondering what kind of person a "younger girl older guy" might be. "Our dream couple would be" is not a complete sentence. Would be what? I get the impression you are looking for a single woman. If so, you should not expect a lot of traffic. Single women do not, generally, initiate an e-mail exchange. You will have to initiate the exchange. Hope this helps.

 

~Michael

I agree with the statement of what a "younger girl older guy" meant. Maybe re-word it to be in more complete sentences, you have lots of space for that so don't worry about being too wordy. Also as mentioned start sending out e-mails to folks you want to talk to as well. I like how you have photos of both of you there already. Good luck!

[crazinred 36]

Ok here goes nothing We made a couples profile in several locations. SLS SZC SDC IWU the user name is crazinred on all. I Crazi did the profiles and Red hasn't had a spare moment to help on them so let me have it. Just be gentle please.

[LFM2 1,482]

Ok here goes nothing We made a couples profile in several locations. SLS SZC SDC IWU the user name is crazinred on all. I Crazi did the profiles and Red hasn't had a spare moment to help on them so let me have it. Just be gentle please.

 

I only looked in the SLS profile, so far -- it's a really good profile actually. Just a few things others will look at. Someone else can probably give you better suggestions, but this is my start.

 

In the "Describe yourself" section, you have a ??? out in the country. I think you meant to say house, place or something. You just forgot to put that in. (I've never done anything like that when I write things. )

 

Separate alittle in your next paragraph to read "a little".

 

In your fantasies section, it would probably read better for you to say that you'd really be interested in experiencing a strap on session with another woman. And -- spell out your numbers. 1=one. 4 wheeling should be 4-wheeling.

[Willing29 66]

I only looked in the SLS profile, so far -- it's a really good profile actually. Just a few things others will look at. Someone else can probably give you better suggestions, but this is my start.

 

In the "Describe yourself" section, you have a ??? out in the country. I think you meant to say house, place or something. You just forgot to put that in. (I've never done anything like that when I write things. )

 

Separate alittle in your next paragraph to read "a little".

 

In your fantasies section, it would probably read better for you to say that you'd really be interested in experiencing a strap on session with another woman. And -- spell out your numbers. 1=one. 4 wheeling should be 4-wheeling.

I agree with LFM2, just fix the "out in the country" thing and maybe a few little letters you left out, here and there. Other than that it looks good. BTW, I like that you have pictures of both of you up there. Whenever we see a profile with only one side it is a huge RED FLAG for us. The mud photos look fun!

 

Good Luck!

[crazinred 36]

Thanks for the info Red will be fixing my typo's when she get a spare moment.

[NotSorry 155]

we're new and interested in feedback, SLS username: vegcouple954

[Willing29 66]

we're new and interested in feedback, SLS username: vegcouple954

Vegcouple,

First Welcome and we hope you have fun.

Your profile looks pretty good, although I would take out the part of you are difficulty to schedule with due to a little one. Maybe put something like time is valuable or time/ meetings needs to be scheduled in advance due to our child, but that's just a thought. I like how you have photos of both of you there. Also is there any reason why there is now weight listed? You don't appear to be overweight. Good luck!

[NotSorry 155]

Vegcouple,

First Welcome and we hope you have fun.

Your profile looks pretty good, although I would take out the part of you are difficulty to schedule with due to a little one. Maybe put something like time is valuable or time/ meetings needs to be scheduled in advance due to our child, but that's just a thought. I like how you have photos of both of you there. Also is there any reason why there is now weight listed? You don't appear to be overweight. Good luck!

 

Duly noted and changed to "We are parents, so plans should be made in advance".

 

The weight thing - the only interest we have in viewing weights on profiles is so we can get a sense of body type, which is already fulfilled when they have full body shots. So to us it's just not something we look at. And there's so much weight-drama in our culture we'd expect a lot of people to be lying anyway...

So we just don't find heights/weights important in a profile, and thus left it out of ours. Figured what you see is what you get (although Mr NotSorry has shorter hair these days...)

[crazinred 36]

Vegcouple,

First Welcome and we hope you have fun.

Your profile looks pretty good, although I would take out the part of you are difficulty to schedule with due to a little one. Maybe put something like time is valuable or time/ meetings needs to be scheduled in advance due to our child, but that's just a thought. I like how you have photos of both of you there. Also is there any reason why there is now weight listed? You don't appear to be overweight. Good luck!

 

Hey Vegcouple,

Like the updates to your profile. Very good looking couple, I agree that you should add your height and weight, though. Good luck in your venture.

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

Duly noted and changed to "We are parents, so plans should be made in advance".

 

The weight thing - the only interest we have in viewing weights on profiles is so we can get a sense of body type, which is already fulfilled when they have full body shots. So to us it's just not something we look at. And there's so much weight-drama in our culture we'd expect a lot of people to be lying anyway...

So we just don't find heights/weights important in a profile, and thus left it out of ours. Figured what you see is what you get (although Mr NotSorry has shorter hair these days...)

 

You are a bit of a rarity here. 99% of the time there is no weight listed the person there is no weight listed for is on the larger side. We've gotten to where we completely pass by profiles that have no weight listed (this info is listed on the search page). When we scan the results on the search page we look at the headline then look at the stats. If the weight is 0, unless the itty bitty pic is so good that you can see that they really are hwp we pass on by, otherwise we assume that they aren't. Rarely does any image show up well enough in the thumbnail to get a clear view of someone's actual size. So you may be losing some potential contacts on that alone.

[NotSorry 155]

Thanks for all the feedback everyone.

 

We went ahead and put our numbers in - don't want to repel folks we'd be interested in.

[ncmd_couple 597]

NotSorry,

 

Funny thing, I approved your profile on SLS when you joined, it is much better than when I first approved it. Why do I remember that? The picture of your hands entwined. I understand about your view about height and weight information, but honestly, people do look at missing information as.... missing information...

 

S

[NotSorry 155]

Yeah, we made the initial profile to look around and get a feel for the site. Then we had a chance to sit down together and fine-tune it.

 

Honestly, the number on the scale has always had too much power over me. I have no qualms about accurately representing myself (I made sure to choose a full body picture for this reason) but the number makes me cringe. I put it up for now as a trial but if it causes me too many bad feelings then I will take it down again. Intellectually I know it's not worth fussing over but it's just one of my hang ups...

 

Thanks again for everyone's input. We really appreciate you taking the time to review our profile.

 

-Mrs. NotSorry

[MrkLin 393]

Hello Everyone,

 

If you have time could you check out our SLS Profile, and see what we can do to make it a little more attractive. We dont get much traffic through our mail box. We really do want to meet some people.

 

The sls name is the same as our user name here.

 

I may be splitting hairs here, but this sentence caught my eye:

 

"He Said about her: She is a very seductive busty soft Latino."

 

I thought a Latino was a Latin male. Shouldn't that read; "He Said about her: She is a very seductive busty soft Latina."

 

Maybe I'm just being picky, but my first reaction was, "Whoa... what did that say?"

[MrkLin 393]

While I'm here in this thread, please check out our SLS profile and let us know what you think. We've been members for a few years, but that doesn't mean that we're experts by any means. We're grown up enough to take criticism, and fix a problem if there is one.

 

The link to the SLS profile is

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks!

[Willing29 66]

While I'm here in this thread, please check out our SLS profile and let us know what you think. We've been members for a few years, but that doesn't mean that we're experts by any means. We're grown up enough to take criticism, and fix a problem if there is one.

 

The link to the SLS profile is

 

 

Thanks!

Looks pretty good to me.

 

I especially like the part about "he has experienced one MFFF with three dynamite ladies, and would like to repeat experience, but who wouldn't?"

 

Also the part about 'the "old-man-on-top-get-it-over-with-quick" encounters' was pretty humorous.

[SexyRedmondCpl 128]

Hey all,

 

We just gave the profile a facelift. We're looking for as much constuctive criticism as you all can muster. The more feedback, the better the polish. Thanks muchly.

 

M&L

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Hey all,

 

We just gave the profile a facelift. We're looking for as much constuctive criticism as you all can muster. The more feedback, the better the polish. Thanks muchly.

 

M&L

Perfect! Don't change a thing. Has all of the essential information. And I would judge it is a true reflection of your combined personalities. You two young people look good in your pictures and the words in your profile. Bravo!

[twoforone100 45]

Ok we would love to know..... twoforone100 sls and aff

[NCfuncouple98 367]

We also updated ours last week - would love feedback on it! We've gotten a lot of emails since it was updated with pictures, none have panned out yet, but maybe after the holidays are over....

[twoforone100 45]

nccouple98 We would meet you.. based on your profile.. no complaints.

[NotSorry 155]

Hey all,

 

We just gave the profile a facelift. We're looking for as much constuctive criticism as you all can muster. The more feedback, the better the polish. Thanks muchly.

 

M&L

 

you passed the "wish they lived near us" test.

 

I (Mrs. NotSorry) particularly liked your joke:

"Personally, I stopped reading after the first paragraph. "

 

Mr. and Mrs. NotSorry

[ncmd_couple 597]

Hey all,

 

We just gave the profile a facelift. We're looking for as much constuctive criticism as you all can muster. The more feedback, the better the polish. Thanks muchly.

 

M&L

 

Very well written and carries your personality through. Well done.

 

S

[NCfuncouple98 367]

Hey all,

 

We just gave the profile a facelift. We're looking for as much constuctive criticism as you all can muster. The more feedback, the better the polish. Thanks muchly.

 

M&L

 

I wouldn't change a thing - sounds great, good pics!

[NotSorry 155]

Ok we would love to know..... twoforone100 sls and aff

 

"Pattie can't not play around cats" should probably read "Pattie can't play around cats".

 

Overall it feels pretty cluttered. Good amount of info but could be organized better... things seem jumbled up and around.

 

-mr not sorry

[NotSorry 155]

We also updated ours last week - would love feedback on it! We've gotten a lot of emails since it was updated with pictures, none have panned out yet, but maybe after the holidays are over....

 

Looks good to me. You may be losing some potential emails from the lack of face pics, but I understand why you'd exclude them.

 

-mr not sorry

[MrkLin 393]

Hey all,

 

We just gave the profile a facelift. We're looking for as much constuctive criticism as you all can muster. The more feedback, the better the polish. Thanks muchly.

 

M&L

 

"If you've read this far, congratulations! Personally, I stopped reading after the first paragraph. "

 

I loved this line! Good one!

 

Overall, I like your profile. Good job. I think you described yourselves and what you're looking for very well. According to your criteria we're not compatible, but I still wish we lived closer together.

[MrkLin 393]

We also updated ours last week - would love feedback on it! We've gotten a lot of emails since it was updated with pictures, none have panned out yet, but maybe after the holidays are over....

 

I found your profile to be short and to the point. That can be a good thing. I think you could be a little bit more descriptive in what you're looking for though. What I mean is, it says you're looking for couples. Is your main interest in FF play? Soft swap? Full swap? That can make a huge difference in the type of couple that responds to your ad.

 

I especially love your pictures. You give prospective playmates a very good idea as to what you look like without identifying yourselves. Bravo!

 

Overall, I think your profile looks very good. Maybe a bit of fine tuning in your description as to what your looking for, but other than that, it's great.

[MrkLin 393]

Ok we would love to know..... twoforone100 sls and aff

 

I just checked out your SLS profile (We're not on AFF.) Wow - there's a lot of info there! I have to say up front that I don't understand your mentioning your dogs so often. It might send the wrong message to people. I'll admit that it made me go, "Hmmmmm..."

 

You might want to go back through and read the whole thing to look for repetition - you say the same thing in the overall profile two or three times in different sections. It also appears that you wrote it over a period of time, and added or changed some info over time (i.e. "We now have a webcam! We had a webcam until the puppy ate it.) You might want to think about just removing any mention of the webcam. Too much info at once becomes confusing, and conflicting info doubly so.

 

Overall I think your profile is good - it just needs a bit of tweaking here and there. I think that if you go over it again in one sitting and make your presentation a bit more fluid, you'll get a lot more interest.

[NCfuncouple98 367]

I found your profile to be short and to the point. That can be a good thing. I think you could be a little bit more descriptive in what you're looking for though. What I mean is, it says you're looking for couples. Is your main interest in FF play? Soft swap? Full swap? That can make a huge difference in the type of couple that responds to your ad.

 

I especially love your pictures. You give prospective playmates a very good idea as to what you look like without identifying yourselves. Bravo!

 

Overall, I think your profile looks very good. Maybe a bit of fine tuning in your description as to what your looking for, but other than that, it's great.

 

Thanks for the constructive criticism. I agree - we should describe better what we are looking for. We weren't sure initially, but I think we've got it figured out now - will update this weekend.

[twoforone100 45]

Thanks...

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Ok we would love to know..... twoforone100 sls and aff

Looks good. Putting your picture up for people to see leaves a positive message, "We're not ashamed of what we are doing." Just one little comment. I, personally, am put off by any play of the word "cum". Hope you are meeting lots of good people.

 

~Michael