Couples Profile Reviews

[ktimephoenix 156]

hopefully it's ok to cut and paste our profile across, as swinglifestyle doesn't really have much for Aussies, we're on another, australian site, and you can only view the profile if your a member (and more than likely, you guys won't be members).

 

Username: i.n.d.e.c.e.n.t

Member Type: Silver Member

Date Joined: 11/3/2009

Last Online: Online now!

Profile Verified:

Verified against photo ( details)

I am a: Couple

 

Aged Between:

 

18y.o & 50y.o 26y.o & 19y.o

Location:

 

Gilles Plains, 5086

South Australia

Australia

Looking For:

 

Group Sex (3 or 4 people)

Orgies (5 or more people)

Casual Sex

 

 

Couple Relationship

 

Couple Relationship: Relationship 1 to 3 years

Experience: 1 to 5 years

Practice Safe Sex: If Required

Children: Want after 5 years

Couple Members Profile

 

General Details He is.. She is..

Age: 26 19

Sexual Preference: Straight Bi-Sexual

Drinking: I drink socially I drink socially

Smoking: Non-Smoker Only occasionally

Star Sign: Aquarius Leo

Importance of Looks: Somewhat Important Somewhat Important

Appearance Face & Hair

Looks (Their rating): Average Average

Eye Colour: Hazel Blue

Hair Colour: Dark Brown Changes often

Hair Length: Short Past shoulders

Ethnic Background: White / Caucasian White / Caucasian

Appearance Body

Body Type: Large Voluptuous

Height: 177.5 cm ( 5'10" ) 177.5 cm ( 5'10" )

Weight: Not Not

Body Hair: Light -

Appearance Markings

Tattoos: None None

Piercings: Tongue, Eyebrow Ears

Appearance Sexual

Endowment Length: 6" - 7" -

Endowment Thickness: Average -

Circumcised: No -

Bra Cup: - DD

Pubic Hair: Shaved / Waxed / Lasered Shaved / Waxed / Lasered

Interests

 

Anal - Giving Toys (Vibrators / Dildos etc) Swinging - Partner Swapping

Anal - Receiving Role playing Swinging - Same Room Sex

Oral - Giving Sex in public / outdoors

Oral - Receiving Spanking - Firm

About Ourselves

 

We are an honest and sincere couple who are not really new to the lifestyle anymore but are looking to meet new people and have some fun along the way.

 

She is bisexual, He is not, having said that He doesnt recoil at a mans accidental brush.

 

She isnt a skinny woman, Voluptuous would be a good word. She is however still sexy and has a lot to offer.

He is average height, and also is carrying a few extra pounds, but is sexy and knows how to have a good time.

 

Were looking for some new friends we can just go out with and have a good time and if anything else happens it would just be a bonus! We only play as a couple. so please dont ask us to play seperate.

 

We are both hard workers who make an honest living and want to be able to let our hair down. We are discreet and are mindful of others boundries and expect the same.

Our Ideal Partners

 

Were looking to meet couples or single women that are just looking for some fun and/or friendship. We dont look for anything specific (we dont like to write of anyone before we know more about them) we just want to meet people that can relax and have a good time.

 

We are willing to travel for the right person/couple, its a good excuse for a weekend getaway! We also regularly travel to Melbourne.

 

( * ) ( * ) Sorry, No Single Guys ( * ) ( * )

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Looks good. Did you actually mean to say, "we don't like to write off anyone before we know more about them"? Composite photographs always make me a little suspicious. When I see one I think, these two people have never been near enough to each other to have a picture of themselves taken together. Both images of the composite look good so break them apart and post them separately.

 

Hoping this helps,

 

~M

[corynlaine 118]

So just updated, tell us what you think!?

[The Fuse 1,012]

So just updated, tell us what you think!?

 

Nice profile. Here are a few suggestions:

 

I like your pictures, but you might want to post one of you both smiling. A smile makes you look fun and inviting. Also, while his pose is nice, it looks a little like he is trying to hide his physique, which he probably doesn't need to do. Your pictures make you look like a classy couple, and it would be good to see one or two of you together to allay anyone's fears of you being a real couple.

 

When you write you are a "wmc", to me that means "white married couple". I'm not sure if you intend this, but when I see "wmc" or "mwc" that always suggests to me that the people are looking for other whites. If that's not true for you, there's no reason to point out that you're white -- your pictures make that clear. If race is not a factor, I believe saying "wmc" may put off people who are not white.

 

At the end, you write "we'll share in person if you send us a pic and invite us out to dinner." Again, this might be subtle and just a result of my background and upbringing, but "invite us out to dinner" to me implies that you are looking for someone to pay for your dinner:eek:. If I lived near you and saw your profile I'd probably say "I bet they didn't mean it that way", but it would make me pause first. I suggest just tweaking that to say "...if you send us a pic and invite us to meet you in person" or something like that.

 

These are minor things. It's a very nice profile.

[corynlaine 118]

fuse, thanks for your reply. I guess we put wmc really before we posted the picture, but I see your point. He loves photography and is very critical about pics - especially of himself - all he can see when looking at pics taken of us together is how bad the pic is, but definately wanted to post one.

I am sure we'll find one or 2 of us together that might pass muster.

 

We see your point on the dinner, guess we'll change that to meet us for a dinner I guess our thought on this was more related to the fact that we very much enjoy going out to dinner, which means that on more than one occasions we've been to restaurants that -well lets jsut say the bill was :eek: but at the same time, some of the best food we still talk about is stuff we had off of roach-coaches when we lived in CA.

 

So we wanted to give the intersted couple the option to pick.

[DenMor4 24]

Can someone do us hehe

 

On SLS we're  denmor4u

[The Fuse 1,012]

DenMor4 said:

Can someone do us hehe

 

Nice picture!

 

Your heights and weights are mixed up, I believe.

 

In the first sentence, the word "helps" should be "help". At the bottom, the word "things" should not have an apostrophe. However, the word "won't" should have one.

 

I suggest you check out some of the earlier postings on this thread that discuss profiles where the couple is looking for single women. In short, in order to be successful, it would help to say something about why such a woman should choose you as opposed to the dozens and dozens of other couples who are looking for the same thing.

[Swamprat 42]

We are THISTLEANDSHAMROCK on SLS and we would appreciate the wonderful people here at Swingers Board critiquing our profile.

 

Thanks

THISTLEANDSHAMROCK

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

 

We are THISTLEANDSHAMROCK on Swing Lifestyle and we would appreciate the wonderful people here at Swingers Board critiquing our profile.

 

Thanks

THISTLEANDSHAMROCK

I loved your Tag Line, made me smile right off the bat!

 

Normal is a setting on our washing machine

 

I found your profile warm, conversational, and inviting; your sense of humor is apparent. You do a good job of letting people know about you, that you've enjoyed visiting clubs, and what type of play you are seeking. It's nice to see a couple together in a picture, like you've included.

 

The only sentence that slowed me down was this (btw, it needs a period at the end of it):

 

"We think that friends should be enjoyed without clothing"

 

My concern is that some people may feel pressure, like they have to strip down the moment they meet you. Other people may not even have a second thought about it, but it left a question on my mind so I thought I'd bring it up. If you feel this would be accurate, how about saying: "We think that friends should be enjoyed with or without clothing."

 

Lastly, try having sex on top of the washing machine while it's on the spin cycle, it can be a nice ride.

 

LM

[Swamprat 42]

For Like Minds 321thanks for helping us fine tune our profile. The changes have already been implemented. It really helps to have fresh eyes look at your work. Thanks for taking the time.

THISTLEANDSHAMROCK

[The Fuse 1,012]

Love your profile.

 

The sentence about your second and third childhoods should say "our" instead of "out", and I think it should be "childhoods" instead of the singular. I don't know why Soft Swap and Nudists should be capitalized, but I'm just being a stickler.

[Swamprat 42]

Thanks once again for the fresh eyes. We appreciate it.

THISTLEANDSHAMROCK

[trytaylor2 15]

Please take a look at ours We are trytaylor2 on swing lifestyle Thank You

[The Fuse 1,012]

Hello,

 

Love the comment about Fred and Ethel. Very funny.

 

Two things I think would improve your profile:

 

1) Change the text so that there are NO PARTS THAT ARE IN ALL CAPS, as this is interpreted as yelling and is very negative. Keep in mind that you are trying to entice people with what you write, not put them off. Staying positive and happy helps a lot.

 

2) Great pictures of your female half. They show her body type and what she looks like, and are enticing. I am glad you have at least one picture that shows your male half, because a lot of profiles don't. He has a nice smile in the one that you do have. However, I think you could post one more snapshot of him. In your picture of him, he is slouching a lot, wearing a baseball cap, and only showing shoulders to chest. None of these things will help attract a woman. As a woman who plays with men, I always want to see what my potential partner looks like and what his body type is. So if you posted one where he is standing up straight and not wearing a baseball cap, that would help. Women who are thinking about playing with both of you will want to know what he looks like.

[fun4Ds 1,098]

Love the picture

 

Hate the way its typed out though....

 

I can tell you I'm one of the worst at typing. Just take a look at my earlier posts here on the board

 

The capitalizations I see in your profile, to me, are things that are very important to you. I do speak the language and understand. However, to the rest of the world it come off as yelling at them.

 

Julie pointed out that my sentences would be better understood if I would capitalize the first letter in each sentence. That meant allot to me, she understood I wanted to communicate how I felt. I think thats what you mean as well in your profile.

 

Mrs fun said its like playing your guitar. You want people to hear, but they won't, if your guitar is out of tune....

[femnewb4u2 328]

Single female chiming in here. Agree with what has been conveyed already. I noticed you show interest in females in your "bar" coding. However, I do not see anything in your profile verbage noting that. You may want to included a line or two on your desires to be with a woman (FMF, FFM) and what you have to offer her as well as the couples. Just a thought that may help you if you do contact single females or females playing alone.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Overall impression: you've said plenty about what you are not looking for but not much about what you are looking for. Make it more up-beat. Be a little more specific. If you want partner exchange, say so.

 

~Michael

[trytaylor2 15]

Thank you for your comments All are appreciated.... kisses & hugs trytaylor2

[NaughtyCouple06 15]

here is ours...

naughtycouple2006 on SLS

 

let us know what you guys think

[N8ture Girl 318]

NaughtyCouple06 said:

here is ours...

 

The last two sentences in the second paragraph (describe yourself) change push to pushy and "we are both enjoy" get rid of the are. Then it should read fine.

 

The last paragraph, dont assume that just because the reader has made it that far they are ok with no pics. But yeah they did make it that far and that is a good sign... but I wont beat a dead horse and tell you you should post some kind of picture (even though it would likely help)

 

The sentence enjoy being descreet...sounds odd, may want to reword it...

 

Other than that seems ok...

[NaughtyCouple06 15]

The last two sentences in the second paragraph (describe yourself) change push to pushy and "we are both enjoy" get rid of the are. Then it should read fine.

 

The last paragraph, dont assume that just because the reader has made it that far they are ok with no pics. But yeah they did make it that far and that is a good sign... but I wont beat a dead horse and tell you you should post some kind of picture (even though it would likely help)

 

The sentence enjoy being descreet...sounds odd, may want to reword it...

 

Other than that seems ok...

 

thanks :-) Updated a little bit...

 

keep them coming if there is more

[twoforone100 45]

thanks :-) Updated a little bit...

 

keep them coming if there is more

 

We would say drop the last two sentances... We also would say drop the word chick... It sounds like a guy wrote the profile. Let her write the profile.

 

 

We would also say to put more of what you are looking for in there. You don't have pic's... You need to have something that they will say wow about.....

 

It will be hard as you have found out... good luck..

[frisky-n-fun 31]

We have just updated our SLS and it is more detailed but longer. Worried it may be too long so anyone wanna check it out, feedback would be much appreciated! Frisky28 on SLS.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Frisky28 on Swing Lifestyle.

Was reading it with an approving nod until I arrived at What we are not looking for. My advice to you and to all is to avoid negativity whenever possible. There will be a way to say it and avoid the use or the words no or not. Rather than NO BEDHOPPERS, perhaps it can be looking for couples who relish, like we relish, repeat engagements or some such thing said in your own way.

 

You look like you'll do really well with this profile,

 

~Michael

[fun4Ds 1,098]

Sorry, still pervin your pictures

[fun4Ds 1,098]

I have to ask, are you a full swap couple ?

[frisky-n-fun 31]

I have to ask, are you a full swap couple ?

 

Not yet. We have recently done softswap. He is not jealous(everyone assumes that) I am just pickier abt the men I find attractive and am comfortable with. The soft swap experiences we have had were excellent and we both enjoyed them b/c I did not rush myself or as I have seen it put "take one 4 the team". It is not a physical appearance thing as much as it is that I have to feel he treats his SO very well, and I only dig gentlemen. Country girl! Don't open my door I am not opening his zipper! We do want to do full swap, and know a cpl which cpl we want to try it with. They know we are interested in moving forward with them and they were our first soft swap.(see our First soft swing post for more details) Very no pressure, if we back out and can't go thru w/it (doubtful since we are very comfy with them) they would not get mad and we would all just laugh abt. it. Working on getting us both free and all our kids at babysitter on the same night to try it!

 

Ty for the compliment fun4Ds:)

 

And TY 4 the advice Micheal. You give great advice and are good to listen too, as one of the 1st ones on here I chatted with I love hearing from u:)

I was thinking it might sound too negative so ty for helping me on that decision. Now just to figure out how to reword it.....lol

[frisky-n-fun 31]

Was reading it with an approving nod until I arrived at What we are not looking for. My advice to you and to all is to avoid negativity whenever possible. There will be a way to say it and avoid the use or the words no or not. Rather than NO BEDHOPPERS, perhaps it can be looking for couples who relish, like we relish, repeat engagements or some such thing said in your own way.

 

You look like you'll do really well with this profile,

 

~Michael

 

O.K. my very wise friend, I have adjusted the last part into a nicely worded short little paragraph I think will go over better(not sound like the angry dumped cpl, lol). If you feel like giving it a looksy:).

[shes_in_parties 22]

Good call about avoiding negativity!

 

Someone want to check us out next?

[tsome4fun 15]

Hi Everyone,

 

We would love to hear some feedback on our profile.

 

core916.swinglifestyle.com

 

Thanks

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Hi Everyone,

 

We would love to hear some feedback on our profile.

 

core916.swinglifestyle.com

 

Thanks

Pictures of an attractive woman -- score one big one. No picture of the man -- fifteen yard penalty. Well written profile. But would be even better if you stated what you are looking for. Are you looking for partner exchange, platonic relationships, on-on-one dates, a new drummer or singer for the band, any or all of these? Let people know. You two look like you are going to do well in The Lifestyle.

 

~Michael

[good times 991]

tsome4fun said:

Hi Everyone,

 

We would love to hear some feedback on our profile.

 

core916 swinglifestyle.com

 

Thanks

Once logged into the site, I see that you do have a couple of pictures of the man, so would say your pics are good.

 

Have to agree with Michael about your profile content though. While it is well written, I didn't get a feel for what you are actually into when I read it. But hey, if you wrote us we would get back to you based on what I see there.

[tsome4fun 15]

Thanks for the feedbak everyone. We will do some editing and moving around pictures this weekend.

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

Good call about avoiding negativity!

 

Someone want to check us out next?

 

It looks good. I can't really critique it. Your initial picture is eye - catching and your additional picture is exactly what I'd want to see.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Thanks for the feedback everyone. We will do some editing and moving around pictures this weekend.

Oops. I looked again. Lots of nice legs in the pictures. I failed to notice that one pair was hairy

 

Once again, nice profile.

[Rahul_Neekita 32]

Hi, our profile is  rahul_neekita @ swinglifestyle.com. Have a look and suggest please to make it better.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Rahul_Neekita said:

Have a look and suggest please to make it better.

Looks good. I recommend using the word hypocritical rather than the word Hippocratic.

 

~M

[Rahul_Neekita 32]

Looks good. I recommend using the word hypocritical rather than the word Hippocratic.

 

~M

Thanks for suggestion.

[clit pro poet 15]

Julie, LikeMinds, SW_PA...

We've begun an SLS profile, 2GoodCompany

Could you have a look when you get a chance, and let us know your thoughts, suggestions?

 

Thanks!

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Could you have a look when you get a chance, and let us know your thoughts, suggestions?

Well, I guess it has become apparent that this forum is one of my favorites. I can't help myself. Editorial review is one of the major activities of the employment I have had for the last eleven years. I do not, however, want to discourage other members from leaving comments here. Please, it's not just Julie, LikeMinds and SW_PA_Couple.

 

The thing that comes to the top of my mind is no pictures. Don't take this personally. I tell everyone else the same. If you do not want the world to see you faces at a sex Web site, post some private ones. No excuse in being a non-paying member. Either you are earnest in your pursuit or you are not; You will have to decide. If not private pictures, have some taken with your backs to the camera. Saying Rubenesque is fine but show people; Rubenesque is sexy. You and I know it is.

 

~Michael

[clit pro poet 15]

Oh, oops, forgot to mention - just registered and building. 'Haven't yet surveyed what people are doing or looked through what we have in stock. We appreciate the suggestions of how to shoot, public or private.

We're still in the free area too. It's sort of an early work in progress for us. I (he) is doing most of the writing or editing. Thanks for noting the absence of photos. Sorry to divert you. 'Sounds like at least the verbal bit is in the ball park OK.

More soon.

- d

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

clit pro poet said:

 

Julie, LikeMinds, SW_PA...

We've begun an Swing Lifestyle profile, 2GoodCompany

Could you have a look when you get a chance, and let us know your thoughts, suggestions?

 

Thanks!

Thank you for asking me to review your new profile. A profile is exciting to write and can be challenging. During the weeks to come, you will probably find yourselves making changes every time you look at it.

 

My overall impression is that you seem most interested in developing longterm friendships with couples and hope sex will be a part of it. If this is the only way you will consider playing with people, then you are sending the correct message. If, however, you are open to finding a great couple, playing with them without knowing if you'll ever play again, or if the relationship will continue, then you might consider finding ways to compose your profile to reflect this.

 

I felt there are a number of places where your sentence structure and grammar could confuse readers. One example is this:

 

"We're happy to entertain at home sometimes."

 

You mean sometimes you're not happy entertaining in your home? I presume you mean, We're happy to entertain at home when we can.

 

The last section confused me more than helped me, most of it seemed superfluous, but there are some things that would be good to share. I would suggest going through it carefully. Do you want to travel to meet people for sex 100 to 400 miles from where you live? Is that what you meant? Or is travel just something you do as a hobby? Things like this left me wondering what you are trying to convey.

 

You close with "Work, family, community activities, a host of vanilla friends, and...raising our child occupy us, but we'd love to find time to share with you!" This left me feeling that you are so busy, and although your intentions are good, you may never have time for those who contact you.

 

I liked the first two sections. You sound interesting and full of life.

 

I agree with Michael that pictures will really help your profile and I'm glad to hear that you intend to add them.

 

Wishing you both success with your profile!

 

LM

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Oh, oops, forgot to mention - just registered and building. 'Haven't yet surveyed what people are doing or looked through what we have in stock.

Oops. I failed to notice the membership date on your profile.

 

I'll look forward to watching your "work in progress" as you go ahead with it.

 

~M

[clit pro poet 15]

Wishing you both success with your profile!

LM

 

LM, I missed your post last night (had just a moment to look and saw Michael's.) I/we and really appreciate the comments! Funny - about the last section - it was a chatty afterthought. You noticed that it didn't fit so well with the earlier parts. It'll get an overhaul.

 

And we're getting some pictures...

 

With gratitude,

- d

PS - anyone else, PLEASE PILE ON

[clit pro poet 15]

Oops. I failed to notice the membership date on your profile.

 

I'll look forward to watching your "work in progress" as you go ahead with it.

 

~M

 

Again, thanks. We haven't thought about making flattering pictures since our wedding (when someone else was doing it, of course), and are looking forward to trying out our hand. The anonymous ones will be fun . We have travel coming up pronto and will get on it right after.

Meanwhile on to some edits in the verbage...

 

Later...

'Just had another go at the write up - mostly to shorten and clarify, esp. that last section.

'Appreciate the time.

Always interested in thoughts from SB folk.

[Rackir 159]

Hey all, I would love some feedback on our profile. If you have a moment, please check it out and let me know what you think. What do you think works, what doesn't etc. We've gotten a few responses to it already after just having it up for a less than a week now, but I’m really curious about the opinions of people that aren’t looking us up for potential playmates.

 

Link to your left.

 

 

[clit pro poet 15]

Hey all, I would love some feedback on our profile. If you have a moment, please check it out and let me know what you think. What do you think works, what doesn't etc. We've gotten a few responses to it already after just having it up for a less than a week now, but I’m really curious about the opinions of people that aren’t looking us up for potential playmates.

 

Link to your left.

 

 

 

It’s quite a revealing narrative. It seems that you wish to share the experience of your reemergence with your readers. That it isn’t economical or concise maybe says something about yourselves in the context of socializing and sexual play with others: that this is something you thought through as a couple and relish writing and talking about.

 

In several places, you provide enough detail for people to figure out what might be desirable, and what will probably be unacceptable to you.

 

You even say that you’d appreciate “well written letters” – probably in a style a little like your own. Inevitably, you will make changes, but, if the style consistently reflects how you wish to be introduced in print, and people contact you, then stay with it.

 

The “describe yourself” section is sexy and funny! You’re not just putting out data, you’re sketching in words. I like it.

 

As a practical matter, you don’t mention logistics. “Love will find a way”, I guess? No problem.

 

Typo: in the para. starting “Our ideal” apostrophe missing from “won’t.”

 

Comment: your first attempt is much better tied together than ours was!

 

Best,

David

[Rackir 159]

David,

Thanks for taking the time to review, and give such a nice review of, our profile! You are pretty much spot on in your conclusion that we (well mostly I) relish (thank you for using that word, which has fallen out of so many lexicons) the opportunity to write about our reemergence into the lifestyle. It combines two of my favorite activities, writing and sexual exploration!

 

What logistics seem to be lacking? Are you referring to how a first date would probably go? I.e. meet for drinks first, etc?

 

Thanks for pointing out the typo! Gotta run over and fix that now!

 

Again, thank you very much!

[Rackir 159]

PS - anyone else, PLEASE PILE ON

 

Never one to refuse a pile invitation..,,

 

First off, the line “want to seduce and be seduced” is great! It presents a good image of what you are looking for and enjoy, without just spelling it out in boring and overused specifics. Also your tag line is interesting and somewhat thought provoking. In particular the word “engage” brings up (at least to me) many interesting visuals. It indicates to me that you both enjoy the meeting and interacting with people every bit as much as you that sexual play which may or may not follow. The rest of your profile also seems to bolster that idea.

 

Something I am curious about, is your primary goal to meet other to play with, or to meet other with whom you will become friends? Of course I understand that both would be ideal (“sex that follows naturally on enjoyable company”, what a great way to phrase it), but which is actually your priority? The reason I ask is that your profile seems to be looking for couples with whom to be friends, more so than it is looking for couples with whom to play. The details about your child in college, your political views and the types of people you are friends with all lend to this perception. If that’s your goal, than you are right on the money. If however you are equally (or more) interested in finding couples to play with, than you might want to “sexy up” the profile a little with more indications of the types of sexual activities you enjoy, and what you are both hoping to find in a playmate, and maybe cull a few of the vanilla life details.

 

An interesting question that your profile brought to mind, you say that you want to be part of group of several couples who get together from time to time for friendship and play (paraphrasing of course). Is this the sort of thing you can advertise for? I’m not sure, maybe it is, but it seems like that type of scenario is the sort that one has fall or happen into as a result of being in the scene and playing with multiple people prior to finding. It sounds like a great thing to be a part of, but I would worry that you are actually pushing away those very people who could introduce you to that sort of thing by featuring it so prominently. How many groups are there like that who are actively looking for new members? For the most part new members are probably introduced to those sorts of groups of friends only after members of said group have gotten to them on their own. Just a thought.

 

All in all I’d say you do a great job of presenting yourselves in text form, something that isn’t easy to do. Your profile carries with it a great deal of personality, and I think anyone who takes the time to read it will have a pretty decent understanding of the people they are responding to.

 

Minor technical notes, it looks like you probably wrote this in word first, then pasted it into the Swing Lifestyle profile. Unfortunately the gimpy Swing Lifestyle editor doesn’t always recognize words punctuation tags and translates them as box characters. A number of your apostrophes and one which I suspect is a semi-colon didn’t come through properly. Also I think you are missing the word “is” after “like” in the second paragraph of “we are looking for”.

 

Looking forward to seeing what pictures you add in the future!

 

Hope this helps in someway, and good luck!

[clit pro poet 15]

Rackir, MUCH appreciated. Back to this thread presently. Things around here are a bit tied up here this morning.

Others have caught kindly the ambiguity involving friendship and play (see earlier) and it does warrant further work.

We're all "works in progress" , I guess.

 

A few hours later...

OK, back to it. I think that you've made us. We love dalliance where a sexual a encounter can enhance us as a couple. Intertwined with this is fascination with people - their lives and views. As a couple, we're not seeking friendship in the sense of implied obligation or (worse) exclusivity. But we're at a point in life where (a friend puts it thus) "we don't want to fuck anyone we don't know." This is not the same way that either of us felt (and acted ) when we were young. We still just want to have fun. It's just that getting to know others, especially couples, seems like more complete fun.