Couples Profile Reviews

[2fitfunsters 32]

I would totally appreciate a review of our profile on Swing Lifestyle We are new to online searching for playmates.

 

2fitfunsters

 

We will be adding more pics when I have a few moments.

 

I have a few questions. We aren't seeking couples to play with, just females, but we are open to meeting new friends who are like-minded. Do I set preferences to couples "maybe"? Looks like it may block couples in search if I pick "no" in preferences?

 

Is it worth it to have paid membership?

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

I would totally appreciate a review of our profile . . .

I believe you've created an excellent profile. I give extra bonus points to any couple who leave pictures of both the womans and the man.

 

I would boost your "couples" bar up a couple of notches. Choosing no does not prevent couples finding you in a search but it does convey an implicit message, don't bother sending us a note -- we will ignore you. I would also recommend a paid or life-time membership. Many Swing Lifestyle members set their profile preferences to have themselves hidden from "free" members when using the search function. They might still be able to see you on the list of "Who's Online" but if they try to send a message, it will be blocked. Additionally, paid membership sends a message: We're earnest in our search and we are not likely to stick you will the tab at a restaurant."

 

I hope this helps.

[2fitfunsters 32]

Thank you so much SW PA, I'll add your suggestions.

[sandbcouple 15]

We're new, and I'd like to get some feedback on our profile.

 

sandbcouple @ swinglifestyle.com

 

Thanks in advance to anyone who takes the time to help us out!

 

(note: we're planning on adding more pictures, we just started the profile yesterday)

[two4youinswva 3,068]

sandbcouple said:

We're new, and I'd like to get some feedback on our profile.

 

Looks like a good start!

I'd drop the "No Drama" line. I swear this line attracts drama. Seriously.

Think about cropping out the lady in the background in your one picture.

 

Otherwise, I'd say you do a good job at describing yourselves, what you're interested in, and what your general limits are.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

sandbcouple said:

We're new, and I'd like to get some feedback on our profile.

 

You have be best looking new profile I have even seen at S L S. I wish other people would put this much effort and forethought in to a new profile.

[Empty_Nesters 15]

sandbcouple said:

We're new, and I'd like to get some feedback on our profile.

 

Great job on your first profile!

[2006couple 15]

Hi everyone! We're hoping for some feedback on our profile. We signed up for the site last fall but have only been active on it, and in the lifestyle, for the past few months, so any thoughts would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

 

bebbw on swinglifestyle.com

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

2006couple said:

Hi everyone! We're hoping for some feedback on our profile. We signed up for the site last fall but have only been active on it, and in the lifestyle, for the past few months, so any thoughts would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

 

bebbw on swinglifestyle.com

 

I think you only need to say you are respectful once. (first paragraph)

 

I always like it better when there is at least one photo of the husband.

 

Otherwise, I think it is pretty straight-forward and clear about what you are looking for. Since you're looking for friends also, you may want to talk about other activities or interests you may have in common with other couples.

[2006couple 15]

I think you only need to say you are respectful once. (first paragraph)

 

 

Ha! Totally missed that! Thank you!

[Forfunin206 15]

We would apricate opinions on our profile.

 

Forfunin206 on swing life style

 

Thanks in advanced

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

We would apricate opinions on our profile.

 

Forfunin206 on swing life style

 

Thanks in advanced

 

An OK profile but allow me to suggest that phrases like "explore our sexuality", "entering new territories" and "bring something new into our lives and bedroom" provide no clear idea of what you seek. Are you looking for exchanges of partners? Say so. Are you both looking for wild, uninhibited sex? Say so. Now, "enjoying light bondage and blindfolds", that's sufficiently specific. But I'm left wondering if bondage is your primary goal or just a bonus.

 

You meet the number one criterion I have for a good profile -- a clear, crisp picture showing the both of you together. Bravo!

 

Hoping this helps,

 

~Michael

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

We would apricate opinions on our profile.

 

Forfunin206 on swing life style

 

Thanks in advanced

 

Hi,

I like that you have a picture of both of you looking happy.

 

I'd take out the ken and barbie line, too cliche. If you are open to a variety of body types just say that.

 

Friends first, lovers later is another cliche you might think about and clarify. Do you want to date multiple times before playing? Do you mean you have a policy not to play on the first date? What does friendship constitute for you? Personally, we like to play and then become friends, but are happy to meet just for drinks to decide if we hit it off. We don't really need to be friends, just find them enjoyable to hang out with. So I'd take out that line and decide what you're looking for.

 

"But we both have very busy schedules so forgive us if we are slow in responding, and please understand if it?s hard to arrange things with us."

 

Having been meeting people through sls for awhile now, here's how this line translates to me:

-We're flakes. We won't write back until we get around to it. It will be hard to set up a time to meet then we'll cancel on you at the last minute.

 

I know it sounds cynical, but that's the way it comes across. Honestly I don't think any couples get so much mail on sls that they can't take the time to write a short response within a day or two. If you are so busy you can't meet people then wait until a time in your life when you do have time.

 

You say twice in the same paragraph you are easy going. I don't get that feel from the general tone of your writing. Maybe describe your personalities or what you like to do outside the bedroom more?

 

Spelling:

role play

diseases

 

"be prepared to prove that fact." Do you have recent drug and std test results to share? How recent should they be? We have talked about std testing and drug use with some partners, but no one has ever proven it. I find this line off-putting and unrealistic from my experience. Hopefully others will comment.

 

Hope this was helpful and helps you clarify what you want. Best wishes in your search!

[Forfunin206 15]

Thank you, for the input. Looks like revamp is in order

[DigginIt 1,132]

I think funcoupledayton hit it right on the head. When we were new we were really kind of crazy with some expectations...I think we all are that way initially.

 

There are never any guarantees when it comes to swinging that the people you are playing with do not use drugs or not carrying around the latest strain of Chlamydia.

 

You need to understand the risks and make the smartest decisions you can but again the only fool proof way to not get anything is to abstain

 

Let us know when you do the refresh

[Whoahblackbetty 15]

How fun! Do me!

 

Sls - Whoahblackbetty

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Whoahblackbetty

Like a good baseball player, you have all the bases covered. Like you, I wonder if Tiffanies and Brittnies taste like pink cotton candy.

 

Good job,

 

~Michael

[Whoahblackbetty 15]

Haha thanks Michael!

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

How fun! Do me!

 

Swing Lifestyle

 

Whoahblackbetty

 

Very interesting profile! You give a clear impression of who you are and I think you'll have great luck. Quite entertaining!

 

PS. I'm very into erotic hypno myself. PM me if you want to talk about it sometime.

[Whoahblackbetty 15]

Thanks Dayton! I realize now I shoulda posted that in singles profiles but, oh well

[Forfunin206 15]

Ok profile has been updated, would live further feedback

 

Forfunin206 on swing life style

 

Thanks agin the feedback has been great

[UserName123 15]

I wish we has SLS in Canada .

[two4youinswva 3,068]

I wish we has Swing Lifestyle in Canada .

 

swinglifestyle.com is available in Canada.

[UserName123 15]

swinglifestyle.com is available in Canada.

 

And to think if only I had googled for myself lol. Thank you kindly!

[cple4fun7577 15]

Can we get a review... would love some feedback... we haven't really gotten any real responses...

cple4fun7577 SLS/AFF

 

Thanks in advance!

[two4youinswva 3,068]

Can we get a review... would love some feedback... we haven't really gotten any real responses...

cple4fun7577 Swing Lifestyle/AFF

 

Thanks in advance!

 

Your profile has some good detail, a picture of you both, and states what you're interested in getting out of swinging.

 

I am of the opinion that a good marketer (and that's pretty much what we are) leaves the negative out of the message. So, I wouldn't start the ad with this:

NOTICE: As of 6/23/11 we will voice verify EVERYONE before meets and or pic exchanges... NO EXCEPTIONS! Don't like it? Don't bother!

 

You can work in that you expect to do a voice verification in the ad, but I would make it a more positive statement.

 

Same thing with your last paragraph: No one wants to hear about your frustrations with finding another couple. Don't share them.

 

You've listed your statistics twice.

 

I would remove the statement about seeking comments and suggestions from veterans. S.L.S. is for hooking up. Swingersboard is for advice.

 

Change "perfers" to "prefers".

 

I see that you aren't interested in single males. You should be able to block single males from seeing your profile. That will take care of all but those posing as a couple.

 

Understand that you have a somewhat narrow age strike zone. That's not a bad thing, but it is going to result in what you've experienced so far; not many real responses.

 

So, in conclusion, remove any negative comments/statements, double check all spelling, and best of luck to you both!

[funcoupledayton 2,708]

Can we get a review... would love some feedback... we haven't really gotten any real responses...

cple4fun7577 Swing Lifestyle/AFF

 

Thanks in advance!

 

I agree with all SWPA said.

 

In regards to the age range, we started this when we were 35. We rarely meet (or play) with people younger than 40. We've met some really great, sexy couples who are older than us. So you may want to consider widening the age range.

 

Overall, nice profile. I like the main pic. I am super critical though, so here are my thoughts:

 

Saying you're picky is a negative and will make some people think twice about contacting you. It's fine to be picky, but you don't need to announce it. The ken and barbie line is so tired and cliche. You don't need it.

 

The mommy marks statement is a little strange to me. Most women have scars or marks and it's not a big deal unless you make a big deal of it. You don't need to broadcast your stretch marks to everyone on sls. You may want to say that you have children and are looking for other couples in similar circumstances.

 

When I see, "you need to be patient with us..." in a profile it reads to me as don't bother, we're flakes and will never find a time to get together. Just leave it out, everyone is busy.

 

Good luck and have fun!

[cple4fun7577 15]

Wow! harsh!!! LOL!!!

 

Seriously, Thanks for the input guys... we will take all your suggestions and give them consideration!!!

[cple4fun7577 15]

well, made 99% of the changes you guys suggested.... Hope this works!! Thanks again to all!

[bjersr 49]

We recently changed of profile on SLS and AFF. You guys have always been helpful and offered great advise. Take a look if you don't mind. Our old one was the frist one we ever posted and it seemed a little stuffy, we are far from that. We also have a better idea of what we are looking for.

 

Thanks

 

it's "Bjersr" on both sites

[two4youinswva 3,068]

Wow! harsh!!! LOL!!!

 

Seriously, Thanks for the input guys... we will take all your suggestions and give them consideration!!!

 

Nah, just a little tough love.

 

Best of luck in attracting about 10 awesome couples!

[cple4fun7577 15]

two4youinswva said:

Best of luck in attracting about 10 awesome couples!

OOOOOHHHH!!!! We would like that!!!!

[two4youinswva 3,068]

We recently changed of profile on Swing Lifestyle and AFF. You guys have always been helpful and offered great advise. Take a look if you don't mind. Our old one was the frist one we ever posted and it seemed a little stuffy, we are far from that. We also have a better idea of what we are looking for.

 

Thanks

 

it's "Bjersr" on both sites

 

I think your profile is pretty tight overall. You describe yourself in detail, have pictures available, and state pretty clearly what you're looking for.

She is Bi-friendly, but usually doesn’t like for it to be a planned thing, she like for it to just happen in the heat of the moment

"like" should be "likes"

 

I would drop the "no drama" line. I've never met anyone that would admit to wanting drama.

 

This is only an opinion and personal preference, but you have the ability to block single males, so a message stating you don't want them in all caps seems unnecessary. Just make it so they can't see you.

 

Good job with your profile!

[bjersr 49]

Thanks for the input and you make a couple of very good points. Again I knew I could depend of the people here for great info.

[noobwithboobs 22]

be brutally honest with me. Cause we are getting frustrated. We joined SLS about a year ago and got tons of messages. I guess cause we were fresh meat? LOL We had to take a break for a few months due to some family issues, and now that we are back, we can't get a message, can't get a reply to a message from people who seem like they would be a match. Is it our profile? Is it just us? lunarwolf23 on SLS. We hate the profile name, but he made it without realizing he could change it later LOL

[two4youinswva 3,068]

Is it our profile? Is it just us?

 

Overall your profile looks good to me. You have done a good job at describing yourselves as a couple, and stating what you are looking for.

 

As I've told others, I'm not a fan of the "no drama" line. No one wants drama, and it isn't going to stop the ones that are full of drama (since the drama is never their fault).

 

I'm going to say your lack of responses comes down to two things:

1. Soft-swap only.

2. No kissing.

 

I'm not advocating that you change your rules to get more interested couples. I'm just saying that it is going to cause a lot of couples to click the back button and continue looking elsewhere.

 

Good luck!

[bjersr 49]

Hey Noobwithboobs,

 

It's too bad you live so far away, we would hit you up.

With that said I kind of have to agree with Two4youinswva about the soft swap and no kissing.

 

As far as you profile. The opening line is a little negative. You say the same basic thing again near the bottom. I would just take the first line out. if you met the right couple and felt comfortable with them would you be flexible on the kissing and soft swap. If so mention that.

 

I almost hate to say this but you said to be brutally honest. If you don't want to kiss and you are only into Soft swap, are you sure you are ready for the "Lifestyle". I don't want you to leave because you are a sexy couple, but it's not for everyone.

 

Something we have found is that it seems like it's ether feast or famine. We will get hit on a lot and then nothing for a while. Sometimes it just takes patience. I think we posted a very similar post as you several months ago, and we finally got some interest and are having a great time.

[noobwithboobs 22]

thanks I know the no kissing thing is going to "hurt" that's his rule not mine, I see his point (kissing = love) he sees my point (if you have a persons cock in your mouth, whats the big deal about a kiss?) but he doesn't want to change it, so it stays until/if he changes his mind. We haven't ruled out full swap, but we don't want to jump out there with that yet in the profile, we are still very new. There are quite a few soft swap only profiles near us, so I don't think that's it. I will change the first line though....I added that when we were still new and getting all these play NOW messages and I got annoyed. It is very rare we can do anything without at least a 2 week notice

[DigginIt 1,132]

Okay noobswithboobs, so I have no data to back this up but the "no kissing" except girl/girl is an instant deal breaker with any couple for us and I think it's the way with a lot of other couples.

 

We respect other's boundaries but the honest truth is that kissing is a huge turn on and helps develop the mood. Kissing to us is one of the things that draws you into a couple and want to move forward to the next steps.

 

If you look at our profile we clearly say that if you are a "no kissing" couple to keep on looking because that isn't us.

 

Your profile is very well written and I think it's a good profile. I just think that there are a vast majority of people that are going to pass you buy over that one rule.

 

Never change your rules for anyone but yourself but just giving my opinion.

 

We used to have a very touchy feeling profile, the kind of one where you say "we like this" and "we like that," now it's kind of bitchy and we have doubled our hits...go figure

 

It's a good profile, something else you might want to consider is it's the holidays. Everything slows to a crawl around this time of year.

 

Good luck!!

[noobwithboobs 22]

I agree with you, but I have to go with his wishes too. Maybe we will find a girl with such incredible lips he will change his mind

[MrsPandMe 150]

be brutally honest with me. Cause we are getting frustrated. We joined Swing Lifestyle about a year ago and got tons of messages. I guess cause we were fresh meat? LOL We had to take a break for a few months due to some family issues, and now that we are back, we can't get a message, can't get a reply to a message from people who seem like they would be a match. Is it our profile? Is it just us? lunarwolf23 on Swing Lifestyle. We hate the profile name, but he made it without realizing he could change it later LOL

 

I'm going to go with the rest of the crew here, in that you're likely not getting much due to the "no kissing" clause. No kissing+soft swap=not much else to do other then talk about cats. Obviously, your boundaries are your boundaries and you certainly shouldn't LET someone talk you out of them, but consider that you are realistically eliminating 3/4ths of the potential pool right there. Soft swinging is a much smaller demographic in swinging then full swinging couples.

 

One thing I noticed, and I notice this with a lot of profiles. Negative things. for instance:

 

"NOT interested in full swapping or one-on-one alone, so please don't ask"

 

This one is covered under your preferences. I can see you're full swap "bar" is on the "maybe if we're especially drunk and randy one day" level. Anyone who is going to ignore that and ask if you're full swap is also likely not going to read beyond your pictures and ask if you're full swap. If you feel the need to reiterate it, simply state something like "we're a soft swap couple". Matter of fact, and yet not negative.

 

"If you are doing this because you are "bored" in your relationship, then sorry we're not the couple for you, we want couples who are just as happy with each other as we are! "

 

Awkward. Not sure what you're shooting here for, especially since most everyone who swings does it to add a little excitement to their lives. "Happy" is a relative term. Are you looking for someone who is as happy as you guys are? Am I? How would I know?

 

"We do not kiss except for female-female, if that's an issue, then we're not for you."

 

We've covered the content of this previously, but my point here is it's another negative presentation.

 

"No drugs, no diseases, and no drama."

 

This one is a personal peeve. Except for the "no drugs" thing. That is important to some people, though again, it's presented negatively and it's a generalization, not to mention obvious. I can safely say I have yet to run into a profile that said something along the lines of "black tar heroin, uppers, downers, roofies, shrooms, Peruvian Marching Powder all great with us! (please bring a dish to pass around)". I HAVE run into several profiles that say "420 friendly". If you don't know what "420" is, you could always ask. obviously they're not embarrassed. On the topic of the generalization, how about something like Viagra? I mean, it's a controlled substance that is sometimes used recreationally in swinging? Food for thought.

 

No diseases goes under the topic of "no shit". Anyone who has a disease and discloses it will disclose it to you, though they are likely not swinging. Anyone who has a disease and is not interested in disclosing it is not going to be deterred with that caveat. My suggestion is as it always is. Become educated on what's out there, learn to identify what you can, and ultimately decide your level of risk/reward.

 

"No drama" is a screen door on a submarine. It is utterly useless to put this on a profile. You will get caught up in some level of drama regardless of your attempts to filter it out via putting "no drama" on your profile. This is why you chat with people and get a feel for them before getting naked with them.

 

You asked for blatant honesty, so there you go! As for the positive, you guys are freakin HOT! You took a lot of time on your profile and that stands for a lot. I don't think your attractiveness nor your attention to profile writing is getting you into trouble, just that you're search parameters are too narrow.

 

Mr. P

[lookingfora3rd 35]

So this morning we set up a paid profile on swinger lifestyle looking for single guys.

 

Our shit started blowing up big time almost immediately so we went in and made some revisions to close the gap a bit. Well, that didn't work at all so I personally just went in and changed the wording to make it sound a little harsh...maybe too harsh. So can you guys check it out and give us some honest feedback.

 

Are we scaring potential guys away? Just seems like you need to lay it all down on the table with these guys.

 

thanks everyone.

 

We're on SLS and our profile is: lookingfora3rdin2012

[twistedpretzels 100]

I wrote you on sls. I thought your profile was honest, upfront and good!

Best wishes and have fun!

[angelkin 1,326]

I agree, it's well written and clearly states your interests. You'll still get a lot of interest...new profiles do and couples who meet single men also get a lot of attention. Good luck in your search, the good guys ARE out there.

[two4youinswva 3,068]

so can you guys check it out and give us some honest feedback.

are we scaring potential guys away?

just seems like you need to lay it all down on the table with these guys.

thanks everyone.

 

It shouldn't scare potentials away, but here's another thought that may or may not work:

 

Instead of coaching them into how you'd prefer they reply, just block every member that responds like an idiot. The "good guys" will not need this coaching. They already get it, and will respond the right way. In the end, they will be easier to identify and hook up with. It will require more patience and culling of the herd, but it may be worth it.

 

 

Disclaimer: We don't actively pursue single males, so our experience in this arena is admittedly limited.

[lookingfora3rd 35]

awesome thanks everyone, got your e twisted, the GF and i were confused at first then put it together, haha..thanks!

and twoforyou, that's a good suggestion..may just do that to help weed out the shitbags, which at this point seem plentiful. sadly hot, respectful, nice guys our age don't seem so..i have read on the forum from multiple posters that it can be harder to find a good single guy then a couple, that makes no sense at all but is starting to seem like the case.

that said, we actually had a long talk last night and decided we wanted to meet couples as well so we changed up our 'desires' a bit.

thanks everyone for your help

[noobwithboobs 22]

I'm going to go with the rest of the crew here, in that you're likely not getting much due to the "no kissing" clause. No kissing+soft swap=not much else to do other then talk about cats. Obviously, your boundaries are your boundaries and you certainly shouldn't LET someone talk you out of them, but consider that you are realistically eliminating 3/4ths of the potential pool right there. Soft swinging is a much smaller demographic in swinging then full swinging couples.

 

One thing I noticed, and I notice this with a lot of profiles. Negative things. for instance:

 

"NOT interested in full swapping or one-on-one alone, so please don't ask"

 

This one is covered under your preferences. I can see you're full swap "bar" is on the "maybe if we're especially drunk and randy one day" level. Anyone who is going to ignore that and ask if you're full swap is also likely not going to read beyond your pictures and ask if you're full swap. If you feel the need to reiterate it, simply state something like "we're a soft swap couple". Matter of fact, and yet not negative.

 

"If you are doing this because you are "bored" in your relationship, then sorry we're not the couple for you, we want couples who are just as happy with each other as we are! "

 

Awkward. Not sure what you're shooting here for, especially since most everyone who swings does it to add a little excitement to their lives. "Happy" is a relative term. Are you looking for someone who is as happy as you guys are? Am I? How would I know?

 

"We do not kiss except for female-female, if that's an issue, then we're not for you."

 

We've covered the content of this previously, but my point here is it's another negative presentation.

 

"No drugs, no diseases, and no drama."

 

This one is a personal peeve. Except for the "no drugs" thing. That is important to some people, though again, it's presented negatively and it's a generalization, not to mention obvious. I can safely say I have yet to run into a profile that said something along the lines of "black tar heroin, uppers, downers, roofies, shrooms, Peruvian Marching Powder all great with us! (please bring a dish to pass around)". I HAVE run into several profiles that say "420 friendly". If you don't know what "420" is, you could always ask. obviously they're not embarrassed. On the topic of the generalization, how about something like Viagra? I mean, it's a controlled substance that is sometimes used recreationally in swinging? Food for thought.

 

No diseases goes under the topic of "no shit". Anyone who has a disease and discloses it will disclose it to you, though they are likely not swinging. Anyone who has a disease and is not interested in disclosing it is not going to be deterred with that caveat. My suggestion is as it always is. Become educated on what's out there, learn to identify what you can, and ultimately decide your level of risk/reward.

 

"No drama" is a screen door on a submarine. It is utterly useless to put this on a profile. You will get caught up in some level of drama regardless of your attempts to filter it out via putting "no drama" on your profile. This is why you chat with people and get a feel for them before getting naked with them.

 

You asked for blatant honesty, so there you go! As for the positive, you guys are freakin HOT! You took a lot of time on your profile and that stands for a lot. I don't think your attractiveness nor your attention to profile writing is getting you into trouble, just that you're search parameters are too narrow.

 

Mr. P

 

I just now saw your reply, and I had allready changed some of the things you mentioned. As for the "bored" thing....that came from alot of profiles and people we have been contacted by where it's like the couple doesn't even want to have sex with each other, so why should I want to have sex with either of you ? We've only had one "real" experience in this, and one of the things that stood out the most to us is that the other couple didn't touch, kiss, anything with each other. It was weird to us. We were making out on their couch while they sat on opposite sides of the room from each other. That's not what we want. And I guess I'm not sure how I need to say it ? There are also the couples where obviously one party is not really wanting to participate but for whatever reason is coming along for the ride. Not interested in that either.

 

Oh, another issue with our profile is that there aren't many pics of him. I need to work on that, but he's usually the one taking the pics and too busy to get in a pic

 

I made some changes to the profile after I first asked this question and have had some good response, who knows if that is why or not, but I'm hoping we will be able to get babysitters lined up and get a free night soon

[fallon couple 20]

our profile on swinglifestyle is nvhotcouple

it is the one were still free members on

havent looked at it lately to see what's in the profile:eek:

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

our profile on swinglifestyle is nvhotcouple

it is the one were still free members on

havent looked at it lately to see what's in the profile

Number One: You pass the SW_PA_Couple test. You've posted un-altered, un-cropped pictures of yourselves. People appreciate that.

 

Number Two: Why call yourself zero pounds? Looks to me like there is nothing about you for which you should be ashamed.

 

Number Three: The profile looks good to me. We'd contact you if you were in our neighborhood.

[two4youinswva 3,068]

our profile on swinglifestyle is nvhotcouple

it is the one were still free members on

havent looked at it lately to see what's in the profile:eek:

 

Good profile overall.

Here are a couple of grammar thingies:

Start the first word in each sentence with a capital letter.

"looking for other couple's" should be "couples" (no apostrophe).

"were easy going and laid back" should be "We're easy going and laid back".

"he is easy to get along with and once he opens up likes to joke and kid around she is a bit quiet at first but very fun and friendly once she loosen's up"

-This should be two sentences: "He is easy to get along with, and once he opens up he likes to joke and kid around. She is a bit quiet at first, but is very fun and friendly once she loosens up".

 

I know these can seem nit-picky, but good grammar can really push a profile towards the top of the pile.

 

Good luck!