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Being different doesn't afford one the luxury of getting mad. It only makes things worse. The issue of bi men being open in clubs is going to change. I see more and more bi men on ad sites everyday. Polls have been conducted on here asking women what they think about MM activity, a lot have said they like it, and want to see it. Because women want it, it will happen. Then you won't be persecuted.

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Being different doesn't afford one the luxury of getting mad. It only makes things worse.

 

I agree but I also understand the shock and dismay (often expressed as anger at first) that is felt when one first discovers that what one pictured as a group of tolerant people, are just people, like everywhere else.

 

When we started swinging, I didn't expect High School all over again.....that was over 30 yrs ago fer gosh sakes...and at first it really pissed us off and then we decided any group that was not what we wanted, we didn't have to play with. We just moved on till we found groups and clubs that fit closer to what we wanted.

 

So, can we be kind to the people who come here and are new enough to still have the illusion of swingers being all open and accepting and tolerant?

 

There are clubs here in Calif we are too old to go to, and one we were told to lose weight before we could come back and others that people are not old enough to go to-be we are and there are BBW-friendly clubs, so the niche of what someone is looking for often can be found. It's just the shock that everyone isn't open to everything that is a shock.

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So, can we be kind to the people who come here and are new enough to still have the illusion of swingers being all open and accepting and tolerant?

 

Lying to children can be kind, lying to adults creates nothing but problems.

 

Being shocked over the fact that swingers are in fact people with the same kind of likes and dislikes as 'normal' people is only due to not understanding what a swinger is.

 

The sooner illusions are dispelled the better and happier everyone will be.

 

I'd also add swingers are as a whole more tolerant than the public at large, but that doesn't mean every swinger is open or comfortable with every type of sexuality and fetish.

 

There is a difference between tolerance and accepting, enjoying or even liking to be around.

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I'd also add swingers are as a whole more tolerant than the public at large

 

I'd say that's opinion, not fact. While it's true swingers as a whole Claim to be more tolerant, it's my opinion that they are not.

 

but that doesn't mean every swinger is open or comfortable with every type of sexuality and fetish.

 

Exactly. As long as someone's swinger style fit's in with the norm all is well. Step out of those boundaries and what you'll find is intolerance by said tolerant swingers. Hypocrisy runs rampant in the swinger world. Once again, in my opinion.

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Hypocrisy runs rampant in the swinger world. Once again, in my opinion.

 

I think this is true with humans in general. Society would rather you cheat in secret when no one knows vs. do it in open consensually.

 

Swingers? That's true to a point what you said. I think that on one hand swinging is fantastic. I think its beautiful how women who normally would not be able to go to a club and feel sexually free are able to do so.

 

But I also agree that there is a "status quo" in swinging that people either adhere to or linger on the outskirts of the society. But then, I think every part of society is like that.

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ShellyM said:

But I also agree that there is a "status quo" in swinging that people either adhere to or linger on the outskirts of the society. But then, I think every part of society is like that.

 

That's exactly my point. 'Swingers' (not all) talk about the intolerance the 'general public' has towards the 'swinging underground' and said swingers complain about the intolerance and closed mindedness (is that even a word? :lol: ) of the general public who don't understand the swinging lifestyle and how they put it down, yadda, yadda, yadda....

 

But then when said swingers catch wind of a couple whose play style doesn't fit into their idea of what a swinging couple should do, the intolerance oozes out of them like one of those homemade volcanoes you make in school.

 

And to me that's even worse than your average narrow minded non-swinging citizen.

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That's exactly my point. 'Swingers' (not all) talk about the intolerance the 'general public' has towards the 'swinging underground' and said swingers complain about the intolerance and closed mindedness (is that even a word? :lol: ) of the general public who don't understand the swinging lifestyle and how they put it down, yadda, yadda, yadda....

 

Boy am I glad I don't give a rat's ass about what the rest of the world thinks of swinging...

 

Seriously - I know I could care less - and I have met relatively few swingers who feel misunderstood or want "tolerance" from the rest of the world. I'm not sure where this majority is who feels so "put upon", but there aren't that many around these parts. Most seem quite comfortable with their lifestyle being a secret.

 

Honestly, I kind of get off on the taboo of it all. If the world thinks we are reprobates - big deal...

 

I am not political, evangelical or apologetic.

 

I don't need anyone to accept what I do for me to be comfortable with who I am...

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Ahh, but many on this board have been attacked by 'regular swingers' because their choices did not fit the mold of 'moral swinger acceptability.'

 

And I'm not talking about illegal shit, beastiality, etc....

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Ahh, but many on this board have been attacked by 'regular swingers' because their choices did not fit the mold of 'moral swinger acceptability.'

 

Ah, but did you not say that it was hypocrisy because these same "regular swingers" complained about the intolerance they face? I was just pointing out that I've never met anyone who felt like swinging needed to be openly accepted or felt like they were treated unfairly because the world didn't readily embrace their sexual interests - hence, no hypocrisy...

 

I think strong opinions are definitely held here - and undoubtedly isolated attacks have taken place. But I don't sense the "intolerance" that most seem to complain about. Usually what I sense is that people don't get the response they want and twist it into more than it is - which is just a difference in opinion and interests...

 

And it is hardly ever hypocrisy...

 

Unless you are redefining the word.

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There are many a people who post that they keep it a secret, not because of the taboo of it all, but because of the way they will be judged by others: co-workers, employers, family, friends, etc... Few keep it a secret because of the Taboo of it all.

 

Post a thread about having sex with a man or woman who is already 'spoken for' with out the SO's knowledge. Or post a thread about not wearing a condom with one night stands or someone you don't know that well (among other scenarios) and stand back and watch the show...

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My point is that swingers, as a whole (for the most part), claim to be an open-minded group. That is, of course, until you say something they don't agree with.

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My point is that swingers, as a whole (for the most part), claim to be an open-minded group. That is, of course, until you say something they don't agree with.

 

Again...

 

No they don't...

 

Seriously - go back and read the threads on this board - that is a straw man argument. Most swingers around here say that they consider swingers no more open-minded than the rest of society. And yet - people keep trotting this tired claim out as "proof" that swingers are hypocrites because they don't support every nook and cranny of sexual expression... But the truth is, it is false...

 

And a false premise makes for an impotent argument...

 

Post a thread about having sex with a man or woman who is already 'spoken for' with out the SO's knowledge... and stand back and watch the show......

 

I'll admit - this is something that I would never do and have a very strong opinion against it. I've posted about this on the threads where it belongs - and this certainly isn't the thread for that. But what's your point? I am not a hypocrite for thinking that this is wrong - nor am I less open-minded...

 

Actually, I consider a couple who would do this to be amazingly selfish and so ridiculously short-sighted as to border on sociopathic. But what does that have to do with the price of beans in China?

 

That has nothing to do with this thread - nor is it hypocrisy... So I fail to see your tie-in.

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Spoo, are you saying that in your experience and what you see posted here swingers KNOW that swinging doesn't make them open minded?

 

I'd agree with that.

 

 

And I'd like to point out that many newbies think swinging = more open minded and it's through experience with swinging, we learn swinging has Nothing to do with being 'open minded'.

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K- same thing others say about you being a swinger.

 

And again - as I have said above - I don't care...

 

But that is what makes this so much fun :)

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Spoo, are you saying that in your experience and what you see posted here swingers KNOW that swinging doesn't make them open minded?

 

Yes, I do agree with that. I think that people are either more or less open-minded. Being a swinger doesn't change that.

 

I do think that a person who is open to the swinging lifestyle is likely to be more open-minded that someone who is not, but that is by no stretch a rule. People in the lifestyle can also be as close-minded as anyone else.

 

But what I see as a logical fallacy is the way that the term "open-minded" is used. What does it mean to be open-minded? Does it mean that I am accepting and indulgent in everything, regardless of my personal interest and comfort level? I ask this because that is the typical application by those who claim we are not open-minded.

 

I just think the terminology used in this thread by many has been sloppy, inflammatory and often times a bit of reach. The terms "hypocrite" and "open-minded" have been so badly misused as to make me believe that we don't need a more tolerant lifestyle - we need vocabulary lessons.

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we need vocabulary lessons.
:lol:

 

The generally accepted meaning of words has been morphing faster and faster.

 

Half the time I don't know if I'm going to offend someone with a word that was ok a couple of years ago.

 

I now aim to figure out how the person meant the word, and not how I learned or can look it up, to mean. Sometimes I have to ask.

 

 

In the context of this thread, (I think) "open-minded" means tolerant of others sexual interests/attractions. It's the ACTIONS that denote tolerance that is being :deadhrse:

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In the context of this thread, (I think) "open-minded" means tolerant of others sexual interests/attractions.

 

Then I would say that for the most part then, the people on this board at least are very open-minded. I don't think anyone has said that MM sex is wrong.

 

It's the ACTIONS that denote tolerance that is being :deadhrse:

 

100% agree.

 

Unless we can agree with what tolerance "looks like" we'll never see eye to eye on the issue. And wouldn't that make for an interesting thread ;)

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Spoomonkey beat me to this already today, but I'm putting in my two cents anyway.

 

"Open-minded" means a person is willing to consider something on its merits, willing to listen and evaluate -- and here's the key -- without already knowing what his or her conclusion will be. They are willing to change their mind if convinced by something compelling.

 

However, "open-minded" does not mean that once a person has made their evaluation, their opinion of everything will be positive! It does not mean the open-minded person accepts everything!

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I haven't enough interest to read this entire thread, so I'm going to make the following post risking that the idea has already been presented:

 

From a Merriam-Webster dictionary:

 

Pho-bia n. Irrational persistent fear.

 

So, "homophobia" means "an irrational persistent fear of homosexuality."

 

That someone considers male-to-male sexuality repugnant, or just boring, does not suggest that such activity is feared, only that there is no interest. If, because I personally have no interest in male/male sex, a person were to call me a "homophobe" I'd be insulted.

 

If such sex is not wanted by most of the attendants at a club is reason enough to discourage it. That's business. If a club were to establish a separate room for the gay guys, that would seem "open-minded" to me.

 

We've been to only one club, Menages in Nashville. During the tour, the hostess told us that male homosexuality was not allowed in the club for the very reason I cited above. Makes sense to me.

 

Now, I'm going back to ignoring threads such as this.

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Seriously - I know I could care less - and I have met relatively few swingers who feel misunderstood or want "tolerance" from the rest of the world. I'm not sure where this majority is who feels so "put upon", but there aren't that many around these parts. Most seem quite comfortable with their lifestyle being a secret.
I agree. For us the view from the outside world is more an an annoyance and a topic of conversation rather than a quest to 'enlighten' the world to our ways.

 

Like you Spoo (I think at least), I've undertaken a quest of self-discovery and improvement so that I feel neither superior nor beneath anyone else, therefore I do not feel the need to judge others anymore. Live and let live, I say. And I'm much more relaxed and happy these days for it. Unfortunately, you'll always find those that need to judge others, or those that need to pigeon-hole others to make their life seem worthwhile or themselves feel 'normal' (whatever that may be ::P: ).

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From a Merriam-Webster dictionary:

 

Pho-bia n. Irrational persistent fear.

 

So, "homophobia" means "an irrational persistent fear of homosexuality."

 

That someone considers male-to-male sexuality repugnant, or just boring, does not suggest that such activity is feared, only that there is no interest. If, because I personally have no interest in male/male sex, a person were to call me a "homophobe" I'd be insulted.

That's a great point, because I'm getting tired of being called a golfophobic because I have no real interest in watching or playing golf, even though I have no "irrational or persistent fear" of those that do. :lol:

 

Alura, you hit the nail right on the head. Just because I'm not interested in some activity myself doesn't mean I'm opposed to it for others. I think, in a nutshell, that has been Spoo's point all along.

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That's a great point, because I'm getting tired of being called a golfophobic because I have no real interest in watching or playing golf, even though I have no "irrational or persistent fear" of those that do. :lol:

 

Agreed...

 

And I really don't want golfers taking over our local club - constantly talking about golf and walking around in their spiky shoes - telling me that if I just tried golf I'd like it and how some scientist at some college in Indiana did a survey that found that all people are at least a little bit interested in golf.

 

"Seriously," they'd say to me, "if you were trapped on a desert island with nothing but a bag of clubs, you'd play golf."

 

I can admire the fact that Tiger Woods is a great golfer - I am secure enough to admit that - but I've never actually watched him play (aside from the guilty late-night highlight on ESPN). Heck, I even have friends who are golfers and I am cool with the fact that - whether they will admit it or not - most men are golfers. I just know deep down that I am not one - the swing looks awkward and as an activity quite uncomfortable - what with the strange pants, requisite IZOD shirt and "come fuck me" golf shoes...

 

Nope - none for me, thanks :D

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Slightly off from the original thread but not completely. I had never before seen at SLS a person describing himself specifically as a homosexual but now I have. I had always assumed that owing to the fact that the only choices given at that Web site for sexual identity are straight, bi-curious and bi that homosexual men and women were, by implication, discouraged from advertising.

 

Now, before you guys start, I will state emphatically that I have no ill feeling toward anyone homosexual. I am simply expressing surprise at seeing this profile at SLS.

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As for legal, can anyone tell me how true the Free single female/charge for single males is going thru the courts? I heard that it was discrimination and one club out here already went couples only because of the legal issues.

 

In California, several bars and regular night clubs were had class action lawsuits filed against them for sexual discrimination for having a ladies night where they got in for free while not offering a 'males' night of the same. They lost and with that set, any place doing this is subject to similar suits and I'm not sure why I haven't heard more about it.

 

Most people flame me for feeling this way but I agree it's discrimination and it bothers me. On the same note, I hate all the lawsuit happy people in this country so I'm not a huge fan of suing businesses left and right.

 

I understand that the idea is to bring more ladies into a club. However, I've been in the business in a town that has a lot of night clubs in So Cal and know that most of these places would have those girls come to the clubs with or without free covers because they are the places to be at. I'm also not a guy that ever had trouble finding girls nor did I really go to clubs to find them so it wasn't a huge issue for me to hope more women showed up. I just get particularly bothered about this when I go to a club in Las Vegas where the cover is $30.00 and I'm with 5 women and I'm the only one that has to pay. It's not the total amount that bothers me, just the principal. I'm sure this strayed off the topic but I felt a Dennis Miller rant building. :)

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In California, several bars and regular night clubs were had class action lawsuits filed against them for sexual discrimination for having a ladies night where they got in for free while not offering a 'males' night of the same. They lost and with that set, any place doing this is subject to similar suits and I'm not sure why I haven't heard more about it.

 

 

I think the difference tends to fall in that swinger clubs (most of them) are set up as PRIVATE clubs and just as there are still "boys only" Mens Clubs that don't allow females at all... private clubs can set their own rules, requirements and fees.

 

A regular bar/nightclub is not going to fall into that category.

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Re: The swinging industry needs to be less homophobic to men
I looked at the title of this thread again and saw it in a different light. The "industry" in my opinion is more like a mom and pop store, just struggling to make ends meet. Yes, there are some big stores out there, but I wouldn't want to retire on what either brings in as "profits". Especially the mom and pops.

 

And concerning being less homophobic? Generally they are only less homophobic to only 50% of the population.

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We've always felt that it has a lot to do with how attractive we find the people involved. There are beautiful women AND beautiful men in this lifestyle. We can think of a few guys that we would love to watch play together, and a few women that we would absolutely NOT want to watch play together!

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This is an interesting conversation. I think that m2m sexuality at clubs is very slowly becoming more and more commonplace. Our club welcomes bisexual men with open arms, and we pre-warn those who want to participate in our clubs activities that there WILL be m2m sex happening. To each their own, but our club will not discriminate against bisexual men.

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I realize I'm going to be flamed for this but since I am not exactly PC, who cares. Everybody has a right to determine what they like and don't like.

 

"GET over it", grow up and accept that others want to indulge in their own fantasies. They don't have to force themselves to watch you do what you want, and you shouldn't have the power to force them to do so.

 

I hate seafood, but choose to stay out of restaurants that specialize in seafood. They lose my business because i have the freedom to not associate myself with seafood restaurants. They therefore benefit by not having me gripe and complain about the smell of clams, mussel, or whatever else it is that was dredged up from the ocean floor, which ends up with both of us happier.

 

I do choose to eat at steakhouses because I enjoy the flavor and smell of a fresh sizzling steak. They benefit from my business and we are both happier for it.

 

For some reason some folks think they have a right to make everyone conform to their own personal way of thinking and that others are simply prejudice and hateful for disagreeing.

 

There are clubs out there which service you interests, go out there and find them or have an original thought and start your own club. There is a need you can fill and in the process fill your own needs.

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It would be awesome if the world in general was a more open minded place. I think it's sad that a woman with a woman is considered sexy, but most people think two men together is gross or wrong in some way. It's hypocritical.

 

If my hubby wanted to make out or get his oral on with another dude, I'd be online finding him a hottie in a second, lol. He has no interest in that though, but he doesn't judge those that do.

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The swinging industry has always prided itself on being open-minded. Indeed, one of the catch-cries of the industry has been "freedom". However, I'm seriously starting to wonder whether this is actually true. The amount of discrimination that many swing clubs show towards the male-male interaction is quite shocking. This isn't true open-mindedness.

 

Yes it isn't open-mindedness. But you shouldn't find it shocking. Disappointing, yes; shocking, no.

 

It's sad, it's sorry, it isn't what we would like it to be, but there it is. It's human.

 

There's no point in raging against the sky. Misquoting the 12-step folks, let's remind ourselves to change what we can, let be what we can't, and hope we have the wisdom to know the difference.

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Someone here once said it is not so much being open minded as being different minded.

 

I wish I could quote them exactly.

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The phrase open minded often makes my spidy sense tingle. Too often people judge open mindedness based on how much someone agrees with their opinions.

 

While I may not appreciate the same things as someone or enjoy the same activities, I have no issues with what they choose to do as long as it does not harm others or intrude on someone else.

 

As for businesses, they make decisions based on revenue equaling or exceeding cost. Clubs restrict single males because of too much supply, too little demand. Clubs do not cater to bi-males because demand is so low, but I have not seen any clubs restrict them, unless of course they are also single males.

 

In any case I am open minded enough to understand they are free to make choices that may or may not cater to my needs. That is perfectly okay with me, as I am free to choose where to spend my money.

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The trick with having an open mind is not to be so open that your brains fall out.

 

Being open minded means you are willing to weigh the facts, and change your assessment of the situation when new data comes to light.

 

In my case, I thought, and this was backed up by some research that long term male bisexuality would be quite rare as compared to female bisexuality. I have kept an 'open mind' on this and now after years in the swinging world I have changed that opinion to be male bisexuality is far more common than previously believed.

 

That doesn't mean we suddenly find it sexy, or want the greater STD risk that bi males have.

 

The main fault of lack of acceptance of bi-males in swinging are the bi-males themselves. As long as they cower in the closet as a whole there is no economic incentive for swinger event organizers to cater to them.

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. . . some research that long term male bisexuality would be quite rare as compared to female bisexuality. . .

 

Very interesting. I had never heard that. My John was gay first, until he got won over to the light side. He continues to be quite gay, but the allure of my pussy keeps from wandering too far.

 

I wonder where he fits in to the research?

 

John and I are both bi- but both of us were queer first, then straight. (Precisely true with him; I was sorta bi- from the beginning -- as a tiny child I knew I wanted to be both a mommy and a daddy, which I take to be a childish inclining of being bi-. But almost all of my teen sex was with girls, so like John call me gay first, bi- later.)

 

There's something about the way folks feel about gay sex with men vs. with women that causes more revulsion. Dunno why, but there it is.

 

I too am saddened and sorry that the swing world is not very welcoming to gay & bi- men, but I think we have to just realize it's a culture bias that is widespread.

 

So we should campaign against the homophobia, but not demonize the 'phobes.

 

And further:

. . . the greater STD risk that bi males have . . .
That's a very logical position, but logic doesn't doesn't rule feelings.

The main fault of lack of acceptance of bi-males in swinging are the bi-males themselves. As long as they cower in the closet as a whole there is no economic incentive for swinger event organizers to cater to them.
Chicup, some might think you're blaming the victim, but the truth of your logic is unassailable.

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Very interesting. I had never heard that. My John was gay first, until he got won over to the light side. He continues to be quite gay, but the allure of my pussy keeps from wandering too far.

 

I wonder where he fits in to the research?

 

The research was done by a Northwestern Professor who is generally reviled by the GBL community for his conclusions. His findings were that while bisexual females tend to stay in long term bisexual relationships, bisexual males tend to either end up straight or gay and are in transition. I think the flaw in his study wasn't the experimental model but that his sample came mostly from bisexual men living in a gay area. They were self selected and I think many were finally coming to grips with being gay. So what he found was true but only for that population. Based on the number of "straight" men in the lifestyle that are not straight I think he was wrong.

 

There's something about the way folks feel about gay sex with men vs. with women that causes more revulsion. Dunno why, but there it is.

 

I'll be honest, it makes me go eww and makes my wife go EWWWWW. When I see it, it just doesn't look right. There seems to be very little in between in peoples reactions. Either they think its hot or they think its gross. One reason I'm glad its not all that common in swinging is that I know it would turn my wife completely off. The ironic thing being she is bi herself, and added she was not raised in some sort of religious/anti-gay household.

 

 

I too am saddened and sorry that the swing world is not very welcoming to gay & bi- men, but I think we have to just realize it's a culture bias that is widespread.

 

 

 

So we should campaign against the homophobia, but not demonize the 'phobes.

 

 

 

And further:

 

That's a very logical position, but logic doesn't doesn't rule feelings.

 

Chicup, some might think you're blaming the victim, but the truth of your logic is unassailable.

 

 

I'm not sure its homophobia. I really LIKE gay men, in some ways I feel easier talking to them than straight men, and at least I know they don't want to fuck my wife :). It is that sexual turn-off that is the issue. It is sort of like how you don't want to see your parents have sex, I don't want to see them having sex. Its at a visceral level, not a logical one.

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Saying that you find homosexual sex revolting is offensive to people in that community. Would you like it if I said I was revolted by you having sex with your wife?

 

I might feel that way, but I have the respect to not say so...

 

Society has deemed it OK to be insulting towards homosexuals... That is why you get away with saying what you say.

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Would you like it if I said I was revolted by you having sex with your wife?

 

Actually, I worked with a guy in college that literally became ill when guys talked about sex with women. He called it "disgusting beyond disgusting."

 

Not only did it not offend me, he used to crack me up with some of the crazy BS he said.

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A couple of our gay friends give the "Eewwwww!" response when straight sex is mentioned. We get a little giggle out of it. Another of our gay friends told us about the time he woke up to a female friend (Who knew he was gay) giving him a BJ. The freak out he experienced and told us about didn't offend us.

 

To me it's the same as finding a certain type of food disgusting when certain other people like it. Raspberries for instance. How do you people eat those nasty things?

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I wonder if the sensitivity over this is slowly turning into an identity issue. I am a guy who is straight, not a "straight man". That's a subtle difference, but I dont define myself by the fact that I am straight. Do many gay men and women define themselves as a "gay man" and "gay woman"? The folks I know seem to define themselves that way and it seems like it would lead to being more sensitive when someone discusses something impacting how you primarily define yourself.

 

Just wondering aloud.

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I think it's more about what people find revolting and why.

 

I don't find consensual sexuality revolting no matter the gender or combination of genders. Male/male is not revolting, obese, elderly, male/female, female/female, jerking or jilling off. Warm, hot, passionate, truly and magnificently consensual sex simply is not revolting

 

Why someone finds sex revolting has to do with the revolted person and his hangups rather than with sex or those having sex.

 

Truly revolting are those who hurt others, molest others, kill others.

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I think it's more about what people find revolting and why.

 

Yes, yes. There's the burn.

 

We can all, if we chose, to be decent about things we don't agree with, but are willing to accept as public values.

 

But when you're revolted -- it's a lot to ask for people to put their revulsion behind them.

 

John and I are quite gay-friendly. (Well we should be, since we're both bi- and both more queer than straight.) But I don't demonize people who are revolted by the idea of gay sex; mostly, they're built that way, rather than chose to be that way.

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OK, I have been watching people post into this thread on-and-off for five years. Time for me to weigh in. Swinging does not have to be anything. It simply is what it is. And, incidentally, it is not an industry.

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      I'm Mistral, and my husband Tim and I attended the most fabulous swingers party the previous weekend at our new friends' large manor house. We were filled with glee when they invited us back the following weekend for another cum-filled night of debauchery. They also suggested we bring some friends if we liked.
       
      John and Wendy were a couple we knew from our charity work. They were young, idealistic, and very open-minded. We didn't think they were swingers, but the subject had come up in casual conversation. They were curious but remained evasive about their thoughts on the subject. We decided all we could do was broach the issue and see what happened.
       
      The next evening, John and Wendy arrived after Tim and Mistral. They followed the crowd upstairs. As they climbed the stairs amongst the excited and bubbly people, Wendy remembered the afternoon and that phone call. John's voice was nervous and excited, "Hi, Babe! We have a party invite from Tim and Mistral to join them at their friends' swinger party tonight. I know we have fantasized about this. How do you feel?"
       
      Wendy felt panic surge through her stomach, excitement flooded her pussy, and her nipples perked up hard. "Wow, that is short notice. What happens if we don't like it?"
       
      "Babe, I will never make you," John promised. "We both have to want this to happen. I am sorry to spring it on you like this, and maybe we should forget it then."
       
      Wendy said, "No, John, I did not say 'NO,' just what happens? When we fantasized about swinging, you said you would love to watch me in a group of men getting fucked by them all. Are you sure about that?"
       
      Wendy had visualized these events, wishing desperately that John would take the lead and say, 'We will do it.' In their role-playing, they often pretended to be at a swingers party changing partners. One of Wendy's games was to roll up two large pillows, tie a belt around with a strap-on dildo attached to the belt, put her large vibrator into the cup, and ride the pillows, getting fucked hard by the vibrator. John would come from behind and fuck her arse or go to the front, and she would suck him to a spluttering cum inside her mouth. In her mind, these were real men fucking her, and she shared herself with the men, and John loved the attention and continuous pleasure.
       
      In reply to Wendy's question, John said, "Oh yes, while I am having the same with two girls, one on my face and one on my cock, I would love it! Babe, I am sure. How about you?"
       
      Wendy gulped. The secret she had held in her head for so long was about to become real. "Let's do it. Let's go! Are you sure you won't feel jealous watching me come on some man's cock with another somewhere else inside me? I don't have a thing to wear. What do I need?"
       
      John said, "The theme is An Officer and a Gentleman. I can go dressed as a USA Army General using my dad's old uniform. You wear your sexy red top and skirt. You know, the top that doesn't come all the way down, the skirt with the elastic waistband hanging low on you, and your suspenders and stockings. No thong, no bra. You will show off your pussy to her best. My cock is getting hard just thinking about it!"
       
      Wendy replied, "I will be ready when you get home. Your dad's uniform will need a press, and I will prepare everything. See you at 6:00 tonight, darling."
       
      Her hands were shaking when she replaced the receiver breathing shallowly and jerkily as the realization hit home that tonight it would happen! During the afternoon, she got John's clothes ready, checked her dress, found the right shoes, and laid it all out, ready for later. A long hot soak where she shaved her pussy bare using John's razor and made sure her legs and armpits were perfect.
       
      Resting on the bed, she shuffled through the videos they kept hidden from guests and found her favorite, "Suzie's Gang Bang." A fast-action orgy video in which this girl gets fucked by five men altogether. Wendy often watched this and used her vibrator when John was away or working late. Sometimes when her cycle was at ovulation, her sex drive was limitless, and she would role-play watching the action.
       
      The action on the screen hotted up as the men were penetrating Susie left, right, and center. A closeup on-screen of pussy open and dripping. A cock slid into it, wetting itself with her fluids. It slid out, rubbed against her tiny rosebud anus, and gently but firmly slid into opening her slowly. At the same time, another cock pushed into her pussy. Wendy loved this part and rolled onto her side, turned on the vibrator, and sunk it into her arse. Her fingers slid into her pussy, working gently to pleasure her clit. Her hips were thrusting back and forward faster and faster as her climax built. She reached down and switched on her biggest vibrator, a black cock that was as real as it gets. The vibrator was thrust inside her cunt, and she moaned and moaned herself into a massive climax.
       
      Wendy relaxed, watched the movie, enjoyed the post-climactic euphoria, and gently played with her clit. In her mind, she watched the swingers' party unfold - couples fucking, girl-girl, MFM, and FMF at this imaginary party. Inside her head, she had been desperate to fulfill these needs, and it was finally coming true.
       
      In the past, Wendy was often on the verge of saying to John, "Let's try swinging!" She always shrank away from the responsibility in case he rejected the reality. Fantasies are fine, but who knows what the reality will bring? After so many conversations about swinging, so many nearly made decisions, and all those fantasies that included imaginary swinging, they had chosen to go ahead. With an overwhelming certainty, she laid back, smiled, and said to herself, "Tonight, I will fuck a roomful of men. I hope I don't disappoint them; my clit is tingling with anticipation!"
       
      Wendy switched on the vibrator, and her hands moved over her breasts, pinching her nipples and then down to her pussy. Her hips were rocking back and forth. She rolled the pillows up, tied the belt around, clipped the vibrator into the belt, and climbed on top, sinking the vibrator deep inside her pussy and working herself to another peak. She closed her eyes and started rocking harder and harder. Then, a voice penetrated the action, and John stood naked and erect in front of her. She blushed with embarrassment, and he thrust his cock into her mouth. It tasted slightly salty. He lasted about 10 seconds and then dumped the load down her throat, bringing her to a climax.
       
      John smiled and gently rolled Wendy into his arms. "You looked fantastic when I walked in and found you fucking your brains out with your vibrator on top of those pillows. If I feel as proud of you at the party as I did then and how aroused it made me, I can't wait to watch you fuck the guys. Will you enjoy watching me and sharing my pleasure?"
       
      "Oh yes," she said in her little girl's voice, "I will love watching you; maybe I can do a 69 with her and lick her pussy while you thrust in and out and feel your balls contract when you come inside her."
       
      "Mmmmmm, I wonder if all the girls will be bi? I wonder if I could do a girly threesome? Mmmmmm, I wonder if I can get two men to come at the same time inside me. That would be fun too."
       
      "Can I be your vixen tonight and play dirty?" John smiled and spoke softly, the care showing in his voice.
       
      "Babe, we will have a fabulous time together and with other couples or whatever, don't be shy to try what you want, and feel able to say NO if you don't want. Above all, enjoy yourself, and pleasure comes first," she reminded him.
       
      So back to the party! They gathered around a pool table, with the group laughing and joking about the action starting all around. Wendy looked at the two girls on the pool table with their legs over the shoulders of four guys who were licking and sucking nipples, pussies, and one man had her toes in his mouth, sucking them like a breastfeeding baby. Wendy started to pant. She could not get her breath. Her heart was racing, her knees buckled, and she began to shake. Tears flooded down her face. John cried, "What's up! What's up!"
       
      Wendy sank against the woman beside her shaking uncontrollably. The girl instinctively put her arms around Wendy and held her close, supporting Wendy against herself.
       
      "Sushhhhh baby, you are all right!" the woman cooed, "What is worrying you? You don't have to do any of this if you are afraid."
       
      Wendy snuggled against the comforting figure, put her face against the warm, feminine neck, and nuzzled her cheek, kissing it gently. Her hand moved without command to the woman's breast, and she felt the nipple harden as she caressed it gently. The shaking was easing now, and Wendy felt a little bolder. She turned the woman's face towards her, looked into her eyes, and moved forward slowly, anticipating a gentle and subtle kiss. The tongue was not stiff and probing like a man's but gentle, enticing, and exciting. Wendy's free hand moved down to the woman's belly and softly caressed the feminine rounded shape moving slowly downwards to find that sweetly perfumed garden where a secret lotus stem was waiting to be stroked.
       
      Hands caressed breasts and pussy. Now both girls turned on to each other. John watched, fascinated. He had never seen Wendy with another woman, and his cock raged hard inside his pants. As if in a dream, Wendy pushed the girl gently onto the pool table so her bottom was on edge. She bent down, opened her legs, put them on her shoulders, and snuggled her face between them, savoring the beautiful feminine smells and tastes. Gently opening up the inner lips with her tongue, finding her clit and teasing, teasing just off the edge, making her wait for the full pleasure. Female wetness was seeping all over Wendy's face as the girl was getting nearer and nearer to release.

      A few minutes passed, and the girl pushed Wendy off, got onto the table, and said, "Get up here with me. We can pleasure each other now!"

      Wendy climbed up, the shakes all gone now. Her pussy was soaking wet, and her breasts were tender with erect nipples and very sensitive. She lifted her skirt, revealing the stockings and suspenders without anything else. The two girls turned head to toe and started a frantic licking expedition to cunt heaven.

      Wendy felt a body get up behind her and present a long stiff penis to her backside. The man tried gently to insert it in her cunt where the girl was licking hard; it slipped in and thrust a few times. The girl firmly grassed it and slid it up the crack between her buttocks, tickling her anus with the end. Wendy's whole valley was wet and slippery. The long thin cock nudged open her arse and gently snaked into her bottom.

      Wendy's heart raced again; this was what she had dreamed of for months! What surprised her was that the cock inside her was giving almost more pleasure than having her pussy sucked. The combination was too great. A massive climax took over, and she nearly fainted with joy.

      As she fell over the edge into an abyss of pleasure, the man behind speeded up, grunted, and sank deep inside her, flooding her back passage with his fluids. Wendy opened her eyes and looked up at John, who stood open-mouthed, watching her antics. He had a girl on her knees sucking his rigid cock, but his eyes were transfixed on Wendy. She smiled, blew him a kiss, and licked her lips covered in pussy juice from the girl beneath her. John shuddered and spent down the girl's throat pumping his hips in time with his spurts.

      He gently pushed the girl to one side, staggered to Wendy with his pants down by his feet, and said, "Well, you are hot; I could not believe how sexy you are. I am so proud of you; better than my wildest dreams was that fantastic to watch."

      Wendy thought to herself, "Why did I panic? This is fantastic, better than the fantasies we have. This is real sex."
       
      A couple came up to them. The man smiled. "I am Tommy. This is Raquel, my wife. We just watched you and nearly came with you. Would you join us at the table for a foursome?"
       
      Wendy reached down and felt his cock inside his pants. It was semi-hard and big. She turned to John and Raquel, "Let's get together. We can play here or in one of the smaller rooms with a nice bed?"

      They entered the room together. Wendy pushed down her long skirt and flipped off her top. She was naked except for her stockings and suspenders. Raquel slipped out of her long ball gown, revealing a very firm 36's and a sweet little tight arse on top of a pair of legs to die for. She was near perfect. Tommy was muscular with a flat hard six-pack stomach and an erection starting to grow to full size as he gently stroked himself. John was naked in a flash, only half erect after his escapade down the other girl's throat. Wendy turned to Tommy, who scooped her up in his arms and carried her over to the king-sized bed, his erect cock bouncing up and down as he stepped forward. Raquel reached out for John, smiled softly, and whispered, "Come and play with me and let me get you hard again. We will watch them while I regenerate your erection."

      John looked down at her fair perfection, those soft curves all running down into the valley between her legs. A golden pussy fuzz glinted in the soft lights. He reached for her and pulled her towards him. A first gentle kiss, lips opened up, and tongues tenderly searched each other out, exploring each other. His hands held her back, then softly slid down over her buttocks, caressing that incredible apple shape of her bottom. She pulled him harder into her body.

      As Raquel responded to the stimuli, her hand slid down to feel his penis, which was gently growing back to a man-size stiffness. Their kisses became more ardent, and deeper tongues were now demanding, not exploring. Hands moved over her body.

      John broke off the long kiss and searched her neck with his lips and tongue. She shuddered, and he felt her open her legs and move into his body. She thrust her pubis against his leg and started to move up and down. He could feel the wetness spreading along his thigh. John had now reached her breast with his lips and was attacking her nipple, which was bone hard. Raquel started to pant and squirm harder against his leg.

      Suddenly Raquel broke away and fell back onto the bed beside Tommy and Wendy's entwined bodies. Raquel reached up, and John dived onto her, gently landing without his weight on her. Raquel squirmed around so she was head-to-toe with him, with her on her back. Raquel reached up and grasped his nearly hard cock. She slipped her mouth over the head as she pulled back his tight foreskin and started to suck him to total hardness.

      John's head was between her legs. His mouth opened up her secret garden exploring the sides and little creases. He could tell her clit was begging for attention, and he made her wait. He felt careful with his tongue and could feel the hardness and swelling around her clit, which was now erect like a mini penis. His tongue explored her depths and penetrated her cunt, where he would follow with his cock shortly. Raquel was getting agitated and frustrated. She wanted attention on her clit, so John moved his tongue down the crease between her legs out of her cunt and down to her anus. As it reached the little rosebud, she shuddered and thrust her hips against his face.

      Raquel was working hard on making his cock whole again and hard enough to get inside her to ease that burning desire. She threw him over onto his back, climbed on top, grasped his penis in her hand, aimed for her inner lips, and squatted down with a satisfied sigh. John tried to thrust up against her downstrokes, and they found a comfortable rhythm that would gently build to a glorious climax.

      Tommy knelt beside John and Raquel with Wendy's legs over his shoulders, thrusting energetically into her pussy. Wendy's bottom hardly touched the bed as his cock shuttled in and out of her dripping pussy. Raquel leaned over and kissed him hard on his mouth while her fingers searched for Wendy's cunt. Wendy pushed her hand out to John, grasped his face, and pulled it over for a kiss. As the four fucked into each other's partners, the respective partners smiled and kissed each other. Raquel started to whimper like a small cat. Her eyes rolled up as she reached her first climax, and her face distorted. A moan escaped her lips. "Fuck it harder! Fuck it, my cunt is exploding. Ohhhhhhhhh!"

      Raquel collapsed in a heap on top of John. He rolled her off and crawled around to the other two. Tommy rolled Wendy off him, and she got onto all fours. John hit her from the rear straight into her cunt, deep and hard. She thrust back to meet him harder and faster. Tommy went for the face and slid his cock deep into her mouth, making her gag a little, setting a fast pace that could never last. Tommy grunted and exploded semen down her throat, pumping and pumping till he was spurting on empty. Wendy cried out and shuddered and shuddered as she lost it in a huge one. John followed a few thrusts later. With a sigh and a deep thrust, he unloaded inside Wendy.

      The three untangled themselves. John lay on his side facing Tommy, and Raquel rested against him, her head using his hips as a pillow. Tommy and Wendy took up a similar position facing them. Wendy was fascinated with Tommy's penis, which had shrunk to a little wrinkled sausage. She played with it tenderly, remembering how hard and energetic it had just been. John was exploring Raquel's inner sanctuary in a lazy, tender way.

      Raquel got up, poured four glasses of wine from a bottle on the side table, and brought them to the bed. They all sipped and chatted quietly, enjoying the aftermath of the passion. Wendy could feel a slippery liquid seeping out between her legs. She reflected on how wonderful the party had started and how much better real sex in a group was than watching and fantasizing.

      Wendy said, "John, I need to use the bathroom. I will be back shortly. Will you wait here for me?"

      "Of course, darling," he smiled and added. "Come back when you are ready!" She laughed and left the room.

      Three girls and two men burst in a few minutes later, laughing and jostling each other. "Can we use the bed or join you if you haven't finished?" one girl asked. "Sure, get on and join us," John replied with a smile.

      Each girl selected a mate and sidled up to him as bodies entwined and hands were everywhere. The scene changed from relaxed, easy caresses to hot passion. John was having trouble getting hard again so soon after the last session. One of the two guys noticed and put his head in his lap, sucking gently on his cock. The girls watched with rapt interest. John froze for a second. This had never happened before. Then he relaxed as he thought to himself Wendy does this to me all the time. I go down on her. She won't mind, so what's the problem? John laid back and started enjoying a new experience.

      Wendy walked naked through the large room towards the lady's bathroom, passing groups and couples in all types of contortions. One threesome had a man on all fours, the girl on his back legs wrapped around the guy on top as he fucked vigorously. Her head was bobbing about like a broken rag doll. The whimpers coming from her showed she was in fuck heaven. Wendy passed them and smiled. She could not believe how many different positions were being displayed.

      In the bathroom, a girl was sitting on the side where the washbasins were, legs wide open, washing out the fluids that had been pumped into her. She licked her fingers and said, "Yummy, don't you just love that salty taste? I just got too full after a big gangbang. I had eight inside me, one after the other. Some of the greedy buggers came back for seconds and thirds." Wendy asked, "How long did you do it for?" The girl said, "About an hour and a half. I am a bit sore now and need a rest to recover after coming so many times."

      Wendy left the bathroom and wandered down a corridor from the large room. She heard sounds from a room; she stopped and looked in through the open door. Nine men were around this one girl who was being fucked from behind by one with another in her mouth, and a few were by her head. She had a cock in each hand, and the others were masturbating around her. The guy in her pussy speeded up and pulled out, rubbing himself furiously. He spurted all over her bottom. Another took his place and speared her without ceremony pushing in and out of her sweet little pussy. He inserted a finger up her bottom, and she wriggled and cried out, "Fuck my arse as well!"

      The men pulled out and rolled her over. One climbed underneath. She sat on his cock and lay on his chest. Another pulled her cheeks apart, stretching her anus slightly open. He rubbed semen that had seeped from her pussy around her dark hole to ease his passage and penetrated her slowly. The other guys were in her mouth, between her breasts, anywhere they could get.

      Wendy watched the action, fascinated. This was what she had dreamed of in every fantasy. One of the guys with nowhere to fuck noticed her standing by the door and came over and said, "Join us, lovely. We would love to satisfy your desires and fuck you senseless."

      Wendy entered the room as if in a dream; her fantasy had finally come true. Three guys remained with the girl. The other six moved over to Wendy. She lay on her back, waiting for it to happen. A man's body leaned over her, his cock hard and erect, probing her face as he bent over her and probed her cunt with his tongue. She grasped that beautiful cock and sucked it to absolute hardness. Hands over her breasts, tongues in ears and around her neck, hands now everywhere. Her body had become one large erogenous zone. The tongue in her pussy was replaced with a very large cock which started slowly and stepped up as the rhythm became one for both.

      For the next hour, Wendy felt cocks in all her parts, fluids being pumped and splashed. Each orgasm she experienced lifted her higher and higher until she lapsed into oblivion and was gently laid to rest, covered in semen and a little sore from the multiple entries. One vague recollection towards the end was of two cocks inside her pussy together, stretching her and giving her a final massive orgasm. Wendy drifted on the edge of exhaustion, languishing in the euphoria of her greatest fantasy, a gangbang. She lay there with semen dripping from her pussy, running down the crease between her legs. She fingered her anus softly, rubbing in the slippery cream to ease the soreness. She felt wonderful.

      After half an hour, she got up and returned to the room where she had left John. She passed Mistral, Tim, Greg, and Susan on the way, heading upstairs. As they passed her, they smiled at her sticky legs and body, and one said, "You sure have had some fun, huh, Wendy?"

      She arrived at the room and stepped inside. John was entwined with another girl, and a guy gently probed him while the girl tried to get him hard again. Wendy watched her man and smiled to herself. "Now he knows what it feels like to be fucked up the arse. Once used to the stretching, it is yummy."

      Wendy called him, "Honey, will you shower and sauna with me? I need to clean up a bit?"

      "OK, babe, let's get showered and find where Tim and Mistral are," John replied. "They did promise us a special time together, but I haven't seen them tonight."

      Mistral took John to one side the next day at work and said, "I know you both enjoyed your first swinging party; sorry we never got together. Would you both like to join Susan, Greg, Tim, and me the weekend after next at our place for just a casual dinner and some fun?"

      "Sure, we would not miss it!" John quickly replied. Mistral said, "Greg told me he saw Wendy walking past him in stockings and suspenders. He said she has a fabulous body, her cunt dripping down her legs, and he wants to fuck her after dinner. You can have Susan and me together if you fancy. It will be a hot night!" With a wide grin, John quickly shot back, "How about six all together in the sauna then?"
       
    • By Mistral Wind
      My husband, Tim, met a new prospective client the other day, and an hour appointment went on for another three hours. Then Tim returned to the office glowing with excitement. "Hey, Mistral, the new clients want the Full Monty and more from us!"
       
      A few days later, I met Greg and Susan and found we had an immediate relationship with them both. Glen is a "go-getter" who has enormous energy and vision. He had just acquired three more companies and ran a group of four on a wide area network that needed our services. The questions flowed thick and fast at the meeting: "Can you do xxx for us? What about these services? How about getting the VPN up?" A gem of all clients had been discovered by accident through a conversation with a friend who put us together.
       
      Greg is a tall, dark, very fit 45-year-old with boundless energy and a very sharp, intelligent mind with a wacky sense of humor. Susan is a Nicole Kidman look-alike, red blonde hair, 5'2", pert small breasts with really pink nipples, and the greatest tight little butt I have ever seen. Her hair was shoulder-length curly and shone like spun red gold. Some women you meet and like from day one. We liked the same food and wine and laughed about some of her office's young, horny, and frustrated studs.
       
      Within three weeks of working almost every day with them both, a very positive relationship had started between us. I began to feel that Susan might be bi. She often sat close, and when we were going through my graphic designs, she would sometimes run her hand down my arm or touch my face gently when asking her searching questions. Her being a client, I was always careful not to respond in a sexual way just in case I had misread her. As the working days passed, the banter became more friendly and frank.
       
      After a few dinners and lunches, we were invited to their place for a relaxing weekend after getting most of the projects specified and starting to build. Their income was high, so we expected a nice place when we drove up. It was spectacular!
       
      Greg had said, "Well, it's a small mansion, built about 1795, Robert Adam style." Greg's idea of small contained seven bedrooms, a covered heated pool with a Sauna and Jacuzzi, and the garden had the cutest little Japanese Bonsai tree garden with a beautiful love seat.
       
      When we arrived Friday late afternoon, we just had time to briefly chill out with them doing "the tour." We were shown many large elegant rooms alongside some small intimate settings that would suit a pair of lovers. We met Jonathon, Greg's 21-year-old son, who had just finished University and would take a year off to explore the world. Jon is into falconry in a big way and owns three Harris Hawks: Brody, Bandit, Blackthorn, and a Peregrine Falcon called Blade. I spent an hour chatting with Jon about his birds. I quickly realized the Harris Hawks were an intelligent community-minded group that would work together to hunt their prey.
       
      Later that evening, Jon left to go to London for the weekend to be with his girl. When he left, he kissed Susan (stepmother), and to my eye, it lingered just a little too long. I raised my eyebrow, and she frankly stated, "Well, he is beautiful and half of my husband, so why not enjoy a younger version as well? Greg is pretty relaxed about it."
       
      The air took on a sexual tension that made me feel a little uneasy as we made it a policy not to play with clients, and this has an overtone that could get difficult. Susan and I chilled out before dinner with a swim in the pool and a sauna to finish off. She dropped her bikini on the floor and sat naked in front of me, completely relaxed. Her legs rested on the opposite seat, slightly open, revealing a beautiful smooth snatch. Susan caught me looking and made a show of 'accidentally' allowing her legs to open even more. Watching her outer lips peel stickily apart, I was tempted to reach out and touch but remembered Tim's words: "Don't play with clients!" Susan seemed to sense my conundrum but seemed willing to let things ride where they were...for now.
       
      Dinner passed pleasantly with a couple of bottles of red French Merlot. We all chatted intimately, getting close and closer together. Greg announced an early start as Tim was invited to hunt with Blade the Peregrine while we girls chilled out and enjoyed the morning. About midday, Greg and Tim returned empty-handed Greg said, "We are taking the hawks out. Several wild rabbits are around, which would be great for dinner tonight; grilled rabbit with bacon and garlic is yummy!"
       
      Later the "hunters" returned with three rabbits for the table and a couple for the Harris Hawks. Tim was in awe of the birds and said: "Babe, you should see them hunt together. They would make great Marines. They are intelligent, work well together, and the kills are lightning-fast. No rabbit suffered."
       
      "Time for a shower and a rest before we set up tonight," Tim suggested. So we slipped upstairs to our room and showered together. The shower was only big enough to get both inside and had a flexible pipe with a variable spray head. The naughty schoolboy in Tim surfaced, and he turned the shower onto pulse and started to work my breasts and nipples with the jet. I slid my soapy hands down onto his cock and worked it hard. Tim moved the shower between my legs, and I opened up for him. The jet started to bombard my clit. This was too much too quick, and I said, "Pack it up. That hurts."
       
      Tim settled down onto his knees and softly kissed her better. She responded quickly, and I pushed his face deeper into my crotch. The outer lips were gently opened, and his tongue probed for the inner lips teasing around my clit. I got impatient and rocked my hips into his face forcing his tongue onto my clit, demanding his attention. My legs spread apart of their own accord, and a hand crept around, caressing my bottom and making the cleft tingle with anticipation. As my pussy heated up and the waves started to build, that other hand was around my anus, caressing and probing the pink rosebud.
       
      As the first waves started to run through my body, a finger tickled and slid inside my arse. The orgasm exploding inside me was made more magnificent by the probing finger. The finger working deep in my bowel was enough to hit my "G" spot from the other passage. As I came down from the first shudders, the jet spray added its contribution, and I nearly passed out with pleasure. That brought on a multiple, and it kept coming and coming until I slumped against him.
       
      Tim dried me off, picked me up, and gently laid me on the bed. He dried himself and leaned over me. His cock was still hard. I lazily reached up, pulled him into my mouth, and sucked and sucked, working around the helmet just under the rim. He did not take long as he wanted a cum as much as the sucking. It exploded into my mouth, and I slurped it down, leaving about half on my tongue. Tim collapsed on the bed beside me, and we kissed, sharing the salty fluid he had deposited. "You minx! You are supposed to swallow that!" teased Tim. I shot back: "You know it turns you on tasting semen, so stop complaining."
       
      We both drifted into a deep sleep for a couple of hours. The house is very warm, so I put on a floaty dress and a white silk thong with a diamante glitter buckle at the back when I dressed. Tim smiled and said, "Babe, that does show off your bottom beautifully. I am enjoying their company. Susan has a great mind and body. What do you think of Greg?"
       
      Dodging his question, I asked my own. "Would you want to be inside Susan's pussy?" I asked, "Does she have fuckability?"
       
      "Oh yes, and more. But remember, this is not a swinging party; these are clients. We must be careful; a wrong move could mess things up big time."
       
      "Susan sort of hit on me in the sauna by 'accidentally' showing me her pussy," I admitted. "It's smooth and beautiful, and I could tell she was very wet."
       
      "Interesting," Tim said, "but it doesn't change the fact they are clients. Let's enjoy dinner. Come on; it must be time to go on down." I could tell, though, that my admission had hit home with Tim, and his stomach wouldn't be the only thing on his mind at dinner.
       
      The rabbit was fabulous, and we slowly munched our way through the various courses. Coffee and brandy followed, and we retreated into a smaller intimate family room with sofas, large seats, scattered cushions on the floor, and a big fireplace with a bright fire in the grate. Susan found a DVD, "Eyes Wide Shut," with Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise. Tim commented, "You look just like her, Susan."
       
      "She is a fine woman," Susan agreed. "I wish I had her bottom and her breasts. Watch the first scenes, and you get to see all of her. She is beautiful!"
       
      The film was remarkable, and we all watched it enthralled during the sex party scene in the large country house. The men in masks and long dark cloaks, women in cloaks, and other women wearing just about nothing. Couples fucking all over the furniture, and one girl was being done resting on the back of another man. A girl in the corner was being fucked doggy on a coffee table. I started to get wet. The film was deep, and the sex was great, although never construed as a porn film, much too delicate for that category. My pussy was alive, so I couldn't wait to get Tim back upstairs later. The movie finished, and Susan said, "That was the hot scene at the party. Wouldn't you love to join in and be one of them!"
       
      A careful silence was followed by Tim and me, which gained the retort from Susan. "You are swingers, aren't you? Otherwise, you would have said something about not sharing your wife!" I giggled, and Tim finally uncomfortably said: "Well, it takes all kinds of people with different attitudes to sex to make the world go around."
       
      Susan got up and walked out of the room. After a few minutes, she returned with a small basket of condoms and a collection of exciting toys. Susan smiled at me and said, "Mistral, let's give the boys a show. Then I will fuck Tim to a standstill as long as you are OK about it and want Greg!"
       
      "OK. I want to fuck Greg as much as he wants me. Same for you and Tim," was my husky reply. Suddenly, all the rules had gone out the window. Susan smiled and shrugged off her long dress, sliding it down to the floor, and she had nothing underneath. I got up and selected a toy from the basket, a rabbit dildo. I stepped out of my dress and knelt in front of Susan. She opened up her legs, and I switched on the vibrator, slid a finger inside a very wet slippery pussy, and pressed the toy to her clit.
       
      "My, we have been thinking rude thoughts this evening, hmmm?" I chided her. Susan said, "Well, the DVD certainly opened up the conversation. I tried to interest you in the sauna, and I saw the fuck-me look in your eyes but then got ignored. How come?"
       
      I ignored the question. "Get on the cushions. I want to open you right up and explore," I commanded. I worked slowly down Susan's body, tonguing every crevice. At the same time, the vibrator was held against her pussy without really trying to get inside. She rolled over onto her back, pulled me on top, slid off my thong, and peeled apart the lips of a very wet Mistral pussy. She arched her back to get her head between my legs, then slowly worked her tongue around my clit, just missing the most sensitive part: teasing, teasing! My head was between her legs sucking hard on her cunt, the vibrator discarded alongside us.
       
      Susan tasted and smelt divine, a cunt to die for, and we gently and slowly worked each other to a beautiful girly climax. I slid her clit between my lips and sucked gently, giving it all the attention it could take. Her bottom started to thrash about, and a muffled cry came from her as she exploded and released a dribble of pussy juice onto my face. Strong hands lifted us apart, and Greg sat me down on his lap, legs facing him. He kissed me gently, opened my mouth with his tongue, and started to probe my soul with his penetrating tongue. When those two had shed their clothes, I don't know!
       
      What I wanted was getting harder under my thigh and starting to poke up between my legs. My hand reached down and stroked the elegant cock, trying so hard to get inside me. Greg put on a condom and was ready for me. A thrust up then down onto it, and he was inside. I could not wait and would not wait. My hips thrust madly at him, exploring his cock and filling myself with pleasure. It must have only taken me 30 seconds to hit the first orgasm, and Greg was getting faster and faster until he exploded.
       
      We kissed and looked over at Tim and Susan. They were in a 69 with Susan sucking Tim hard and working her two fingers inside his anus. His balls tightened, and he emptied himself inside her mouth. She got up, came over, and kissed me deeply, sharing the contents of her mouth with me. Susan returned to Tim and started gently sucking him back to hardness again. Greg was working my bottom with his tongue, firm strokes working into the most private and sensitive area a woman has. I pulled him up and kissed him deeply, and again he shared the semen from Susan's mouth.
       
      Greg smiled and said, "OK, we all shared Tim. Would he enjoy sucking me?" I was a little unsure how Tim would react. Susan said, "He can't talk right now since his mouth is full of my pussy."
       
      Greg lifted me off him and walked over to the other two, kissed Susan, and then leaned over and lightly bit Tim's nipple, who, for a straight guy, relaxed and did nothing. Greg slowly worked down his body and started to get near his groin. Susan got up and thrust her pussy back into his face. Tim hungrily lapped at her while Greg took Tim's cock into his mouth.
       
      Tim started to push his hips at Greg, who was working the sensitive spots on his cock with expert reverence. I had never seen Tim with a man before, and it fascinated me to see how he responded to a man's attention. Tim gently pulled Greg around so they were 69 together and opened his mouth to get Greg's cock down his throat.
       
      Susan had slid behind me and worked one of the toys into my pussy. A little finger was up my arse, and the big rabbit worked magic inside me. I watched, fascinated, while the two men ground their cocks into each other's mouths, sucking and mouth fucking together. I could reach Greg's anus from where I was crouching, and I slid a finger inside, feeling for his prostate. I found the firm nut I was after and massaged it, bringing him to a rapid spunk explosion. When he started, I worked the prostate harder, milking the orgasm to its absolute. Tim was greedily swallowing all that Greg could deliver. Tim's hips began to shudder as he succumbed to Greg's tongue and spurted his load down his throat.
       
      The guys then got up and came over and kissed us. Greg pushed a quantity of spunk down my throat while Tim probed Susan's mouth. For the rest of the night, we moved upstairs to a large bedroom with a king-sized double that could sleep six without trouble. We swapped, we fucked, we cuddled and rested, then swapped, fucked, and cuddled some more, eventually falling asleep around 5 a.m.
       
      I awoke around 7:00, needing a drink. As no one else was around, I walked naked downstairs to get some orange juice. Halfway down the stairs, Jon appeared with a smile and a naked girlfriend beside him. "Hello, we returned late last night and realized you guys were having fun."
       
      Penny, Jon's girlfriend, said, "Come into this room. We had a camera in the large bedroom and watched you all together. What a turn-on!"
       
      I followed them in with dread, not knowing what to expect. Jon said, "Don't look so worried. We enjoyed the performance and wanted to share some of it with you."
       
      As I looked at the display, the threesome on the screen was waking up, and Susan was fondling both men. Penny said, "I often watch Greg and Susan's swinging parties here, and we fuck like bunnies while we watch. I enjoyed a threesome with Jon and his stepmother. What was Greg like? I haven't had him yet?" I just stood there, mouth open in shock, unable to speak.
       
      Jon pushed me gently onto the bed and started caressing my body while Penny approached the other side. Jon gently sucked my nipples while Penny's tongue delicately explored my womanhood. "We want to fuck you properly, Mistral, but I know your pussy must be sore from last night, so we'll stick with our tongues this time, OK?"
       
      After a few minutes of light sex, Penny said, "We better slip away quietly as we are not supposed to be here. Are you two coming to next weekend's party?" The feeling of this beautiful young feminine creature's tongue still fresh on my mind, I shot back, "You bet. If we are invited."
       
      "Oh, I expect you shall be," Penny smiled. She gazed into my eyes, dropped her hand between her legs, and worked a finger deep into herself. "Until next time...," she said, trailing her finger, wet with her secretions and Jon's cum, stickily across my cheek before resting it on my lips. An invitation which I readily obliged by opening my mouth. Her long finger worked around my tongue, gifting me the taste of her and her lover.
       
      I slipped upstairs and joined the frolicking three on the bed for more and more of what my body desired. Eventually, we fell asleep again and woke around 3 p.m. feeling completely satisfied and sexually drained. A shower and a good cleanup refreshed my body and spirit. Tim and I were due to leave soon, and Susan came to me and said, "You must come to our next weekend party. Please say yes. If you like, bring some friends that will enjoy what you two have this weekend. There is so much more I want to do with you and Tim. We have had a fantastic time."

      On the way home, Tim said solemnly: "You realize that the weekend could have gone dreadfully wrong if it was a trap. We were caught out, well nearly!"

      The following weekend swinger party is another edition of this story…
    • By NerdsAreFun
      Some stats on the swinging world.  Interesting that a slim majority (50.2%) of men now identify as bi.  65.8% in the 18-39 age group.  I think the days of that being a closeted thing in the swinger world are coming to an end.  Also surprised me that 80.5% were soft swap only.
      https://swingershelp.com/swinger-survey-results-2022/
       
       
      And they also provide a list of most popular swinging sites in various cities.
      https://swingershelp.com/popular-swinging-dating-sites/
    • By Erotics
      I'm as straight as an arrow and never even looked at another man in a sexual way. We play as a couple and have had regular 3somes (mfm) which she thoroughly enjoy. The focus is always on her, giving her pleasure and making sure she is having fun.
       
      Recently we were in a 3some with this gent and while we were playing (foreplay) he asked me whether I have ever been touched by or touch another man myself. The answer was no.
       
      He then dared me to touch him, which I then proceeded to do. Funny enough, it was not so weird as I thought it would be and although it felt strange, at the same time it felt familiar.
       
      I then proceeded to keep his dick in my hand and point it towards her mouth while she was blowing him. He did the same with me while she was blowing me later.
       
      Suddenly it was not strange anymore and I even guided his cock into her pussy later on. It all felt so natural in the situation. Fun was had by all 3 of us and it did not gross me out or even the wife.
       
      We (me and wife) had a discussion afterwards and she said she found it actually very kinky and she would like to see me in a male-male experience. Ever since it has been playing in my head and I don't know what to think.
       
      Touching is one thing, but actually going down on someone is something totally different (or is it not?)
       
      Although I still don't look at men in a sexual way, I found myself thinking about this a lot. A part of me says don't do it, you don't find men sexually attractive, but a part of my tell me to not to knock it and try it at least once and then make up my mind.
       
      The wife said that she became bisexual by also experimenting and only later become attracted to females as she became accustomed to the situation.
       
      Do you think I should proceed and experiment?
       
      I don't think I have the guts to take a cock in my mouth and suck it, but a part of me tells me I have the guts and should go ahead. I know it would be big visual turn-on for the wife and I would do anything to turn her on...just not sure about sucking a cock to turn her on. LOL
       
      To be honest, I'm very nervous.
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