Does anybody know any 100% free swinger sites?

[Guest reezy]

I wanted to know if anybody on here knows of any 100% free swinger sites. Me and my girlfriend been looking for a threesome for a while now but it seems like every swinger site cost money or its some free trial. We need a swinger site thats 100% free.

[KentuckianaCPL4 16]

What is wrong with Swing Lifestyle ?

 

Membership is FREE and the limitations that are imposed on Free members shouldn't deter you from your search or joining. You are however limited in the number of profiles you may view everyday

[mfmswing 17]

KentuckianaCPL4 said:

What is wrong with Swing Lifestyle ?

 

Membership is FREE and the limitations that are imposed on Free members shouldn't deter you from your search or joining. You are however limited in the number of profiles you may view everyday

 

The idea behind SLS is good but, there are so many fakes, BS and single men posing as couples that it is hard to get anywhere with that site. We have been members for almost three years and have only met two real couples there.

[Tom4Fun 15]

There is no such thing as a free lunch.

[Swing*8701 887]

Ed here-- Let me guess, all your software is pirated, you have the cheapest computer you can find, and you steal all your music and most of your movies and you think tipping isn't important.

 

Sorry, I'm off topic. But to request free sites on a site that works hard to provide value, mostly at no charge, is a bit disingenuous.

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

Ed here-- Let me guess, all your software is pirated, you have the cheapest computer you can find, and you steal all your music and most of your movies and you think tipping isn't important.

 

Sorry, I'm off topic. But to request free sites on a site that works hard to provide value, mostly at no charge, is a bit disingenuous.

 

Thank You

[Tom4Fun 15]

The best question to ask is "which site provide the best prospects for your dollar." If your a female, then SLS should be the best one. Avoid AFF, unless you have money to waste. Otherwise, just go out to local clubs and bars.

[WesternSwing 504]

I don't know of any free sites, and think about why...

 

It takes allot of server space to hold all those pictures and profiles and multiple servers and massive storage drives cost $$$. It takes lots of know-how to make it all work and web designers don't work for free. It takes lots of band-width to allow many, many people to be logged-on at once and that costs $$$. Nothing, including this site is free.

 

You're best bet is to cough-up the $20 a month and join a website like SLS, Swappernet, Lifestyle Lounge, or Swingular.

 

Mr. WS

[Mburgcpl 15]

We are also on SLS and we have had good luck there. You can play email tag with some cpls on there that arent real or you go to a club or house party and find out who the real players are then you can found out what there SLS SN is and take it from there. We block ALL SLS "free members" because about 99% of them are fakes, and com'on it does really cost that much !!!!

[Banana Hands 15]

SLS has worked great for us, it has allowed us to meet many couples, free and paying members, to first chat then possibly meet later. All though I've heard alot of negative feedback about SLS, it is probably the best free one at the moment that I know of. It's also the cheapest site that is set up too, considering what you get out of it... it is worth it to us. It's pretty easy to spot the fakes once you start chatting with them.

[two4youinswva 3,068]

Ed here-- Let me guess, all your software is pirated, you have the cheapest computer you can find, and you steal all your music and most of your movies and you think tipping isn't important.

 

Sorry, I'm off topic. But to request free sites on a site that works hard to provide value, mostly at no charge, is a bit disingenuous.

 

 

Your ideas are intriguing to me, and I wish to subscribe to your newsletter.

[swingerooz 17]

Why bother with swing sites.

If your girlfriend realy wants to swing,both of you go to the local pub and sit at different tables, if your girl friend knows her stuff, and she dresses in that tight little dress and encourages attention with her actions, she will have no trouble getting the male sex to ask the questions you both want and finish up with a great night with the person you fancy. Believe us it works,we do it.

[Guest thvp07]

Are there any decent yahoo groups out there that are for swingers? We use to be in some a long time ago, but we left the groups when we put swinging on hold for a bit. They are hard to find though because yahoo hides them...

 

We actually like the SLS site ...but we have found a lot of married men - sneaking around on there. But you get that at ANY site like that.

 

This site is awesome too!

[SenorSeeven 15]

I like this Ed guy!

Ain't no sech thing as Free anything.

You're gonna pay one way or another.

[AmorousCouple 31]

We agree on SLS. The free part does give you good access, although slightly limited. We were on there free for about a year before we made enough contacts that it was worth it for us to join. Hope you enjoy.

[Cajun2Step 65]

Swing Lifestyle is a good site....however our experience has been that we are much more successful if we communicate with paying members or Life Members.

 

That being said, we have connected with a couple of free members and had a great time.

[shy_couple 459]

Swing Lifestyle and The Swing Site offer free membership. Both restrict the number of profiles you can view and emails that you can send and receive in one day. But over all its a good value.

 

Lifestyle Lounge teases you with tons of free features when you sign up but almost nothing when the trial expires. They are one of the more expensive sites that we looked at.

 

You can always try Craigs List but you get what you pay for (even less with CL). We have some friends that have had good luck on there. But for us, too many pic collectors, fakes, flakes, etc. No matter where you decide to pick a new partner, keep security in mind. Good luck.

[Playful1 434]

I'm on apg and their membership is cheaper than ordering a pizza once a month...so, yeah...the trade off of paying a tiny bit for getting real people and less hassle is definitely worth it.

[Jeok 3]

Try BiSexual dot com It's completely free, plenty of Straights there, a good chatroom, but no webcams. Easy Emailing, both YIM and from site mailroom. Many list their YIM and Email addresses for all. I'm jeokar there. Hope to C'Ya there. Jeok

[SAVANDWIN 266]

Free Sites ? If you don't know if your serious about swinging we're really not interested. You can't be an avid fisherman and not own a fishing pole. I don't know of many lifestylers that take "free" memebers seriously. You get what you pay for in life...I agree there's no such thing as free anymore; there's a price to pay in anything worth having.

 

That being said we've had a wonderful experience with Swinglifestyle, unlike many who seem to run into fakes we've had very positive experiences with real people. We've relocated 3 times since joining and have not had any problems meeting other sexy like-minded people, enjoyed their listed parties and made many wonderful friends.

 

For those who can afford it I have the highest praise for Lifestyle Lounge; we sadly dropped our paying membership there as the area we live has a very small representation but it is highly successful for most major cities.

 

Mrs Sav

[ALilOEverything 901]

I've paid for the lifetime SLS right up front so I've never tried to use it as a free member but it sounds like you can at least do the bare minimum. We have our account blocked to free members so you may not have everyone at your fingertips. I don't have a lot of trust of free members so I prefer to just eliminate them all together.

[slevin 1,374]

I've paid for the lifetime Swing Lifestyle right up front so I've never tried to use it as a free member but it sounds like you can at least do the bare minimum. We have our account blocked to free members so you may not have everyone at your fingertips. I don't have a lot of trust of free members so I prefer to just eliminate them all together.

 

Yeah you can do everything you need to on SLS as a free member. You can't view naked pictures and you can only see something like 5 profile pictures. You can email anyone (who doesn't have free members blocked) and participate fully that way. You can search, email, add to favourites, view pictures...all the core things.

[Guest cpl4funindel]

I'm on apg and their membership is cheaper than ordering a pizza once a month...so, yeah...the trade off of paying a tiny bit for getting real people and less hassle is definitely worth it.

 

We're members of APG as well, and agree it's well worth the price of admission. We're also on SLS, but have let that lapse into a free membership as we've had much better "real" results on APG. In the end, we actually meet more people at events and clubs than we ever have through either site.

[lardub 170]

It all depends on where you are located, swinglifestyle maybe great for Americans but sucks for Canadians. We have a free profile guess we are fakes. We have had the most success on a free site called nakedworld here in southern Ontario, lots of people from our area on the site or within ontario so great for us, sure there are fakes but we are on a paysite that has just as many flakes on it. Most of the paysites we have been on sound really great until you pay then all those people contacting you seem to dry up real fast. We now have just two paysites we go to, cafedesire (Its Local) and SDC which thankfully we got a free membership from a club we attend cause it ain't worth the money..

[PB&J 1,086]

We've actually had a not too bad success rate with Swing Lifestyle here in Ontario, even as free members. Our most success, though, probably, has been with Ontario Couples, which seems really basic and a tad cheesy, but we have met some of our best swinging friends through it (and by extension, many many more people through them, so kudos to Ontario Couples!). The cock shots drive me nuts on Nakedworld; we rarely visit that site any more. Cafe Desire is VERY Toronto-centric, and I only visit it for the forums, which are nowhere near as good as these here on Swingersboard! (CD is the site where I was basically called a slut for playing alone at a house party as I mentioned recently in another thread; the members tend to have a very narrow definition of swinger, and woe betide you if you stray from that definition).

[PTTimeDC 120]

Free Sites ? If you don't know if your serious about swinging we're really not interested. You can't be an avid fisherman and not own a fishing pole. I don't know of many lifestylers that take "free" memebers seriously. You get what you pay for in life.....I agree there's no such thing as free anymore ; there's a price to pay in anything worth having.

That being said we've had a wonderful experience with Swinglifestyle, unlike many who seem to run into fakes we've had very positive experiences with real people .We've relocated 3 times since joining and have not had any problems meeting other sexy likeminded people, enjoyed their listed parties and made many wonderful friends.

For those who can afford it I have the highest praise for Lifestyle Lounge; we sadly dropped our paying memebership there as the area we live has a very small representation but it is hughly successful for most major cities.

 

Mrs Sav

 

Totally disagree Mrs Sav; we're from the same general area as you and we stay free on SLS because most of the people in Alabama are fakers when it comes to committing to a meeting and executing. We've never had problems like this in the other areas of the country in which we've lived (on a free SLS membership); we tried paid for a few months here and it was worthless. I think has a LOT to do with whether or not it is worth it to get a paid membership.

[SAVANDWIN 266]

"Totally disagree Mrs Sav; we're from the same general area as you and we stay free on Swing Lifestyle because most of the people in Alabama are fakers when it comes to committing to a meeting and executing. "

 

I am sorry your experience here in AL has been less than successful. In all our years swinging we have never encountered problems with fakers in AL or any of the the numerous states we've lived in. I'm don't know how you can make a broad statement that "most" people in AL could be described as "Fakers " when we've met 100's of people at clubs, parties and from SwingLifestyle right here in AL ;including many that are from your area.

Like everything else in life you get from it what you put into it.......a well written profile,a nice email with some depth of character, some nice photos ,a positive mindset and a willingness to seek those of like mind and mutual attraction are all it takes.

 

I wish you success

 

Mrs Sav

[hennie55 15]

What free sites are there?

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Almost all of the swingers personals sites have a free option. Swinglifestyle, Swingtowns, Swingers Date Club are three big ones and there are others too.

[adamgunn 1,460]

However, you'll have much better luck on the swinger sites if you're a paid member. Put profiles on the ones mentions, and perhaps Kasadie, hang around for a week or two. See who has the most people of the type you're looking for in your neighborhood. Then pay for access on that one.

 

You'll be taken more seriously by others.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Set up your free account on all of the sites (see Find Swingers at top of page) and then pay for the site with the most people in your area. As adamgunn said, you will be taken more seriously as a paid member (and it REALLY doesn't cost that much). We're not fans of Kasadie, however, or we would have just agreed with everything he said.

[Arcana 23]

Completely free we do not know...we are also interested.

[Jbc923 2]

Fetlife is free. Any kink you want is there. Lots of groups to join within the site

[Idahocouple6969 294]

7 hours ago, Jbc923 said:

Fetlife is free. Any kink you want is there. Lots of groups to join within the site

We belonged to FetLife long before we joined SLS. Ironically we generally don't mention that unless the other person(s) say something first.

 

[NWAtlSwing 522]

On 8/18/2007 at 5:23 PM, Tom4Fun said:

There is no such thing as a free lunch.

Paying for access keeps riff raff down.

 

[Mark Moses 0]

Markmoses9750@yahoo.com

[Mark Moses 0]

Markmoses9750@yahoo.com

then why uploading to youtube and using facebook instagram etc are free

so don't give me the bs that swinging site creators incur expenses bandwith cloud bs

all are free

thus

human beings should be able to connevt with each other for their sexual needs

[TricianMike 772]

1 hour ago, Mark Moses said:

Markmoses9750@yahoo.com

 

human beings should be able to connevt with each other for their sexual needs

You can sign up for free on plenty of sites like SLS. Most paying members will disregard you as someone they don’t want to meet. 
if you think it doesn’t cost to maintain a site you can start your own and allow anyone to post, connect and exchange messages. A free site is what you want. 

 

Do you know of any electricians who will change out an electrical panel for free?

[njbm 2,868]

You get what you pay for. My other favorite saying is “ buy for value, be prepared to pay twice.”

[JebusLucy 0]

Well I just open to see SLS and ya we don’t want to pay $20 and open a account. Or pay for to see couple like to meet so if anyone from Phoenix Az we like to meet have a great 4th July weekend 🤭

[shy_couple 459]

This is a pretty old thread. However, since FOSTA started a few years ago everyone has really restricted access. It killed Craigslist after all, but at the same time forced the owners of the website to monitor and take responsibility for what is happening on their websites. 
 

The goal was to discourage sex workers/sex trafficking. The way most chose to deal with this was to cut out all free accounts OR to give you the tiniest taste possible without allowing you to communicate and hook up at all. SLS, I believe, Allows you to view 15 profiles per day no emails, no KIK, emails, or outside contact. I think there may be some limited IM but in the end, recent laws have made the website owners responsible for the activity on their site. It’s not worth being fined or shut down because someone isn’t serious enough to drop a few $$$ per month to invest in their pursuits. 
 

It’s a little like any other investment (college, career, real estate, stock market) you have to invest something to get a return. People looking to get rich (or laid) quickly with no effort are going to be disappointed and maybe even scammed before giving up or going the traditional route. 

[club play 0]

Clubplay.net is a free swingers site with everything Free like a profile,media,chat & forums All FREE!

 

Its also A Swingers club in Blackpool, joining the site is free and your membership xxx

Edited July 21, 2022 by club play

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

...so it has a small amount of people and most are going to be in England. It's the same problem as starting any website for meeting/socializing. There aren't very many members and probably even less around you so why join, even if it is free.

 

We look at swinging as a hobby we do together. Most hobbies have a high start up cost...say golf (cuz golfers are also swingers, just not the same type): need clubs, shoes, and practice...easily can cost $500 to $1000. Even at the cheapest you are talking about $250. Let me tell you, swinging is a HELL of a lot funner than golf. Joining most swingers websites are like $20 a month. Even a LIFETIME membership at SLS is less than a set of cheap golf clubs. If you aren't serious enough to spend a few dollars, then you probably bringing some sort of drama to the party.

[Roastie 0]

I'm up for meeting up with a couple for a threesome this weekend