Reverse Gangbang?

[cubnamy1995 124]

OK, I (male half) have this fantasy that is being arranged for my birthday. I've always wanted my own harem (4 or 5 women to take care of me ). Well, a couple of things need to happen beforehand. #1, I need to get in better shape. I'll need the cardio. #2, Not have sex for a week beforehand

 

So, have any of you guys out there got the royal treatment? How did it go? Would you do it again? (I think I already know the answer to that)

 

Lets hear about some exploits...

[Tybee Swing 286]

I, the wife, share the same fantasy. It's much like a harem scene. My husband is being completely pampered by myself and about 4 other women that I have provided for his pleasure. I'd love to make this happen someday. I don't know how, since it's hard enough to find even one woman to join a couple!

[fun4Ds 1,098]

well iv never had the birthday bang so to speak, although it is soon to be here (hint hint)

 

but have been the only male in fffm situation. we had all talked about what was to come but i wasn't actually the center of attention to begin with, more so i was invited to join:).

 

yes i had fears of failure but, thats what the hardest thing to let go of was. just relax and go with the flow. ya don't have to be the almighty porno stud, its not mandatory.

 

honestly i had to take a break or two (whew) i wasn't cardio ready by any means:o.

 

i don't know if this makes sense. i wasn't totally submissive...but for the most part i let the girls make the moves. some ass smacks and dirty talk seemed to just come out of no where.

 

ego booster? hell yes, it took a little while to unwind. like finding myself sitting through green traffic lights while people were blaring their horns snapping me out of it:eek:. sorry ,sorry, waving I'm OK sorry:lol:

[ShellyM 0]

I, the wife, share the same fantasy. It's much like a harem scene. My husband is being completely pampered by myself and about 4 other women that I have provided for his pleasure. I'd love to make this happen someday. I don't know how, since it's hard enough to find even one woman to join a couple!

 

CALL ME! LOL You know I think your husband is hot!

[wewannabebad2 85]

Hmmmmmmm...I bet hubby would LOVE a harem for his 30th.

[ShellyM 0]

Hell Tybee, I'll even feed him grapes!

In a toga, and you know I don't like togas LOL.

[des1re06 200]

I threw a house party for hubby for his birthday this year (April). He got to enjoy the attentions of 5 ladies. He had a blast.

 

Definately go for it!

 

Mrs. D

[good times 991]

The most I ever had was three women playing with me at once and what I learned from it was two things. First, the fantasy was a lot better than the reality, and two, I am more of a one-on-one kind of guy. To answer your last question, while I probably wouldn't refuse if the situation were to present itself again, I wouldn't go out of my way to make it happen.

[ShellyM 0]

The most I ever had was three women playing with me at once and what I learned from it was two things. First, the fantasy was a lot better than the reality, and two, I am more of a one-on-one kind of guy. To answer your last question, while I probably wouldn't refuse if the situation were to present itself again, I wouldn't go out of my way to make it happen.

 

Really, thats interesting! I have often thought the same exact thing about gang bangs with men....may I ask why it was not as appealing as you thought it would be?

[Tybee Swing 286]

Hell Tybee, I'll even feed him grapes!

In a toga, and you know I don't like togas LOL.

 

Wooooo! You've got it, Shell. A couple more, and I'll have to tell the shiek to get ready!

[ShellyM 0]

Wooooo! You've got it, Shell. A couple more, and I'll have to tell the shiek to get ready!

 

LOL!! You are cool girlfriend!

[graygo98 148]

Really, thats interesting! I have often thought the same exact thing about gang bangs with men....may I ask why it was not as appealing as you thought it would be?

 

If I can butt in... its because its just too overwhelming. I don't know whether its because guys are so darned linear and goal oriented, but there is something about six breasts and only one set of lips that is just frustrating. Not to mention that in the real world even 20-something guys usually need some time to recharge.

 

Guess that's why MFMs and variations on that theme work so well. Women are "big picture" oriented and (generally) have way more sexual stamina. (Plus, two breasts and two sets of lips balance out so much better, don't you think?)

[good times 991]

Really, thats interesting! I have often thought the same exact thing about gang bangs with men....may I ask why it was not as appealing as you thought it would be?

In my case, graygo98 is partially correct in that you never get to concentrate on one thing. I think the primary reason I can't get into it though is that women, at least the ones I have been with in multiples, are kind of competitive about it. It seems like when one is doing something that I am really starting to get in to, the next one will redouble her efforts to take my mind off of the one I'm into at the moment and try to redirect my attention to her instead. Like I said, for me at least, I much prefer women one at a time.

[ShellyM 0]

I have been with in multiples, are kind of competitive about it. It seems like when one is doing something that I am really starting to get in to, the next one will redouble her efforts to take my mind off of the one I'm into at the moment and try to redirect my attention to her instead. Like I said, for me at least, I much prefer women one at a time.

 

I can see that happening lol. Yes, I can see that happening. I am the same way, I much prefer one on one to groups.

[cubnamy1995 124]

Well its nice to know. My lovely wife and her best friend have arranged five for me, complete with the harem-girl costumes. Should be an interesting b-day

[Tybee Swing 286]

Well its nice to know. My lovely wife and her best friend have arranged five for me, complete with the harem-girl costumes. Should be an interesting b-day

 

You'll have to report back on this thread how it goes, and what you thought about it! Happy birthday.

[Tybee Swing 286]

If I can butt in... its because its just too overwhelming. I don't know whether its because guys are so darned linear and goal oriented, but there is something about six breasts and only one set of lips that is just frustrating. Not to mention that in the real world even 20-something guys usually need some time to recharge.

 

I think that men who can really enjoy a harem-like fantasy have two things going for them. First, they can just relax and be on the receiving end without worrying - they're not performance-focused. Secondly, it's not about experiencing everything with everyone in the room, and it's definitely not about experiencing orgasms with each woman (the recharging thing). It would be about just taking it as it comes. When you orgasm, you orgasm, and nobody's counting.

 

Obviously, one man can't be expected to do ALL the work of satisfying 4-5 women in one interlude. In fact, it wouldn't be about the man doing the "work" or about him being under pressure to perform. Quite the opposite. It's about him relaxing, drinking it all in, and of course the women would be playing with each other and taking care of their own needs, too. It's a group thing, but the man is getting all of the attention he could want. This is my version of the fantasy, anyway.

[cubnamy1995 124]

I think that men who can really enjoy a harem-like fantasy have two things going for them. First, they can just relax and be on the receiving end without worrying - they're not performance-focused. Secondly, it's not about experiencing everything with everyone in the room, and it's definitely not about experiencing orgasms with each woman (the recharging thing). It would be about just taking it as it comes. When you orgasm, you orgasm, and nobody's counting.

 

Obviously, one man can't be expected to do ALL the work of satisfying 4-5 women in one interlude. In fact, it wouldn't be about the man doing the "work" or about him being under pressure to perform. Quite the opposite. It's about him relaxing, drinking it all in, and of course the women would be playing with each other and taking care of their own needs, too. It's a group thing, but the man is getting all of the attention he could want. This is my version of the fantasy, anyway.

 

First of all, and finally

 

This is exactly what it was. 2 of the girls couldn't make it, but I was still the center of attention for 3 lovely ladies. It wasn't about what I can do for them, it was about me. Towards the end of the evening, it became a little competition to see which one could get that last orgasm out of me. But honestly, just having three women caress your skin with theirs was just about one of the fondest sexual experiences I've ever had. The lifestyle tends to put the focus on the ladies, which is a good thing. But for us guys, that once in a while chance to be the king is one awesome ego stroke.

 

I think I'm good for a while now...

[ncmd_couple 597]

Honestly, this is something, as a guy, that I have never thought about. I have greatly enjoyed FMFs before, and I am oriented that it is about the ladies pleasure more than mine. But the idea of having 4-5 women around me sounds good. But as I approach 50, I don't think that even Viagra would allow me to cum in all of them... but the play time would be good. Please let us know how your fantisy works out!

[ShellyM 0]

First of all, and finally

 

Towards the end of the evening, it became a little competition to see which one could get that last orgasm out of me.

 

You know, its funny how women are like that. Now that I pay attention its true! I guess this is why only so many hens fit in a henhouse LOL. Even in porn. I was watching porn last night and it was a group of women and a guy, and they were clearly all trying to outdo each other lol. Must be something within us females, competition lol.

[cubnamy1995 124]

You know, its funny how women are like that. Now that I pay attention its true! I guess this is why only so many hens fit in a henhouse LOL. Even in porn. I was watching porn last night and it was a group of women and a guy, and they were clearly all trying to outdo each other lol. Must be something within us females, competition lol.

 

Not that I'm complaining...

 

Now, the downside to this arrangement is this, guys, you will catch yourself afterward having conversations with women that you can never, ever, ever, ever, ever tell your guy friends about. After the festivities wound down, I guess estrogen was thick in the air. I found myself talking to one of the ladies about why I preferred shears to miniblinds, and how we are going to do our curtains next spring.

 

 

Jesus. They fucked all of my testosterone away. Needless to say, I spent Sunday watching football, and all was OK.

[Trace Ekies 186]

The goal for me is 5 women...I'll do my best to focus or not focus or whatever I have to do to be with 5 women. It may be too much in the end but I want to find out for myself and I then let you know.

 

I'm guessing that it won't be too much but I may be wrong and I do promise to die trying if that's what it comes to.

 

It doesn't seem likely that the Aahz Party this weekend will be the place but I'll keep my options open and use some Jedi mind tricks to get it done.

 

Frankly, I'll take one that doesn't think she's taking one for the team. LOL.

 

Frankly, I can't believe that I'm having such a conversation. A year ago this was all fantasy.

[pervgeeks 119]

My husband turns 40 in March. I would absolutely love to give him a birthday present like this! So would he!