Why are so many swingers also school teachers?

[doctoroctagon 15]

I'll often click on the profiles of swingersboard to see what their occupation is, and it often seems like it's "teacher", why is that so? Maybe it's just an odd coincidence, but it seems like quite a lot of swingers are teachers. I'm just wondering why, because I can't think of any logical explanation why that would be.

 

[Vjklander 138]

Perhaps because (if they are any good at teaching) they spend all day trying to get little heads to think for themselves.

[Chip_n_Muffy 16]

Maybe cause they know they can teach us a thing or two? Teachers and nurses, gotta love em!

[Cerberus 16]

nurses are freaks generally speaking. I loved or did love many at one time..man

stewardessesese also. I remember meeting some southwest girls in ABQ and having a threesome

[pervgeeks 119]

Maybe cause they know they can teach us a thing or two? Teachers and nurses, gotta love em!

 

I'm a nurse. My husband's a teacher. Double the pleasure. Double the fun.

[JTcamp05 9]

Ohhh I remember one teacher we had fun with.....wow what a thought her standing in front of the classroom.......

[avid 134]

I've noticed the teacher phenomenon too, but in other areas where I've been working. When I was a running instructor for women, I had way more teacher/nurses in my running clinic than any other profession. Also, when I taught prenatal classes, there were tons of teachers. Odd.

[havefuninsun 122]

Interesting! We've noticed a lot of computer geeks of several varieties (engineers, managers, programmers) and have also met folks in Higher Education as well (professors, researchers, IS specialists). Then again, we've met office workers, construction foreman, human resource specialists, a pilot, and a professional photographer. I'm going to conclude that there are super freaks in every profession....

[brew82 15]

My SO is one of those teachers and we get the same reaction everytime it comes up - "Wow, a lot of teachers are swingers. "

[cubnamy1995 124]

OK, I want to get off-subject for just a minute. I have noticed something of late, and I have to make a very tongue-in-cheek comment. (Before you flame me, I mean this in a light-hearted way). On the subject of teachers, we have all seen in the news the large amount of female teachers being busted for having sex with teenage boys. I have noticed the teachers are all pretty hot. Where were these teachers when I was in school? If I went home and told my dad that I nailed my smoking-hot 26 year old science teacher, my dad would have been more proud than upset.

 

Ever since I started reading this thread, that song "Hot for Teacher" has been running through my mind.

 

It really does seem like there are a disproportionate amount of teachers and nurses in the lifestyle. My two favorite things

[des1re06 200]

I've met more nurses and flight attendants.

 

So, I'm not a teacher's pet, yet.

 

Mrs. D

[sweet_tna 680]

So far, we've met mostly computer geeks and stay-at-home moms--birds of a feather . . .

 

~Mrs. Sweet =)

[rpu3 630]

Strange. My spouse is also an instructor at our local university and local community college. A group in Texas we visit with yearly is made up of mostly teachers - we met them at Desire, where we met at least 10 other teachers. Maybe they just want the break from children and go for the fully adult fun?

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Interesting observation. Parent teacher conference day will never be the same now. Hmmmm, I wonder?? Coincidentally, The Mrs. of the last couple we met was......a teacher

 

Swingers come from all walks of life and seem to represent a subsample of the general population as a whole, so stands to reason the professions of swingers would more or less track those in the vanilla world. Take a random sample of 100 people and tally up their professions. Educators and health care are probably going to be near the top of the list.

 

On the flip side, ask people to name an everyday, common profession (exotic dancer doesn't count) that is "sexy", and nurses are sure to be up there (tend to agree!) and teachers are not far behind. The first I even heard of the Lifestyle was way back in high school when the small town rumor of the month was about a group of teachers that regularly got together for the infamous Key Parties. I later dated a girl whose biological father and step-mom were part of the rumor, and from what she said, not sure that one didn't have some truth to it!

 

No matter how you cut it, teachers and nurses = fun people!!

[interested-05 135]

could it be, some people would rather be discrete and hide what they reallly do for a living? WE played with one couple who origionally told us she was a teacher, turned out she was really a NURSE!

[WesternSwing 504]

We have only met one teacher in the lifestyle, but I do know of some teachers who are in polyamorous relationships.

 

Our personal experience has found what we call "The 3 M's": Military, Medical, and Mortgage. It seems allot of those we meet in the lifestyle are either current military or former military and are now cops; medical, mostly nurses but the occasional doctor; and, those in the mortgage business specifically, but real estate agents, too.

 

Mr. WS

[redgirlwithfrec 33]

we've been in the lifestyle for about 6 months now and we have met either online or in clubs our fair share of people. I dont think we have met any higher percent of teachers than anyone else, although it surprises us everytime we do meet one, well not as surprised these days.

[daisy girl 34]

Could it be that there are simply a disproportionate number of tpeople who are teachers out there? Think about the sheer number of teachers out there.

[Swing*8701 887]

Ed here--I think it may be a matter of discretion. There's a strip club in Peoria and every girl there had the same line,"I'm a nursing student at Illinois State University." Only one thing, there isn't a nursing school at ISU. Who cares though, it was just part of fantasy.

[BigGuy34 15]

I'm glad I'm not the only one who's noticed that teachers....after hours are crazy wild mother fuckers!!!

[BiloxiCouple 695]

Educators, police, medical, military, small business owners, casino workers, construction works, students. Everyone is trying to get in with the cool people.

[MulderNScully 19]

nurses are freaks generally speaking. I loved or did love many at one time..man

stewardessesese also. I remember meeting some southwest girls in ABQ and having a threesome

 

 

 

 

I (Mulder) attest to the fact nurses are ladies on the floor but freaks in the bed. Scully teaches me a thing or two in the bed and can be one of the hottest women I ever known. She is into the toys and so many things I can't even begin to imagine. Yet, at the same time, she is very selective and picky when it comes to who she plays with. Where I'm pretty open to nearly any woman Scully tends to stick with her favorites and maybe have a moment or two with the right woman/couple.

 

Now for flight attendents I'm not sure; the friendly skies and the ladies I've seen are either way sexy or way fugly.

[twoforone100 45]

In richmond there are a ton of teachers. We by far have met more teachers than Job type.. Nurses a distance second. and cops a super distance third.. Every town is different but we have talked with others and almost everyone we have spoken to says teachers with out a doubt.

[cplndixie 15]

I have noticed this trend for several years. I have thought about it & my conclussion is: nurses & teachers are mostly female.... when you put that many women in one building together, what are they going to talk about? Maybe not always but it always comes around to it. The more you do something (talk about something) the more comfortable it becomes to talk about or involve yourself in the subject. Eventually, most everyone in the atmosphere (school/hospital) is involved & participates in the subject. Thus more nurses & teachers are showing up in the lifestyle.

[toycple 19]

We have also met a few teachers too, and also nurses. The funny thing is near us we seem to meet quite a few civil servents too I.E: some cops and firemen.

[PB&J 1,086]

when you put that many women in one building together, what are they going to talk about? Maybe not always but it always comes around to it. The more you do something (talk about something) the more comfortable it becomes to talk about or involve yourself in the subject. Eventually, most everyone in the atmosphere (school/hospital) is involved & participates in the subject. Thus more nurses & teachers are showing up in the lifestyle.

 

Hah! The average swinger/teacher will discuss ANY subject but that at work. Trust me, I know a few. Actually, anyone in a "sensitive" profession will go out of their way NOT to discuss swinging on the job. Because the last thing they want is for "the boss" to find out what they do with their free time.

[spvcouple 123]

We, too, have noticed a lot of nurses and teachers in our local group. Much more than any other professional groups.

[realcplub2 513]

Noticed this for years..

 

My personal view is, for some much of the time they have to be striaght laced and reserved, that when it comes to free time, its time to relax and get WILD!!

 

And yes, it has made parent teacher conferences much more interesting to say the least.. Esp when you recognise the 8th ENGLISH teacher.

[cplndixie 15]

Hah! The average swinger/teacher will discuss ANY subject but that at work. Trust me, I know a few. Actually, anyone in a "sensitive" profession will go out of their way NOT to discuss swinging on the job. Because the last thing they want is for "the boss" to find out what they do with their free time.

 

I guess I didnt make myself clear. Sorry about the confussion. I simply meant that generally speaking women are gonna talk about thier sex lives or sexual situations etc, not specificly thier swinging lifestyle. no, no... just sexuality in general. Just girl talk. Eventually, that talk about sex or sexuality, is going to get interesting & it is generally discussed more & more as the girls become more comfortable & at ease with each other. (probably) subconciously, they become a little more open. Then eventually, they show up at the swingers parties.

No, no, they wont talk out in the open or around people who may find it offencive or inappropriate such as the boss etc.

Sorry I didnt make the "general" part a little plainer in the 1st post.

[PB&J 1,086]

Oh, ok. Still, in my experience in the workplace, unless the women you're working with are close friends, you're not going to discuss your sex life with them. I work with 20 other women, and sex is not usually the topic of conversation. Believe it or not. We do have other things on our minds (especially at work).

 

Maybe it's the relief from the stress of teaching or nursing, which both seem to be high-stress, high-responsibility professions?

[lustylearning 705]

Because teachers recognize the value of an open mind? Just a guess:)

[CuriousLeo's 19]

Noticed this for years..

 

My personal view is, for some much of the time they have to be striaght laced and reserved, that when it comes to free time, its time to relax and get WILD!!

 

And yes, it has made parent teacher conferences much more interesting to say the least.. Esp when you recognise the 8th ENGLISH teacher.

 

I am going to have to agree 100% with realcplub2. its just another way of stress release.

 

[piggytailz1269 15]

Being a teacher myself... my take on it is that all day long I have to be in control, im telling people what to do and occasionally punishing bad behavior. At the end of the week...I want something a little more out of control maybe being controlled and punished wink wink

[jdavisauto 73]

We know a few teachers and asked one a question that was closed to this one. The answer that she gave us was “after dealing with these little terrors all week, sex is the best stress release and it keeps us from killing these little devils on Monday morning”.

[IvoryTowers 380]

Well, you've all heard of the classic teacher's anxiety dream: accidentally showing up in front of your class one day in your undies (or naked). Since we're already dreaming about being naked in front of large groups of people, we figure we might as well try the real thing.

 

Seriously, though, I find teachers to be above average in open-mindedness and critical thinking. When one thinks critically about monogamy, one has to give serious consideration to the fact that it doesn't really work very well for a lot of people. When one is open-minded, nonmonogamy becomes a possible "solution" to this problem. This probably sounds a bit "holier than thou," but what do you expect from the Ivory Towers?

[tnt69couple 64]

I'll often click on the profiles of swingersboard to see what their occupation is, and it often seems like it's "teacher", why is that so? Maybe it's just an odd coincidence, but it seems like quite a lot of swingers are teachers. I'm just wondering why, because I can't think of any logical explanation why that would be.

 

 

I sure wish I knew who the teacher swingers were in the school system I work part time in. There are so many hot teachers!