I finally got to try MM blow job with my girlfriend watching

[mywildside 23]

My gf and I have always wanted to play with another man, finally it happened! We met a guy on SLS and I finally got to give him head while my girlfriend watched. What an incredible sexual feeling and what a great fuck that followed. Guys you don't know what your missing if you haven't emptied a cock in your mouth!

[TNT 1,155]

Cool!!!

 

It's always fun when you finally get the chance to experience something that you've been wanting to try. Hope you continue to have many more exciting experiences.

[fun4Ds 1,098]

Guys you don't know what your missing if you haven't emptied a cock in your mouth!

 

You're right, I don't know what I've been missing. But I will never miss what I've never had. How could I?

 

And yes I'm open minded enough to say to a bisexual man, great that you find joy in what you have. I'm not really trying to be biased about this and there are other bisexual males and couples that visit here. Hope they chime in as well, but your post seemed directed at me.

 

When I first explored my sexuality being so turned on with our mfm situations I was stuck a little bit with what the experts say - that a guy probably has some hidden gayness in the old closet. Well I stepped back and have been there man to man naked to naked and the excitement for a man is between... toe nail clippings and a fence post. That's just me, but I can say I honestly stepped forward personally to know myself.

 

Now on the other hand, Mrs.Fun could touch base with you on the feelings of a mouth full of cum. She loves cum... in her, on her, everywhere the more the better. Maybe I don't understand her sensations any more than yours, but she doesn't try to convince me what I'm missing.

 

Just for my curiosity though I've noticed you are listed as a married male. In your posts sometimes you are with your wife and then other times a girlfriend. Are you in a poly relationship?

[Chicup 41]

Guys you dont know what your missing if you havent emptied a cock in your mouth!

 

I was once at a party and a friend did the 'tap the top of the beer bottle' thing to me, so I quickly put it in my mouth to drink it as it foamed over but too much came out and I ended up spitting out half of it.

 

Close enough for me thanks.

[MatureMr 16]

Sounds great to me. I always let the mood set the rules. I go with the flow and have enjoyed MM action like yourself. Always better with a hot wet woman to watch and then take part. Keep it up. Enjoy.

[pervgeeks 119]

We've had so many experiences in just months of the being in the lifestyle of my strait husband getting hit on by other (supposedly strait) men that frankly, we've had to be pretty specific regarding our displeasure at this.

 

If you're a man who wants to have sex with men- go for it. My husband is strait. If he were bi and it turned him on, I'd support it, but he's not. Please don't make assumptions that all men want, need, or should do this. Not everyone's interested.

[BiloxiCouple 695]

If you're a man who wants to have sex with men- go for it. My husband is straight. If he were bi and it turned him on, I'd support it, but he's not. Please don't make assumptions that all men want, need, or should do this. Not everyone's interested.

 

Now change the above statement to "a woman" and apply it there also. It holds true for both sexes.

[pervgeeks 119]

Now change the above statement to "a woman" and apply it there also. It holds true for both sexes.

 

I agree completely. I'm a bi woman and before I would so much as try to hold another woman's hand, I ask something along the lines of, "Do you like girls?" If someone said no, I'd not go further. Why hit on strait people who aren't into it? It's not only disrespectful to people, but kind of a waste of time.

[Semod 15]

What I find funny is the fact that so many straight guys feel they have to chime in. The topic heading is very clear as to what the posting is about. Why would a straight guy bother reading the post, and then go through the trouble of posting a reply slamming the OP? If you're not into MM, that's great. I like reading about peoples sexual adventures and celebrate what this lifestyle has to offer. If it's about something that I find really offensive, I just move on.

[lovinher 505]

Guys you don't know what your missing if you haven't emptied a cock in your mouth!

 

I disagree. I do know what I'm missing and that's fine with me. If you like it, that's fine with me too.

 

What I find funny is the fact that so many straight guys feel they have to chime in. The topic heading is very clear as to what the posting is about. Why would a straight guy bother reading the post, and then go through the trouble of posting a reply slamming the OP?

 

I believe the OP is making a statement to us straight guys in the above quote. Hence the responses.

[Semod 15]

Yes, you're both right, you were responding to the OP. Fair enough. And to each his own and I'm happy that the OP was sexually pleased. But I guess the point I'm trying to make is if you're not into MM, why did you open this post to begin with unless you're somewhat interested? I may be answering my own question here, but I opened it because I like reading about peoples sexual exploits. And if some guy got pleasure out of giving a BJ, good for him. I on the other hand have never had and am sure that I never will have another guys cock in my mouth. But it's OK with me that someone else did. I'm not trying to slam anybody here, I'm just curious.

[crazycatz 17]

We've had so many experiences in just months of the being in the lifestyle of my strait husband getting hit on by other (supposedly strait) men that frankly, we've had to be pretty specific regarding our displeasure at this.

 

If you're a man who wants to have sex with men- go for it. My husband is strait. If he were bi and it turned him on, I'd support it, but he's not. Please don't make assumptions that all men want, need, or should do this. Not everyone's interested.

 

I don't see why you're getting upset at his suggestion that men don't know what they are missing? Does sucking cock make you bi? Not necessarily. I think what the OP is getting at is that this is just a sexual experience and one that is highly pleasing and it is quite different than getting a bj from a woman. I've always held that men are better at giving bjs than women and females are better at giving oral sex to another woman than men are....because we're more familiar with the anatomy. I think this is what the OP is trying to get at here, or at least what I'm taking from it.

[lovinher 505]

Does sucking cock make you bi? Not necessarily.

Once, maybe not.

Twice, definitely.

If your a woman? Definitely not.

Unless of course you are a woman who sucks pussy.

 

[Cerberus 16]

If my wife got off on seeing it I would try it..but she doesn't so I won't.

[pervgeeks 119]

I don't see why you're getting upset at his suggestion that men don't know what they are missing? Does sucking cock make you bi? Not necessarily. I think what the OP is getting at is that this is just a sexual experience and one that is highly pleasing and it is quite different than getting a bj from a woman. I've always held that men are better at giving bjs than women and females are better at giving oral sex to another woman than men are....because we're more familiar with the anatomy. I think this is what the OP is trying to get at here, or at least what I'm taking from it.

 

I'm not upset. I'm kind of cool as a cucumber about this stuff. I'm a woman who likes having sex with both men and other women, so I identify myself as bisexual. If I had a husband that was into guys, I'd be the first one in line supporting him and being into it with him. He's not though and I kind of resent the handful of guys in the lifestyle who told him they wanted to suck his cock or grabbed his ass and call themselves strait. Why can't they be honest with themselves and their partners? Maybe they're be less stigma if all the bi/bi-curious lifestyle dudes could claim openly just who they are, what they want, hook up together and get their needs satisfied instead of calling themselves a strait guy that occasionally likes to suck dick (or call themselves a strait guy, then hit on another dude). It's pretty much an oxymoron, isn't it? Just be honest and be whomever you are. There's nothing wrong with being bisexual- male or female.

 

I have zero problem with anyone's preferences, but I'm not going to tell anyone- strait, gay, bi, whatever, what I personally think their preferences SHOULD be. Nor would I disrespect someone by hitting on them when I know I'm not a part of their preference.

[TNT 1,155]

As is the norm around here, anytime anything is mentioned about bi-male sexuality, there are those who become oversensitive to the topic and have to profess just how straight they are. On an open message board, they do have the right...I just wish they'd be nicer about it at times.

 

In this particular thread, IMO, the OP's enthusiasm and excitement over having experienced something that he obviously had been wanting to experience was missed. I don't believe that he was purposely trying get anyone up in arms over bi-male sex.

 

He was excited about something he experienced and he just wanted to share...much in the same way that say someone who had always wanted to try SCUBA diving ...they finally got to try it and it was a total rush to them...they come back and everyone they meet and talk to they have to make a comment....You don't know what you're missing, you should try it, it's wonderful. Yeah, maybe to them it was. SCUBA diving holds NO appeal to me but, I wouldn't stomp on someone's enthusiasm and excitement about it, just because it's not my thing.

 

A simple...It's not my cup of tea but I'm glad you had a good time, would have done just fine here in this thread.

[crazycatz 17]

Whatever a person choses to identify themselves is ok with me...after all, it's their decision.

 

Labels are for clothes, IMO. And if a man who likes to suck an occasional cock wants to call himself straight, then that's his business.

 

Sexuality is more fluid I think and can't be reduced to watertight categories.

 

I agree that people should respect the preferences of others and shouldn't make anyone uncomfortable by making unwanted advances but this is not what the OP was getting at.

 

btw, Well said TNT!

[graygo98 148]

I've always held that men are better at giving bjs than women and females are better at giving oral sex to another woman than men are....because we're more familiar with the anatomy..

 

Don't know that I buy this. My wife is familiar with her "anatomy" and knows what works for her. I am familiar with many women's "anatomies" and know that its a bit (sometimes a lot) different each time. The fun is in the uniqueness of each experience.

 

Could be wrong, but I would bet that I am (way) better at giving a woman oral than my wife is. As for me, I have been the owner/operator of a penis for a really long time. I know what it likes, but would not have a clue what to do in the extremely unlikely (in this lifetime) event I suddenly found someone else's in my mouth.

 

As for the OP, you're right. I don't know what I am missing. So far, I am ok with that.

[tscpl 93]

We also think that some issues relating to male bisexuality and practices around that appear to provoke a spate of denial not to say homophobic anxiety. Another issue which is certain to provoke a large degree of denial and heat on this Board is the issue of interracial sex etc. Perhaps we ought to let everyone express their thoughts and maybe try harder to be less judgmental. That's our 2cents worth!

[tjomc 25]

I only want to say that unlike some of the points made i do understand that we as men do communicate a little different than women.

 

I understand all points and didn't take it that anyone was attacking anyone else.

I did read in a couple post about hitting on someone who doesn't feel the same ie. bi-women on straight women and bi-men on straight men.

 

I am a Straight male who in fact doesn't get upset in the least if i'm hit on by a bi-male or a gay male, and wouldn't understand why anyone male or female would get upset, I myself am flattered makes me feel good, makes MrsT feel good that her husband is attractive. I've listened to "straight" men respond to these advances as "Do I Look Gay" to which i wish someone would say does the guy hitting on you look gay? or even better "Yes you do" why else would i hit on you..

 

To each their own

[WesternSwing 504]

Can't we just get rid of all the categories and just have one? Sexual. You're straight. You're bi. You're gay. In reality it is all just different ways of being sexual. Doesn't mean you have to participate in it all, just means we get rid of all the labels. Won't happen, but damn the world would be a nicer place for it.

 

Here's to wishing.

[Chicup 41]

Can't we just get rid of all the categories and just have one? Sexual. You're straight. You're bi. You're gay. In reality it is all just different ways of being sexual. Doesn't mean you have to participate in it all, just means we get rid of all the labels. Won't happen, but damn the world would be a nicer place for it.

 

Here's to wishing.

 

Pedophile, necrophile, and zoophile too?

 

We are all sexual beings but lets be real here, communication is about as much information in as little effort as possible.

 

Saying you are sexual is meaningless unless the question is to separate the sexual from the asexual.

 

Man:Hey would you like to go see a movie?

Woman: Sure but only platonic ok?

Man: Oh come on give me a chance?

Woman: No I'm sexual.

Man: That's what I like to hear!

Woman: No I'm sexual, but sexual only with other women.

Man: Oh sorry I didn't know you were a lesbian, can we still do that movie?

Woman: Don't you label me!

 

So no it won't ever happen but because it happening would be silly. Labels are fine, its what the perception behind those labels are that could be a problem.

[WesternSwing 504]

Pedophile, necrophile, and zoophile too?

Why is it that this is the first place people head in any argument about sexual tolerance?

 

We are all sexual beings but lets be real here, communication is about as much information in as little effort as possible.

 

Saying you are sexual is meaningless unless the question is to separate the sexual from the asexual.

 

Man:Hey would you like to go see a movie?

Woman: Sure but only platonic ok?

Man: Oh come on give me a chance?

Woman: No I'm sexual.

Man: That's what I like to hear!

Woman: No I'm sexual, but sexual only with other women.

Man: Oh sorry I didn't know you were a lesbian, can we still do that movie?

Woman: Don't you label me!

So, why can't she just say "Sorry, I'm in to women."?

 

So no it won't ever happen but because it happening would be silly. Labels are fine, its what the perception behind those labels are that could be a problem.

I don't see it as silly. I see labels as something one person does to another person to compartmentalize them and judge them based on their own fears and insecurities. Humans have an innate need to feel superior to others. To feel good about themselves they have to make someone else bad. Eliminating labels would be a giant step towards this. Unfortunately it will never happen for the reason I just outlined. For that reason changing the perception behind them will never happen, either. For instance, we may make headway as gays become more accepted by more of society as each generation passes, but will there ever be a time someone doesn't hate them? No. All I can do is change my little part of the world. :D:D

[lovinher 505]

westernswing said:

I don't see it as silly. I see labels as something one person does to another person to compartmentalize them and judge them based on their own fears and insecurities. Humans have an innate need to feel superior to others. To feel good about themselves they have to make someone else bad. Eliminating labels would be a giant step towards this. Unfortunately it will never happen for the reason I just outlined. For that reason changing the perception behind them will never happen, either. For instance, we may make headway as gays become more accepted by more of society as each generation passes, but will there ever be a time someone doesn't hate them? No. All I can do is change my little part of the world.

 

Sorry WS, but I don't agree at all.

 

Every person you ever met you label instantly. It's how we function. It's how we remember things and people. Within a second or two of looking at a person your mind labels that person in some fashion. You can bet that person has labeled you within a few seconds of seeing you. We as humans do this without even realizing it. We have evolved that way as a survival tactic and cannot control it. It's not about superiority, it's about deciphering in your mind wether or not that person is a threat or friend. I read an article a few years back in Scientific American (I think) that touched on this very subject.

 

In my own opinion this doesn't mean that all labels are bad. If you see a person who is extremely obese, what is the first thing that pops into your head? Fat, large, big or whatever nice name we might say in public. If you see an extremely beautiful woman what is the first thing that pops into your head? I'm sure there are some of you who are thinking right now...well I don't do that! Riiiiiight.

 

I'm not sure how this turned into a discussion about hating gays. This whole thread had morphed into something way beyond what was posted by the OP and most of the replies and nobody said anything even remotely close to bashing gays or bi's. If a guy likes sucking cock? So what? I call him bi. That doesn't mean I hate him or think negatively about him. If he's buddy I might bust his balls about it though too. That's what guys do and it will never change....I hope.

 

We all know women don't do this.

[crazycatz 17]

If he's buddy I might bust his balls about it though too. That's what guys do and it will never change....

 

Things must be quite different here in Ireland...your mates would never 'bust your balls' for your sexuality...I think that's completely unacceptable, even if it is in jest..it means you see it as an issue on some level.

 

And as for labels...just because we have them why is it correct to maintain them? What purpose does it serve to call someone fat? bi? The only purpose it serves, IMO, is to 'other' them. The big purpose of labels is to help us discriminate.

 

Sexuality is not something that can be compartmentalized into watertight compartments of bi, gay or straight...there are a multitude of options.

And does it not matter at all how the person themselves chooses to identify?

 

I would like to think it does.

[lovinher 505]

So I if jokingly tell my bi buddy a guy is checking him out I'm a bad guy? Sorry, but that's how me and my friends are with each other and I could care less as to what somebody else thinks is unacceptable.

 

And as for labels...just because we have them why is it correct to maintain them? What purpose does it serve to call someone fat? bi? The only purpose it serves, IMO, is to 'other' them. The big purpose of labels is to help us discriminate.

 

In another thread you yourself labeled you as a single BI-fem. Nothing wrong with that. Who are you discriminating then? I see your point, just don't agree.

 

Sexuality is not something that can be compartmentalised into watertight compartments of bi, gay or straight...there are a multitiude of options.

 

IMO-yes it is and has it's purpose. What are the multitude of options?

[crazycatz 17]

To say "I might bust his balls about it though too" implies that your piss take would consist of more than just saying a guy is checking him out, IMO.

 

And yes, I do label myself...that's my whole point...that it is up to the individual.

[WesternSwing 504]

lovinher said:

Sorry WS, but I don't agree at all.

 

Every person you ever met you label instantly. It's how we function.

 

True, and I'm not saying we don't. I'm just saying it's silly and in the end, unneeded.

[lovinher 505]

You cannot label yourself and expect others not to. If you label yourself as "bi", what then do you yourself call another woman who likes women and men? My guess is "bi". Just trying to make a point.

 

Crazycatz, I'm not picking on you personally. I call this a discussion with different views.

 

I do not mean to offend you in any way and I hope I haven't. Without different views there would not be a Swingers Board.

[SamuiCouple 70]

Semod said:

What I find funny is the fact that so many straight guys feel they have to chime in. The topic heading is very clear as to what the posting is about. Why would a straight guy bother reading the post, and then go through the trouble of posting a reply slamming the OP? If you're not into MM, that's great. I like reading about peoples sexual adventures and celebrate what this lifestyle has to offer. If it's about something that I find really offensive, I just move on.

 

Agreed. The gentlemen protests too much....

 

Maybe a little insecurity there behind the wisecracks.

[Swing*8701 887]

I have always found it trite when people think all women are just two apple martinis away from going bisexual or men are all 'just a little bit bi' they just need the right moment. Puhleeaaaaase.

[pervgeeks 119]

Why is it that this is the first place people head in any argument about sexual tolerance?

 

We are all sexual beings but lets be real here, communication is about as much information in as little effort as possible.

 

 

So, why can't she just say "Sorry, I'm in to women."?

 

I don't see it as silly. I see labels as something one person does to another person to compartmentalize them and judge them based on their own fears and insecurities. Humans have an innate need to feel superior to others. To feel good about themselves they have to make someone else bad. Eliminating labels would be a giant step towards this. Unfortunately it will never happen for the reason I just outlined. For that reason changing the perception behind them will never happen, either. For instance, we may make headway as gays become more accepted by more of society as each generation passes, but will there ever be a time someone doesn't hate them? No. All I can do is change my little part of the world. :D:D

 

I view it differently. I'm very comfortable with saying I'm a bisexual woman. To me those who don't give their feelings a name aren't comfortable with their feelings. I think there's far more bi/bi-curious men in the lifestyle than admit to it. I think they'd be a lot happier and fulfilled (without wasting their time on strait guys who aren't into it) if they could be as open about it as the women. I think being open and claiming who you are without reserve is what reduces shame and brings upon acceptance.

[bill&sabrina 22]

I have always found it trite when people think all women are just two apple martinis away from going bisexual or men are all 'just a little bit bi' they just need the right moment. Puhleeaaaaase.

 

With so many people describing their first bi experience this way, who do you blame?

[tribbles 490]

For example, a topic like What is your position on playing alone? does not seem to have people jumping in to say "this is not for me"

 

Yet I sure see it on this thread.

 

To the OP, glad you had fun.

[lovinher 505]

I had sex with a one legged 90 year old woman. You guys don't know what you are missing.

 

Yep, I'm into older women. I recommend everyone try it at least once.

[Thrax 384]

My gf and I have always wanted to play with another man, finally it happened! We met a guy on SLS and I finally got to give him head while my girlfriend watched. What an incredible sexual feeling and what a great fuck that followed. Guys you don't know what your missing if you haven't emptied a cock in your mouth!

 

Well, good for you! It's not my cup of tea, though.

[WesternSwing 504]

lovinher said:

You cannot label yourself and expect others not to. If you label yourself as "bi", what then do you yourself call another woman who likes women and men? My guess is "bi". Just trying to make a point.

 

But, I'm not labeling myself.

[fun4Ds 1,098]

OK, so if I follow mywildsides threads... he starts with his wife, then his girlfriend for cream pie cleaning, then he eats his own cum, then a man's cum. This developed over time. Now since he won't respond, I would like to know one thing.

 

Since we are talking labels, what would he be called in the alternative lifestyle? A "married poly self-service bisexual man on the down low swinger", is that right?