A poll just for those who prefer separate room play.

[couplewanting50 65]

This poll is only for those who prefer — or choose only — to play in separate rooms.

[ShellyM 0]

Well, we don't fit into any of the categories; or perhaps I'm misunderstanding this. We play in separate rooms but we are both together on the premises. So we play separately but neither of us specifically plays alone.

[couplewanting50 65]

Well, we don't fit into any of the categories; or perhaps I'm misunderstanding this. We play in separate rooms but we are both together on the premises. So we play separately but neither of us specifically plays alone.

 

You are in the first category listed. You choose to play in separate rooms, but do not play alone.

[ShellyM 0]

You are in the first category listed. You choose to play in separate rooms, but do not play alone.

 

Did I fail to mention that I went to public schools and do not read English well?

LOL, just teasing

[sexcupid 809]

Did I fail to mention that I went to public schools and do not read English well?

LOL, just teasing

 

lmao....

 

 

I answered that we do play in separate rooms and we also play alone at times. I went to a house party by myself on Halloween...and on occasion we try to set up a separate play time with a playmate for 1 on 1 playtime. This happens rarely...but then again us going out to play period happens rarely as well. Maybe a few times a year.

 

 

Maria (who had to read the choices a few times to make sure I selected the right one...)

[undercovercpl 29]

We have been swinging for about a year. It started off with a few rules... No kissing (that one lasted about three minutes), Same room, and ALWAYS play together, oh and no anal and always wear condom. About six months into our new lifestyle our rules are no anal and always wear a condom. Other than that HAVE FUN!

[WesternSwing 504]

I won't say we "prefer" to play alone or in separate rooms, it really depends on who we are with, when, and what else is going on. But we are not opposed to playing in separate rooms and we both have the ability to play alone if we please. Sometimes its sexy from both standpoints: being alone with a partner so we're not distracted by what else is going on in the room, and meeting a playmate alone for a few hours of fun is sexy knowing each other is having a good time with someone else.

 

So I won't say we "prefer" it but it is "equal to" playing together, just a different sensation and a turn-on for other reasons.

 

Mr. WS

[ShellyM 0]

I won't say we "prefer" to play alone or in separate rooms, it really depends on who we are with, when, and what else is going on. But we are not opposed to playing in separate rooms and we both have the ability to play alone if we please. Sometimes its sexy from both standpoints: being alone with a partner so we're not distracted by what else is going on in the room, and meeting a playmate alone for a few hours of fun is sexy knowing each other is having a good time with someone else.

 

So I won't say we "prefer" it but it is "equal to" playing together, just a different sensation and a turn-on for other reasons.

 

Mr. WS

 

You are right, we are the same way. We do "prefer" separate room if we are asked...however, we are comfortable same bed, same room, one on the floor one on the bed, in the hot tub, well you get the idea LOL.

[Menage_a_Trois 182]

We play in separate rooms, but do not play alone

 

I picked this one because it is the closest to us - as a general rule we don't play alone. HOWEVER, there have been times we have and there will be times in the future I'm sure we will again.

 

For us we as a general rule don't ever seek out to play alone - however if at a club or party there is another couple there that we have played with and one of them is interested in playing and so is one of us - we are fine with that. It's someone we have a history with and feel comfortable with.

 

But in general we don't like the playing alone for one main reason - we don't like the distraction from worrying about if our SO is having fun - etc.

[Romalx 15]

Read & re-read and have to admit we play together only, really for the visual aspect of it, not to say I or her will not step out to have a drink or something , but we won't start without each other And for sure it is more fun when there is more of everything! i.e. a pair of this, a pair of that and 2 pairs of that!

[SCcpl40 74]

We prefer to be in the same room, but if we're at a house party with friends, it's ok to venture off.

[melways11 15]

I agree with the point, sexy in other ways.

 

For reasons I do not understand, it is a big turn-on to offer my gf for separate room sex. It is the ultimate swap, and shows the greatest trust between us.

[sc4play 17]

We prefer same room, but sometimes if the situation is right we have done separate rooms.

[cubnamy1995 124]

Hmmm.....

 

We like it all. Does that make us sluts?

[dan5619 17]

We play together in the same room, we play in separate rooms, and we have played alone. The golden rules which is not broken is: We must have discussed and be in agreement with any of the different ways we play.

 

The main reason for us playing in the same room is either due to the type of play or the other couple with not play in separate rooms.

 

The main reason for us playing in different rooms is due to the distraction caused by the other couple in the room.

 

The main reason for us to play alone is for the experience and or the person does not play with couples.

 

This is us!

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I think just wanting to view the results of the poll should be an option in ALL polls I chose playing in separate rooms and alone. Things just seem to go better when there isn't someone watching everything you're doing. I LOVE watching my wife fuck and getting fucked but I know she'll be able to relax more and have a better time if I'm not there watching because I know how I feel when the husband is watching me have sex with his wife and how she acts when he's not around.

[funn 15]

We have always played together, this week one of our male friends slept over after a party. When my wife and I got into bed we stared fooling around again ( this was at 2 in the morning) I asked her if she wanted to go to our friend's room and do him alone and she said yes . After being with her for 25 years, this is the first time she was going to do someone without me there. Let me tell you something, the sounds alone just drove me mad! I was soooo excited. I lay in my bed for half an hour with a rock hard boner listening to them, just waiting for her to return.

 

We talked about it the next day and we decided to surprise him. We have a playdate penciled in for this week. He thinks it will be a MFM but she will be going alone. She is sooo excited and nervous at the same time.

[Cajun2Step 65]

We have a playdate penciled in for this week. He thinks it will be a MFM but she will be going alone. She is sooo excited and nervous at the same time.

 

Really sounds exciting. We have talked about Lady C2S trying this playdate idea, but she is too nervous to try it at this time. Please let us know how it worked out for you.

 

We do play at the same location and have played in separate rooms as well as in the same room. We like it both ways. Someone watching is a big turn on for us.

[Guest 3inchdaddy]

Well my lady and i play in separate rooms some of the time and some of the time it's in the same room. I just love to see her enjoying herself with some long dong guy that's really laying it to her the way she like. She has me cuckold and i enjoy every moment of it don't want it any other way. When in separate rooms it's still fun to hear her bed making noise and her butt cheeks slapping.

[MN Tom 251]

We play alone, separate rooms, same room.. At this point we prefer separate room more often, but in some cases we prefer same room. Depends on the couple really, and the situation.

 

We aren't sure if its a vibe we give off or a preference that the other couples have, but that's how it goes.

[tdurden 15]

I won't say we "prefer" to play alone or in separate rooms, it really depends on who we are with, when, and what else is going on. But we are not opposed to playing in separate rooms and we both have the ability to play alone if we please. Sometimes its sexy from both standpoints: being alone with a partner so we're not distracted by what else is going on in the room, and meeting a playmate alone for a few hours of fun is sexy knowing each other is having a good time with someone else.

 

So I won't say we "prefer" it but it is "equal to" playing together, just a different sensation and a turn-on for other reasons.

 

Mr. WS

 

Exactly. The same goes for my wife and I.

[Tina and Bob 236]

We play in separate rooms and also alone, but also enjoy same room play, just depends on the situation and who we are with.