Your feelings about oral sex with condoms?

[pnl0211 15]

During oral sex, how do people feel about condoms? Are there risks?

[ShellyM 0]

We do not ask others to glove up and Jay has never gloved up for oral either.

[tribbles 490]

Are there risks?

 

Yes

 

We do it anyways....

[sweet_tna 680]

My honey and I take that risk, too.

[sexcupid 809]

Same here...there is a level of acceptable risk for us in not using them for oral...some people may feel that is too much risk to accept, and might insist on their use for any sexual activity though.

 

Maria

[strathmore 20]

For some men (self included) there is a risk that using a condom may lead to loss of tumescence in Mr Happy. also loss of sensitivity.

[Sico_tiko 17]

I dont like condoms during oral sex, mmmm and i dont think that this is dangerous as long as i do it with trusted people

[Greg & Sheryl 368]

There is a risk to unprotected oral sex, but the risk is much lower than it is for backback vaginal sex. Frankly, we'd rather not have sex at all than use barriers for oral sex.

[graygo98 148]

I agree that there is a risk to unprotected oral. Can you help me with why the risk might be lower for vaginal? Are there any STD's that you can contract genitally that you can't contract orally? Are the consequences more severe or the treatment more difficult?

[Ed & Bunny 160]

This is probobly the biggest issue between Bunny and I in our swinging. She wants protection for oral and I would prefer not. But as we all know how it works, the protection is used until she changes her mind, or the cum catching thing at the end of the condom gags her one time to many:D. I did not say that last, I really didn't. LOL It does take away from the experience for me, but with as oral as I am, it is better than nothing.

[Tia Vampire 167]

I do not ask the guys to glove up when it comes to oral sex, but I do ask the guy not to cum in my mouth.

[JTcamp05 9]

Do people actually use condoms for oral sex?.... Never came across ANYONE who did!

[ShellyM 0]

I have seen it in the clubs, yes. Not often mind you but yes I have seen it.

[personal416 71]

I agree that there is a risk to unprotected oral. Can you help me with why the risk might be lower for vaginal? Are there any STD's that you can contract genitally that you can't contract orally? Are the consequences more severe or the treatment more difficult?

 

I think that's a great question.

 

Are STD's like Trich passed orally?

[tribbles 490]

The internet says yes...Trich can be passed orally. So can many others -

[cuzzeyesaidso 31]

Blowjob with a condom?

 

Doesn't that violate the constitution?

[imsherona2 15]

Yes, my questions also is: do people really wear condoms for oral sex? For as long as I have been swinging, I have never run into that situation or request either...!!

[Guest screaminggood]

I've never seen it yet....

[Bama0468 93]

I have not as yet seen it yet, nor requested or been requested to.

[webbguy 27]

Can you get HIV or any other disease by receiving oral sex from a girl, and, if so, could you name the diseases please?

 

 

Answer

 

You cannot get HIV from contact with saliva alone, so insertive oral sex (that is a man receiving oral sex) is safe. The only way insertive oral sex could present some risk is if your sex partner had sufficient amounts of blood in her mouth (from recent dental work or other dental problems for example) and your penis came into direct contact with blood. But you?d hopefully notice if your partner had blood in her mouth.

 

You can get other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) from insertive oral sex. The more common ones include gonorrhea, chlamydia, and non-gonococcal urethritis (NGU). These usually can be treated easily with antibiotics. You may also get syphilis (which usually can be treated easily with antibiotics (if identified early enough) and herpes (which can?t be cured but can be treated). A useful table of STDs and associated risks can be found online. It also contains detailed information about each STD.

 

If you?re a sexually active young man, you should probably get screened at least once a year for STDs. Many STDs do not have symptoms and can go unnoticed. Talk to your doctor about screening for STDs, or, if you are uncomfortable talking with him or her, you can go to a city or county STD clinic.

[personal416 71]

The internet says yes...Trich can be passed orally. So can many others -

 

I've read some conflicting information recently that claims trich can't survive the bacteria in the mouth. {shrug}

[nhcpl1968 18]

We haven't seen anybody glove up for oral

[MrsHidalgo 25]

A couple of things.....

 

First, having the guy cum in my mouth is the reason I like giving oral. That's part of MY reward for doing a good job. I'll admit it. I love the sensation and taste. And I've never had a guy complain when I swallowed his semen.

 

Secondly, I hate the taste of condoms. No matter WHAT you put on them to give them flavor.....they still taste awful.

 

No condoms in my mouth. If I have doubts about the guy I won't go down on him in the first place.

 

JMO.

[twoready4fun 15]

Nope. No condoms during oral sex for us. We only swing with a very small circle of friends though.

[Tarponn 23]

Oral unprotected sex can and does spread lots of things, friendship, erotic feelings, enhanced self image, positive physical control, and some tiny bugs as well. If you want a little more protection do what many gays do use an antiseptic mouth wash close to completion. It may not do any good, but you'll feel better.

[dayhiker 83]

This is what amazes me. We hear there are a lot of STDs going around. Most swingers don't use condoms for oral and sometimes don't for intercourse. So how come there are so few reported cases of STD's in the swinging community? There seems to be a real disconnect in the two sets of data.

 

Any thoughts?

[N8ture Girl 318]

dayhiker said:

This is what amazes me. We hear there are a lot of STDs going around. Most swingers don't use condoms for oral and sometimes don't for intercourse. So how come there are so few reported cases of STD's in the swinging community? There seems to be a real disconnect in the two sets of data.

 

Any thoughts?

 

Interesting question. My first thought would be that yes there are a lot of STD's going around, but maybe not so much in the swinging world. While there are STD's in the lifestyle, it seems that those in the LS are just more careful and take a proactive approach towards getting tested and choosing their play partners more carefully. In the vanilla world its not always the case.

 

Also there is a possibility that if a person had an STD in the LS and tired to hide it and was found out it would likely be social suicide as word would spread amongst the swinging circles. And who knows, if a person open admitted to a STD, and was cured if the case allowed, people may shy away from that person or anyone who they have played with.

So not only is it important health wise but also important socially to remain bug free.

In another words more people will know about your STD in the swinging world than in the vanilla world, so it is more likely that one will be more careful in the LS.

 

That's just one possible perspective....

[RDfnd 180]

This issue has been a difficult one for us. We understand that seldom are condoms used or required for oral, even if to completion with cum in mouth and/ or swallow. If oral is performed w/o a condom even to the point of significant arousal and precum production significant risk has occurred. Then why not just bareback the whole way? We continually re-address this and still find it a conflict that is challenging to resolve.

[silentdub 46]

I can't see how a woman can enjoy herself with one.

 

You would get more pleasure licking the pudding out of those little snack packs.

 

Fucking diseases suck, but I guess they keep people like me 'in check'