Lights on or lights off?

[Ellyanne77 81]

I like the lights on. I like to see what I am working with.. I have found that people that have body image issues like the lights off and that kind of kills it for me. Confidence is the sexiest part about a person.

[olycouple 62]

There needs to be some type of light, what good is a meal if you cannot see how it is presented

[BiloxiCouple 695]

When you guys play do you like well lit areas or dark areas or a medium of both?

 

What does the other couple look like and how is their personality?

[sexcupid 809]

If we're at home and it's just the two of us, it varies...lights off, hall light on, overhead light on...it doesn't matter really.

 

If we're out and about for playtime, well we normally don't have much control over how the club has their play area lit and it's no big deal. I've yet to see one all lit up like a runway, mostly 'mood' lighting.

 

 

Maria

[Guest ibn battuta]

Generally when the Mrs. and I play we have the lights dimmed, but still on. Not because its sexy or anything, just because its annoying for the person on bottom to have a bright light shining in their eyes. In our limited experience with others I think the lights have always been on... but that was generally the last thing I was concerned with.

[curious_2for2 92]

Some light is always helpful ~ keeps you from elbowing those sensitive bits during the heights of passion!

 

~C2

[two4youinswva 3,068]

Not because its sexy or anything, just because its annoying for the person on bottom to have a bright light shining in their eyes.

This.

 

 

 

 

A little mood lighting works fine for us.

[LFM2 1,482]

I like it anywhere from moonlight through the window to full bright-on light. I don't like it dark, even though I have body issues. I just don't show it.

[havefuninsun 122]

Moonlight is quite sexy! My favorite, besides moonlight, is candlelight

[ownerspet 506]

I absolutley love to see the expressions on someone's face in the throws of passion....

[BradAndJanet 70]

Lights on!

 

I gotta be able to see what I'm doing...and who!

 

-B

[prettylady 221]

Depends on what the lights are doing when we start playing.

I like black light because when you smile you look weird and I love to laugh so, I can get away with laughing while having sex and no one is offended.

Dog and I started to have sex once in front of the gas fireplace, it was hot, sexy too.

But when the room got warm enough the fire went out. I think I said "well that sucks".

talk about a mood killer. Dogs throwing down his best moves and I say "well that sucks".

Good thing I'm cute, else I could have been in some serious shit.

Your friend,

Prettylady:kissface:

[Vjklander 138]

Blacklights with fluorescent body paints.

[prettylady 221]

Now there's some good times a happinin:lol:

Your friend,

Prettylady:kissface:

[tribbles 490]

Wow, I finally feel like we are normal!

 

Lights on from dim to full bright works for us.

[djjwp 129]

As many lights on as we can, we like to look!

[Trace Ekies 186]

On, on, on! We like to see each other and our friends as things unfold.

 

One of our favorite couples prefers the lights very low (her). I think it has to do with body image issues but we don't mind either way. If she only realized that I've felt every inch, licked every inch and seen every inch (in very low light) and I wouldn't change a thing.

 

Trace

[Tybee Swing 286]

When you guys play do you like well lit areas or dark areas or a medium of both?

 

Bright enough to see, but not glaring. We like to look our partners in the eyes, as well as see what's going on.

 

With each other, anything from dark to well-lit is fine, but hubby doesn't like bright, glaring lights (bothers his eyes).

[cocpl2007 170]

anyone ever hear of c a n d l e s?

 

We're with Prettylady, the Moon, a Fireplace, and although we've not tried it together the Blacklight is quite enticing. I for one, sure like to have a view of what is going on, total darkness would be...different.

[good times 991]

I prefer medium light, light enough to see but a little subdued.

[sweet_tna 680]

We like it bright enough to see, but not bright enough to signal Batman.

 

=)

[olycouple 62]

anyone ever hear of c a n d l e s?

 

We're with Prettylady, the Moon, a Fireplace, and although we've not tried it together the Blacklight is quite enticing. I for one, sure like to have a view of what is going on, total darkness would be...different.

 

A Blacklight is very interesting when used with edible body-paints, but in the end when you are all done and the paint is smeared everywhere, you look like you stood next to a leaking paint shaker

[SCcpl40 74]

When we attend a hotel social we bring along some red light bulbs and candles. We're romantics at heart, so we try to make the evening a special event. We ask the couple or couples, their preference, so the mood lighting can be from dark, with candles, dim light or with the lights on. It's all part of the total seduction.

 

When we're home alone it's the same way, just depends on the evening.

[Tia Vampire 167]

Dim lights are fine. It gives the atmosphere a mysterious feel.

[gatorvol64 216]

We like it bright enough to see, but not bright enough to signal Batman.

 

=)

 

for me that is.

 

Vol

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

I like enough light to see who I'm with. This last weekend at the club we noticed that the upstairs was DARK, a little bit of light inthe main room but the smaller rooms almost pitch black. I like to see who I'm with and see their expressions.

[rpu3 630]

Dim lighting, fireplace, candles - all good. I've decided that I like seeing the person I'm with and occasionally being able to take advantage of looking at a mirror, etc.

 

Lighting that makes me feel that I'm about to be interrogated or lighting that will result in bodily injury to someone because I can't see - not so good.

[hotcpl4unfla 19]

Light for sure. Black lights work great.

[jlj119 1]

Definitely lights on. I love the female form and I'm very "sight" oriented. I love to watch while I'm having sex. Without lights all the beautiful parts of a woman are hidden. And my main partner also likes watching our bodies meld together. Yup, yup, yup. Lights on!!

[sc4play 17]

We like a lot of candle's...but when we are out...we have no control of the light's..so we go with the flow of the evening.

[Sico_tiko 17]

I prefer romantic light also if the lights are on its ok for me but i hate darkness

[CrazyCampers 15]

Here's a joke on topic:

 

A couple is outside, at night on a small hill over looking a river. During the height of foreplay, the lady whispers to the man: "Honey, I think we need more than just moonlight!" to which the man asks why and the reply: "Because you have been eating grass for the last 10 minutes!"