Lies - Doctor - ED

[dallmax1 15]

Hello,

 

Here is the deal – I am the guy who has troubles getting an erection with new friends. We were with two new couples last weekend. One date Friday night and one date Saturday night. Friday night was a bust – couldn't get it up. Saturday night before play started I told the couple that I have a problem getting hard. Wife says to husband, “Got any more Viagra?” “Yep.” So I took the pill – that ended the erection problem.

 

I NEVER have a problem when I am with my wife, it’s only new couples. I am 33, healthy and in the best shape of my life. I am going to the Dr. on Thursday (for my every 5 year physical) and want him to prescribe Viagra for me. I can’t say, “Hey Doc, I can’t get an erection so I can bang some other chick, can you help me out?” So what lies can I tell him so that he’ll fill a prescription for me?

 

Has anyone fooled the Dr into writing a prescription? Who has gone to the Dr. for ED? What questions\procedure did he/she ask\perform?

 

I know honesty is the best policy, but I can’t really ask for Viagra for recreational purposes.

 

Thanks for help.

[VegasLee 1,486]

Why not keep it simple and not lie to him.

 

Tell him/her that you have problems at times. You don't have to tell him who you have problems with.

[lovenestduo 74]

But Viagra IS for recreational purposes.

 

Really, I'd say that there was a couple of times where Mr. Happy wouldn't cooperate and it kind of put a damper on the night, nudge, nudge, wink wink. Doctors realize that it's difficult to talk about these things. You shouldn't have to give any details. It's not really "fooling". You said you couldn't get it up. 'Nuff said. He doesn't need to know who was there. If you don't have some disqualifying medical condition, they usually don't have a problem writing a prescription.

[dallmax1 15]

That is what I was wondering. I didn't know what type of questions he would ask - and therefore lie about. If he asks how frequently and I answer "every couple of months" - the honest answer, will he say "That's normal so therefor I won't write a prescription." Or do I need to say it is more frequent so that he thinks it is a problem?

[warkman 31]

Why not keep it simple and not lie to him.

Tell him/her that you have problems at times. You don't have to tell him who you have problems with.

 

I completely agree. As long as you're in good health and not taking medications containing nitrates, there should be no problem. Be aware of the possible side effects though. The only one I experience is a stuffy nose and sometimes headache. There are others more severe involving eyesight and hearing that are much less prevalent. I haven't had any problems with those.

[warkman 31]

That is what I was wondering. I didn't know what type of questions he would ask - and therefore lie about. If he asks how frequently and I answer "every couple of months" - the honest answer, will he say "That's normal so therefor I won't write a prescription." Or do I need to say it is more frequent so that he thinks it is a problem?

 

Personally, I don't think he will ask you. But if he does, I'd tell him when it does happen, it's very embarrassing, disappointing and effects your confidence. Nothing further than that is necessary, and you're telling the truth.

[dallmax1 15]

Thanks everyone, I'll let you know how it turns out. I am headed to hedo III on March 1 - don't want "No worries mon."

[Ed & Bunny 160]

That is what I was wondering. I didn't know what type of questions he would ask - and therefore lie about. If he asks how frequently and I answer "every couple of months" - the honest answer, will he say "That's normal so therefor I won't write a prescription." Or do I need to say it is more frequent so that he thinks it is a problem?

 

My advise is to have your wife go with you and express herself that you are having problems and it is affecting your sex life. With her stating that, the doc probobly wont ask too many questions. He will probobly do a blood test on your testoterone levels and give you samples to try to see which pill works best. This is how it went for me when the wife and I went to the doctor.

[matt1s3 15]

Just tell him that sometimes you feel pressured to perform by your wife and the pressure alone can worry you enough to cause problems every time you think about it.

[Ellyanne77 81]

I am only 30 years old and I had this trouble a couple of times when I first started. Chances our you have no erection problems, you most likely have anxiety problems. That was my problem. Instead of going right for Viagra, try a very small dosage of Xanax. It worked for me like a charm. I take .5mg of Xanax before we go out and I have not had a problem since..

Just my experience for what its worth.

[Spoomonkey 421]

I don't know how you could NOT get an Rx for Viagra. I left a doctor because he tried to give me one...

 

Seriously - he had prescribed enough anti-depressants to stop a Mongol Horde and I was having trouble reaching orgasm. Oh, I could get hard and fuck for hours at a time (It is not the "gift" people make it out to be. I still feel sorry for Mrs Spoo when i think about it.), but I could not "arrive" no matter how hard I tried.

 

I went to him and told him this. His answer? Viagra.

 

I swear, doctors throw that stuff around like business cards at a convention.

 

I agree with Lee (as I do 99.9% of the time - the other .1% I am in the wrong). Just say you have problems sometimes. If he asks "with who?" just show him your wedding band...

 

Spoomonkey

[Spoomonkey 421]

I take .5mg of Xanax before we go out and I have not had a problem since.

 

That's an interesting take...

 

But wouldn't that be harder to get than Viagra?

 

I like the concept, though.

 

Spoomonkey

[Ellyanne77 81]

I asked my doctor for Viagra, he said if I was only 30 and never had erection problems then he could not in good concious prescribe it. Xanax is very easy to get a script for. Just tell them you have alot going on in your life right now and you have trouble sleeping. Just make sure you don't start taking it to get high as it can be somewhat addictive if you have an addictive personality.

[Spoomonkey 421]

Just make sure you don't start taking it to get high...

 

Damn...

 

 

I hope other people see your post and respond to it. I think for a lot of folks, this might be a very safe, sane idea.

 

Spoomonkey

[dallmax1 15]

I do have an addictive personality, so I think I will stick to plan of trying to get Viagra...

[dallmax1 15]

Well I went to the Dr for my physical, mentioned ED. I never lied to him, told him I have a problem getting hard (he never asked with who). He wrote a prescription for Cialis. 6 20 MG tablets were 101.99 – OUCH!!!! He said that I could cut them in half to get a 2 for 1. He did do a testosterone test on me. Anyhow, thanks for all of your answers…

[Scott & JoAnn 21]

Hello,

 

Has anyone fooled the Dr into writing a prescription? Who has gone to the Dr. for ED? What questions\procedure did he/she ask\perform?

 

I know honesty is the best policy, but I can’t really ask for Viagra for recreational purposes.

 

 

You worry too much. I've never had a problem, but a girl who works for me, a couple years ago was dating a pharmacist, and she brought me a pill (she knew I had never tried it).

 

Now remember, I've never had an issue getting hard. I've had issues getting soft, but that's another story.

 

Anyway I tried the 'blue pill'...oh my god Does the meaning Easton Bat mean anything? I was rock hard for hours. I did have the yellowish vision thing and a headache afterwards, but here's what I did.

 

My next visit to the doc for my lipid profile check (cholesterol meds), I simply said to the Physician Assistant (PA), "can I try Viagra". That simple. His response "sure". Deal done. Period. I now have a refillable prescription. Additionally, IF I use it, I only take half a pill. Results: Same. Hard Cock useful for LONG sessions, and no yellow vision or headaches.

 

Anyway, just be yourself, and simply ask the PA/GP for a prescription. It's that easy. You don't need a reason or explanation, just asking it is obvious what the reason is. The doc knows this and is not going to get into your erection history, nor does he want to.

 

Most insurers don't cover Viagra, so you pay the full price, so the HMO/PPO/or your private insurer doesn't give a crap about the prescription being written (in most cases). Neither does the doc.

 

Scott

[ViSexual 1,008]

Nobody has really mentioned that the only, real, reason you have to get it by prescription is so your doctor can make sure you don't have a health issue that might prevent you from using it.

 

You know, like high blood pressure!

[ty69pj 30]

If I were you I would not go with Vigra though. Personnally I like Cialis. Vigra lasts 4 hrs while Cialis lasts like 48 hrs and regardless of the information put on out a man can have multiple orgasms on it. If you are having a lot of problems getting it from your doctor I got mine from a Canadian Pharmasy they are everywhere online and you can get them in some cases for cheaper prices then you can with your medical insurance since a lot of them don't cover it.

 

Alright one trick with and ED medication that you may or may not know or maybe you should try is this. Jerk off or have sex with your spouse and then take the medication when I toke it afterwards it turned me into a machine and I am not joking it, for me, had the same effect as kegeling during sex and 2 pounding hrs later I we were both sore and I could keep going.

[Scott & JoAnn 21]

If I were you I would not go with Vigra though. Personnally I like Cialis. Vigra lasts 4 hrs while Cialis lasts like 48 hrs and regardless of the information put on out a man can have multiple orgasms on it. If you are having a lot of problems getting it from your doctor I got mine from a Canadian Pharmasy they are everywhere online and you can get them in some cases for cheaper prices then you can with your medical insurance since a lot of them don't cover it.

 

Alright one trick with and ED medication that you may or may not know or maybe you should try is this. Jerk off or have sex with your spouse and then take the medication when I toke it afterwards it turned me into a machine and I am not joking it, for me, had the same effect as kegeling during sex and 2 pounding hrs later I we were both sore and I could keep going.

 

For what it's worth I tried Cialis and found it nowhere compared to Viagra.

Most guys I've talked to, who use these drugs recreationally, say the same.

With Cialis I didn't even notice a difference, with Viagra I was an Easton bat until even the next morning.

 

Sounds like we need a poll LOL!

 

Scott

[dallmax1 15]

 

Sounds like we need a poll LOL!

 

Scott

 

Isn't that the whole point ?

[Styles-N-Heidi 41]

Honesty is the best policy my friend. I am 26 and went through the whole spill about how it was ruining my relationship, my confidence, self esteem, the gf thinks it's because of her. I walked out of the doctors office with the prescription but the problem was his last words to me. Matt you are young, healthy, and physically fit. Someone your age should not be experiencing these problems. I have prescribed this medication to you in hopes that your issue is nothing more than a mental speed bump and that this will help you over it. There are limited refills and if you are still having problems after those than we will have to get you to come back in and run some tests on you because I fear that your problems could be related to something else. Back issues, nerve damage, etc.

 

So now great I got the pills, but I lied to the doc. When I run out I am screwed (Which I more than likely will be ok the more I play with new people the less I find that I have performance issues. I am getting used to this.) because he will not prescribe me any more medication and for me to go back into his office and tell him I sometimes perform in front of small audiences (Or huge audiences hehe) and that is my real issue will be a direct confession that I was lying to him in the first place. I really wish I would of just told him I was a swinger and prepared for whatever it was he had to say about that.

 

-Styles

[Styles-N-Heidi 41]

Oh by the way. The side effects from Cialis and Viagra can be greatly reduced by popping a Claritin at the same time you take the medication. It is a 24 hour sinus pill that reduces the stuffy nose. The headache is usually a direct result of the sinus issues so alleviating 1 problem fixes another.

[dallmax1 15]

Thanks for the advise...we will be in Jamaica in 2 days - hope to give cialis a try then.

[charms123 52]

Ok its 3/1.. wonder how he is doing!

 

N

[couplewanting50 65]

Honesty is the best policy my friend. I am 26 and went through the whole spill about how it was ruining my relationship, my confidence, self esteem, the gf thinks it's because of her. I walked out of the doctors office with the prescription but the problem was his last words to me. Matt you are young, healthy, and physically fit. Someone your age should not be experiencing these problems. I have prescribed this medication to you in hopes that your issue is nothing more than a mental speed bump and that this will help you over it. There are limited refills and if you are still having problems after those than we will have to get you to come back in and run some tests on you because I fear that your problems could be related to something else. Back issues, nerve damage, etc.

 

So now great I got the pills, but I lied to the doc. When I run out I am screwed (Which I more than likely will be ok the more I play with new people the less I find that I have performance issues. I am getting used to this.) because he will not prescribe me any more medication and for me to go back into his office and tell him I sometimes perform in front of small audiences (Or huge audiences hehe) and that is my real issue will be a direct confession that I was lying to him in the first place. I really wish I would of just told him I was a swinger and prepared for whatever it was he had to say about that.

 

-Styles

 

You need a different doctor. His analysis is too simple minded, given the dynamics brought into the equation by the brain. Even if you were not swinging, you could be having anxiety issues with your wife. Most doctors would simply write you a prescription for it. Try another doctor.

 

Some years ago, when I wanted to try Viagra, I agonized over how to approach the doctor with my request. I finally just said I wanted to try it.

 

"Sure," he said, and wrote me a prescription. He works for you, remember. You are not asking for a narcotic.

[Additude 457]

I told my Dr. that:

 

"My wife also wanted me to ask you about getting a prescription for Viagra"....and I just looked at him straight in the eyes. Then I said, "I have a problem sometimes".....

 

He said, and I'm serious; "I'll write you a prescription, but how would you like to participate in a group study based on the effectivness between Viagra and Levitra"?..."No charge for any medications, 6 month study"....

 

Ummm, I say, "OK".....signed a consent form and walked out of his office with 6 - 5 packs of Viagra and 6 - 5 packs of Levitra......

 

Your Dr. doesn't need to know your personal sex life or if your swinging, etc. He just needs to know you can't get it up sometimes.....

[Styles-N-Heidi 41]

I think my doctors reaction was a fair one personally. He wrote me a prescription to help to ease me over any mental humps he assumed I may have and then said if you come back and are still having this issue then we need to run some tests to make sure you are okay. Which is exactly what a doctor should do right? Show concern about your health? I don't know guys it's the year 2008 little girls are getting pregant right after puberty. Gay marriage is normal. Sexuality in society on all levels is evolving. Not saying all the results are good because obviously they aren't but lets face it swinging isn't so out of whack of society anymore. It's not a mortal sin, and there is a thing called doctor patient confidentiality. I still wish I would of told my doctor the truth and I think his diagnoses from the information I gave him was more than acceptable, it was admirable. I blame myself. :p

[couplewanting50 65]

I think my doctors reaction was a fair one personally. He wrote me a prescription to help to ease me over any mental humps he assumed I may have and then said if you come back and are still having this issue then we need to run some tests to make sure you are okay. Which is exactly what a doctor should do right? Show concern about your health?

 

I don't know guys, it's the year 2008 little girls are getting pregant right after puberty. Gay marriage is normal. Sexuality in society on all levels is evolving. Not saying all the results are good because obviously they aren't but lets face it swinging isn't so out of whack of society anymore. It's not a mortal sin, and there is a thing called doctor patient confidentiality.

 

I still wish I would of told my doctor the truth and I think his diagnoses from the information I gave him was more than acceptable, it was admirable. I blame myself. :p

 

The upside of all this is that you still can. You can still tell the truth, and have that work out. Just say you were uncomfortable telling him what your actual situation was, and so you contrived a story to help you get through. Then, you reconsidered, decided that you wanted a connection with him based on truth, not fiction, and so....can we start over?

 

The only risk you face is getting lectured by him about safe sex, unknown partners, all of that. I am not saying, don't do it for that reason, I am just saying that some doctors will lecture you, others will be fascinated.

 

A couple we have played with multiple times has an open connection with their doctor; this doctor happens to be fascinated by the lifestyle and offers them absolutely no criticism — only questions and rapt attention to the answers.

 

The doctor will understand how anxiety could emerge, and should help you. Then, if he is critical and says he won't help with such madness, then you get a new doctor. Keep us posted on this, seriously, as it will be interesting to see how the doctor reacts to your truth.

 

All the best to you.

[Styles-N-Heidi 41]

The upside of all this is that you still can. You can still tell the truth, and have that work out. Just say you were uncomfortable telling him what your actual situation was, and so you contrived a story to help you get through. Then, you reconsidered, decided that you wanted a connection with him based on truth, not fiction, and so....can we start over?

 

The only risk you face is getting lectured by him about safe sex, unknown partners, all of that. I am not saying, don't do it for that reason, I am just saying that some doctors will lecture you, others will be fascinated.

 

A couple we have played with multiple times has an open connection with their doctor; this doctor happens to be fascinated by the lifestyle and offers them absolutely no criticism — only questions and rapt attention to the answers.

 

The doctor will understand how anxiety could emerge, and should help you. Then, if he is critical and says he won't help with such madness, then you get a new doctor. Keep us posted on this, seriously, as it will be interesting to see how the doctor reacts to your truth.

 

All the best to you.

 

Thanks for the response. I will gladly keep you posted, but it may be a period of time before you get the news. I have 25 pills left at the pharmacy and honestly the more w grow in the lifestyle the more comfortable I get the less I seem to need them. I pop one every now as a "just in case" but for now I seem to be taking only one or two every other weekend when I am off of work.

 

Thanks,

Styles

[couplewanting50 65]

One other slant on the doctor connection. In other threads here a user who is, I believe, a doctor, has said that it is a bad idea to tell your doctor that you are a swinger because it will become part of your medical records and you can't know who will see it later and how it will affect you.

[twotocum4u2 16]

About 3 years ago I noticed my erections went as ridged as they normally had been. I went to my doctor and told him that and he wrote the prescription no question asked. I agree with those that say you shouldn’t tell him you are a swinger.

 

Six months ago I strarted having problems just getting it up at all, this started after I hurt my lower back. No he has me using a penis pump and Cialis.

[prettylady 221]

A what?? penis pump.

That is a new one for me. You don't have to explain, I have to go and figure this one out now.

I hope this is helping you.

Your friend,

Prettylady:kissface:

[twotocum4u2 16]

A what?? penis pump.

That is a new one for me. You don't have to explain, I have to go and figure this one out now.

I hope this is helping you.

Your friend,

Prettylady:kissface:

 

Yeah I said the same thing! But I spent time on the net and this is an accepted “fix” for ED when the little pills don’t help. The ones prescribed by doctors are not the same as the ones advertised on the adult toy websites. The one I got cost my insurance company $460+ and I have to use a cock ring to maintain it’s hardness once I "pump" it up. I still use Cialis, only now I can control size too.