Bi curious men?

[Harold_N_Ann 17]

We are still at the talking stage. We have talked a lot about it and are interested in proceeding further. One problem is that there seem to be very few couples with straight females and bisexual/bi-curious males.

 

My wife is VERY straight but I have been fantasizing about masturbating another cock and sucking a cock for years. She is aware and thinks it would be hot to watch.

[Flori_DAMAN 26]

It is not hard as you think to find. A fair percentage of couples have the same fantasy but don't put it in their adds because they are afraid of being categorized. Lots of swinging clubs will practically ban you if you even bring up the subject. Just put adds out looking for it and you will get responses.

 

On the other hand if you are looking for a single guy lots of them will lie just to get into bed, then back out of the bi part. So if you go that way be very clear about your intentions.

[lauragirlchat 16]

As a single woman often involved in MFM experiences I have seen many men enjoy sucking another cock. None of these men would say they are gay/bi or bi-curious. Presumably they just enjoy watching another man's cock entering my cunt, then think "wouldn't it be nice to taste that".

 

I once had a threesome with a homophobic bf (John) and another man. Whilst my bf was fucking my cunt the other man started licking between my legs and his tongue and hands came into contact with John's bits. John, enjoying it, suddenly pulled out and offered his cock to the other man's mouth. I watched fascinated as John came to another man's blowjob.

 

Later that evening, John said he very much wanted to taste another cock, and returned the favour. To my knowledge, he still doesn't consider himself bi or curious and would never ask for such a thing at a swinger site.

 

Also, while I fingered his arse and he has enjoyed fucking a girl's arse (not mine, yuck), he has no desire whatsoever to have penetrative sex with another man.

 

I have heard on this site lots of men who think about and do play with cocks, but it seems few actually want to have a proper fuck with another man. Harold, do you only fantasize about sucking a cock? Or do u also dream about another man inside u or u fucking another man?

 

An experience this 25 yr old girl has never watched....two men getting it on fully. Many men have seen me fully engrossed in another girl. Would I enjoy watching this...I suppose I will not know that till it happens.

[Flori_DAMAN 26]

Originally posted by lauragirlchat

As a single woman often involved in MFM experiences I have seen many men enjoy sucking another cock. None of these men would say they are gay/bi or bi-curious. Presumably they just enjoy watching another man's cock entering my cunt, then think "wouldn't it be nice to taste that".

 

I once had a threesome with a homophobic bf (John) and another man. Whilst my bf was fucking my cunt the other man started licking between my legs and his tongue and hands came into contact with John's bits. John, enjoying it, suddenly pulled out and offered his cock to the other man's mouth. I watched fascinated as John came to another man's blowjob.

 

Later that evening, John said he very much wanted to taste another cock, and returned the favour. To my knowledge, he still doesn't consider himself bi or curious and would never ask for such a thing at a swinger site.

 

Also, while I fingered his arse and he has enjoyed fucking a girl's arse (not mine, yuck), he has no desire whatsoever to have penetrative sex with another man.

 

I have heard on this site lots of men who think about and do play with cocks, but it seems few actually want to have a proper fuck with another man. Harold, do you only fantasize about sucking a cock? Or do u also dream about another man inside u or u fucking another man?

 

An experience this 25 yr old girl has never watched....two men getting it on fully. Many men have seen me fully engrossed in another girl. Would I enjoy watching this.....I suppose I will not know that till it happens.

 

Such an eloquent well thought out statement.

[Flori_DAMAN 26]

First of all, the anal sex with another male is like totally off bounds for this guy.

 

Orally, I cannot even fantasize it without knowing a loved female is present.

 

I couldn't even be on the giving end of that one.

 

Oral i different. Sometimes when I am bored I suck on my own penis. What does that make me?

 

Just curious.

[river248 15]

How the hell do you do that John? Exactly what position would you have to be in? I'm twisting my head as I write this trying to figure that out.

 

While I have no problem with John and himself; most men would do that if they could, he just admits it, or is that really a joke and I'm missing it? Anyhow, I couldn't be in bed with 2 guys going at it oral or otherwise. I just couldn't and thankfully M feels exactly the same way.

 

Oh, I think I got it, its that 9 inch thing, it sure helps in that situation, right?, LOL!

[Flori_DAMAN 26]

yeah it helps. Use to be I could just cross my legs (to boost it up) and bend over. Now I gotta put my legs on the backboard of the bed to get leverage.....can't get much in either, but it still works.

[DragonsLair 26]

Thanks for the interesting mental picture so early in the morning. I'll be thinking about that one all day.

[OhioCouple 40]

Originally posted by DragonsLair

Thanks for the interesting mental picture so early in the morning. I'll be thinking about that one all day.

Gotta agree there Dragonslair. What a picture. I've heard it is great for strengthening back muscles...but then I've never known anyone personally that was able to achieve is to ask...

[Flori_DAMAN 26]

Originally posted by OhioCouple

Gotta agree there Dragonslair. What a picture. I've heard it is great for strengthening back muscles...but then I've never known anyone personally that was able to achieve is to ask...

 

Unfortunately my Aunt Clara died with that visual. She lived with it for many years. She walked into the bathroom once while I was in "the position".....poor ole Aunt Clara, who was my godmother...lol

[BradAndJanet 70]

Originally posted by Flori_DAMAN

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Sometimes when I am bored I suck on my own penis. What does that make me?

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Um...flexible?

 

I tried it when I was younger, but I'm just average length and could never quite reach it. Occasionally, I do dream that I can do it. Interesting...anybody else care to confess?

[Flori_DAMAN 26]

Originally posted by BradAndJanet

Um...flexible?

 

I tried it when I was younger, but I'm just average length and could never quite reach it. Occasionally, I do dream that I can do it. Interesting...anybody else care to confess?

 

Yeah, flexible. I was double jointed even to my fingers. Yoga positions were easy for me.

[DragonsLair 26]

There are some that would consider you very lucky, John. lol

 

Still have that visual in my head. Aunt Clara and I have something in common.

[Brit_Pair 62]

Originally posted by BradAndJanet

Um...flexible?

 

I tried it when I was younger, but I'm just average length and could never quite reach it. Occasionally, I do dream that I can do it. Interesting...anybody else care to confess?

 

I have to confess that I've never been long enough, flexible enough, or curious enough to even try.

[FlyBiNiter 16]

 

Now, I'd probably pay to see that!!!!

[C@YWMI 15]

ROFLMAO...That used to be a standing joke for me> I would always joke and say when I die I want to come back as a dog. I don't have work and I could always lick myself self when I wanted to LOL I still try to to be a lap dog with the wife LOL

[Harold_N_Ann 17]

I was never limber enough to suck my own cock, although I tried!

 

The best I could ever accomplish was the position my legs, hips and cock above my head and try to aim into my mouth whem I came.

 

I usually missed and sprayed all over my face and chest. It was all fun.

[lauragirlchat 16]

Originally posted by FlyBiNiter

 

Now, I'd probably pay to see that !!!!

 

 

:evil:

They say us girls are more flexible, but i dont think i could lick my own cunt! And I would be amazed to see a man giving himself a bj

 

I, like flybynighter would pay to see it....lol

[Brit_Pair 62]

It's probably a bit of an obvious thing to say (for which I apologize now) but on the flip side, I would happily hand over hard currency to see a woman pleasuring herself with her own tongue!

[lauragirlchat 16]

Originally posted by Brit_Pair

It's probably a bit of an obvious thing to say (for which I apologize now) but on the flip side, I would happily hand over hard currency to see a woman pleasuring herself with her own tongue!

 

Would you also pay "hard currency" to a woman pleasuring your woman with her own tongue? lol

[Brit_Pair 62]

Originally posted by lauragirlchat

Would you also pay "hard currency" to a woman pleasuring your woman with her own tongue? lol

Haven't needed to thus far . . . .

[lynn3 15]

Originally posted by Flori_DAMAN

Yeah, flexible. I was double jointed even to my fingers. Yoga positions were easy for me.

 

john.

Funny, cause right before we read this, my husband said he only knew one guy in H.S that could do this.

 

And he was double-jointed. He was also very skinny. Which I would think would account for something as well. Seems a group of guys were watching some porn...and one of the guys caught Mr.Double-joint in the 'position'! LOL

 

It's like the old joke goes...Why do dogs suck their dicks?

 

Because they can! :p

[sportync 20]

Man, I can't get mine past my navel, let alone anywhere near my mouth! (LOL) But I can remember seeing a picture in a back issue of Playboy(I think), that showed a very nimble woman (no doubt an acrobat) who was licking herself. It definitely fired up some fantasies...mmmmmm, think of the possibilities...sliding inside while she licked herself, now that sounds like fun!! Of course, if she was that nimble, there's no telling what other marvelous feats she could achieve!

[Flori_DAMAN 26]

Oh I just bought it up because it creates a great visual. TO be honest it is not as easy as it used to be...I can barely even get the end on a good day...I think my days of sucking my own dick are about over with...when I was down to 155 I could do it again, but I'm getting up there again and haven't even tried lately...it is a fun topic though...when I was a teenager I am quite sure I was ashamed of it...life is so mean...LOL

[Terrileex 15]

Hi, I am a Happily married lady of 10 years, we have had 3somes with other ladies and I think it would be a total turn on to see my guy sucking or having his dick sucked. I'm getting hot just thinking about it. We talked about it and I don't think it will ever happen. But it sounds nice to me

[FlyBiNiter 16]

I agree with Terrieleex... I'd love to see my guy participate in bi-sexual activity, but I know it won't happen. He's very clear that he has no interest at all in that. Bummer. I think there are probably a lot of us ladies who wouldn't mind seeing our men pleasure each other, orally at least. To me, it's no different really than two women, but men see it differently for some reason. Oh well... :-)

[CantonCouple 15]

Originally posted by BradAndJanet

Um...flexible?

 

I tried it when I was younger, but I'm just average length and could never quite reach it. Occasionally, I do dream that I can do it. Interesting...anybody else care to confess?

 

Ditto. I tried it when I was younger, but was never able to do it. Ah hell, I tried it last week and still can't do it. And I also have had that dream on a few occasions.

 

And like Harold and Anne, we have discussed the same fantasies. She is not turned off to the idea, but questions whether I would ever do it.

[mksNmd 15]

I've had numerous fantasies about sucking another guy's cock for the past year. My wife on the other hand thinks the whole concept is just gross. She is as straight as they come. I think it's unfair that she gets to have all the fun.

[CantonCouple 15]

We have talked about it a few times, and my fantasies don't involve me doing and her watching, but always the two of us doing it together with her taking the lead. I look at it this way:

 

1. I would suck my own if I could

2. I love to watch her suck mine, it sure looks like a lot of fun

3. I am quite comfortable with "the nectar of my manhood":p

4. I am turned on by the idea of sharing in my wife's fun with another man

 

We posed the hypothetical situation to each other - If we were to ever do only one threesome, would you want another man or another woman? I said another man, because if I only had one chance I'd want to know what it felt like to stroke and suck a cock. I already know what pussy's like. (Plus I'd love to watch my wife be the beautiful sexual creature she is, and enjoy it with her.)

[lauragirlchat 16]

Originally posted by CantonCouple

We have talked about it a few times, and my fantasies don't involve me doing and her watching, but always the two of us doing it together with her taking the lead. I look at it this way:

 

1. I would suck my own if I could

2. I love to watch her suck mine, it sure looks like a lot of fun

3. I am quite comfortable with "the nectar of my manhood":p

4. I am turned on by the idea of sharing in my wife's fun with another man

 

We posed the hypothetical situation to each other - If we were to ever do only one threesome, would you want another man or another woman? I said another man, because if I only had one chance I'd want to know what it felt like to stroke and suck a cock. I already know what pussy's like. (Plus I'd love to watch my wife be the beautiful sexual creature she is, and enjoy it with her.)

 

Would you also share his mouth? Do you just want to try sucking another man's cock or do you want to touch and kiss and embrace him. To feel your body up against his and your erect cocks rubbing up against each other, in the same way and your wife would do with another woman?

[CantonCouple 15]

Kissing? Nah, never crossed my mind. Cuddling and rubbing bodies isn't exactly what I had in mind either. Besides, after reading lauragirl's question, my wife said, "Eeewww...I don't want to see that!" I guess I'm a somewhat typical man - it's all about the dick, is there any other part of the male body?

[Guest Seymore]

I'm sure a lot of guys have tried to suck their own cock (I tried when I was a teenager, was never limber enough), but I read something where a guy claimed he SEVERELY messed up his back by doing it once (he said he felt pain, but just ignored it because he was enjoying the blowjob he was giving himself) to the point where he was in traction for a while and required a lot of therapy afterwards. He said he still has back problems because of it. Needless to say, I've never attempted it since reading that.

[BradAndJanet 70]

Originally posted by lauragirlchat

Would you also share his mouth? Do u just want to try sucking another man's cock or do u want to touch and kiss and embrace him. To feel your body up against his and your erect cocks rubbing up against each other, in the same way and your wife would do with another woman?

If I was hot for him and he wanted me to, I would. However, I've never felt that way about a man before. Up until recently though, I hadn't even considered the possibility. Thanks for the thought provoking images.

[OhioCouple 40]

I find the whole prospect of male bi-sexuality very erotic, just as much as I do female bi-sexuality. My husband and I have talked about the possibility and that if the situation were to arise, that he would be open to it. The evil demons though of years of conditioning that it is inappropriate behavior for men, tend to keep it on the back burner.

 

I don't know about men kissing though. Hmmm, not sure what I think about that one and I really don't know why. It just doesn't seem erotic to me, but it isn't a turn off either. All the rest though...I say woo hoo and I want a front row seat!

[Mike and Jan 20]

Bi curious men?

We are still at the talking stage. We have talked a lot about it and are interested in proceeding further. One problem is that there seem to be very few couples with straight females and bisexual/bicurious males.

 

(My wife is VERY straight but I have been fantasizing about mastubrating another cock and sucking a cock for years. She is aware and thinks it would be hot to watch.)

 

 

Well, you two are certainly not alone..., but folks like us are definitely rare. We've met several couples on-line with a curious husband and a straight wife but always far, far, away. I've spent hours on-line searching for that open-minded couple just like us, locally, for friends and still haven't found them. And, I guess I have to say that central Florida has a lot more possibilities than west Texas does. Sorry, but true. If you guys run across any couples in their forties or fifties from Florida or Georgia that are thinking of exploring their sexuality with friends, the husband curious and adventuresome and the wife straight and conservative, not religious but trustworthy and ethical people, non-smokers but enjoy a drink or two. and just enjoy having fun then let us know. And in turn, if we meet someone from Texas or New Mexico we'll certainly let you two know! Fair?

Mike

[Ellen 15]

This is quite a category, and I'd like to add something. I have a little experience here as you will read. Two years ago, my husband and I went on a "sex-tour" in Thailand, which was just incredible. The last night we were there we went to dinner and then to a bar and we picked up this wonderful looking girl and we decided on the price for the night and my husband wanted to have another girl join us...that's right 3 girls and him. I was pissed but went along with it because we did have a great time and now we were going home. The girls met us at the room and the bottom line is that these two girls were actually "lady-boys" and they were beautiful and had figures and boobs that would make any girl envious. Except they had cocks. My husband initially went ballistic but these two evidentially had a lot of experience with surprises. We all calmed down and I was getting scared but while I was being eaten by one of the "lady-boys" the othe was sucking my husband and I could see he was tense, but after about 30 seconds...he loved it. It's the first time I had anal, and haven't had any since, and my husband loved the boys and did everything with them which was such a turn on for me.

the bottom line is that it was all just great unbelievable raw sex. By the way, my husband like the boys now more than the girls. Oh well, I've learned to deal with it.

[OhioCouple 40]

Originally posted by Mike and Jan

Well, you two are certainly not alone..., but folks like us are definitely rare. We've met several couples on-line with a curious husband and a straight wife but always far, far, away. I've spent hours on-line searching for that open-minded couple just like us, locally, for friends and still haven't found them.

Mike, I don't think it is as rare as it appears. What is rare is that a man will openly express their curiosity or desires in an ad. It is considered taboo to express male to male interest, and an asset to express female to female interest. Every couple that we met with stated that the male half was "straight". We have met two couples and had dinner with them in which the male halves expressed an outright curiosity, one of which the female half was straight. I don't think you can gauge it just by ads (if that is what you are doing). Your best bet is just to meet people that are overall compatible and see where it goes from there. I think you may be surprised.

[curious_hubby 15]

Yeah, this is a big fantasy of mine.

 

My wife used to tease me about wanting to see me with a guy--then I started to think about more. Now my main fantasy is for my wife and me to find a slightly swish young man and share him.

 

What type of guy? slightly gay ish, healthy, funny. I have straight guy friends, but I don't find them attractive (well, mostly...). I also think a straight guy's manliness would make me jealous. And I like girlish and cute in girls...

 

What would I want to do? Like most "curiuos" guys, I want to try getting him off with my hand and mouth. I am also into all touching except for straight up mouth to mouth. (Definitely a few images in mind of kissing a strong chest while we fondle each others cocks.) No anal (not MF anal either, though).

 

But then I primarily want us to do my wife together, especially one of us going down on her while the other fucks her, double blow jobs (I want one pretty bad), and just "smushing" her in a sandwhich (two mouths on her neck, her nipples in my hands he presses against her, one penis rubbing against her clit while another thrusts, my hands everywhere on their genitals while they fuck ..whew!).

 

Anyway (kind of got excited..) most of my male male fantasies kind of center around a threesome with my wife. Seems like if the guys were at least both a little bit bi, not only would there be more possible combinations but the discomfort level would be less.

 

I am interested in what others have to say about their experiences and fantasies.

[geppetto 15]

Yes,we have discussed my obvious interest in sucking another man. I am open and honest enough to say that the thought turns me on very much. Reading "lauragirlchat"'s question as to if it would include MM kissing and embracing and rubbing erections together, sure, if it happened naturally. Of course just the fantasy of hugging another man as we grind our genitals together arouses me so much I be concerned about premature ejaculation.

[bill&sabrina 22]

My fantasies with men are to do everything possible. I especially want to be fucked, and find myself thinking about it on almost a daily basis. I can't ever remember being totally against it, but will admit I have only shared this knowledge with Sabrina. Like others have stated in other posts on this thread there isn't any difference between two men or women. It is a shame others don't see that though. I read somewhere that the Greeks looked at hetero and homosexuality as freakish. They beleived that bi-sexuality was normal. I couldn't believe that when I saw it because that was how I felt, but couldn't seem to put it into words. Also I envy those of you that can suck your own cock. Maybe I need to find a Yoga class somewhere.

[Star Dragon 15]

Soon after I learned the joys of masterbation (13) I was curious as to what it would feel like for a girl to suck me off. Not having a girl to ask I tried it myself. I managed to get most of my head in. (quite a feat for only 6 inches) kinda dissapointing but at least I could cum in my mouth. By high school I lost that ability and neven though of guys until after college. Now I am bi-sexual but like women more. (90%)

[Flori_DAMAN 26]

Bisexuality is a misnomer.

 

Homosexuality is one too.

 

We are sexual beings.

 

I would love to hear from a woman that could lick her own pussy though. That's one I just haven't seen yet.

[enigma69 15]

I personally agree with the angle that we should erase the various labels related to anyone wanting to explore different sides of their sexuality, but I have found one that I think is perfect, and that carries no 'undesireble' undertones ....

 

Anyone wanting to explore their sexuality along these lines, if asked, should just say that they are heteroflexible ... and leave it up to the enquiring person to make up their own mind as to what it might mean ...

[lauragirlchat 16]

Originally posted by bill&sabrina

My fantasies with men are to do everything possible. I especially want to be fucked, and find myself thinking about it on almost a daily basis. I can't ever remember being totally against it, but will admit I have only shared this knowledge with Sabrina. Like others have stated in other posts on this thread there isn't any difference between two men or women. It is a shame others don't see that though. I read somewhere that the Greeks looked at hetero and homosexuality as freakish. They beleived that bi-sexuality was normal. I couldn't believe that when I saw it because that was how I felt, but couldn't seem to put it into words. Also I envy those of you that can suck your own cock. Maybe I need to find a Yoga class somewhere.

 

SO all you need to do is find a bi man?

 

Does Sabrina want to share a man with you? Do u want to see Sabrina get penetrated by another man's cock and know that you will soon have the pleasure of it inside you? If Sabrina is bi, you could find a bi couple and have a proper swap going

[Kougar 15]

I admit that I used to do this when much younger an flexible. I couldn't achieve a true BJ, but could suck the head and a little further. I would flip over on my back like the "air bicycle" position, but carry my feet over until they touched the floor beyond my head.

 

lol Must admit, breathing was not easy in this position.

[Maine 15]

I've tried i would have to put my legs up in the air and push up lol i'm not that flexible i liked it i want to try sucking another guys dick i had the chance once one guy did it to me when i was at a hotel for a high school project i've got to admit he was good at it lol

[PaulKing 18]

"We are sexual beings."

 

Well said John. All these stupid labels are causing nothing but trouble. Why can't we all do our thing and just simply respect the wishes of others.

 

We don't need Gay clubs, Lesbian clubs, Swingers clubs and Rock clubs. We just need PEOPLE Clubs where everybody does 'their thing'.

 

So simple.

 

P.S. Forget People Clubs...why ban other animals? At least they don't indulge in pathetic labels.

[Flori_DAMAN 26]

Originally posted by PaulKing

"We are sexual beings."

 

Well said John. All these stupid labels are causing nothing but trouble. Why can't we all do our thing and just simply respect the wishes of others.

 

We don't need Gay clubs, Lesbian clubs, Swingers clubs and Rock clubs. We just need PEOPLE Clubs where everybody does 'their thing'.

 

So simple.

 

P.S. Forget People Clubs...why ban other animals? At least they don't indulge in pathetic labels.

 

Either you are fooling a lot of people, or you have already grown from being on this board.

[velbuzz 17]

From all the talk of being able to suck one's own cock (is there any guy who hasn't tried to?) sounds like there should be someone willing to try one of the spam ads for penile enlargement.

 

What we need is a real scientist volunteer. But be sure to report back!

[velbuzz 17]

As many on this board have indicated, bi sexuality is more normal than not. However, the aids problem now puts an unfair block on males to explore their bi side.

 

The American Red Cross won't allow a bi blood donor anymore so I guess i will remain just curious for now.