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Ok, so our first time wasn't all that we had hoped for and perhaps had we not been so eager to finally "do the deed" with another couple, we would have passed. However as things evolved that was a tremendous learning experience. We did not repeat with that couple. However we took what we learned from the experience and moved on to some very erotic and fun times... times worth repeating.

 

How about you, was your first swinging experience worth repeating?

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YES, it was! We were fortunate enough to be initiated by a couple we were already friends with, so we had a level of trust with them that helped ease those "first time" jitters. And happily, we have enjoyed a few repeat performances with them.

 

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Definitely worth repeating but not at all as we assumed it would be. We decided to check out a club for our initial introduction into the lifestyle. We had all these rules, and ideas on how it would be but everything we thought went out the window when we were consumed and overwhelmed with the atmosphere. We were amazed when we seen so many attractive couples around our age with the frame of mind that most swingers were much older than us so we probably wouldn't be compatible with many people. Since then our perspective has changed about the older peeps and so has almost everything else haha.

 

I could honestly write a book about our first experience but I will quickly summarize it into a quick sentence or two. We were at the famous New Orleans club Colette where for our first time we experienced a girl on girl, then a FMF with a different girl, then a four couple group play. I thought I would be semi weirded out by seeing my Heidi with another guy but I will never in my life forget how beautiful and amazing I thought she was after waking up beside her the next morning. We have been full throttle ever since.

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However as things evolved that was a tremendous learning experience. We did not repeat with that couple. However we took what we learned from the experience and moved on to some very erotic and fun times... times worth repeating.

 

My response to the learning: I think it's awesome, that you could salvage something out of a not so ideal situation, as I had a first play experience that was a less than desirable situation. However, I was able to step back, and understand that this carried us as a couple, past the barrier of, "I'm not sure if we can watch each other play with someone else or kiss someone else or what ever with someone else."

 

So for the walking away with it as a learning experience: I commend you!!!!:D

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Our first time was not worth repeating...and if we weren't so determined (stubborn perhaps? ;) lol) that there were good experiences to be had in the lifestyle, then we probably would have came to a screeching halt right then.

 

I can't find the thread to link to...but I was not a happy camper when it was all said and done...the couple was ok, even if I thought the guy was a little too touchy feely for my liking to start off with when we first met (I had primarily been talking to the f of the couple), then Jeff's condom broke and he just yanked it off and kept on going...just overall not a good experience.

 

Thankfully, they've gotten better. :lol:

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At the time, we thought it was excellent. Since we've had more experience with other couples, it's DEFINITELY not worth repeating.

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Definitely worth repeating.We to had decide to check out a club first to get our feet wet.We meet a couple a little older than us,who was real easy on us.To make it short it was wonderful.BTW,we still play when we can with this same couple after beeing in the lifestyle for 9 yrs.

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Yes, and we repeat every chance we get!

 

They've been in the lifestyle for 10 years, and their experience really shows.

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My first time was definatley not worth repeating... that was a very long time ago and I learned much from it.

 

My second first time (my first time with Pet) was not so bad. I can't say if we would do it again if we were put in the same situation. I think it took that situation for us to learn some things we didn't want to encounter again. The experience wasn't bad... but it's not a couple we are interested in "repeating" by any means.

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cocpl2007 said:
How about you, was your first swinging experience worth repeating?

Give me a "Hell, YEAH!"

 

I guess my first swing experience set me up for failure, because it's still in the Top Ten of my lifestyle experiences at this point. I admit that there have been much more exciting and interesting encounters since then, but to have several fantasies fulfilled in one evening -- especially my first ever swing-encounter -- makes it a special, and memorable event.

 

I was finally out of an on-again/off-again relationship by January 2000. I dislocated, and had to have surgery on, my shoulder in February 2000. Just a week or so after I was cleared for "normal" activity with my shoulder -- in April 2000 -- I visited a lifestyle club southeast of Pittsburgh. Up to that point I had never veered from vanilla sex except for some basic toy and fetish stuff with previous girlfriends and lovers.

 

I was nervous when I arrived at 8pm when the club opened. I met a few singles and a nice couple, none of whom were interested in me, but were nice people to talk to, and they showed me around the club, and introduced me to other people. (Just so you know, the owner admitted me for $75 for the party...I thought that was a reasonable cost...but he wasn't very nice to the few single males he DID allow at the party.)

 

After schmoozing with a lot of folks at the bar, I hit the 20-person hot tub and talked to a few people. The only "contact" I got was massaging a woman's calves. :lol:

 

Several of us, both male and female, moved upstairs later, towels around our waists, where there was a 3X3 or 4-mattress public area and as well as several adjoining private rooms. We're standing there in our towels, and I noticed one 20/30-something couple going at it doggie-style. Half jokingly, as he looked over, I made several indications to him, and wouldn't you know it, he beckoned me over, and that's where I spent a major part of a half-hour on my first lifestyle night. Too good to be true...for me, anyway.

 

Later, I was back on the ground floor in the party room where smokers were allowed. Lots of kissing, fondling, carressing and some oral going on, but mostly just people talking. It was after midnight and my mind was still buzzing from the threesome play (my first threesome and my first sex in public, btw), and a single woman (who had come to the club with a male friend) engaged me and two couples in conversation about blowjobs. Someone initiated a dice game where-in it apparently became impossible that I would be a loser. I got a prolonged and very public blowjob to completion from the single female. The rules were very flexible, apparently...:D

 

So, in my first lifestyle experience, I had not only participated in my first threesome, but it was in public, and I also got a very elaborate blowjob, in public, and was complimented by my partner to boot.

 

I've had much more satisfying encounters since then, but I realize that I was VERY lucky with that as my first encounter -- especially as a single male -- in the lifestyle. So yes, my first encounter is worth repeating. And I'd like to try it again several times...just to make sure I was right.

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We had an amazing first experience. In fact, I wrote a story about it that lives here at The Swingers Board Swinger Stories - A Great First Experience. We consider ourselves lucky, because our second experience was so-so. And if we'd had a *negative* experience the first time, it would have seriously dampened our enthusiasm for the whole hobby.

 

We repeated with the same couple for a little over a year.

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Our first time is in the so-so category. I matched up well with the wife, my wife didn't quite match up with the hubby though. Several weeks later (and after talking with them a few more times in person and online) we still aren't interested in repeating. Hanging around with them is fine, but nothing more.

 

Hard thing for us about that is we hit it off so well in profiles and online chatting beforehand.

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I've had a number of firsts. First time at a club, first threesome with Mr. Doe, first swap with Mr. Doe. The first time solo was okay as far as the sex went (mediocre the first time, good the second time) and great on every other level. The two firsts with Mr. Doe were stellar.

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I've had a lot of firsts with Mr. Sun as well, considering he was my first real boyfriend, first had sex with, first with oral/vaginal/anal sex, first to go to a club with, first to swap, and first to have a threesome with. In terms of the first time we swapped with the first couple that "broke us in" the sex was meh but the environment and atmosphere along with doing this together with Mr. Sun was awesome. Based on sex alone, no, I wouldn't repeat again but considering the experience, yes! I don't think we've met a couple yet that has wow'ed us on the first swap. Maybe we need more experience or maybe sex gets better and better the more chances and the more you get to know a couple.

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Our first? Not really, it was tense and awkward but between us the excitement was worth it. Like you, it was a door opener. I needed to step in to find my way.

 

The first experience with a full swap was good and worth repeating.

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Our first couples experience was one we should have avoided. It was ok physically, but we went way too far.

 

It was our first visit to a club, someone on sls noticed we were going and decided to casually run into us there. The husband was someone I had dated just after high school. We flirted, my husband seemed into the wife, we jumped right in with both feet with a full swap in separate rooms - which wasn't on the agenda.

 

After that, we slowed way down and got our bearings. We gladly full swap separate rooms now - heck we don't even necessarily have to be with a couple to go off on our own at parties, for instance. We most frequently meet with singles and sometimes get into group action.

 

So, would we repeat - nope.

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Our first was with a couple in Florida who ran a club (now defunct) that was devoted to education of novices. the couple was full of good information and had a caring attitude. At the end of a couple of hours of discussion with them, they simply asked if we were ready to try swinging. If we weren't, that was OK, but we were.

 

The first swap was full swap, separate rooms. It was wonderful. My wife actually learned a new position from the guy that we have use, to our delight, many times. I got over my nervousness quickly because I was with a delightful, beautiful, well built woman who couldn't have been more encouraging and reassuring. I wish I could thank them both again for introducing us to the lifestyle 20 years ago.

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No, not really.  It was two new couples, so the blind leading the blind. While it wasn't awful or anything like that, I'm pretty sure that all parties involved probably walked away feeling the whole deal hadn't lived up to the hype. 

 

I look at it as swinging is like most other things, the first time you do it, you're probably not going to be good at it.  What you hope for though is it wasn't bad where it turns you off on the whole idea, there were some flashes of good, and you learn some stuff and then start to build upon that. If you walk away from it having done that, then it was a success.

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Our first was with an experienced couple that we met our first night at the swing club. We went over to their house and it was immediately a little weird, as they opened the door and were both in underwear. And they talked us into separate rooms, the wife didn't show me a particularly good time - she was a little cold, if you know what I mean. (We found out later from other couples that they were known for that, the husband got laid to his satisfaction, the wife acted as bait a little bit.) 

 

We never went out with that couple again, but it didn't turn us off either. 

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First episode was a very soft swap episode at Desire. Enjoyable!

Second episode was a couple swap at Trapeze in FL. I was so excited that I ejaculated within .001 seconds after the other woman started performing oral sex on me. I was embarrassed and apologetic. My super nice partner said if you are excited, I’m excited. I went on to reciprocate. My wife had a nice time with the husband who was also a great guy. They knew that we were newbies and I think that they found it entertaining. 

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I don’t think I want to repeat my first time because it wasn’t with my husband.  It also wasn’t planned, it was with a college friend and a guy I didn’t know. 

In retrospect it was an experience I am very happy I had as it opened my mind to so many new experiences which has had a very positive effect on our lives. 

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Same room sex, my GF & another couple in my early school years & then military.  Kind of borderline as a 'swinger' experience. Both were unplanned kinda happened events.  First full on swinger activity was a experienced GF taking me to a small 'party' of a dozen people, mostly couples & one triad.  Was hooked on it for some years & after a extended break returned to group sex.

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It was probably kind of like the first time you got to touch a boob period back in high school: a new sensation, but perhaps a little awkward initially. Then as you get accustomed to it, you get less awkward, and better at your technique :) I wouldn't necessarily change our first successful time swinging, because we all had to start with a first sometime.

 

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Our first time was wonderful. My wife and I had never discussed swinging and it just happened when a very close nudist couple had come over to our house. We were all nude and our male friend started massaging my wife while I was massaging his wife. His wife smiled and pointed to her husband and my wife were having intercourse. His wife and I immediately started ourselves. It made our friendship much closer.

 

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On 3/2/2008 at 10:16 PM, cocpl2007 said:

Was your first swinging experience worth repeating?

The question is, what was my first swinging experience?  I broke up with my fiance but we were still seeing each other and screwing.  Was it when I met and started dating my future husband, and went back and fucked my ex?  Or when I started fucking my future husband while still fucking my ex?  Or when my future husband told me he knew about my ex and said he was OK with it?

 

Lots of people have multiple sex partners in the dating world, so maybe swinging started for me when hubby and Red and I had our first MFM; or our first FMF with another woman.  If "swinging" requires some sort of swap, then it would be when hubby and I started couples swapping with Lora and her boyfriend, Walter, who then got married but kept swapping with us.  It was fun, but I was more interested in Lora than Walter.  Lora left Walter and joined our family.  She was more interested in hubby and me than Walter.

 

In any case, YES, it was all worth repeating.

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Yes it was the best. We have talked about it many times and believe we were spoiled by it. The first date with them we went to dinner and could not help myself thinking about what might happen. Across from the younger woman I tried to imagine how the sex would be. It was special to travel through the evening going from a casual conversation at a table to being between her legs. We had danced some and on our way to our cars, She embraced me and kissed me. She said to follow them home. No woman has ever accepted me inside and giving me all her sex like she did. My wife was emotionally attached to her husband and we dated them many times. NO other couple has been so special to us.

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On 8/6/2020 at 7:57 PM, couplers said:

The question is, what was my first swinging experience?  I broke up with my fiance but we were still seeing each other and screwing.  Was it when I met and started dating my future husband, and went back and fucked my ex?  Or when I started fucking my future husband while still fucking my ex?  Or when my future husband told me he knew about my ex and said he was OK with it?

 

Lots of people have multiple sex partners in the dating world, so maybe swinging started for me when hubby and Red and I had our first MFM; or our first FMF with another woman.  If "swinging" requires some sort of swap, then it would be when hubby and I started couples swapping with Lora and her boyfriend, Walter, who then got married but kept swapping with us.  It was fun, but I was more interested in Lora than Walter.  Lora left Walter and joined our family.  She was more interested in hubby and me than Walter.

 

In any case, YES, it was all worth repeating.

 

 

Most of that sounds more like cheating than swinging.

 

Isn't it?

 

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No. Mrs. Playmate was concerned because Mrs. Alura howled too appreciatively. She had reason. Mr. Playmate showed up at our door a few days later and asked if he could meet Mrs. Alura for sex from time to time. His wife had refused to swing again. We showed him the way out and asked that he not return. He didn't.

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Yep.  A woman I'd started dating took me to a 'swinger' party.   More accurately nine or ten horny young Marines, male & female getting naked and engaging in assorted sex acts.  Cant remember if any were married, tho most were dating couples of some degree.  All probablly under age 25.  I was 21 & a couple months, my new gf a few months older.  We met for a easy dinner, went to the party which she & some friends organized, had sex with several others, and crashed when the party faded after midnight.  I was sold,

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Our first was a hell of experience specially for my wife, she was surprised by our neighbors friend when he proposed to my wife and was out of words but took our friend by the hand and lead him to our room I was so turn on by her action. She took all of her clothes and jump into bed while we took our clothes.

Our neighbors friend was ready aroused when my wife did not waisted time and took his cock and put it inside her after that the rest is history. We get together once a week after that.

 

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On 8/15/2020 at 11:11 AM, Sunday said:

Most of that sounds more like cheating than swinging.

What part do you believe was cheating?

 

They only ambiguous part was for a short time early on: After I broke up with my fiance Red and he moved out, I started dating.  Yes, I was still sleeping with Red, but he knew that I was dating, and he kept having sex with me anyway.  When David, my now husband and I started dating, I was still having sex with Red, but I don't believe that was cheating on David just because we were dating.

 

David and I started having sex, so do you believe that monogamy was expected at that point and that was cheating?  I had told David about having been engaged to and had been living with Red, and shortly thereafter David then knew that I was still involved physically and romantically with Red.  So everything was known among the three of us.

 

After that, everything was know to everyone else involved before any sex happened, including when Lora had sex with hubby while she was dating Walter.  (The odd thing is, after she told Walter what she was going to do, they became closer, began swapping with us, got engaged and got married, all the while continuing to swap with us (David, Clair, Red, and me).)

 

Please, I welcome any further analysis by you.  I am genuinely interested in your take on all this.  In hindsight, it still perplexes me.  Thanks.

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On 8/17/2020 at 11:37 PM, couplers said:

They only ambiguous part was for a short time early on: After I broke up with my fiance Red and he moved out, I started dating.  Yes, I was still sleeping with Red, but he knew that I was dating, and he kept having sex with me anyway.  When David, my now husband and I started dating, I was still having sex with Red, but I don't believe that was cheating on David just because we were dating.

Hope you don't mind me weighing in, but I think this is a pretty common point of difference and has a lot of variation across age and region.

 

I'm not sure the reality has a lot of difference, but how open about it people are definitely does. For me dating, it was widely understood that people had "someone" they would call regularly despite being single, and, in all likelihood, that if a date went badly, they were probably going to call that person after. "Single" didn't mean "not having sex with anyone", it meant "not having restrictions on who you are having sex with". That was typical even many years before Tinder and all that.

 

For other people that comes as a shock, but it's been my experience that even with people who believe it isn't the norm, they still do the same thing, just with more discretion, and think they're the only ones misbehaving.

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I have repeated that first time in my head over and over again yet as wonderful as that night was and the meetings that followed it can never compare with that first time. 

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1st NOPE. Couple was a little strange, we were nervous. They said they were experienced.

 

After we got to their place she bowed out, 'that time of the month'. We got more comfortable and he was wearing torn, faded tighty whities. We had gotten ourselves clean, pressed clothing etc. Putting our best foot forward. They didn't put any effort into their appearance. Their home was messy, like no where to sit or even really play. They seemed nice enough, the conversation before was electric. Sitting in a public space drinking coffee and openly discussing having sex with strangers. Really kinda hot. 

 

Never knew what their gig was, didn't care. We just chalked it up as a learning lesson. We're all human, different. Certainly didn't hold it over the swinging community and it did open our eyes to the possibilities and excitement of openly engaging with others around sex.

 

2nd not much better. Single guy. Very classy. Opposite of first. But he got totally drunk. Still a sexy evening with fond memories. I think I've told that story here somewhere.

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Our first experience was at Desire RM. We met a nice couple who told us they were into the sexy vibe, but they were not swingers. We were only aspiring swingers. 
 

We had dinner with them a couple of times. After dinner, we went to the disco and danced with our opposite spouses. My wife informed me that the husband leaned into her with his erection. Then off to the hot tub. 
 

A drunk guy on his own was masturbating to us in the hot tub. I asked the other couple if they wanted to come to our room. They did. The husband grabbed a squirt bottle of chocolate sauce from the bar. 
 

At our room, the other husband suggested that we blindfold one of wives, put on chocolate sauce strategically located and they would guess which of the three of us were licking what. We then tried it on the other wife. We went through so many towels to clean up, we took a picture. 
 

I then asked if they wanted to have sex with their own partner next to us while we were having sex. The other wife got skittish and they left abruptly. I didn’t push the idea hard, but I feared that I offended them. 
 

We saw them the next day. Based on their enthusiastic swingers’ kisses (on the mouth), they were not offended. Super nice couple! 

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Butterfly effect: If you changed anything, we wouldn't be where we are now. Still, never really had a bad experience where we removed any clothes. Only bad/strange/surprising/disappointing experiences we've had were when we met other couples for the first time and found out that they weren't for us in one way or another.

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On 12/7/2010 at 11:30 AM, The Fuse said:

We had an amazing first experience. In fact, I wrote a story about it that lives here at The Swingers Board Swinger Stories - A Great First Experience. We consider ourselves lucky, because our second experience was so-so. And if we'd had a *negative* experience the first time, it would have seriously dampened our enthusiasm for the whole hobby.

 

We repeated with the same couple for a little over a year.

I miss "The Fuse."

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      The husband picks you up at the motel. Nice guy. Personable. Not his first rodeo. He drives you to their place, which is a surprise, but you are so nervous that you don't remember the address or how to get there. You go in. You meet the wife and son. She doesn't disappoint.  She is a looker. The teenage son is off to a friend's place and you are just someone going to a party with his parents. He doesn't know that you will be soon fucking his mother.  After the son leaves, they show you photos of their past swinging adventures.  If you had doubts, then now you are sure that this isn't their first rodeo.  Your cock or your mind. Both are about to explode.
       
      They follow you back to the hotel room that you rented.  Locked door, "Do not Disturb" sign.
       
      She kisses her husband and it starts. The disrobing. You are nervous. What to do first. Follow their lead and try not to appear overbearing or demanding.  She's on the bed, and he dives into a mouthful of vaginal bliss. You nervously start kissing her, massaging her breast, kissing her nipples.  Then you get on your knees and present your mediocre cock for her to devour.  She doesn't hesitate.  She has your cock buried down her throat while the husband buries his tongue in her bush.  The husband comes up for air, and moves to her breast, teasing.  You move to the holy of holies.  You lick, suck, and drink in the juices, probing with deep tongue thrusts, tasting the walls of her vaginal cavity while she is licking the husband's cock. Your member is not much different than his. You are relieved.  
       
      The position changes. She lays on her side. He enters her vagina from the rear, leaving her clitoris exposed. She discussed this with you on the phone.  Licking her while her husband fucks.  You go down and start to lick that clitoris, less than a inch from the pounding cock. You remember that he is bi. He wants this. You hesitantly reach up, and start to cradle his jewels, all the time her juices mingles with the fleshy taste of cock.  You can't bring yourself to put his cock in your mouth, so you go on licking the clit and fondling the balls until he grunts and fills her with cum.  He withdraws. You switch position.  His cum lubricates her vagina.  There is nothing sloppy about these seconds. You pound her while he licks and returns the favor of cradling your balls.  He doesn't suck you off, not sure if you will be offended. It doesn't matter he says. They just love fucking.  
       
      You release your semen into her, and you all relax, sitting and talking while a double load of cum streams from her pussy. You regret what the hotel maids will have to clean up. She pees. Returns. The ritual starts again. This time the cunnilingus is mixed with unfamiliar flavors. His cum. Your cum.  You don't give a fuck.  The thrill of the three-way has over ridden any social mores that you were raised with.
       
      More sex. More bi touching. This time you pull out and shoot your cum over her.  With that baptism, the holy rites have been completed. There are photos and kisses given. Promises of future sex.
       
      This was your first threesome.
    • By C3po
      This all started around forty years ago when my wife Beth and I had dated for a few years then married. It wasn't long after we married that I introduced her to her first big realistic porn star dildo.  When she first saw it she laughed and said, "That'll never fit in my pussy, are you nuts?!" But she agreed to trying and found not only did it fit but she really enjoyed it. She was amazed by how much she enjoyed it.  So much so that she requested I use it on her quite a lot. She also discovered she enjoyed big cock porn, she was fascinated by it. Soon was I combining using a huge dildo on her at the same time she watched big cock porn, this led her to experience huge orgasms. She couldn't get enough. She was finally exploring her sexuality and expanding her outlook on sexual pleasure.
       
      One night after some really hot sex I  questioned her if she ever fantasized about fucking other men, especially well-hung men. She responded that of course she did, stated that most women had this fantasy, and she believed it was quite common. So I pursued it further and asked her if she wanted to try another man's cock and how much did she really desire to do it? She said that it sounded exciting and fun but she would never do anything to endanger our marriage. I said,  "What if I told you that I wanted to watch you have sex with another man, one that had a really big cock. Would you then consider it?" She laughed and said she'd be game if it was something I was serious about and really wanted her to do. She said, "Come on, let's be real. It's exciting and fun to imagine it, but to really do it? Please! That's a major game changer."
       
      So I said, "I'm very serious. I've watched the way you enjoy the dildos especially while watching big cock videos. It turns me on big time seeing how excited you get and how many times you climax from doing these two things at the same time. I want to watch you do it for real. No BS, just watching you getting slammed by a big cock would be a huge turn-on for me. So what do you really think now that you know that I'm serious and am giving you this opportunity?"
       
      I could see her giving it some serious thought, she didn't get mad or upset at me or the idea, no resistance whatsoever to my request.  The more she considered the idea the more it appeared to me that she was very intrigued with the idea and it excited her.
       
      She started asking all kinds of questions, like wouldn't I be jealous, or think the worst of her, or what if she really enjoyed it and wanted more or didn't feel comfortable screwing another man, then what? Were there any rules and what were the consequences? Was I absolutely sure that I really wanted her to do this, because once done there was no going back!
       
      After she finished asking everything she had concerns about I answered all her questions and we talked about the rules/boundaries we would have in place to keep it fun and exciting without any reservations or guilt. This was to make sure she fully understood my concerns and alleviate all of hers as well. It seemed she came to a decision at which point she smiled and enthusiastically said yes, she'd do it! Did I have someone special in mind she wondered? She said she had to agree to my choices for her sexual escapades or it wasn't gonna happen.
       
       I then informed her I was thinking of Bruce. Beth squealed with glee, she admitted she has had fantasies about Bruce for some time now and I couldn't have picked a better choice for her first time. She would absolutely love to fuck Bruce. She said she was getting wet thinking about sex with him.
       
      A few days later I met up with Bruce for an after work drink. As we enjoyed several drinks we talked a lot. Soon I steered the conversation towards my wife Beth. I asked  Bruce to be honest and tell me what he thought about Beth. He admitted he thought Beth was smokin' hot. She had a killer body and was just gorgeous, always was friendly, and liked flirting with him when they were together. I asked him if he' ever had the chance would he consider having sex with her? He looked a bit concerned by my question but answered yes, he wouldn't hesitate to take advantage of such an opportunity. So I told him that Beth really wanted to have sex with him, and that I was okay with them hooking up. I explained that was my kink watching her get fucked by other men, it really turned me on. Bruce considered it for several minutes then said okay sure, he'd love to fuck Beth. Just give him the details when we're ready to make it happen.
       
      When I got home I told Beth about my conversation with Bruce and what he said. She looked startled and said she couldn't believe I did that. So I asked her if what I did was so wrong and did she still want to go through with it? She excitedly said Oh hell yes she did, and no I wasn't wrong! So we made plans and set a date for Beth's first cock. 
       
      The night arrived finding Beth both excited and hot with anticipation. She was dressed to kill showing off her sexy body wearing no underwear. When Bruce knocked on the door I answered it and escorted him into our house. Beth entered the living room and gave Bruce a big hug pressing her chest and pelvis into him and then kissed him on the lips. Bruce kissed her back and he sat down pulling her on to his lap. Nether one of them wasted any time, tongues going everywhere, hands exploring and groping each other, clothes coming off. Soon they were both naked and Beth got a pleasant surprise, Bruce was very well hung. She giggled with delight.
       
      Beth took Bruce's hand and led him to our bed. She pushed him down on the bed and went to work on Bruce's big cock giving him an enthusiastic blow job. After a while Bruce flipped Beth on her back and went to work on her pussy and clit. Beth orgasmed in minutes, fully enjoying Bruce's skilled tongue. I stood in the background watching the show.
       
      Soon Bruce moved into position between Beth's legs. As he rubbed his cock against Beth's open pussy and clit she responded with loud moans and started pressing her pussy against Bruce's cock. As he slid his huge cock into Beth's pussy she had a big climax. As he went deeper he increased his speed and Beth climaxed again. She was enthralled with his big cock pumping her pussy, she was moving her hips and swearing, telling him his cock felt so good. She looked over at me and said she loved how good his big cock felt inside her. She told Bruce to stretch her pussy good, to fuck her hard. She was in sexual ecstasy, a place she'd never been before. Her facial expressions showed pure bliss and the sounds she was making were hot as hell. I never seen her so turned on, she must of had a dozen orgasms, many of which were huge.
       
      They fucked each other hard for a good twenty minutes then Bruce erupted into Beth's pussy, filling her with his cum. This gave Beth another climax. Afterwards he laid on Beth for a minute then rolled off her. He'd destroyed her pussy, it gaped open with his cum dripping out of her. They kissed and he got up to dress while Beth laid there spent. She looked at me and smiled big time. She said, "Your turn!", so I took sloppy seconds and enjoyed it beyond belief. Bruce watched us have sex then commented that watching real sex was so much hotter than any porno ever could be. He understood my enjoyment of watching my wife fuck other men. He said he'd like to do it again and Beth was all for it. So they made plans to hook up again. Then Bruce left.
       
      Beth and I talked about how well things went, and how she wasn't prepared for how much she enjoyed his big cock. It was mind boggling! She thanked me profusely for asking her to do this, the opportunity to experience such awesome sex. She says she'll never be the same again and is looking forward to more big cock sex. So our new lifestyle began.
    • By Falcon88
      My wife and I have been together for almost 25 years. Through out the years sex has been fantastic. No complaints on either side. We are very faithful and never cheated on each other.
       
      Then one day two years ago we were having a few drinks and watching porn. We watch all kinds of porn. That night we were watching some really good gangbangs. Curiously, I turn to my wife and asked her if she ever thought about swinging and group sex. If it ever crossed her mind. Surprisingly, she looked at me and said she’s been thinking about it for while. So we ended up talking about swinging and group sex for hours. We got online and read stories on experiences about swinging and group sex. The pros and cons. It turned me on taking about it but at the same time I got a crazy feeling in my stomach. Nerves I guess.
       
      So to make a very long story short we ended up having an open marriage and took up swinging. We both decided to have (safe) sex with other people until we felt comfortable on having our first group sex. All this took very long planning and preparing, especially mentally.
       
      Finally last November we planned out her first group sex. We carefully selected three familiar friends to join in the fun. Of course they decided to do it and agreed on our rules.
       
      So, it finally happened that November night. I really enjoyed watching my wife get screwed by more than one man. She had the time of her life. She had multiple orgasms one after another. The crazy feeling never left my stomach but I really enjoyed watching though. After the guys left we kicked back and talked about our experience. Then we go back about agreeing on what we’re doing and never to do it without the other knowing. We keep an oath of trust. Every time we have a date with someone we let each other know. It’s always planned out days in advance so it will never interfere with our personal lives. We have a great understanding.
       
      Since last November she’s been involved in several group sex averaging 3-4 guys each time. Of course I joined in most of the time. Lots of lube is needed. But now she wants to go a little further. She wants to do a gangbang of 6-8 guys. Seriously.
       
      Lately she’s been playing with large toys to get her vagina ready. She wants to try double-vaginal penetration. I’ve been preparing her by inserting a dildo in her while I’m inside. Very carefully with lots of lube. We practice every time we have sex. She even carefully inserts a large thick toy in her vagina while watching a movie and keeps it in there. Yes, our sexual curiosities has increased tremendously. My wife wants to explore even more and I’m all in.
       
      Well the day we both have been looking forward too occurred this past weekend. We managed to round up 7 guys for an all night gangbang. It involved a lot of planning and phone calls. We’ve noticed that guys will be all in at first then drop out later. But eventually we got things going. That night when everyone arrived she was kinda nervous but excited to have that many cocks at once. Most of all, she finally had double penetration in her vagina from two guys for the first time. The strange thing I seemed more nervous than her. Lol But she absolutely enjoyed it as much as I enjoyed watching her. She came hard many times. She doesn’t like anal so that wasn’t attempted.
       
      So after joining in all the fun and after almost two hours of great sex we had the grand finale. My sexy wife knelt down and we all gave her an awesome bukkake. Her face was drenched with cum. It was one heck of a hot night. After everyone left we took a long shower and stayed up almost all night talking about it. We were both so turned on that we were already making plans for the next one. But we are gonna take a break for about three weeks. It’s just going to be me and her for now.
       
      Yesterday she mentioned about having a messy cum sex in the near future after watching a great creampie movie. I was like, a messy cum sex? She asked me what I would think about her having a messy gooey bukkake and creampie night. Having about 4 guys cum all over her face while 4 guys cum inside her. Then rubbing the cum all over her breasts. Man, just listening to her drove me crazy. My wife was willing to be explosive. But that would take lots of planning because we are very cautious. My wife cannot get pregnant anymore so that’s really something we don’t have to worry about. It’s about the unprotected sex. We do know many cool friends well enough that we can trust but still we must remain careful. Yet, I’m sure it’s gonna happen very soon.
       
      I’ve been asked if we have taken it too far. If there’s actually any sign of regrets. Some close friends wonder about my wife wanting too much now. Our answer is no because we enjoy it and have a deep understanding and trust. We are responsible adults and are having fun. We first talk about what we’re going to do and have to both agree 100%. Any sign of doubt from either side we will not do it. We are friends with our sex partners but no feelings are involved or ever shared. We have proven that to ourselves already.
    • By AdamGunn2
      It was a fairly typical night at D.J.s Island, an early autumn evening. Mary and I hadn’t set anything up in advance, we’d decided to go almost at the last moment. From the second we entered the door our radar was beaming across the club, searching for a couple that might be searching for what we were also interested in - an enjoyable tryst.
       
      Mary took a few minutes to change into what she called a ‘trolling outfit.’ As I remember, that night it was a black babydoll with a loose bodice, thong, low heels. Many men admired her legs as I checked the forty or so women, many as scantily clad as my wife. None of our regular playmates seemed to be in attendance that evening, but we had our customs, we weren’t concerned. Perhaps an hour and a half later, I sat at a table next to the dance floor, Mary was on her feet, on the parquet, moving her body, seeing if anyone would move in. A slow sequence of men approached her, danced with her. Some would take liberties such as moving their hands under her garment, feeling the small of her back, perhaps place their palm on the roundness of her ass.
       
      I’d seen this many times before, I waited for one of two reactions.
       
      The first was that she’d spin away from the man; it signified she wasn’t interested in what he had to offer.
       
      The second was that she’d get closer, I’d watch her whisper in his ear. I knew the question, “Where’s your wife?” Some of them would shake their heads, they were attending as one of the few single men the club allowed, and when they received Mary’s response, they’d move away - that’s not what we were looking for at the moment.
       
      But the man might indicate where his wife was dancing a few feet away. When this kind of thing happened, Mary would glance to me and give our special signal - she’d put one hand on the back of her head, one on her stomach. When I got the cue, I’d come out, we’d dance as a foursome.
       
      As I approached, a man grasped the elbow of a tall attractive lady who was more modestly dressed, at least for the club. There was no conversation on the dance floor, the heavy volume of music and the thumping of the bass wouldn’t allow for speech. But I could tell the woman was interested in me, the four of us paired off and I often found myself facing this vixen. It was obvious they were as interested in us as I was in them, I could tell by the way Mary was rubbing against the man that she felt the same.
       
      After a couple of songs, Mary led the way off the floor, holding his hand, leading us off into a corner away from the speakers. As we sat, the man said, “I’m Ed, this is my wife, Marilyn.”
       
      Marilyn and I softly shook hands, I believe she raised the hem of her skirt to give me a view of her upper thighs. Ed had no problem seeing Mary’s legs, or where they met - she was sitting so that the babydoll was gathered to her side, leaning forward so her globes were exposed to his view.
       
      “Do you come here often?” Ed asked.
       
      “Every few weeks,” I responded, “you?”
       
      “This is our first time here.” Mary gave him a look that asked for further info. “We’re just starting this,” he admitted.
       
      Marilyn picked it up. “We’ve only had one time with a couple of friends. We liked it, heard about this place, decided to see if we could get into more trouble.”
       
      “Trouble’s our middle name,” I joked.
       
      Our conversation continued, where do you live, what movies have you seen lately, etc. It was a screen, of course, we were all calculating if the four of us would be pleasurable bedmates. I paid my attention to Marilyn, my wife had told me numerous times not to worry about her, she can take care of herself. My hand found Marilyn’s knee, she smiled at me, encouraged me to reach a tad higher. We bent towards each other, our mouths met.
       
      Marilyn opened her lips to me, the kiss was ardent, her mouth moist. She licked at my upper lip, her hand fondled the back of my neck. Our tongues clashed, promising cupidity, mimicking what I presumed our bodies might be doing in a few scant moments.
       
      We broke for a moment, Marilyn invited, “Would you guys want to go to one of the rooms?”
       
      I, of course, was all for it, but then I heard Mary. “Uh, not right now. But thanks.”
       
      We’ve always had the guideline that if one person doesn’t want to do something, she speaks for both of us. Regretfully, I pecked at Marilyn’s lips a last time, we stood, went separate ways.
       
      “You’re not upset, are you?” Mary asked me.
       
      “Of course not, not at all. You’re not in the mood?”
       
      “Oh, I’m in the mood all right, just not with Ed.”
       
      “Something wrong with him?” I asked.
       
      “I tried to get him interested,” Mary revealed, “but his kiss was a little cold, indifferent. I put my hand on his leg, he was too busy watching you and Marilyn, he never responded. My guess is that if we went into a room, he’d be watching you two, I’m not even sure he’d get hard for me.” It was a reasonable thought, it had happened to us a couple times before. “Hope you don’t mind, bet she’d have been a firecracker.”
       
      “Maybe. But you’re a firecracker too.”
       
      We headed back to the dance floor, in search of another couple.
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