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If a member of another swinger couple was wearing a collar?

If one member of another couple was wearing a collar, what would you do?  

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  1. 1. If one member of another couple was wearing a collar, what would you do?

    • Run as fast as you can, the thought really turns you off.
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    • Not pay any attention to it and judge them on your normal criteria.
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    • Be curious about it it but not approach.
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    • Be curious and approach the couple to find out more.
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    • Head strait for them thinking this could be a good time.
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    • Collar? BDSM? What the hell are those?
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Ok I know we have been quiet for a bit. Bunny is still getting comfortable again and SHE/I have been exploring other avenues of sexuality. To be direct those explorations have been into BDSM and we have decided that a Dom/sub relationship works for us. I am now her collared servant. We are now looking at returning to our favorite club and my collar will be on. So the question is, how would that affect your decision to swing with a couple if you see one of the members of that couple wearing a collar?

 

We know it may shrink our ability to swap, but it is still what we want to do. We are just curious how others really feel about it.

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Glad ya'll are finding your way and having fun here! I would think, that like anything else, there will be folks who are into that, folks who don't care, and folks who are against it. Do what works for ya'll, and I'm sure you'll find someone shares your style.

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I would find it hot and fun.... to an extent. It's really going to depend on the people. While I find a collar hot and mild BDSM to be quite hot. I met a couple once upon a time (when I was a single female) that told me about how they had a single girl "slave" that used to sleep at the foot of their bed. I RAN the other way.

 

I guess that said, I think most people won't be bothered by the collar on it's own... it's going to depend more on how involved you expect them to be with your BDSM play.

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A collar always makes me curious...and it gives people something to talk about. Last time we were out I approached a girl in a collar who was holding a crop. I asked her something on the dance floor about it.

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I think it would be a good conversation piece as well...however, some may just not think it's their thing.

 

To an extent we have explored it as well...I have a very nice set of ankle/wrist restraints/collar (shiny black patent leather), we have a nice flogger, a whip (a friend gave it to us, it's very nice, but that's just way too much pain for me...I just like to flick it to make the noise :whip:), chains on the bed, etc. I am quite happy being in the sub position for my sweetie. But, it's not something we include in playtime...mostly because it really isn't a huge turn on for many people...and the whole D/s or any form of power exchange isn't widely understood...so we have no problem keeping it just to ourselves as an avenue to be explored.

 

Now...one of the pics on our SLS is from the first Halloween we went out together. I went as a teacher's pet...ie: school girl outfit with a collar and a leash...now, to most of the crowd we had to 'explain' my costume...but there was a BDSM group at the bar that night that totally 'got it'. lmao :lol:

 

Wear it, some folks may not even ask about the 'why' just the 'ohhhh, i like that...where did you get it?' lol

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I guess that said, I think most people won't be bothered by the collar on it's own... it's going to depend more on how involved you expect them to be with your BDSM play.

 

Only as involved as they would want to be. Just as we don't wish to be pressured to do things we wouldn't want, we won't pressure others. If all they wanted was a normal swap that is cool. if they want more involvement, all the better.:D

 

It is interesting to see that so far none of you would have problems. It will be interesting to see how it plays out at our club. There are others there who are into BDSM, but I am the only male submissive that we know about. Should be interesting.

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For the record, I'd be one of those who found it intriguing. Whether we played or not would be based on the usual criteria.

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We have seen this at the clubs before, can't say we are into it though. I really don't know how it would go over at the clubs, as we really didn't pay that much attention when we have seen it. In our area the BDSM crowd has a pretty active culture and clubs of their own. Personally, it would be a turn-off to me, hence why we didn't pay much attention to the d/s folks that we have seen at the clubs.

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In our explorations with swinging, I've found that many people don't understand BDSM. We went away for a weekend to a hotel getaway, and our room door was open, which generally means that people are welcome to come in. At that moment I happened to be bound to the bed. We found that several people came in, then left right away. Guess it wasn't to their taste.

 

A couple of people stayed, but never really engaged.

 

All this to say, yeah, some people are into it, some aren't.

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We've not been involved in that part of the lifestyle, never had anyone show us that side. So it wouldn't be a turn off, more of a curiosity!

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Well what can I say about collars :rolleyes:,

 

We have a pair and a spare. ;)

 

If you are comfortable in a collar, wear it with pride; spend a few bucks and get a nice one though.

 

It is very rare for us to see anything at the clubs we go to but we are always looking. It is not our play of choice but we have dabbled in it. It is a very private thing for us. We have one playmate that is really into submissiveness.

 

Like Julie said, I wouldn't be into having a sub at the foot of the bed. We met a couple that wanted us to join them and perhaps some day we will. She has worn a collar at some bike rallies for several days. A bit much for us though; it is not our choice of play but we have had a few great experiences. We are more on the mild sensual side. The sub female we play with is just role play. We could go to many places together and you would assume we are just all friends doing regular stuff out on the town. But we have discussed so many things. The collars aren't put on until we are in a very private setting.

 

What we understand about this type of play is Trust. Our friend brought this fantasy to us out of the TRUST being established first. I was a little shocked at first and had to research most of what I know.

 

I have found out I'm not a sub. For one, it is too close to my defense mechanism. Tie me up, and there will be broken shit in the house. It is not too cool playing with a broken bedpost or chair attached to my arm with handcuffs. Been there done that :eek: Sorry, but at least we know what I can't handle :cool:.

 

I had never dreamed that I could call a woman SLUT, without getting my eyes scratched out, let alone having permission to do so. That is why I say so much.. it is about trust.

 

There is a fine line between being submissive and being degraded.

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Hi Ed and Bunny,

 

First, I want to point out the difference between people who "have a problem with it" and those for whom it would be a turn-off. We don't have a problem at all with people who enjoy what they're doing and it suits them. More power to them! However, everyone has their own sexual turn-ons and turn-offs, and for many this is just simply a turn-off (it's not a judgement of you).

 

...have decided that a Dom/sub relationship works for us. i am now her collared servant.

 

This is now part of your relationship and your lifestyle. It's probably fairly significant to you, and influences how you think and feel about sexual scenarios.

 

how would that affect your decision to swing with a couple if you see one of the members of that couple wearing a collar?

 

If it was a costume or something, it wouldn't affect my decision. If D/s is your lifestyle, it would turn us off. We've talked about this, and we're turned-off by both sides of this equation.

 

Again, this is all about sexual preferences.

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SCcpl40 said:
We've not been involved in that part of the lifestyle, never had anyone show us that side. So it wouldn't be a turn-off, more of a curiosity!

I never thought about the curiosity factor. i can see how that could get us in some conversations. But as Sweet_TNA says, We know that from there it depends on chemistry and attraction.

 

Tybee Swing said:
Hi Ed and Bunny,

 

First, I want to point out the difference between people who "have a problem with it" and those for whom it would be a turn-off. We don't have a problem at all with people who enjoy what they're doing and it suits them. More power to them! However, everyone has their own sexual turn-ons and turn-offs, and for many this is just simply a turn-off (it's not a judgment of you).

If it was a costume or something, it wouldn't affect my decision. If D/s is your lifestyle, it would turn us off. We've talked about this, and we're turned-off by both sides of this equation.

 

Again, this is all about sexual preferences.

 

Actually when I posted this I didn't think about the difference. Either way though the idea was to find out how much this would limit the availability of partners. It is different and we know some will be turned off. We were just curious to know how many.

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Well what can I say about collars :rolleyes:,

 

We have a pair and a spare. ;)

 

If you are comfortable in a collar, wear it with pride; spend a few bucks and get a nice one though.

 

It is very rare for us to see anything at the clubs we go to but we are always looking. It is not our play of choice but we have dabbled in it. It is a very private thing for us. We have one playmate that is really into submissiveness.

 

Like Julie said, I wouldn't be into having a sub at the foot of the bed. We met a couple that wanted us to join them and perhaps some day we will. She has worn a collar at some bike rallies for several days. A bit much for us though; it is not our choice of play but we have had a few great experiences. We are more on the mild sensual side. The sub female we play with is just role play. We could go to many places together and you would assume we are just all friends doing regular stuff out on the town. But we have discussed so many things. The collars aren't put on until we are in a very private setting.

 

What we understand about this type of play is Trust. Our friend brought this fantasy to us out of the TRUST being established first. I was a little shocked at first and had to research most of what I know.

 

I have found out I'm not a sub. For one, it is too close to my defense mechanism. Tie me up, and there will be broken shit in the house. It is not too cool playing with a broken bedpost or chair attached to my arm with handcuffs. Been there done that :eek: Sorry, but at least we know what I can't handle :cool:.

 

I had never dreamed that I could call a woman SLUT, without getting my eyes scratched out, let alone having permission to do so. That is why I say so much.. it is about trust.

 

There is a fine line between being submissive and being degraded.

 

Very nicely written. You hit the most important point though, which is trust. Also there is what you can handle. Bunny is like you and cannot handle being tied up, so will not do well as a sub. Then again, Her personality isn't suited for it either.

 

Due to all that, we would not involve anyone in anything they are not comfortable with. If all the other couple wants is a strait swap then thats what it will be. Although our dom and sub personalities leak through at times we do love normal sex. From there anything is possible depending on what the interest level is.

 

As for the private thing, there are some aspects of this that i feel neither of us would feel comfortable doing in a more public setting. As you said there is a fine line between submissive and degrading. Doing these things with other BDSM people is fine, but in front of those who don't understand would not be comfortable.

 

And lastly, Bunny made sure I have a very nice collar to wear.

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It wouldn't bother me if somebody wore a collar to one of our parties, but they better not crap on the carpet. If they do, they're gonna get smacked with a rolled up newspaper and sent to the garage.

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I've never given collars much thought. I've always considered them jewelry, in that women (I don't recall seeing a man wear one) dawn them because they like them or they complement what they're wearing at the club. I've seen them most often during a theme night at a club - usually Halloween.

 

I've thought about wearing one if I found one I liked and felt it would look appropriate with my outfit. But my decision to wear it wouldn't be to alert people to our sexual style; we're not Dom/sub players nor are we a D/s couple. Maybe it's a good thing I've never worn one...It could have sent the wrong message to people and I'd end up getting into something I wasn't expecting. :lol:

 

A collar wouldn't be a turn off and wouldn't deter me from approaching someone. I'd look at the whole picture, everything I see about the person and their behavior.

 

I have never seen a couple at the club where one of them always wears a collar. If I did see this it would occur to me that the collar has some significant meaning relating to their D/s relationship or preferred sexual activity. Still I wouldn't be turned off, just curious, and I'd probably meet them to see what they are like.

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O.K., we will be the first to reply then. Since we are somewhat o.k with this we would approach with caution.

 

We have a sub female as a playmate. Its just a role play scenario (occasionally) we can have regular sex as well, so when she asks for this type of play. Its her decision when.

 

Its a little different than norm but there are many boundaries one should know about. I for one, playing the Dom had issues with crossing what I felt were degrading. When we have played It took allot discussing before sex.

 

Some are into this hard core and personally we just like the soft BDSM. I guess it would be soft BDSM :confused:. For us, Mrs.fun is actually sub Dom. I guess that would be the term. Mrs.Fun is submissive to (me only) the other female doesn't give orders to Mrs.fun, she would ask me, and I could order Mrs.fun.. Sounds weird to some maybe, but there is allot to be talked about before this type of play.

 

Its acting on my part, but it is very exciting as well. Its easy to get caught up in the play and cross boundaries. We don't use code words. They are way to easy to over look.

 

Like I say, Trust is a major factor when being verbal or giving orders. We are not hard core BDSM. We only played this roll between ourselves, until we met this friend.

 

If we were to venture into this type with someone new, we would have to have that talk about boundaries before play. One must be able to sit and talk at the table and talk about fucking. It wouldn't be good to be saying thing like " I might be o.k. with that " that could lead to crossing boundaries.

 

Our friend has few boundaries, we all know each others.

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For me personally, there are a very few men that I am ok with subbing (as in I've only ever found 2 that I was comfortable with). That ever pesky trust issue presents itself yet again. lol :)

 

My thing with not necessarily incorporating it into our swing time is that I don't want it to be perceived as something I want to do with everyone.

 

What is really comes down to is that I consider myself a switch. Except for the previous 2 partners...I'm usually fairly dominant.

 

But again, some guys don't like not having some semblance of control and wouldn't like it. So it's not something we prefer to engage in during playtime.

 

I think that generally speaking you will see more females wearing a collar...either because of the D/s thing or just because they think it looks cute.

 

Again, good conversation piece...but you may risk alienating potential play partners that either don't understand or is a turn off for them. For us, it's just something that we like to keep between us...although we did take the flogger and restraints to try out the 'dungeon' at a club we used to go to...but it was a slow night, only a few people were there, and we were pretty much left to our own devices. lol

 

I think the potential for scaring folks off is there...particularly if they feel it's going to be incorporated into their play time with you. I know it's new, exciting, and you may want to shout it from the rooftops...but there are more ways than the obvious to play the power exchange in public than just wearing a collar. ;)

 

Good luck!

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Personally, I'd take it on a per-situation basis. Get a feel for the couple and see what they were like.

 

We're both very much into free choice, so an all-out D/s relationship would probably turn us both off by virtue of one party voluntarily giving up a lot of their immediate choices (no offense to anyone who is into D/s. With all due respect, it's not our cup of tea).

 

But if we got on well and liked them, why not?

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The couples who aren't into D/s might not be interested in pursuing sex from the get-go based on your D/s lifestyle, but they might get to know you better and over time realize that you're "safe" and would be fun to play with.

 

This isn't running from you, and it's not proceeding as if it wasn't part of your life, either. It's in between, and I'll bet that you would experience something like this in real life. :)

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This isn't running from you, and it's not proceeding as if it wasn't part of your life, either. It's in between, and I'll bet that you would experience something like this in real life. :)

 

We are a bit surprised at the results. Out of 20 responses so far only two have a negative reaction. The majority are curious. Not sure why we didn't see that coming, guess it can be chalked up to our newness in the lifestyle. Overall it seems our thought that it would limit our opportunities is wrong. Just by making people curious enough to come talk to us increases the chances of playing when people get a chance to know us better.

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For this poll though I was interested in those quick first impressions. First impressions do mean a lot in the club environment where you may or may not see someone again.

 

Very true! :iagree:

 

It does look like the poll is favorable for you. Is this poll & thread going to help you decide whether or not you are going to come out in your collar in the club?

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JustAskJulie said:
I guess that said, I think most people won't be bothered by the collar on it's own... it's going to depend more on how involved you expect them to be with your BDSM play.

 

I agree with this. We aren't into BDSM in the least... But if she looks sexy in a collar, YOWZA!

 

I will say that we have some couples (I wrote a "couple of couples" which is accurate, but awkward to read) who come to the club, wife in collar, husband holding her leash. That, for us, is a turn off... When the BDSM is that "out there" then the message seems to be "this is your only option with us" - we move on.

 

But just a collar, Mrs Spoo have one of those. Bought it at the BDSM store. Sexy as hell, but just a fashion statement for us.

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Tybee Swing said:
Very true! :iagree:

 

It does look like the poll is favorable for you. Is this poll & thread going to help you decide whether or not you are going to come out in your collar in the club?

 

That decision was already made for me. LOL No this was just to see what kind of reaction we could expect when I do wear the collar to the club.

 

 

Spoomonkey said:
I agree with this. We aren't into BDSM in the least... But if she looks sexy in a collar, YOWZA!

 

I will say that we have some couples (I wrote a "couple of couples" which is accurate, but awkward to read) who come to the club, wife in collar, husband holding her leash. That, for us, is a turn-off... When the BDSM is that "out there" then the message seems to be "this is your only option with us" - we move on.

 

But just a collar, Mrs Spoo has one of those. Bought it at the BDSM store. Sexy as hell, but just a fashion statement for us.

 

Thanks for that piece of advice Spoo. Bunny has talked about possibly throwing the leash on me in certain circumstances. I see your point in how that would change how others see it. Doesn't mean we wont, just that we will know that others wanting to play with us will most likely be limited by that. Although as I have said before, play with others is always at their comfort level.

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The collar I would find interesting and may even spark a conversation. But the leash I think would cause me to take a wider berth. But then again I am somewhat conservative....even in the vanilla world. :lol:

 

But like you said "Play at your comfort level". That is what makes it more fun.

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Jeff and I were talking about this yesterday.

 

As far as the collar: I think most folks would just take it for 'decoration'...not jumping to the conclusion 'oh, he's sub'...just 'hey, did you see that dude over there wearing a collar'.

 

Now, for those that are into D/s or have dabbled in it...of course they are going to attach a meaning to it. And Jeff's response was along the lines of 'Regardless of if it was a male or female wearing the collar...I wouldn't approach/speak to that person, I would be directing my attention to the other (the dom).'

 

As for the leash: Well...I had a collar and leash for my 'teacher's pet' costume. Part of it is how you try to pull that one off. The attitude of it, if you will. If she puts in on after y'all are there and is playful about it...that's one thing compared to her marching in with you trailing behind like a bad puppy. (Sorry for the comparison)

 

I guess as long as you are prepared for even folks you have previously played with being a bit put off or not approaching you...then do what you like. :) The thing is, even though you are ok with playing at that person's comfort level...they may never get to the point of finding that out b/c of the collar.

 

As I told Jeff when we were discussing this topic, I don't want to be known as 'that BDSM' couple...mostly because people don't understand it. Being an asshole does not make you a dom...it just makes you an ass. But that's how many folks understand it to be. And if you don't understand it...you either avoid or are afraid (that could be applied to swinging in general).

 

Good luck and have fun. :D

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Well, I am into bdsm and D/s, so it would be appealing to me, but only in the sense that I don't run into many people who are openly into that in swinging (as a matter of fact, I make a point of keeping it to myself usually because I get some weird looks/comments if people find out).

 

I would probably watch them for a little bit to see if they were wearing it as a decoration or as a symbol. If a symbol, I'd try to get a feel for whether I should approach the person wearing the collar first or not.

 

However, as much as I would find it interesting, I would not engage in that play with them. I only do that with one person. If attractive and we clicked though, I'd be more than happy to have sex with them :D

 

If I couldn't ascertain whether it was a symbol or not, I'd probably go with it being decoration.

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We don't think that we would pay attention to it and try not to judge and get to know the couple for who they are. On the other had, our first thoughts would be of that Nicolas Cage movie. You know the one that he's a detective and is hired by this rich woman to look for her granddaughter. They find out that the granddaughter was a prostitute and she was killed by these guys who like to dress up in leather mask and tie the women up. They become so rough with the women that they end up killing them and filming it for those people that like to see that kind of stuff. Some of the movies that they sell are very bloody. They call them "snuff films". I guess that's how you spell it. I, the female half like a slap on the ass every once in a while, but not too rough. I also like being man handled, but not enough to draw blood. I have trust issues, so for me to let someone tie me up or man handle me, it would have to be someone that I trust. Male half is not into any kind of roughness at all during sex.

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My hubby learned that the one thing you do not do is touch the collar. As he reached to feel the texture, she said, "No one but my master touches my collar." Respectful man that he is, my husband quickly acknowledged his understanding.

 

I'd be curious. I think I'd really just want to watch first though ::P:

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If I saw another couple, and the guy was wearing a collar, I would ask, "Hello Father. I didn't know priests could be married, much less be swingers."

 

......

 

Oh, not that kind of collar. I'd be curious because power exchange always intrigued me. Amy would be polite, talk to them for a few minutes, then politely excuse us, then smack me for talking to them (and not in the kinky way)

 

But in her defense, she was in a relationship where she was physically abused by an ex-boyfriend that caused her to lose a child, so I can understand why the pain stuff is totally un-sexy to her.

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Just wanted to interject here, and remind people that the BDSM or D/s lifestyle is NOTHING like abuse.

 

I have a long history of abusive relationships (which ended for good when I met the guy I dated just before I met my husband, which is to say about 17 years ago), but my trusting relationship with my darling man is not violent, painful, demeaning, angry or abusive.

 

Power exchange can only be done when complete trust is there, which is why I will only explore that with my husband and my partner.

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Just wanted to interject here, and remind people that the BDSM or D/s lifestyle is NOTHING like abuse.

 

I have a long history of abusive relationships (which ended for good when I met the guy I dated just before I met my husband, which is to say about 17 years ago), but my trusting relationship with my darling man is not violent, painful, demeaning, angry or abusive.

 

Power exchange can only be done when complete trust is there, which is why I will only explore that with my husband and my partner.

 

Absolutely true, and I did not mean to suggest that it has anything to do with abuse. I was simply saying that my wife's particular past issue leads her personally to shun the idea. She cites her reason for not being interested in BDSM was because of past abuse, which she has the right to do. But I mean no disrespect to those who enjoy it without issue. While I find the idea intriguing, I would not go there out of respect for her.

 

Sorry for the miscommunication.

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Hmmm...I would be curious. Do I get spanked? LOL

Only if you asked Bunny to spank you. She probably would though if asked. :facelic:

 

Power exchange can only be done when complete trust is there, which is why I will only explore that with my husband and my partner.

 

You are so very right with this. Only the complete trust I have for HER allows me to submit as fully as I have. In the context of swapping, We are same room only, so if SHE chose to hand some of that power to another, I would not be concerned as SHE would always be there to take over if things went too far.

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I so want to be in a room... chairs around... people sitting... I'm standing... sexy outfit... revealing.... heels... 5+ inch... my wrists tied over my head to the ceiling... everyone looking... I love thinking about this...

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      He had it fully up and moved close to her pussy. She stared into my eyes, grabbed his dick and guided it to rub her pussy. He took his clue and shoved it in. She reminded him to not be gentle. He obliged and fucked her like a whore. She begged for more by saying, "Oh yeah, fuck me, fuck me hard...look babe, he is fucking me so good, he is so big, look, he is fucking your wife right in front of you....oh yeah, fuck me." About four other guys and a couple were now watching her get fucked. I asked her if I should tell them to leave, she said no, she likes it. She slowly turned to them so they can get the full view of a dick in her pussy while she was playing with mine. 
       
      Once the guy got done, she said, "Okay honey, this was awesome," and kissed me multiple times thanking me for a great experience. She said she wanted to stay for a few before we walked out. She wanted to walk around and be noticed as the woman who had just been fucked, since rest of the crowd was just hanging out.
       
      We cannot wait to do it again.  
       
    • By Wendans
      My fantasy has always been to watch my wife get fucked by another man. We have been with another woman before which is a whole story in itself that I’ll tell you about later.
       
      One night several years ago my wife and I had gone to a club. Not your ordinary club, but a good club for swingers and singles. The night had started out rather slow and we were not finding any action that I had hoped. My wife knows what she wants and that is what we go with. And that night we found what she wanted and it was such a great experience she knew she wanted to do it again. She had gotten fucked by a black guy and she had enjoyed it. So, when we got the chance, she wanted to try it again.
       
      Being at a swinger’s club isn’t really her thing, but fucking in front of people or listening to them fuck is a big turn-on for her. Since we don’t live close to any swingers’ clubs or anything of that nature, we don’t get many opportunities to do anything like this.
       
      A couple of years ago we got a chance to go to another club. Yes, one of those clubs. We were looking for a little fun and hoping to find something as good as the last time we were out. We talked to many people as the night went on and my wife was trying to figure out what we were going to be doing to have fun that night. There was a hot blonde that was interested in us and kept on grabbing my cock which my wife was loving because this was getting her going. My wife and I decided that this was not what we had in mind for tonight, so we just kind of let that slide and we went on to pursue something else. She said she would know it when she saw it.
       
      My wife had put a couple of drinks down and was feeling pretty good now. She was a little more daring and said she wanted to go change outfits like she did when we had been to a club previously. We had brought the very same sexy outfit that was see through, so she went and changed into it. When she came back out, there was not one guy's eyes on anyone but her. Even the women were looking on in awe. She is a beautiful woman that knows how to control a room.
       
      One guy came up to me and told me he was jealous. He said he would do anything to get to fuck my wife, but she just didn’t feel right with him, I guess. As we were standing around, in came this well-built younger black guy and I think she almost came right there. The look on her face was almost mind blowing. She got this horny grin and told me she was ready to start our night. As he walked by her, she gave him this dirty smile and took her hand and rubbed down by her cunt. He stopped walking and came over to her and asked if he could help her with anything. She just smiled and said that I think you already know what you can do. They danced around a little bit, but I could tell she couldn’t take it anymore, so she quickly unzipped his pants and took out his cock and grabbed it and lead him into another room like a dog on a leash.
       
      I stayed back a couple of minutes to give them some time to get to know each other. When I did finally get to the other room, they had already undressed and she was sucking his cock. It was larger than mine. Not much longer, but thicker. I could tell she liked it.
       
      My wife had picked a room where people would be able to watch if they wanted to. I stayed back in the wings and was kind of hidden so she really didn’t know I was even there.  As I watched my wife in action, I could tell she was enjoying every second of this guy’s cock. She was sucking it like there was no tomorrow.
       
      Now it was his turn to return the favor. He got his face down to her pussy and started licking like it was candy. She was turning red and I could tell she was already about to cum. She was squirming and shaking and he was getting her cunt all ready for his big shaft. But before he fucked her, he now spread her legs out and started fingering her pussy to the point that she started squirting fluids all over the sheet they were laying on. It was like the flood gates had opened up and all the juices were flowing.
       
      She finally had all she could take because I’m sure she had cum multiple times already and I could tell she just wanted to have him inside her. I heard her say to give me your big, black cock. He asked her if she wanted him to put on a condom and she told him no, she wanted to feel him inside her cunt.
       
      He took her and spread her legs wide and slowly inserted his bbc into her tight cunt. She told him to go slowly because she said it was so big that she needed to get used to it. After several minutes of the slow movement, she said she needed him to fuck her harder so he started to go full penetration into her dripping wet cunt. She was telling him how good his cock felt, and how she loved fucking him.
       
      They switched positions multiple times with her sitting on top of his cock and riding him like she has never ridden before. My wife took his whole cock inside of her as deeply as she could, rubbing back and forth and cumming time and time again.
       
      They finally switched back to missionary style and were fucking hard when I heard her say to him, she wanted him to cum in her pussy. She said she wanted to feel his cum drip out of her pussy all night long. When he heard her say that, he started to pick up the pace and finally started moaning and said he was about to cum. My wife was now cumming herself and as he shot his load inside of her, she started squirming and shaking with every pulse of his exploding cock. Her body was red from all of her orgasms, and I could tell she was getting worn out. They had gone for almost 40 minutes of nonstop action. Not to mention that all the other people that had gathered around to watch started going to other parts of the place as they had gotten a show that they would remember forever.
       
      When he pulled his now soft cock out of my wife, I could see the cum dripping down her ass. She was getting what she wanted, I guess. She would be able to feel his cum dripping out of her the rest of the night. But I didn’t realize that she was not done yet. She wanted more. My wife took his cock and started sucking on it again. I guess he was young enough that almost instantly he got hard and she took his cock and guided it into her cunt and said she needed more of his cum. He fucked her for another 10 minutes until he exploded with more cum inside my wife’s pussy again. Again, as I watched the cum drip down her ass, she was getting what she wanted. She was going to feel this the rest of the night.
       
      They both started cleaning up a little and I slowly came out of the crowd that had gathered. She saw me and gave me that dirty little smile she sometimes gets. My wife asked me if I had enjoyed her show. She said she needed to have a little more cum in her pussy tonight and she now wanted mine. Her new little friend just kind of sat back in the corner and decided to watch us.
       
      I knew I wouldn’t last long because I had almost cum multiple times just watching her. With some of the crowd still watching I got undressed, and slid my wet with pre-cum cock into my wife’s cum-loaded pussy. I fucked her until she started cumming. Her cunt convulsed so hard that it squeezed my cock and made me start to cum. I came in her pussy, mixing my cum with my wife’s new fuck buddies cum. I pulled my cock out and watched it all slowly slide down her ass. She got up and went over to our young fuck buddy and she gave him a long passionate kiss and said thank you for such a great time. He gave her one last little finger fucking and handed her a card of his if we were ever in the area again.
       
      He left after he got dressed and we got cleaned up and went out to the main room. I had multiple people including women and even the bartender say that my wife was one of the women they would like to fuck if they ever got a chance after seeing her in action. I guess I’m the lucky one here.
       
      Later that night when we were driving to our resort, she slipped her hand down pants and put her fingers in her pussy. She brought them out and rubbed them on my face. She smiled and said we gotta do this again sometime as we pulled into the parking lot to call it a night.
       
      And what a night it was.
    • By SPaige24
      My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years. I have always been bi- curious, but kept it as secret until the last month. Little did I know that he had a small feeling (thanks to a few drunk nights with my friend). Our marriage is very strong, and we are very opened with each other. I told him that I wanted to have a have sexual encounter with another female. He is on board, and we even talked about a MFM threesome as well.
       
      Here is my issue... How do I find someone? That friend is no longer a friend, I can't do dating apps because of my job, and I personally don't want someone we know. I have looked into Swinger Clubs, and I realize that finding a bisexual/lesbian female who is single is hard. We are opened to a couple if need be. I just want my husband there and or involved.
       
      My question is... What is it like going to a swingers club? Will there be people our age (27-30), are "predators" real, and how do I find a club? We are located in Washington, PA.
    • By AdamGunn2
      It was a fairly typical night at D.J.s Island, an early autumn evening. Mary and I hadn’t set anything up in advance, we’d decided to go almost at the last moment. From the second we entered the door our radar was beaming across the club, searching for a couple that might be searching for what we were also interested in - an enjoyable tryst.
       
      Mary took a few minutes to change into what she called a ‘trolling outfit.’ As I remember, that night it was a black babydoll with a loose bodice, thong, low heels. Many men admired her legs as I checked the forty or so women, many as scantily clad as my wife. None of our regular playmates seemed to be in attendance that evening, but we had our customs, we weren’t concerned. Perhaps an hour and a half later, I sat at a table next to the dance floor, Mary was on her feet, on the parquet, moving her body, seeing if anyone would move in. A slow sequence of men approached her, danced with her. Some would take liberties such as moving their hands under her garment, feeling the small of her back, perhaps place their palm on the roundness of her ass.
       
      I’d seen this many times before, I waited for one of two reactions.
       
      The first was that she’d spin away from the man; it signified she wasn’t interested in what he had to offer.
       
      The second was that she’d get closer, I’d watch her whisper in his ear. I knew the question, “Where’s your wife?” Some of them would shake their heads, they were attending as one of the few single men the club allowed, and when they received Mary’s response, they’d move away - that’s not what we were looking for at the moment.
       
      But the man might indicate where his wife was dancing a few feet away. When this kind of thing happened, Mary would glance to me and give our special signal - she’d put one hand on the back of her head, one on her stomach. When I got the cue, I’d come out, we’d dance as a foursome.
       
      As I approached, a man grasped the elbow of a tall attractive lady who was more modestly dressed, at least for the club. There was no conversation on the dance floor, the heavy volume of music and the thumping of the bass wouldn’t allow for speech. But I could tell the woman was interested in me, the four of us paired off and I often found myself facing this vixen. It was obvious they were as interested in us as I was in them, I could tell by the way Mary was rubbing against the man that she felt the same.
       
      After a couple of songs, Mary led the way off the floor, holding his hand, leading us off into a corner away from the speakers. As we sat, the man said, “I’m Ed, this is my wife, Marilyn.”
       
      Marilyn and I softly shook hands, I believe she raised the hem of her skirt to give me a view of her upper thighs. Ed had no problem seeing Mary’s legs, or where they met - she was sitting so that the babydoll was gathered to her side, leaning forward so her globes were exposed to his view.
       
      “Do you come here often?” Ed asked.
       
      “Every few weeks,” I responded, “you?”
       
      “This is our first time here.” Mary gave him a look that asked for further info. “We’re just starting this,” he admitted.
       
      Marilyn picked it up. “We’ve only had one time with a couple of friends. We liked it, heard about this place, decided to see if we could get into more trouble.”
       
      “Trouble’s our middle name,” I joked.
       
      Our conversation continued, where do you live, what movies have you seen lately, etc. It was a screen, of course, we were all calculating if the four of us would be pleasurable bedmates. I paid my attention to Marilyn, my wife had told me numerous times not to worry about her, she can take care of herself. My hand found Marilyn’s knee, she smiled at me, encouraged me to reach a tad higher. We bent towards each other, our mouths met.
       
      Marilyn opened her lips to me, the kiss was ardent, her mouth moist. She licked at my upper lip, her hand fondled the back of my neck. Our tongues clashed, promising cupidity, mimicking what I presumed our bodies might be doing in a few scant moments.
       
      We broke for a moment, Marilyn invited, “Would you guys want to go to one of the rooms?”
       
      I, of course, was all for it, but then I heard Mary. “Uh, not right now. But thanks.”
       
      We’ve always had the guideline that if one person doesn’t want to do something, she speaks for both of us. Regretfully, I pecked at Marilyn’s lips a last time, we stood, went separate ways.
       
      “You’re not upset, are you?” Mary asked me.
       
      “Of course not, not at all. You’re not in the mood?”
       
      “Oh, I’m in the mood all right, just not with Ed.”
       
      “Something wrong with him?” I asked.
       
      “I tried to get him interested,” Mary revealed, “but his kiss was a little cold, indifferent. I put my hand on his leg, he was too busy watching you and Marilyn, he never responded. My guess is that if we went into a room, he’d be watching you two, I’m not even sure he’d get hard for me.” It was a reasonable thought, it had happened to us a couple times before. “Hope you don’t mind, bet she’d have been a firecracker.”
       
      “Maybe. But you’re a firecracker too.”
       
      We headed back to the dance floor, in search of another couple.
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