The Ride Home

[AdamInEve 28]

We were just wondering what the ride home was like after your very first swinging encounter? Was there any conversation? If so, who initiated it? How long was it before anyone said anything? What was the conversation about? Ect.....

[WesternSwing 504]

For our first swing encounter we went to a casino/hotel in Wendover, NV(about 100 miles from home) with another couple, so it was a long ride home the next day. We took our car and they took theirs, so we had plenty of privacy there and on the way back to talk.

 

The first 30 minutes was "Oh my god that was awesome!" The next 90 was me and the radio as Mrs. WS had fallen asleep (moving auto narcolepsy ).

 

Mr. WS

[SCcpl40 74]

We didn't make it all the way home without stopping to have sex. All the talk about what we did, what we want to do the next time, we got so horny, we pulled over and had great sex!

[fun4Ds 1,097]

Our conversation was allot of single words. Like WOW, and short phrases like Can you believe that, that was awesome, and then Mrs.fun just kept giving me the Hi Fives It was cold as hell out, and we only lived a few blocks away.( yep, we did the neighbors) At home, we did it on the kitchen floor, the dinning room table, the love seat and finally bed... Who knew ?

[NandDinDayton 26]

Ours was a lot of laughing and giggling with alot of wow's and awesomes thrown in. Then a hearty stop at the Waffle House with more laughing and not so innocent smirks and grins. The waitress probably thought we were crazy.....lol. Once back in the car, more of the same with a quick stop for a bit of heavy petting and some quick oral, then on home.

[Malachista 170]

Well, I did not have anyone to talk too, but in the train back home I was just thinking "OMG!! I DID IT!!!" over and over again.

I was quite confused as I did not plan to actually play that day, just have a look around the club, but got engaged in a MFM pretty soon after getting there

[havefuninsun 122]

Our first experience was about an hour and half (maybe more) away. After they left the hotel room, we had sex again, and then decided we'd rather drive home than spend the night (we were jacked up on adrenalin). We talked about how we felt about seeing each other with different people (it was a huge turn on), we talked about what it was like for me to have my first girl experience (it was awesome); we talked about what it was like to WATCH others having sex (I've never seen others having sex). The whole experience had a lot of firsts involved. It actually took several days to absorb it all and to process it.

 

We had great sex when we got home, too.

 

The conversation home was as much fun as anything else about the evening.

 

I'm very curious -- how 'bout you guys, AdamnEve??

[sweet_tna 680]

We had a 5-hour drive ahead of us the next day . . . I was so wound up, I was jumping out of my skin. Mr. Sweet had fun trying to get me off, but after nearly driving off the road a few times, we had to behave. We wanted so badly to pull over, but wanted to get to our hotel room as quick as possible. Of course, we talked about how much fun we had, how surprised we were that it didn't seem weird to us at all, and how we definitely wanted to keep doing it.

 

And when we FINALLY reached our hotel, we barely managed to get our room door closed!

 

=)

[talltim123 69]

We had our first mfmf at hotel an hour away and after a very lovely and exhilarating encounter where both ladies had their first bi encounter (this was to be the main feature of the meeting) It went well socially as well as intimately. Before this my ex and I had had great sex but very little talk about the specifics of our sexual times together.

 

This time there was much more communication about what had happened the night before as well as our feelings about it which were all positive. From then on out communication about sexual issues improved dramatically.

 

Sadly, over the next few years she progressively abused alcohol and wanted out of the marriage to pursue her "first love" of the moment which was the bottle. In retrospect I do not feel that our lifestyle experiences were significantly contributing factors to the breakup

[gatorvol64 216]

The first 30 minutes was "Oh my god that was awesome!" The next 90 was me and the radio as Mrs. WS had fallen asleep (moving auto narcolepsy ). Mr. WS

 

Our first experience was about 2 hours away so we had plenty of time to talk. However, it went a lot like that of WesternSwing. The awesomes were there but so was the sleeping. I go to sleep in a moving car myself. Which is my mother's fault. I got conditioned to do this at an early age. She used to put me to sleep that way. It got to where all she needed to do was start the car she said.

 

Vol

[bellady 16]

We had about a half hour ride home and we talked about it all the way, about everything that went on and how we felt and agreed we wanted to do it again... We have had only a few experiences so far but we talk about them in detail and end up horny all over again!

[Chris&Amelia 253]

Our first time was in a rented cabin, which we ended up staying an extra day in after our first time. So, by the time we actually went home, there really wasn't anything to be said. Just kinda had big ol' silly grins on our faces the entire way home...

[AdamInEve 28]

Well, Havefuninsun we are very new to the lifestyle so we haven't had an experience yet. Hence the question. We are slow movers I guess, but that's OK because we are going at a pace we are comfortable with. We both agree that after we have our first experience under our belts and the initial nervousness is gone we will be ready to pick up the pace. We have been to a club a few times and have met some great couples. One in particular that is really great and quickly becoming very good friends. We talked to them at length the last time we were there right down to the smallest details of swinging. They want to play but are giving us the time we need without any pressure. On that ride home we both agreed how we should have just taken the plunge that night so who knows maybe next time out we will be able to add our experience to this thread. Adam/Eve

[The Fuse 1,012]

We got in the car and closed the doors. Mr. Fuse looked at me, grinned a *huge* grin, and said "Well, honey, we're swingers!"

[Guest MrsVan]

Well, our first experience was at a club and there were things that went wrong during our experience at the club that the drive back to the hotel was miserable. I do not recall us saying much of anything that night. The next morning we got up and had a couple hour drive home and we were actually at that point able to talk about things and try to work through them.

 

It was rough but we survived it!!

 

MrsVan

[perkygl 26]

our first experience was at a nudist club and when we left for the night we just looked at one another and smiled. Hubby said "that was freaking awesome" !!!

 

We laughed and have used the same phrase ever since!!!

[AdultSocials 15]

We were at a house party and had to drive 45 min home with our single friend in the car. My SO and her talked about the people that were there (since they knew alot of the people) while I drove. My SO and I didn't say much of anything about it until after we got home and had sex with each other.

[Hot Raleigh Cpl 164]

I'd been swinging since the '70s with various women I dated. When L and I first got together, she never had, but she was full of excited, curious questions. She loved the thought of instant sex with whomever.

 

On our third date I took L to an adult bookstore, her first time inside one. In the video arcade, she did 4 guys -- one right after another -- in a video booth. A big, big first for her. Pretty hot for me, too.

 

As we left the place, we were no sooner out the door when she exclaimed "No WONDER so many people love this!" The air crackled with L's excitement. We didn't make it home. Went to a nearby motel and screwed each other's brains out for several hours. It was hot, hotter than anything she'd ever done. And one of the hottest things I'd ever done. We couldn't wait for more.

 

On our fourth date, needless to say, we started out at the adult bookstore again. We've been playing ever since. Our various adventures are not only good sex, they make us hotter for each other, and we enjoy sharing the excellent experiences.

 

We still joke about her initial reaction: "No WONDER so many people love this!"

[robnsusan60 43]

Our first experience was at a club and we had a 90 minute drive home afterward. The 'jumping out of the skin' remark earlier comes to mind, as well a lot of one word sentences... 'wow'... 'damn'... progressing to three worders, .... 'that was amazing', etc. We talked mostly about her side of the experience because, as I was to find later, she wasn't thrilled with mine as it, well, involved another female who made the mistake of complimenting me in front of her. That's a different thread.

 

Once we got into her story, details, her feelings, how she enjoyed him, and my questions, we were overdosing on adrenalin. We'd been married ten years at the time and after arriving at home around 2am we suddenly realized that the light spilling into our bedroom was the morning sun. We had found something very new and exciting in each other.

[personal416 71]

Our first experience was about an hour drive away, and the conversation was incredible!! I think it started the minute we backed out of the driveway, and continued the entire drive. It's difficult to say who spoke first as we were both eager to share how we felt.

 

It took the detail of our communication to a whole new level. Not only was it an awesome "session debrief", but it made us hot and excited all over again, resulting in more hot play at home.

 

It is something that we look forward to every time now, providing a good opportunity to "reconnect" with each other, and get all hot and bothered all over again!

[intuition897 2,179]

We usually didn't swing close to home, so anytime we got together with anyone, we ended up staying over close by. The very first time we did a full swap was at our own house, actually and our first remarks were along the lines of "Why the hell did we wait so LONG to do this?! That was freakin' awesome!!"

 

The very first swinging encounter - soft-swap - was at a couple's house. We stayed over at their place that night in the spare room. OMG, we couldn't stay off of one another! Not a lot of talking going on at all then... On the way home though we rehashed the whole thing in excruciating detail and talked about what we liked and didn't like. What we loved and what we were afraid of.

 

I remember one weekend, way back when we were first exploring the possibility of swinging, that we talked about my fantasy of being with another woman. At the time, a friend of mine was going through a rough time in her marriage, and she stayed overnight one night. Our kids were the same age, so it was a kiddie sleepover. I knew she was curious about bi-sex, too, so there was some...strange tension at bedtime. Nothing came of it, of course (kinky sex + kids on the premises = bad situation) but upon sharing the idea of getting it on with this friend of mine, I'm surprised that our sheets didn't spontaneously combust. We sent our daughter to Grandma's house for the weekend and the whole weekend - and I mean quite literally 2 days straight - we ate, we slept (a little), we used the bathroom, and we screwed. Any talking we did was about the fantasy. I'm not exaggerating here. I was totally exhausted by Monday. And sore.

[AdamInEve 28]

OK, so I guess it is finally our turn. We had been asked what our ride home was like after our first experience and even though this post is about two weeks late we will be glad to share. We were supposed to meet the other couple at a club but when we got there, a single gal we all knew was there as well so our foursome actually turned into a fivesome which caught us off guard but in a very incredable way. When we got in the car to leave, Eve turned to me and said, "we did it" to which I replied, "yep, I guess were swingers". The half hour ride home was full of smiles as we rehashed the whole evening. We continued rehashing the evening for almost the whole next week. Glad we could share, A/E

[ktimephoenix 156]

our ride home was in a cab, so not much was said. when we got home it was lots of "are you sure you enjoyed it" "yes, are you sure".

 

once we both made sure the other wasn't upset... it kinda just exploded into "man that was the hottest/most fun/most arousing/most everything else feeling ever"

[nhcpl1968 18]

We talked all the way home .we both got turned on again on the way she actually broke out her toys and got her self off

[willyoats 324]

Our first full swap experience was with the owners of a swing club at their house on a Thursday night. Just the four of us. It was really great for me but ho-hum for my wife. Immediately after we finished the sex, we all went to their hot tub to "cool off." The other woman jumped in her husband's lap, and I think they had more sex right there. I cuddled with my wife and felt absolutely wonderful. No significant words passed between us that I can remember. However, she knew just from the nonverbal cues, that I loved it.

 

Then we left to go back to our motel. The conversation centered around whether we would stay around for the weekend party. The decision was up to me because I was the initiator of the swinging idea, while my wife was indifferent to it. She could take it or leave it. I finally decided that we would stay. We did, and that night was followed by many years of wonderful swinging times.