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You know that movie about the guys that are dying and make their "kick the bucket list", I have been thinking about the things I want to experience in my sexual life before I kick the bucket.

 

1. A pitch black party, the room is pitch black and no one knows who is who, it's all just about the bodies and the sex. (I am mentally trying to figure out how to work the mandatory condom issue. I imagine glow in the dark condoms bouncing around :lol:).

 

2. I also fantasize about a very comfy house party where the expectation is for sex without the need for small talk. Upon arrival, there would be bathing and massages with exotic oils, donning small robes and then entrance into the orgy site. No chit chat, "where do you work", "have you been here before". Nothing but "let's see what our bodies feel like together".

 

3. I also imagine a blindfolded gang bang with someone watching over me for safety reasons. I think this one will stay in the imaginary realm, it doesn't quite make it to the "bucket list". (But I'll keep it handy if I get to fulfill the other two).

 

So what's on your sexual bucket list?

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1. Sex in a hot air balloon

 

2. Masked orgy in a dark room with people we know (we should get together on that one ;) )

 

3. Sex under a waterfall

 

4. Sex on a beach in a foreign country, preferably Greece

 

Mrs. D

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(I am mentally trying to figure out how to work the mandatory condom issue. I imagine glow in the dark condoms bouncing around :lol:).

 

That would look like a bunch of Luke Skywalkers and Darth Vaders engaged in a fight to the death.

Or is it a bunch of Dark Helmets and Lone Stars? (Love me some Spaceballs)

 

I don't know that we have anything exciting left on our list.

 

I think, the final thing, will be one that will have to wait for a while hopefully:

-To go while orgasming.

-Make that after orgasming.

 

 

/May the Force be with you!

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That would look like a bunch of Luke Skywalkers and Darth Vaders engaged in a fight to the death.

Or is it a bunch of Dark Helmets and Lone Stars? (Love me some Spaceballs)

 

I don't know that we have anything exciting left on our list.

 

I think, the final thing, will be one that will have to wait for a while hopefully:

-To go while orgasming.

-Make that after orgasming.

 

 

/May the Force be with you!

 

"She's going from SUCK . . . to BLOW!"

 

For me, it would be to have sex in a car, sex on the beach, and finally get those "training wheels" off (even if I put 'em back on, I'd like to try just once).

 

 

=)

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Mosmis,

 

Invite me to your parties! I want to do those, too.

 

Add:

 

1) An all-girl orgy.

 

2) A pantiless party where the men's hand are free to roam.

 

3) A gang-bang (I'm working on this one).

 

....and too many others to type!

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There is a swinger friendly boat club around here I would like to check out someday.

 

Soooooo.......

 

A boat party-orgy out on the lake.

 

To see my wife taken care of by a boat load of women.

Then they take care of me.

 

A boat party at night and watch her take care of everybody.

A boat party at night and watch everybody take care of her.

 

Have sex with my wife out on the lake, at night-pitch black, with a bilion stars out.

This we have done.

 

Hell, anything on a boat is fun. Can you tell I like boats?

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What a GREAT thread, mosmis! We still have a whole bucket-full of bucket list items. It seems like every time we get together with another couple (and sometimes singles) we find new things that we enjoy and that leads to other thoughts of what we might like to do.

 

Our Mrs would love to have totally anonymous semi-public sex (safe sex of course) with someone. No names, no small talk. Just lift the skirt and go at it.

 

Our Mr still has not experienced a F-M-F.

 

Many others...but my mind clouds over with the possibilities. I just basically just stopped in to say that I thought the subject was a fantastic one.

 

Congrats!!!!

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Naughty nurse at the docs office

 

realestate agent while checking out a house

 

Hmmmm

 

the others mentioned sound good too

 

:facelick:

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Sex on the beach

 

watching a all girl orgy

 

dark room orgy on can feel not see

 

a MFF threesome

 

watching two women strip each other fully clothed then make out then fuck me.

 

wanting a women to enjoy sex and being together as much as I do

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I realise that racewalker but theres still noway of avoiding the sand unless your very very careful, which to me takes out the fun , have you ever licked a gritty clitty ? I guess after living on sharma shek beach in Israel for 18 months Im kinda over sand.

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Go to a sex resort

 

I like the pitch black party idea

 

Get my wife all dressied up to go out on a fuck date, while I stayed home.

 

Do the tie me up and I watch her get pounded by 2 black guys thing again

 

See my wife sneak off at one of the socials and get laid...again...

 

Have a regular couple or fuck buddy.

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If done right sex on the beach sand does not have to be a problem many ways sex can be done.

 

Having left the beach with gritty clitty and an ass full of sand to boot, I gotta ask... what IS the right way to have sex on the beach? Standing up?

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Having left the beach with gritty clitty and an ass full of sand to boot, I gotta ask... what IS the right way to have sex on the beach? Standing up?

(Placing tongue firmly in cheek)

Having been impressed at an early age by the beach scene in "From Here To Eternity" and therefore pretty much prone to experimentation, we've arrived at the following: The idea is to keep the connecting, moving parts away from the sand (rumor has it that sand is an exceptionally poor lubricant!)... Sooo -

 

In a net hammock suspended between two trees!

 

But, yeah, if you wannna get all athletic with it...standing up can work too! ::P:

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I don't want to think of kicking the bucket but if it happens?

 

I'm a pretty happy guy these days :hahaha:

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Oh, one of our specialities....we've done beaches all over the world. Isn't that what they're there for?

 

Correct beach version:

 

Put down clean towel. Put clean man on towel, lying on his back. Have woman straddle him and go for it.

 

....and you can always do it in the shallow water! Sand washes off....just get used to the barracudas eyeing you!

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Bucket list...

 

In a limo. Driver welcome to watch and maybe...

 

Have an MFF. We've done MMF, MFMF...

 

Glory hole for her...

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1. Glory hole for her in an adult theatre somewhere.

 

2. Find her a bareback play partner

 

3. Halle Berry - all mine :D

 

4. Sex in a Limo

 

I think I'll get all these done before I list anymore.

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Having left the beach with gritty clitty and an ass full of sand to boot, I gotta ask... what IS the right way to have sex on the beach? Standing up?

 

I like sex in the water -- no problems with sand! Best done with beautiful palm trees on the beach, and clear, calm water.

 

Left to try is sex totally underwater with scuba gear on. Anyone done that?

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Sadly, or maybe not so sadly, I don't have many items on the bucket list. The only one that I can think of is being the "entertainment" for a group of guys who are watching football, or playing poker. I serve them drinks, service them and welll.....

 

Draw your own conclusions :D

 

Pepper

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I like sex in the water -- no problems with sand! Best done with beautiful palm trees on the beach, and clear, calm water.

 

Left to try is sex totally underwater with scuba gear on. Anyone done that?

 

 

Not yet... but then 40F Great Lakes water has been known to cause "turtling" or other "temperature inversion" maladies. :lol:

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10 men and 10 women throw their names in a hat and pull out 1 m and 1 f...that is your partner for the night and you must perform in front of the rest of the group

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Sadly, or maybe not so sadly, I don't have many items on the bucket list. The only one that I can think of is being the "entertainment" for a group of guys who are watching football, or playing poker. I serve them drinks, service them and welll.....

 

Draw your own conclusions :D

 

Pepper

 

Can I come over to your house and watch some football?:D

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good times said:
Can I come over to your house and watch some football? :D

 

I was just wondering if she liked NASCAR! :D

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My bucket list:

 

1. Visit a swingers resort where anything goes. Tina and I could have sex when ever and where ever with who ever.

 

2. Have an full blown orgy with all my friends. Mostly out of curiosity.

 

3. That blacked out room idea sounds like fun

 

4. Tina and I could be dropped off on a remote desert island all alone with supplies and shelter ofcoarse. We could have the place to ourselves to do as we please

 

5. Be a male stripper at an all girls party - I don't have the body for it but it would be fun.

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We have done just about everything possible in the lifestyle over the years. I'd like to make love to an old girlfriend. She, however, says that wish is just obsessive fantasy and I should get over it. I'll take that for a "no."

 

One thing about retirement is that I have enough free time to fantasize without it interfering with making a living. Shrinks say it's an obsession when it interferes with daily living. So far, it doesn't seem to be doing that. The Mrs and I have a lot of sex, and tomorrow I have a date with a really cute Korean girl I like.

 

I'll get over the old girlfriend!

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OK I'm going to get it for this... :blush: but I am a little kinky/sick/and warped:lol:

 

 

I want to make love to my gal... under a full moon in a cemetery:rolleyes:

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I have three.

1. on a sail boat off cozumel under the afternoon sun!

2. Being one of the men in a blindfold GB for Mrs. CXXC.

3. Me and Mrs. CXXC sharing our bed with another lady for the night! Hey! There is plenty of room! Mrs. CXXC is tiny!

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truckerbuddy said:
OK I'm going to get it for this... :blush: but I am a little kinky/sick/and warped :lol:

 

I want to make love to my gal... under a full moon in a cemetery :rolleyes:

 

Sweetheart, as per our previous conversation about this......I STILL say, your going to have to take the bottom, 'cuz when those BONEY, skeletal hands pop out of the ground, they are going to touch YOU first......hence giving me plenty of time to run for help! :lol:

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Lots of great ideas here already....But here are a few of mine.

 

Hubby arrange a controlled GB and me blindfolded the entire time.

 

Love the dark room idea.

 

House party with selected ppl then have a all out wild weekend.

 

Melody

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We've done a ton of wild things over the 12 or so years that we've been in the lifestyle, but here's our list:

 

- Go to a sex resort

 

- My wife goes out on a fuck date while I stayed home

 

- I go out on a fuck date while she stayed home (My wife has been pushing me to do this for the last couple of months)

 

- Sex in a limo.

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lovers said:
- Sex in a limo.

OK, I like that one.

 

JoAnn continues to goad me about having sex in the blue room of a commercial airliner while at-altitude. Seems to be her wish before she goes. The image it brings to my mind is having a long and uncomfortable conversation in a closed and stuffy room with a group of blue-shirt TSA people.

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RE: sex in a Limo

 

The nudist/swing resort where we used to live in the summer had a guy there who owned a limo service. It was pretty common for him to offer rides to anyone who wanted to use one for sex. Thanks, Tom!

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OK, I like that one.

 

JoAnn continues to goad me about having sex in the blue room of a commercial airliner while at-altitude. Seems to be her wish before she goes. The image it brings to my mind is having a long and uncomfortable conversation in a closed and stuffy room with a group of blue-shirt TSA people.

 

DON'T GET ME STARTED ON THE TSA Mouth breathers!!!

 

That being said, It would be kinda fun!

 

I guess I would have to add the Mile High club!

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CXXC,

 

We did a nude cruise off the coast of Cancun while staying at Desire last year ('08) and did the sailboat fantasy. The crew and the rest of the boaters watched and then things got really freaky. Girls on girls, girls on guys, guys on girls and so on and so forth.

 

Now to the "list"...

 

I'd like Mrs. Ekies to set-up a date with a male or female friend or a couple without my knowledge and then "invite" me to lunch and tell me what's about to happen...I'd probably fall over dead...with a smile. :D

 

Me, Mrs. Ekies and two women...one cowgirl style, one licking me and the cowgirl where we're joined and another with her ass firmly planted on my face...whew!

 

For Mrs. Ekies...two single males...very well endowed (7" long by VERY thick, her words) and me watching, filming and whatever she wants...again, whew!

 

Travel a long distance for a week of swinging...meet a couple in the moments after arrival and have them be as uninhibited as we are...and trying a few things I might not readily admit to...

 

There are many more...

 

Trace

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6 point male glory hole for her :facelick: and a 6 point female glory hole for me :facelick:

 

(Then maybe swap places :facelick:)

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CXXC,

 

Now to the "list"...

 

I'd like Mrs. Ekies to set-up a date with a male or female friend or a couple without my knowledge and then "invite" me to lunch and tell me what's about to happen...I'd probably fall over dead...with a smile. :D

 

Me, Mrs. Ekies and two women...one cowgirl style, one licking me and the cowgirl where we're joined and another with her ass firmly planted on my face...whew!

 

For Mrs. Ekies...two single males...very well endowed (7" long by VERY thick, her words) and me watching, filming and whatever she wants...again, whew!

 

Travel a long distance for a week of swinging...meet a couple in the moments after arrival and have them be as uninhibited as we are...and trying a few things I might not readily admit to...

 

There are many more...

 

Trace

 

Now that's just hot. Ever make it to North Carolina??? :lol:

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NCfuncouple,

 

You asked, "Ever make it to North Carolina?"

 

YES...:D

 

We've been known to take the Jeep to the mountains in western North Carolina on occasion.

 

Trace

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I think the only general fantasies to put in the list so far is the blackout party. Haven't done that one. Everything else would be personal things that wouldn't be too exciting to anyone else: i.e. certain personal friends I'd like to see leave the Vanilla world.

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Naughty nurse at the docs office

 

realestate agent while checking out a house

 

Hmmmm

 

the others mentioned sound good too

 

:facelick:

 

doctors office: been there done that.. not at a doctors office but at a hospital!! when i was admitted there...she did come in to give me a sponge bath!! but saw that i had a bonner from hell and she cleaned me up pretty good!!

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I fantasize about being taken submissive. Brutally. (I know thats sick) and she straps on a big one and penentrates me, as she is doing it with another woman orally, as another woman is sitting on my face. (WOW, too much time on my hands to fantasize, eh?) I think about doing it with several women and men all of the time.

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Having left the beach with gritty clitty and an ass full of sand to boot, I gotta ask... what IS the right way to have sex on the beach? Standing up?

 

thats one thing we have never figured out.. SAND all over is not FUN!!! especially in the intimate body parts..

 

One of the things on my bucket list is .. sex while 30 to 40 ft underwatner .. while scuba diving.. now that would be fun!!!

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1. being the object of attention of 10 young model type girls for a day

2. Two well endowed young men being my slaves for a day, or night

3. being on an exotic island which is nude only sex anytime anywhere with anyone

4. watching my man with several young ladies being please in everyway

5. watching my man enjoy two well endowed young men!!!!

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