How often do you masturbate & when?

[hotbody1and2 17]

I do it on every day ending in Y. sometimes twice. I think I am getting more horny as I get older. Is that normal?

[jdavisauto 73]

For me it's about twice a month or so. Thanks to cancer and all the meds, things have slow down in my life. Now for my lady half it seems that she is masturbating more and more every month. Sometimes I wonder why she even puts up with my shit. She is a great women and does deserves a hell of a lot better.

[Curiosity0725 15]

how often?... depending on how often i'm with my wife but it could range from 1-5 times a week... but... if i take a "sick day" from work and i'm at home alone with the internet all day... it is generally 2-3 times a day.

[sweet_tna 680]

For me it's about twice a month or so. Thanks to cancer and all the meds, things have slow down in my life. Now for my lady half it seems that she is masturbating more and more every month. Sometimes I wonder why she even puts up with my shit. She is a great women and does deserves a hell of a lot better.

 

Just a shot in the dark here, but I'm guessing she loves you and blames the cancer, and not you for that sh*t. Hell, I don't even know you and wouldn't blame you a bit! Give yourself a break . . .

 

 

=)

[JustMrJ 178]

Well, let's see now... not that I'm actually admitting to masturbating... but if I were to do that, it would be quite often... more so when my wife has her 'cycle'.

 

Seriously though, when I was younger, it was MUCH more often. I still wake up with erections, but I've slacked off on taking care of every one of them.

 

I have gotten my wife off with just my fingers, so I guess that is mutual masturbation.

 

Not sure how often she does, I'll have to point her to this thread and see if I can get her to fess up...

[Chris&Amelia 253]

Well, let's see now... not that I'm actually admitting to masturbating...

 

I have a friend who swears up and down that he hasn't masturbated since High School. "I don't need too," he tells us.

 

In return, I pointed out that 80% of men admit to masturbating. And the other 20% are liars.

[Lyssa B 15]

Well, I masturbate a lot as a part of foreplay; my husband loves to watch, and I get a pretty big kick from him watching, frankly. That's usually 2 or 3 times a week there.

 

Otherwise, by myself, maybe twice a week, sometimes more. Mostly when he's at work, and I'm feeling lazy and self-indulgent.

 

My husband says he hardly masturbates to orgasm anymore, because he is trying to keep up with my appetite for sex! We're both 50.

[fun4Ds 1,098]

Who, me....... Never

[ALilOEverything 901]

I posted about this at great lengths a few years before and the answer to this day is still the same:

 

NEVER

 

And the sad thing is... I want to enjoy it so bad. I'm completely envious of those who can enjoy themselves by themselves. The last time I even attempted was when I accept advice here on the boards. I was probably trying too hard at that time, but it's not like it comes naturally for me (pun intended?) I'm very comfortable touching myself, I just derive no pleasure from it. I honestly feel like I'm missing out.

[Begood03 15]

I do it just about everyday. Mrs. Begood03 does it about twice a week.

[Miss Sunshine 29]

We masturbate often, alone and together. He also sets me up when I work out of the house. I will find my toys and some videos all ready to go and I will take advantage of it, I call his cell phone which is shut off during work and will let him listen in so he has my orgasms, many, on his phone when he turns it on. We have great fun with it.

[GreatCoupleNY 16]

A for instance. I was home one day last week while the wife had to work and the kids were at the sitters. Try as I might I jerked off twice. I told the wife about it.

Most times now when I jerk off I do it while the wife watches. It's become a bit of a turn

on to jerk off to completion while she licks my balls and rubs a vibrator all over my cock balls and ass. I love it.

I've told her that some day I'd like to jerk off in front of her and one of her girl friends. Of course it would have to be a girl that we'd had a 3 some with. But the though of both of them fully clothed watching me jerk off and cum is very erotic for me.

[PeterJ 934]

On 6/3/2008 at 4:20 AM, WeUse said:

Anyone have a thing for masturbating on an airplane - either one's self or the person in the seat next to you?

The post above, in response to a query by board founder Just Ask Julie (who I wish well and also wish were still here) is from 14 years ago. I did have a (vicarious) airliner masturbation experience once, some years before 2008.

 

During one part of my career I flew more than 60 legs per year, fortunately most in business or first class. One morning I was seated on the aisle in first class next to a tallish, fairly attractive and well dressed woman. This was into the era when people no longer routinely engaged row-mates in conversation and she and I didn’t speak a word over the course of the flight.
 

After the flight attendant had cleared the breakfast service my seat mate read a magazine for a while and then reclined her seat, pulled her blanket (remember when airlines routinely passed out blankets even on flights of just a few hours duration?) over her lap and up over her shoulders, and then closed her eyes. I wasn't really paying her any attention — I was probably reading the WSJ or working on my laptop. But then I noticed that a bit of the blanket adjacent to the seat rest between us was gently but rhythmically bumping up and down. As it would from an elbow if she were stroking her pussy with her hand but somewhat moving her entire forearm. I don’t recall how long this went on, but it was more than just a couple of minutes. She then didn’t stir for a long time. While she was snoozing I noticed that the magazine she had been "reading", now on the floor by her feet, featured nude men.  (Yeah, it later occurred to me she might not have been a CIS woman, but if that was the case, she passed very well.)

 

It was an interesting experience from my perspective. I have some voyeuristic tendencies and since my early 20s I’ve found it very hot watching my wives and girlfriends masturbate. (Once I got involved in the lifestyle, at sex parties and orgies I enjoy watching other participants — men as well as women — masturbate.) But I found watching my anonymous seat-mate presumably masturbating under her blanket a gently compelling mix of mild turn-on and at the same time sorta weird. And sufficiently compelling that a couple of decades later it’s still a pretty vivid memory.

[Numex 2,400]

Hardly ever.  My wife is younger, so she is always ready to go when I am, and when I'm not or not around or she wants a different dick or wants pussy, she visits another couple in our play group.  

[MidLifeFun 147]

Me not often, her and her toys much more often and I encourage her. 

[let's do it again 412]

I masturbate when I need to take the edge off. Masturbating before bed is the best sleeping pill that I know.