How many straight guys have taken a finger?

[phreakykouple 16]

Do any guys like to have vibrators on their nuts or vibrations of some sort? How many men have taken a finger in the ole' poop chute while you and your wife were in a heated sex moment and liked it? Do you like it done on a regular basis? Women, do you like doing it?

[BryanKleist 15]

The most I've taken is my wife's pinky finger. It wasn't unpleasant, but it did absolutely nothing for me sexually. As a male it was interesting to experience what it feels like to be penetrated. To be truthful, it felt more like an examination than sex-play!

[ANGEDKY(mr) 100]

People give me the finger all the time.....Oh wait, that wasn't what you meant. Nevermind then:D

[socolais 696]

It's all part of just enjoying good sex. Crooked vibe, energetic finger.... if it feels good, do it!

[bryanlee 147]

I have had it done, although not recently. My lady and I were talking the other day about doing more of it though. I think some associate it with being bi or being less of a man, but i say if it feels good...do it.

[3sumff 31]

I have never done it, nor would I consider it.

[willyoats 324]

One of the first experiences I had was with a woman on her hands and knees on the edge of the bed, while I was standing and doing her from behind. Suddenly, my wife stuck her finger in my ass. It was a terrific sensation. I loved it.

 

Much later, at times when she could not have intercourse, we had mutual masturbation which usually included her finger or a small toy in my ass.

 

A couple of women I have sex with who themselves have had many, many guys, say that they know lots of guys who like a finger in or around the anus. I don't think that is any sign of being gay. It just means you have found something that feels good and you go with it.

[crazi429 16]

Personally I love any play with my butt hole but have no desire for any thing to do with another guy. I found many years ago that it feels really good when done right and make sex much better.

[VIPsex 15]

I've had a vibrator put between my legs while she gave me a great oral. It is the best feeling ever. Shes also tried putting her finger in me while sucking. That feels great also.

[Rockon 19]

I enjoy a finger while I am getting blown.

 

I can see how it is not for everyone but worth a try for sure.

[newlythree 34]

Well, in all actuality, there are many,many nerve endings around the anus. And stimulating them does not make you gay or bi, contrary to popular belief.

 

Several times the Mrs. will put a finger in my butt while giving me head. Even a small vibrator at times, and boy-oboy what a sensation.

 

Is it for everybody? No. But those of us who like...LOVE it!

[sweet_tna 680]

Mr. Sweet has never shown any interest, so I haven't tried it.

[ktimephoenix 156]

I have had vibrators etc put on my balls. some feel good, others slightly sickening. i don't know if it's due to the different intensities, or whether i was just more open to the idea sometimes rather than others. i do know that there are times i can't stand them being played with during head, and others i love it, so it's possible. we have a vibrating massage glove, and that has always felt good.

 

I occasionally enjoy a finger penetrating my arse during head...

 

very occasionally... most other times i'm far too ticklish back there, or it just feels disgusting. I let Mrs P know when i'm clear for landing, and she can decide to play till her hearts content... or not depending on what she feels. since she has grown her nails, the mood strikes me ALOT LESS...

 

It took me a LONG time to get comfortable with it tho. i enjoyed the feeling physically but afterwards, i felt used, and very sexually confused. that was with another ex. with mrs P, I don't feel confused or "gay". both because of the bond we share, and because i have come a long way with my sexual confidence.

 

the first time i asked her whether she'd do it or not, i did start with "you might think i'm bi for asking this, but i assure you i'm not"

[webbguy 27]

I love having my girl finger my ass, the prostate is very sensitive and makes you cum like you have never came before when massaged.

[Trace Ekies 186]

I have on a regular basis for years and love it.

 

The right amount of pressure at exactly the right time can make for some explosive orgasms.

[CallMeLoki 32]

Ive had a vibrator put between my legs while she gave me a great oral. It is the best feeling ever. Shes also tried putting her finger in me while sucking. That feels great also.

 

Ditto that. A vibe moved around slowly feels quite good while getting blown. I like a finger or small vibe in the booty too, but not that frequently...I really have to be in the mood for it. And I agree, if it feels good, do it! Nothing gay about it at all, IMO.

[2inSanDiego4u 181]

Nothing gay about it at all, IMO.

 

A male friend of ours once said, "Whatever it is, if a lady is doing it to you, it's not gay."

[SecretAsianMan 348]

I've had a couple of gals do that... very intense & I like it.

[ohash01 20]

My current partner loves having his prostate massaged or having me finger him. If I have personally scrubbed his behind, I will use my tongue too. He loves it and I love giving him pleasure. We tried a strap-on, but, well, that didn't go so well...however, we are considering giving it another go, so I must not have terrified him TOO much.

[JoCoCpl 99]

A friend-with-benefits gave me a prostate massage during a BJ once - it was amazing! Mrs JoCo doesn't seem interested, though to be honest, the subject hasn't come up.

 

I do like a mild vibrator on the balls - it's just a different kind of sensation. Variety IS the spice of life.

 

I also go along with the philosophies of, "if it feels good, do it" and the "if a girl does it to you, it isn't gay."

[eskimo 18]

I never showed any interest, but my wife tried it and I really like it. Sometimes you just have to be open to things, you never know what you might like!

[Chris&Amelia 253]

You know, I've never had it done to me... but I wouldn't mind trying. If anything, just to satisfy my curiosity. Heck, maybe I would like it. Who knows?

 

I would just like to know that it's coming though (no pun intended). While I normally like surprises, in this case... not so much so.

 

"Ooooh, baby, you sucking on me feels so good. Yeah... keep going. Oh, yeeeYEEEOOOOWW! WHAT THE HECK?!?"

[jdavisauto 73]

Never had it done, never talked about it. that don't mean that I will never do it. In the heat of passion if the lady so wants to, then I may let her. I think that it's a matter of choice. If you like it then do it, if you don't then don't do it. It don't make you bi, gay or even straight, it's haveing a sexual experience with something other then intercourse. All men have at one time or another masterbated, does that change your sexual preference, no it don't so why should this? That's what so great about this lifestyle, It Don't Judge You!

Sex is hereditary, chances are if your parents never had sex, neither will you.

[jdavisauto 73]

"Ooooh, baby, you sucking on me feels so good. Yeah... keep going. Oh, yeeeYEEEOOOOWW! WHAT THE HECK?!?"

 

So that was you we heard in the private room the other night. Damn I hope that she used Lube!:lol:

[hotbody1and2 17]

While I am by no means gay, a finger placed in the right position inside the male hole can lead to a most intense orgasim. Technically it is called a prostate massage and any man who has had it done correctly will tell you that it is one of the most intense releases that thay have ever had. you can find out more about a prostate massage by goggling it.

 

As for the vibrator question, I have found (just speaking for myself that is) that I can use one very selectively on the head of my penis but no where else. My partner is not allowed to use it because when used on the wrong places it can be very painful.

 

I hope this helps.

[Curiosity0725 15]

just had this convo with my wife yesterday. we've never really discussed it but she gave me the impression that a guy wanting that would come across as being gay to her.

 

my thoughts is that being homosexual requires you to have some kind of interest/attraction to the same sex and has nothing to do with shoving things in your holes.... i'm open for just about anything but i don't think she'd ever be open to that.

 

a little bit on a side note... i have on occasion licked her anus (i prefer to not say "rimjob" so whatever) and she hasn't complained and appears to like it. i think i surprised her with that the first time i did it... but, i must admit, that first time was more of a drunken 69-slip up.

[Wifeypoo 42]

Hubby loves it! Once we figured that out we experimented with all sorts of things. When in the right mood, even strapping on a toy and dominating him is something he likes...but that IS a LOT of work for me. I have to hand it to the guys here...those abdominal muscles used so naturally while thrusting...don't come so easily to me. He isn't in to men at all, but the idea of me having that kind of contol and dominance over him coupled with the extremely powerful orgasm that is achieved when your prostate is being pressured...well, worth the sweat : ). Other things that are enjoyable include having just the outside stimulated (or licked), or a good old fashion finger. I have to admit that I'm not that into the finger or licking. Mostly because I have a very sensitive nose and I don't want to stop playing to go wash my hand if there is any odor at all. So I bought a box of gloves. We don't do it that often so I also use them for our first aid kit and ugly household chores! With the licking...I got baby wipes and incorporate it into play as gracefully as possible. He is incredibly clean...this IS just a mental thing for me. I work in healthcare and am probably becoming neurotic about some things. I'm okay with poop being one of them. I like doing things for him that he is totally into even if they aren't my favorites. He does things for me that aren't his favorite either. If it were all one sided, I might feel differently of course. Then there are ALL the things we both like equally. BONUS!

[M&S 266]

For me, I like a finger up the butt, but it is very rare and more an exotic, rather than an erotic, experience.

 

I had never had a finger up there until a few years ago. It was out first threesome and the woman we were with did it while she was rubbing my cock with her other hand. It felt very exotic; not necessarily great or stimulating, but exotic. Since my wife hates ass play, it is something I only do when we are with someone else. I think that, because of this, I consider it a little exotic and like it because of that.

[IEcouple 222]

There was a stretch in my mid-20s when it seemed like a lot of women thought that using a finger during a blow job was a great "sex trick". I don't know if they all read the same article in Cosmo or what, but then they got annoyed when I didn't respond to it.

 

Apparently my ass isn't an erogenous zone. It didn't hurt or make me uncomfortable, but it wasn't fun either. It was a lot like if she had stuck her finger in my belly button. Not really a big deal, but it's pretty distracting if you're trying to enjoy yourself.

[Chicup 41]

Funny thing about this thread is that while its not my thing, I don't know why its a "gay/straight" dividing line.

 

Another man with his finger up your ass. Gay or doctor.

A woman with her finger up your ass. Not gay or doctor.

 

Or maybe a gay doctor...

[a_d_xxx 663]

Agreed Chicup,

 

Quote: It's not what you do, it's who you do it with.*

 

*Sorry, quote will have to remain unattributed, 'cause I cannot for the life of me remember where I heard it.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I had a girlfriend who not only loved putting her finger in my ass but her vibrator also. It felt great! We bought a double ended dildo so one end could be in her ass and one in mine while we masturbated ourselves. Not once did I ever feel "gay". It made her really horny to play with my ass and I was loving her being really horny. Do I miss that? Yes. I wish more women would slide a finger in my ass while they are sucking me.

[Lascivious L&L 866]

It never ceases to amaze me the level of ignorance today about what is gay. People are gay, actions are not. Gay is a sexual preference, not an action. The act of fucking a man in the ass is not gay; it's people who are gay. A woman doing anything to a man's ass is never gay. An act is an act, whether sexual or not. Gay is the person not the act.

 

Sad also is the level of fear of being called gay, especially when ignorance suggests an act makes you gay.

 

To not have experienced a strap-on in your ass makes a man inexperienced in what it feels like to be penetrated. To understand penetration physically enables a man to be a better lover. Fearing it only makes you fearful.

[Guest newplaytoys]

mmmmmmm very nice

[bogeyman 31]

My two favorite ways of doing this; 1. in the bathtub laying back with my legs upon the sides of the tub and the wife sitting between my legs stroking my cock and fingering my ass. The second in the shower, standing bent over, with her behind me on her knees, essentially milking my cock like you would milk a cow and simultaneously finger fucking my ass. Incredible orgasms!

[bWest 15]

Best orgasms I have ever had was when a finger/toy was in m ass. I would suggest all men to try it at least once! Use lots of lube.

[mongo_couple 15]

So many man who refuse to try out thing with argument "that's gay" are just plain afraid that they will become gay. Well... in most cases that's true. That fear (phobia) of becoming gay is not coming from nowhere. Deeply inside they know what they are and what might happen when they let themselves go. Swinging and group play for single guys is only legal way of having sex with or close to other guy without labeled "fag" in they own mind.

 

Most of the straight guys who contact us (our profile states - we are both bisexual) focuses totally on guy play - questions of do/dont's are all related to male play. Its so funny and sad at the same time. Its like having sex with zombies. So we are not interested in most cases.

[femininetouch 15]

I use all kinds of things on the hubby when I am giving him a BJ or a HJ, and his orgasms are always so much more intense and he is 100% straight.

[SwingSetHusband 110]

I'm into ass play and I also love for mine to be played with. Yes, I love the finger and there is nothing like a finger in the ass while getting a blow job..WOW!!! I have let my wife fuck me with a strap-on before and I loved it, and would do it again anytime! I think if it feels good to you then what's the problem. I don't think it has anything to do with my "manhood"!!! I'm STILL a MAN!!!

[Swingularity 108]

This has nothing to do with "gay or straight" and everything to do with the myriad pleasurable sensations that can be found on, in, and around the anus. Prostate play, and prostate milking is an unbelievably intense way to edge and climax. And for males, the prostate as a part of an ESO (extended sexual orgasm) play date (with self or partner) can result in some of the longest and strongest orgasms imaginable.

 

Remember, the male orgasm is TWO "things" that occur as, in most people's minds, one aligned "event": The climax and the ejaculation. But the only fixed part of a male orgasm is the ejaculation part (usually 3-10 seconds, with 3-10 "spurts"). The climax part can last for WAAAAYYYYYYYY longer than the ejaculation. In the case of ESO, well, google it up and get practicing.

 

The aside here I'm delving into re: ESO is because prostate stimulation with finger, vibrators, etc. can both be an amazing adjunct to penile stimulation (HJ's, BJ's, sleeves, and pussy), or stand alone (focused prostate milking) with "look ma, no hands or mouth" male orgasms where the penis is not stimulated or touched in any way.

 

This is not a "gay" or "straight" issue. This is a male sexual function, pleasure, and health issue. Prostate stimulation is a great way to check for irregular prostate "feel", and feeling a prostate during climax is amazing for one's self or a partner, as that amazing little gland becomes hard like a lightning loaded throbbing walnut and just feels amazing during climax.

 

I blew a load up and over my head once during a fingered prostate play O with my wife. When I came out of the Orgasmic clouds we laughed like Hyena's.

[SwingSetHusband 110]

This has nothing to do with "gay or straight" and everything to do with the myriad pleasurable sensations that can be found on, in, and around the anus. Prostate play, and prostate milking is an unbelievably intense way to edge and climax. And for males, the prostate as a part of an ESO (extended sexual orgasm) play date (with self or partner) can result in some of the longest and strongest orgasms imaginable.

 

Remember, the male orgasm is TWO "things" that occur as, in most people's minds, one aligned "event": The climax and the ejaculation. But the only fixed part of a male orgasm is the ejaculation part (usually 3-10 seconds, with 3-10 "spurts"). The climax part can last for WAAAAYYYYYYYY longer than the ejaculation. In the case of ESO, well, google it up and get practicing.

 

The aside here I'm delving into re: ESO is because prostate stimulation with finger, vibrators, etc. can both be an amazing adjunct to penile stimulation (HJ's, BJ's, sleeves, and pussy), or stand alone (focused prostate milking) with "look ma, no hands or mouth" male orgasms where the penis is not stimulated or touched in any way.

 

This is not a "gay" or "straight" issue. This is a male sexual function, pleasure, and health issue. Prostate stimulation is a great way to check for irregular prostate "feel", and feeling a prostate during climax is amazing for one's self or a partner, as that amazing little gland becomes hard like a lightning loaded throbbing walnut and just feels amazing during climax.

 

I blew a load up and over my head once during a fingered prostate play O with my wife. When I came out of the Orgasmic clouds we laughed like Hyena's.

 

WOW!!!

[Swingularity 108]

Should add that one of the "issues" here with many people is the "poop" part. The lower colon is rather easily made squeaky clean with a few simple steps. First, a good BM is a great start. Then enemas series (2 or three). Followed with a shower cleanse. We love pure, organic coconut oil for all kinds of sexual uses (best lube ever, in our opinion, if no condoms are involved) and it makes for a yummy "add on" to skin anywhere on a body one would care to lick, rub, or whatever!

[kneedeepth 15]

Gf did it with a bullet while giving a blow job I was cumming kike crazy and she getting off on it too

[SwingSetHusband 110]

Gf did it with a bullet while giving a blow job I was cumming kike crazy and she getting off on it too

 

Oh hell yeah!!!!

[torenzo 20]

Been there, done that and loved it. My wife makes a point of rimming my ass with her fingertips occasionally and also uses my vibrator (especially bought for that purpose), add a blowjob and I'm in heaven.

Seriously guys, you have to try it to believe it!

 

A shower before playing is always highly recommended.

[M&S 266]

I have had a woman's finger up there, but it is very rare, and I think because it is rare, I enjoy it.

 

The first time for me was during our first threesome, the other woman stuck a finger up there. Initially she just touched my ass and asked if it was OK. I said sure, and it felt good -- I would not say amazing but it was different and seemed kind go wild, so I decided I liked it.

 

Because my wife is not at all into any sort of ass play, it is something that only happens very occasionally she we are with another woman. I have no desire to do it more, but it feels pretty good on those rare occasions.

[arcangel 15]

Its really good and gives you so much pleasure

 

 

 

The most I've taken is my wife's pinky finger. It wasn't unpleasant, but it did absolutely nothing for me sexually. As a male it was interesting to experience what it feels like to be penetrated. To be truthful, it felt more like an examination than sex-play!

[SwingSetHusband 110]

Personally, I love it!!!

[81lizard69 470]

I have had vibrators etc put on my balls. some feel good, others slightly sickening. i don't know if it's due to the different intensities, or whether i was just more open to the idea sometimes rather than others. i do know that there are times i can't stand them being played with during head, and others i love it, so it's possible. we have a vibrating massage glove, and that has always felt good.

 

I occasionally enjoy a finger penetrating my arse during head.

 

It took me a LONG time to get comfortable with it tho. i enjoyed the feeling physically but afterwards, i felt used, and very sexually confused. that was with another ex. with mrs P, I don't feel confused or "gay". both because of the bond we share, and because i have come a long way with my sexual confidence.

 

 

 

I was the same.. If it pleases my wife and partner I like it.. not all the time but if the timing is right why not..

[MarniJohn 172]

A male friend of ours once said, "Whatever it is, if a lady is doing it to you, it's not gay."

 

Although my hubby is very open and believes we own our bodies and do what we please with them, he has zero interest. I have to agree that I'm not sure how a woman using her finger on a guy is gay.