What do you do after

[oncewere 84]

I've gotten some inklings that you all do this differently than we did.

 

What do you normally do with your playmate just after orgasm? How do you react to the after feelings? Do you just get up and say thank you, cuddle, smoke a cigarette?

 

When we were swinging Barb and I liked to squeeze every bit we could out of each encounter. I'd stay in my play partner as long as I could then we'd generally snuggle like spoons, fondling and kissing a bit, enjoying the hell out of our after feelings. While snuggling I would always compliment her and tell her how wonderful it was to be with her. After the snuggle we always shared a naked hug and kiss.

 

I'd be interested in what people do nowadays... and why.

 

Oncewere

[realcplub2 513]

Umm.. Basking in the afterglow... Ok.. We do that sure..

 

Then what did you do?

 

Depending on the time, get a quick drink, have a smoke, then get ready for round 2..3.. or maybe 4 depending on the time..

[Overthetop 15]

Seems like these things lead to making an attachment. If that's what you want fine, but what if your SO doesn't like that idea?

[cvcple 16]

It depends on the couple and the situation. We like to do a little cuddling and laying around and just looking at each other and seeing the big smiles. Then of course come the hugs and kisses and then it might be breakfast depending on the time.

[socolais 696]

I'll usually cuddle a little bit while the ceilingfan dries our sweat if she's interested in a little cuddle too. I'll slug down a good healthy swig of water or beer and realize my bladder is full. We'll probably take a little bathroom break together and continue the fondling. At some point, I'll excuse myself and go looking for my wife.

[tittietwister 126]

Cuddle, pet, talk, rest and then on to round two.

[willyoats 324]

It all depends on how much I like the playmate and how much she likes me. It may be a long, tender period of coming down from the high with woman I am really fond of. That is especially true if we have been together several times and know each other well.

 

At the other extreme, we may part rather quickly if it was a mediocre encounter. It is really disappointing when she pops out of bed and it's obvious that she just wants to get to the next victim.

[Malachista 170]

With the right person: Cuddle, talk, continue

With the most other people: catch breath, clean up, maybe go to the bar and see is another round could come up with them

With the really bad ones: run, clean up, search someone else or leave the party (if already late or nobody nice and/or interresting around)

[ktimephoenix 156]

Our first plays with single Fem's we basically rejoined the party and chatted.

 

our first couple swap, we had to stop playing so i could go to work...

[Miss Sunshine 29]

when we are with another couple, especially ones we like, there is no after. We go for hours and hours, then kiss and say goodnight and go home , then fuck our brains out

[fun4Ds 1,098]

We usually exchange gifts after we are done......

 

 

What ! No gifts

 

O.k. then, lets just play some more

[gatorvol64 216]

We usually exchange gifts after we are done......

 

 

What ! No gifts

 

O.k. then, lets just play some more

 

You are just too funny.

 

Vol

[widowerman 55]

I've gotten some inklings that you all do this differently than we did.

 

What do you normally do with your playmate just after orgasm? How do you react to the after feelings? Do you just get up and say thank you, cuddle, smoke a cigarette?

 

When we were swinging Barb and I liked to squeeze every bit we could out of each encounter. I'd stay in my play partner as long as I could then we'd generally snuggle like spoons, fondling and kissing a bit, enjoying the hell out of our after feelings. While snuggling I would always compliment her and tell her how wonderful it was to be with her. After the snuggle we always shared a naked hug and kiss.

 

I'd be interested in what people do nowadays... and why.

 

Oncewere

 

Yeah, I love to cuddle after my swing partner orgasms. It is fun! That is of course she does orgasm. Hey, I try my best! In fact, on real special evenings, her orgasm becomes my calling card. I have had that happen. My swing partner told me it would happen, and it does. Beats doing that nervous 7th grader foot-in-my-disease of stuttering like a nerd to talk to a naked woman! Hell, I was like that with my wife after almost 22 years of marriage!

 

So, to cuddle with a woman who I help have an orgasm. YOU BET! Nothing could be finer! I hold her, she holds me. We hug, we kiss. We make small talk and our bodies are warm together. Just like Burt Lancaster and Deborah Kerr in From Here to Eternity!

Now to get that seaweed out of our hair. We made love, we are not in love. There is no shame to in that. Nevertheless, it is exciting. I just always try to say something different to each woman. That is only fair. Sometimes we say nothing; we let our bodies have their own dialog.

 

I am very appreciative of woman, and there is nothing greater than that all too familiar ego boost, the thank you from her. Reminds me of my wife.

[realcplub2 513]

Seems like these things lead to making an attachment. If that's what you want fine, but what if your SO doesn't like that idea?

 

Thats a completely different question and deserves to be a thread of its own... Feel free to do so

[Thrax 384]

It used to be a high-five, but recently we changed to a fist-bump.

 

Thrax

[Pepper & Drew 384]

It used to be a high-five, but recently we changed to a fist-bump.

 

Thrax

 

 

It depends on the situation, but usually, if you lay there long enough, someone will bring you some water or a wash towel. That's my strategy, anyway.

 

I like to cuddle afterwards, kiss, talk and catch my breath. Sometimes it leads to round 2.

 

Pepper

[Cottman Ave 15]

Since most of our encounters are with close friends we'll relax on the bed for an hour so...depending on the mood

 

Sometimes we will have drinks and begin another session

 

When its a ffm or a fffm there is almost always a short intermission and then a second or third act

 

On the rarer occassions of mmf or mmmf usually after one session its over.

[lustylearning 705]

We tend to be with people we like, so cuddling and talking is fun, especially if it's a prelude to round 2. On the other hand, we were once with a couple who said, "let's go to sleep" (meaning together, in one bed). That's just off the charts for me - can't do it. I want to be in my own bed, with my own husband. What can I say? It's just the way I roll;)

[sexycouple4u246 15]

when we are with another couple, especially ones we like, there is no after. We go for hours and hours, then kiss and say goodnight and go home , then fuck our brains out

 

Whoo hoo!!!!!! That's what we do too!!!!

[sweet_tna 680]

If it's a group situation, everyone basically cleans up and reconnoiters with their partner afterward. And there's usually some chit chat before people begin making their exits.

 

When we're on a date with another couple, it really depends on who we're with. Usually, there's a bathroom break, and we sit around chit chatting 'till we're ready for another round or someone has to leave. On a few occasions, we've ended up cuddling (with our playmates) between rounds. So far, we've been fortunate not to feel the need to jump up and run out.

 

But in all scenarios, Mr. Sweet and I go another round with each other at the end of the night/date.

 

=)

[Brian and Jo 344]

Just cuddle or lie quietly together savouring the moment until we are ready to go again or go find another playmate as the case may be.

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

Every situation is different. We definately enjoy relaxing with our partners after all is said and done, but any snuggling I do is going to be with my hubby. Unless it's in a play room at a club though, typically it won't just be get up and go after everyone comes... that's one of the downsides to playrooms though, is you know there is always someone outside the door waiting for that room.

[twotocum4u2 16]

Hmm, never gave this much thought. First off we don’t play at any of the local clubs, we’ll meet a couple either at a club or M&G and if the chemistry is right we’ll ask them if they would like to go to a motel and play. When the action starts and the lady I’m with cums I like to have her simply lay there and enjoy the moment. If I’ve not cumed yet I’ll usually go down and start thing all over again. If I have cumed, after we’ve basked in the moment I’ll usually get up and get a wash cloth and clean her up if she lets me, otherwise I simply give her the cloth kiss and suckle her while she cleans her self up.

 

As for what the wife does . . . don’t know too busy trying to get things started for round two hehehehe.

 

We really hate couples that show up . . . fuck us . . . then leave all with in an hour or so. We like spending three or more hours with a couple.