My daughter came to the swingers party that I went to.

[jdavisauto 73]

Funny situation. Me and my wife were invited to a swingers party that a couple of other couples we knew were also invited to. We went and met Jack and Jane there. Now Jack and Jane have a 26 year old daughter Sue. We were sitting on the couch facing the hallway door and facing Jack and Jane, who were on a love seat. Jane and my wife had their tops off but nothing was going on, we were just sitting there.

 

Now here is where it gets funny. Sue walks in the room with a man in her arms. I had to look twice and yes it was Sue, and she did not notice any of us yet. I bent over hanging my head down and whispered in Jane's ear that her daughter just walked in with a man. Jane kind of laughed and said yeah right. (She didn't believe me). So I pointed towards Sue showing Jane. The look in her eyes was priceless.

 

By this time Sue had her top off (and she was looking hot). Jane told Jack and now the entertainment started. Jack must had forgotten he had his pants undone because when he jumped up they fell down around his knees. Jane was rushing to get her shirt on and now Sue finally looked over because of all the commotion saw mom and dad. She let out a shriek and off she took running with no top on and some guy's hands in her pants with one hell of a look on his face. Daughter went out the front door with mom and dad right behind her leaving a bewildered man standing there with no idea what just happen.

 

I got up and introduced myself to the man and explained to him what has just happened. He left the party with a strange look on his face. We left the party latter on after it started to wind down. We have not seen Jack and Jane yet but will see them on Wednesday. I want to find out how this all turned out.

[2inSanDiego4u 181]

OMG! ROFL!!!

 

That is pure comedy! Hopefully they are all just laughing about it now. Looks like swinging runs in their family! If we were their friends, we would not be able to wait until Wednesday, we'd be calling the next day!

[fun4Ds 1,098]

Holy Moly

[turnuptheheat 98]

Olyhay itshay!

[gatorvol64 216]

What a story!

 

Thinking about it, I can see where this could be a possibility with one of our sons. There are advantages to him knowing about his parents I guess. I'm sure he'd want to avoid a situation like this even more than we would.

 

Vol

[realcplub2 513]

Now you see why we don't DO parties... ROFLOL

 

Esp since we have an idea or two about our son and his wife..

 

Damn, that would be a nightmare compounded!!!...

 

But seriously, the the only way your situation could have been worse, was if things had progressed further..

[LFM2 1,482]

Wow!! I mean a really BIG WOW!!

[jdavisauto 73]

Ok just got home off from work. My wife called Jack and Jane but they are not answering their phone. But as soon as I find out something I will let you all know.

 

PS. Just to let you all know, Jack, Jane and Sue are not their real names just in case anyone was wondering.

[SecretAsianMan 348]

(*laughing*) ... okay - not funny... seriously (*stifling laughter*) ... not funny.

 

Not sure how to react to something like that - although I've read some fantasy stories here & there on such scenarios... but those are usually best left in the "fantasy" realm.

[Malachista 170]

Oh dear

 

.... on the other hand ... if my mother would still be alive we most likely would hunt together on parties....

[yhungry 15]

We had the same thing happened with the couple we were with at a party. There 26 year old daughter walked up to her mother,Mary (who I was going down on) and said "Hi Mom". Her father,Bill, who was screwing my wife went from full errect to limp. in a matter of mili-seconds. They ushered the daughter out of the room while trying to get some clothes on. Later we found out that the daughter was also into swinging and has been for some time.

[yogee 15]

What u guys think ?

 

I think a thing like this is okay , their daughter is woman first, like any woman out there and she has her lifestyle. I hope they will understand each other, If i could be her father , i could have talk out of this at home amd make sure we will know from then on to go to different parties

 

 

The only thing I hate is incest sex. I purely hate it.

[spvcouple 123]

Whoops!

 

I am more interested in the conversation that you (and Mom) has with your daughter. By all means...make it right with the other couple too.

 

K and D

[Chitowndk4u 32]

That's a crazy story.

[jdavisauto 73]

Oh dear

 

.... on the other hand ... if my mother would still be alive we most likely would hunt together on parties....

 

Hunt together. Lets see, being the prey. Sounds interesting. Now we have something to think about.

[SecretAsianMan 348]

As much as that "fantasy" of a mother-daughter combo kinda turns me on ... I think the actual reality of it might make my brain go "squick!" and hit the ejection button to fly outta my skull if I came close to actually making it happen.

 

(*laughing*)

[jdavisauto 73]

As much as that "fantasy" of a mother-daughter combo kinda turns me on ... I think the actual reality of it might make my brain go "squick!" and hit the ejection button to fly outta my skull if I came close to actually making it happen.

 

(*laughing*)

 

Hell I,ll try anything at less once, and once again sober just to make sure I didn't like it the first time.

[jdavisauto 73]

Ok we talked to Jack and Jane tonight and they are laughing about what happen the other day. They have not talked to their daughter as of let, she wont return thier calls. We also try calling her and we got the same. I told Jack that the cats out of the bag now for everyone.

[fun4Ds 1,098]

I think I would give the daughter some alone time for a while.

 

No one need explain until she comes forward and wants to talk on her own:surrend:.

[2inSanDiego4u 181]

Ok we talked to Jack and Jane tonight and they are laughing about what happen the other day. They have not talked to their daughter as of let, she wont return thier calls. We also try calling her and we got the same. I told Jack that the cats out of the bag now for everyone.

 

LOL! These folks will be fine as long as their daughter accepts them for who they are, which she should unless she is a hypocrite. If they call her and leave a message, they should say that they love her, and have been laughing about the situation and can't wait to talk to her. Is their daughter a unicorn or married?

[jdavisauto 73]

LOL! These folks will be fine as long as their daughter accepts them for who they are, which she should unless she is a hypocrite. If they call her and leave a message, they should say that they love her, and have been laughing about the situation and can't wait to talk to her. Is their daughter a unicorn or married?

 

She's not married and she did return all of our calls today. So far she just said that she was shock to see mom and dad sitting there. She had a ideal that we was swingers but had no ideal about mom and dad. Dinner tonight at 6 over at mom and dad's house. We will be the buffer between dad, mom and Sue. Looking forward to it.

 

PS. She seems to be ok and was laughing a little about it.

[2inSanDiego4u 181]

Dinner tonight at 6 over at mom and dad's house. We will be the buffer between dad, mom and Sue. Looking forward to it.

 

Let us know how it goes!

[jdavisauto 73]

Let us know how it goes!

 

Ok now here what happen last night at dinner. First thing Jack called and wanted us to show up at 5:30 which we did. Jane set the table and all was find. At about 5:50 or so Sue show up. Her face was red already. See was having a very hard time looking at anyone in the face. Sue said her hellos to us and mom but kind of side step her dad. We did to usual small talk with all of us avoiding the real reason why we was there. At about 6:10 we sat down to the table to eat. Everyone was rambling on about NOTHING. So me being who I am just came right out and asked Sue, How long have you been in the lifestyle? You could hear a pin drop and all eyes was on Sue. Sue was looking lost so I took the attention off Sue and started talking about our first time going to a swingers club and our first time being with another couple. Well things started to get more relax and Jack and Jane got up walk over to Sue and gave her a big hug and Jack said” you are our only child and we love you with all our hearts you done nothing to be embarrass or ashamed”. After that you could not shut them up. We found out that all the ladies is bi. Sue been in the lifestyle now for a little over a year. All in all it’s just like everything else. Swingers are not judgmental and accept you for whom you are even if it’s family. Everything turned out great and the evening ended with us all laughing about the whole situation . As we was leaving, we walked Sue to her car and she admitted that she has a crush on my wife and would like to go out with us one day. I told Sue at this time that will be impossible because of our friendship with mom and dad. She understand and we all went home for the night.

[SecretAsianMan 348]

Sounds like a wonderful outcome to this rather awkward (albeit silly) situation... glad everyone was happy & laughing about it when it was all over.

 

... probably a good choice not to involve the daughter in your play since y'all were already involved with the parents.

[2inSanDiego4u 181]

That's great that everything worked out so well!

 

I told Sue at this time that will be impossible because of our friendship with mom and dad. She understand and we all went home for the night.

 

Good call! You did the right thing there.

[two4youinswva 3,068]

All is well that ends well.

 

 

Thanks for the story, and the wrap up. Your friends sound like good people.

[jdavisauto 73]

All is well that ends well.

 

 

Thanks for the story, and the wrap up. Your friends sound like good people.

 

They have been our friends for over ten years now, and been over to our home many times as we have been to theirs. They are great people, They are the ones that got us into the lifestyle and our 2nd couple playing with.

They never judge a person and always look for the good in everyone. We are a better couple just for knowing them.

[willyoats 324]

The daughter of the guy who used to run La Place in INDY came to that club pretty regularly.

 

Our daughter has been with us to our nudist (swingers) resort.

 

In neither case were the kids and parents involved in the swinging activities together.

 

I think that if you have an open, not perverted, relationship with your kids, you and they both understand that your sex life is your own business. If swinging happens to be part of that, it's no big deal for either the parents or the kids.

[Meetussoon 68]

The swing club we first visited was run by two men who were long time friends, the girl at the door, was one of the owner's daughters. Now, the father had never been into swinging nor had the daughter. The father remained just a businesman and even invited his sister to the club one night to see what all the hub-bub was about. The sister flirted and hit on my wife alot, but never took the leap. I began a pretty long term fuck friend relationship with the daughter (30 yrs old) and it was never an issue. She was pretty reserved until we got into a back private room however, and I don't think she ever enjoyed the viewing or orgy room where dad might be able to watch.

 

meetussoon

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

It just goes to show you that there's nothing to fear of running into family or friends at a swinger club. We are all there for the same reason.

[rounder 17]

 

The only thing I hate is incest sex. I purely hate it.

 

 

 

Prude.

[yogee 15]

Prude.

 

Incest sex is doing sex with your blood relations, real mother and real sis, thats going to break the whole society, if people start doping it. Now if you say doing sex with your cousins then it is no incest and I am in with my cousins

[SexyNewCouple08 16]

That is totally crazy! I could not imagine our son coming to a party we were at with his girl friend. That would be an awkward Thanksgiving dinner,LOL. We are in the hopes of keeping our experiences under wraps from friends and familly.

 

A_and_R

[shy_tn_gal 15]

Whew - thankfully all of our kids live in other states.... Talk about your awkward moment!

[maharg8 15]

Nice of daughter to join in...

[lynswing 15]

Not sure how I'd feel in that situation. I have an 18 year old daughter that is sexually active and I don't have a problem with her having sex at home but at a swing party I'm not sure.

[Ed & Bunny 160]

Not sure how I'd feel in that situation. I have an 18 year old daughter that is sexually active and I don't have a problem with her having sex at home but at a swing party I'm not sure.

 

I am not sure why you have a problem with your daughter doing something that you are doing. Sounds like a bit of a double standard.

 

As for the general topic, this is something we have discussed. We have always had an open relationship when it comes to discussing anything with our 24 year old daughter. Also we are the type that does not hide alot in our home life. So we know very well that sooner or later she will figure things out and ask questions. So we had to figure out what we would do. Basicly we cant tell her no, as it is something we are doing, and also she is an adult and can make her own descisions. So we will just give her the best advice possible, and most likely send her here to this site for more if she needs it. As for going out together, that is where we would have to draw the line. We would most likely find a club more geared for her age group. While we will know what she is doing, seeing it is just way too much info for us. Now if we found ourselves in the situation that happened to start this thread,,,,,..... We might all be a little uncomfortable, but hopefully it will be a big enough party that all can have fun in different areas of the house.

[sexyNYCswingers 15]

HAHA OH MY GOD! THiS IS PURE COMDEY. WE'D LOVE 2 KNOW WHAT HAPPENED AFTER THE PARTY LMAO :_).

[jjtrindc 142]

It's an interesting conversation as to whether you would want to find out your son or daughter was in the lifestyle...especially after we have been involved. Hard to react as a hypothetical. Here is what we do know. If our kids are in relationship that is as loving and committed as ours, and are fulfilled mentally and physically (legally of course - lol), then we would consider ourselves proud parents.

[Farcanal 32]

I have three grown up daughters, two are in this lifestyle and one that's not.

 

On several occasions we have met at various functions -- first time was a bit tense but we got past that.

 

To clear something up -- I never swing with them in any way but leave them to enjoy themselves.

 

They are my daughters and I love them dearly but they don't ring my bell!

[SecretAsianMan 348]

I have three grown up daughters, two are in this lifestyle and one that's not.

 

On several occasions we have met at various functions -- first time was a bit tense but we got past that.

 

To clear something up -- I never swing with them in any way but leave them to enjoy themselves.

 

They are my daughters and I love them dearly but they don't ring my bell!

 

Guess I'll bite the bullet and ask...

 

Is it safe to assume that you and your daughter travel in different enough brackets as far as tastes / what y'all seek in partners that there hasn't been any type of cross-over in those "various functions" where y'all have met up??

 

Does it ever come up that maybe y'all have shared mutual partners at some point?? And does that wig you out any? Or is that just one of those things and y'all don't think anything of it??

[BiloxiCouple 695]

Guess I'll bite the bullet and ask...

 

Is it safe to assume that you and your daughter travel in different enough brackets as far as tastes / what y'all seek in partners that there hasn't been any type of cross-over in those "various functions" where y'all have met up??

 

Does it ever come up that maybe y'all have shared mutual partners at some point?? And does that wig you out any? Or is that just one of those things and y'all don't think anything of it??

 

 

In case they don't want to answer your question. I have seen this before with the crossover of friends. And I know all the participants!!

 

It didn't happen all at one time or at one party. One couple (not related) thought it would be interesting to do this? Oh well...

[mervsmom97 15]

My step mother and I are very close and share stories. I told her about the party that we went to and she was very intrigued. She kept saying how crazy she thought we were. Since I opened up to her about our lifestyle choice she hasn't stopped telling me stories. I think she is in denial about how much she is really into the ls, lol. Everytime I see her there is a new story. It's kind of gross to think about my dad like that, but she didn't become my step mother until I was an adult. When she starts her stories I can tune it out that it has anything to do with Dad. She wants to go to the club we went to and I told her go for it! She has told Dad the stories that I have told her, he just laughs, but he refused to go to the club that we went to. I know that they would have a great time, and I think they should try it. I would definitely want them to tell me when they go because I would not want to run into them there.

[Farcanal 32]

Guess I'll bite the bullet and ask...

 

Is it safe to assume that you and your daughter travel in different enough brackets as far as tastes / what y'all seek in partners that there hasn't been any type of cross-over in those "various functions" where y'all have met up??

 

Does it ever come up that maybe y'all have shared mutual partners at some point?? And does that wig you out any? Or is that just one of those things and y'all don't think anything of it??

 

I have never given mutual partners a lot of thought really.

 

They and I tend to have different tastes and usually during our phone/txt messages one will say that they are going to a particular party so I will avoid that one or find another one to attend.

[easleyfuncpl 58]

I just found out my sister swings. I am glad I found that out in a MUCH different way than Jack, Jane and Sue...

 

how awkward!

[crazi429 16]

Well Things here at home have changed alot in the last few months. Red's teenage daughter is sexually active no with a regular boy friend. She had claimed to not be and was saving it for marriage. I told her that was fine but if things changed let me or her mother know so all the proper precautions can be made. After she came to her mother then they where able to talk about sex much more than before. One of Red's problems with the lifestyle a couple years ago was when her daughter seen here in this site. Now Her daughter is aware of this life style and currently has no interest in it. But can understand our interest in it. She said she could honestly she herself having interest year in the future but right now with the guy she is with thats all she wants. So at least at this time we all know whats going on and that should stop any awkward situations in the future. With her bing my step daughter there are no blood taboos but she is my daughter and no desire in her that way. But I think if it happened in the future we ended up in the same location it would be ok we just would do our own thing away from each other.

[ncmd_couple 597]

I have two grown daughters, a grown son, and a grown stepdaughter. My son (single) knows we are swingers and has expressed an interest in going to a club. To the best of my knowledge, the girls don't know anything about it. Two of the girls are married, the third is not. My wife would probably be very uncomfortable bumping into one of the kids at a club or party. I would just tell them to have fun and refer them here.

[Airjammer 15]

My now ex wife and I were nudists to start with and then took the venture into the lifestyle all at her speed. Her 19 y/o son was aware of us being nudists through her talking with him about it. We had been planning a swinging house party for 20 or so couples for about a month. She had spoken with her son and made arrangements that he was going to be away from the house for that weekend. As the weekend approached we began getting more and more rsvp's back. the party was going to be great!!!. As the invitations stated just walk on in and make yourself comfortable. The party was rolling along great with people playing all over the house. My ex was making the rounds as a great hostess does and would occasionally get pulled into or join in momentarly into some of the action. Well she was particullaly interested in 2 of the guys that were there. On one of her rounds she saw one of them sitting on the couch in the front room recouping from some fun. She spoke briefly with him and began preforming oral on him, shortly after she started the other gentleman she was interested in saw her on her knees, whispered in her ear and started taking her from behind. They were getting into a good rythm and several people had started to watch. Myself I had a younger attractive gal kneeling in front of me performing oral as well.

 

At first everyone was in such shock that no one could move when we saw her son with his g/f and 2 other couples with him (all 19 and over). After what seemed an eternity everyone jumped up and ducked for cover. My ex was about as red as red gets and had no idea what to say. I told her son and friends in a calm voice to please step back out onto the front porch while we all got dressed. He and his friends turned and waited on the porch until I came out and spoke with them, They agreed that going to another friends house would be a good idea for the rest of the night and were to come back in the morning for breakfast and to talk this out.

 

As you can imagine the party broke up rather quickly after that. The next morning her son showed up and he is actually the one who started the conversation. As you can imagine it was an interesting day.

[Habitual 15]

I have never run into one of my parents at club, or had any of my friends run into their parents, or children, but I did run into my sister, but naked, and going down on another female while she was being screwed. I just smiled, laughed, and went on about my business.

[MrkLin 393]

This is why I don't do any SLS searches for couples, clubs, or house parties in areas where our relatives live. Their sex lives are none of my business, and I don't want to embarrass them if we should happen to bump into one another at some function. We have three daughters and two sons. All of them live in different states. So, basically we put on our vanilla hats when we travel to those areas, then tuck them neatly away when we get home, or go on vacation to an area where we have no relatives.

 

The closest we've ever come to meeting up with one of our kids was in '04. We booked a 10-day vacation at Desire in Cancun with another couple. From out of the blue, we get a call from our oldest son. Lin told him that we were going to be going to Mexico for a vacation, and he piped up that he was going to a resort in Cancun at the same time we would be there. No, he wasn't going to the Desire Resort. He started talking about all of us getting together and going on day trips, and all I could do was laugh. The next day, the other couple had a medical emergency involving major surgery for her, so the trip was canceled and the plans scrapped. Our son did go to Cancun, and we went to one of our local clubs - a lot...

 

Lesson learned - we never tell our kids when we're going on a vacation for a lifestyle event. If we should bump into someone at an event, we'll deal with it then.