Indicator or signs that someone is a swinger

[Fox n Hound 16]

We would like to know if there is a way, short of hanging a sign around our neck, that identifies swingers to one another? We remember hearing many years ago about an apple with a bite out of it necklace and or earrings to signify that you were involved in the lifestyle.

[2inSanDiego4u 181]

 

There are these wrist bands available, as well as other wrist bands, but none seems to be universally accepted or known as THE sign.

[cvcple 16]

What about the story that if a woman wears an anklet on her right ankle it signifies a "hot wife" or swinger. Is this common knowledge among swingers? or is it a myth.

[SexyRedmondCpl 128]

The anklet thing came up recently... Anklet Right Or Left. I'm sure the NASCA apple is a good sign, but you also might risk coming off as a pretentious Mac user The general consensus around here is that if there were a sign that were common enough to be posted here, no swinger would use it for fear that they would be easily outed through association therewith. If you can find it on the internet, it won't afford you the discretion that you might want in this lifestyle.

[realcplub2 513]

It's even easier than you think...

 

Wear a SB t shirt.. how many will doubt your involvement then??

[Fox n Hound 16]

We are for the discretion aspect, and do not want disassociated because of what we are accepting of and enjoy. One does not need to be a flamer to get the point across, and we have not heard of the anklet. Never thought about the left is right and right is wrong angle on an anklet. Guess we could start looking for it, still would not assume it to mean someone is a swinger though.

 

We live in what is considered to be a very liberal town, yet a small local news print was put out of business because it allowed those with a slant on their views to discreetly make their availability known.

 

Most of the people we have met through web site ads, either never show or have grossly misstated the facts of themselves.

 

We enjoy what we do, but do not want to put a gigantic sign in the yard to meet other people. We do not see it as dirty or wrong if all parties are equally consenting. We are jealous of people who get to fully enjoy their sexuality while others have stay in the closet, because it does not fit societies formulation. Sex seems to be a controlled substance.

[Brian and Jo 344]

While on vacation at nudist or clothing-optional resorts, we have found the ankle bracelet worn by the female to be a good but not infallible indicator. If both the male and female shave their genitals that can be another clue but again not infallible. In both cases some gentle questionning is required to confirm or reject our initial impresions.

[BiloxiCouple 695]

SexyRedmondCpl said:

The anklet thing came up recently... Anklet Right Or Left.

 

I'm sure the NASCA apple is a good sign, but you also might risk coming off as a pretentious Mac user The general consensus around here is that if there were a sign that were common enough to be posted here, no swinger would use it for fear that they would be easily outed through association therewith. If you can find it on the internet, it won't afford you the discretion that you might want in this lifestyle. The NASCA apple is older than the Mac Apple. When Mac came out they got NASCA to "change" their logo. I believe Mac has deeper pockets than NASCA and was able to accomplish this. So NASCA just changed the bite of the apple to the other side of the apple.

 

That's your swinging history lesson for the day.

[Guest screaminggood]

So is left right on the apple, like the earring? Some of us haven't seen Macs since college

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

If everyone who had a sticker on their car of an apple with a bite out of it was a swinger there'd be a lot more OUT swingers.

 

The problem with signs and indicators is that there is NOT ONE universally acceptable sign or signal that EVERY swinger knows about... and that all NON swingers would avoid.

 

I wore and anklet for years before I ever considered swinging... funny I haven't worn it since. I do have a tattoo around one of my ankles tho, so perhaps I have a permanent anklet. I shave my genitals but so do a lot of non-swingers these days.

 

There are at least a half dozen sites promoting various charms, jewelry, symbols to identify you as a swinger, but again unless the other swingers you are encountering are familiar with said charm, jewelry or symbol it won't matter.

[Fox n Hound 16]

To the Hostess:

 

Pretty much what we expected to hear.

 

We do not flaunt what we do, but we are okay with it, we are just careful about how far we prop open the closet door.

 

Thanks from the Fox N Hound

[shy_couple 459]

I was looking for something sexy for my wife to wear to a swinger club. Other than the usual sexy lingerie/dress I found this site with some cool anklets.

 

NippleCharms.com for us since we are newbies and still haven't found our right first couple these seemed like a stronger statement than we wanted to make. Instead I got her a sexy anklet where the clasps are handcuffs. Still sexy and cool but not overtly "DO ME!!!"