Your neighbor may be a swinger if...
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By Guest jef
I and my wife have come across a few couples, who we were not sure were swingers are not and we found it very difficult to break ice
I have always wondered why no one has ever thought of a few secret signals that could convey the message, signals like that of the Masonic Lodge, which are understood only by swingers. These could be simple signals which only swingers understand. This will make things easier for both parties. Signals could be such If not understood by the other couple could simply be ignored without making anything obvious. These could be universal and could be propagated by all swinger websites
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By newbicuriouscpl
I'm wondering if we're out socially, if there are subtle ways to tell if someone is a swinger; or if there are subtle ways we can bring up swinging without actually saying, "We are curious about swinging." That could really spread something we wouldn't be comfortable with in our area.
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By 2chase3
I have heard before there are key points to look for to notice Hotwives/Swinging couples in public. I consider it a myth more than anything, So I will ask the more experienced here if there is any truth in it.
Its rumored you can usually spot a hotwife from the color of nail polish, jewelery,ankle braclelets, preference in shoe style are all indications of a Alternative lifestyle. *I know to categorize a individual from just these simple choices is a stretch to say in the least.*
But say we entertain the thought for a moment, any idea's how to spot signs on the male as well?
Like anything most hobbies/activities have a simple sign to show interest in it.
example: parents with kids in sports might have the football logo or whatever on their vehicle..Sure we have all seen them. Is there a global logo for swinging?lol and do you wear it publicly for the sole purpose?
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By Mike6216
Ok, I'm going to sound like a newby, but that's because I am lol. The wife and I are going on our first cruise in a few days. It's not a "swingers cruise", but I've heard that there are usually tons of swingers on any cruise. My question is, how do we spot them? I know about the pineapple thing, but i also assume that pineapples are a pretty common thing on a Carribean cruise. We are 3 years deep in the lifestyle but, so far, we only swing with one other couple, so we have zero experience in approaching potential playmates. We are not going on the cruise to actively seek out new playmates, but would like to be ready if the opportunity arises. My questions are:
1. Is there a way to spot swingers and, if so, how?
2. Once we have determined that a couple are swingers, how do we start the conversation?
3. Is there a way that we can make ourselves visible to other couples that might be in the same boat as us?
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By older couple
About two years ago, our new neighbors moved in across the street. We noticed that they had four kids, a 14 year old boy, 10 year old girl and two 7 year old girls. Of course, we became curious about the two women living there.
One is in her late thirties and the other one is 28 years old. The guy is a bout 40 I think and has a weight problem. They each have their own cars, the oldest woman works and the younger one seems to care for the home and kids.
My wife and the youngest woman have become friendly. My wife noticed both women referred to the guy living with them as husband. My wife asked about that and it is a poly relationship. The oldest boy and two of the girls are the older woman's kids and one of the 7 years old girls is hers.
It seems the older woman and the younger one got pregnant at the same time with the two younger girls by their poly husband. I over heard the oldest boy telling a kid he has become friends with, that having Sandy (the youngest woman) living with them is like having a big sister. He really likes her. The other boy asked him if the adults sleep in the same bed. The boy answered some times.
They have a lot of family time over there playing basketball, and with toys and slowly the number of neighborhood kids that go there to play is growing.
Well they have noticed the number of men who visit my wife and me especially the black ones. There have been as many as 4 at a time and left in the early morning or the next morning. So Sandy asked her if we were swingers and my wife said yes and she really opened up about their arrangement and questioned my wife to death about the swinging life and servicing so many men and especially at one time. It seems me and my wife's sexual lifestyle is more strange than theirs.
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