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I've enjoyed many single men, but my (straight) husband always chooses to watch instead of join in for a MFM. He thinks it would make the single men feel awkward and that the single guy would find it less enjoyable.

 

So, single men, is he correct? Do you have a preference between the husband just watching or joining in the fun?

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screaminggood said:
I've enjoyed many single men, but my (straight) husband always chooses to watch instead of join in for a MFM. He thinks it would make the single men feel awkward and that the single guy would find it less enjoyable.

 

So, single men, is he correct? Do you have a preference between the husband just watching or joining in the fun?

 

I would say your husband is mistaken...I have always played with the wife with the husband, I do not nor have not felt "awkward or uncomfortable". Part of the fun and turn-on is to see the woman taking two or more cocks at the same time. :facelick:

 

Although, I have not had the experience of playing with the wife while the husband just watches. I would not object if that were to happen but again, part of the excitement is to see the woman enjoying several cocks at once...:)

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I would not have a problem if I knew the husband was str8. I mean unless the wife wants double penetration, he can be on one end and i can be on the other.

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I've done both... shared a wife and simply played with her while the husband watched. I don't really have too much of a preference either way.

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I have no problem playing with a woman and her husband. I'm straight and prefer not to play with couples were the man is bi, but I have no worries if the straight husband joins in. It doesn't freak me out or make me uncomfortable. I would guess most single males feel the same way or they wouldn't be interested in playing with couples.

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Is that your husband's real reason for not joining in or is it just his excuse? It is really him that feels awkward or uncomfortable by it?

 

As the male half of a couple I have a completely opposite outlook than your husband. If a single male shows an interest in us I make it completely known that it will be an MFM experience with me being a fully involved participant. If that SM shows the least bit of discomfort with that concept he gets the boot. My thoughts are that if a SM is the least bit uncomfortable with a husband involved that means he is just a guy wanting a piece of ass and will have a higher chance of trying to get my wife alone for himself. Whereas if a SM is perfectly ok with it being an MFM situation that may indicate that he has a higher chance of being a "for real" lifestyler.

 

So in other words, IMHO the guys that are not comfortable with it being an MFM with a husband and wife, then those are the last guys you should be inviting into your bedroom. So instead of accommodating the comforts of the SM, you as the couple should be doing what you want to do and if the single males don't want an MFM situation they should just find their own girlfriends like everyone else.

 

Now if the real reason is HE feels awkward and uncomfortable with another man in the bed then that is a whole other story and a whole other issue and one that should probably be discussed and everyone should be completely open and honest about.

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I have done both also. I find it incredibly hot to be with a woman that can take on two guys!

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I kinda think the lady takes the lead on this one, If you really wanted him to join...look over at him with those cum f**k me eyes...lol I'm thinking he'll join in (I would)...

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Guest screaminggood

Thanks for the feedback. In reference to Iapr and LikeMinds, you have a valid question.

 

In one case, I could understand why he felt that the guy might prefer to not have another man there because that particular single male was a "should have been a porn star" type of a guy. He really could make movies with both size and his take charge attitude. And before anyone gets defensive for my husband and wants to get mad at the single guy for his attitude, you need to understand that I absolutely love being with assertive playmates. My husband of course knows that, so he did sit back and get one heck of a show that night.

 

I do agree that we're doing the selecting so he should be less concerned about what the single guy wants, and more about what he/we want. He's made references about enjoying the view so I know he really does like to watch, but we've also talked about trying dp when we find the right guy...so he can't be completely against a MFM?

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do agree that we're doing the selecting so he should be less concerned about what the single guy wants...

 

Not exactly true. Your husband should be more open with the single guys so they are on the same page. I know from experience that a big part of my enjoyment of swinging with couples is having the husband see me with his wife and sometimes direct me in what to do. But he has to be as comfortable talking to the single guy as you are having sex with the single guy. If he doesn't get to that comfort level, he will start to back away from swinging altogether. That may not be a bad thing, but it doesn't sound like something you want.

 

have fun out there and don't hurt anybody.

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I enjoy participating specially while DP, but sometimes I watch a little as well and she does enjoy having to cocks for her pleasure ;)

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My favorite sex act is the "mirror game". Long story short, me and the husband pick a side (for some reason, the husband almost always picks his wife's left side) and try to copy each other's movements as accurately as possible. I don't get to do it very often, but women seem to enjoy it.

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I'd be curious to know which side of the bed most men sleep on compared to which side they'd pick in a sexual encounter. I'm willing to bet my husband would take the right side because he sleeps on that side so most of our sex starts with him on that side!

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I am straight and have no problem at all doing a MFM. My feeling is that as long as we don't "cross the streams" LOL I am just fine.

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athenagirl said:
Hi "In Denver"! I am not too far from where you are... so welcome!

 

Hello to both of you, I am in the area as well.

 

Oh by the way...Athenagirl, nice perspective on "finding love in the life style".

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Hello to both of you, I am in the area as well.

 

Oh by the way...Athenagirl, nice perspective on "finding love in the life style".

Thanks, Magnum... we'll see how that goes! I'm definitely a hopeless romantic and a sex maniac in search of someone who can satisfy both sides of me! Ha ha!

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athenagirl said:
Hi "In Denver"! I am not too far from where you are... so welcome!

 

Hello there Athenagirl...I tried to send you a PM to say hi but....looks like you have them turned off. ::P:

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I'd be curious to know which side of the bed most men sleep on compared to which side they'd pick in a sexual encounter. I'm willing to bet my husband would take the right side because he sleeps on that side so most of our sex starts with him on that side!

 

Eh?

 

Hes doing it wrong. You have sex on the side that SHE sleeps on. No one likes sleeping in the wet spot after all.

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screaminggood said:
I've enjoyed many single men, but my (straight) husband always chooses to watch instead of join in for a MFM. He thinks it would make the single men feel awkward and that the single guy would find it less enjoyable.

 

So, single men, is he correct? Do you have a preference between the husband just watching or joining in the fun?

We do MFM and I am the husband. I love watching my wife getting excited and in the moment so sometimes I watch. Other times the both of us pleasure her at the same time. She always wants me close by which is good with me as well. We tell the 3rd that husband is straight so there has never been a problem.

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To me it's more awkward for the husband to just watch. I think it's a look more fun if everyone participates and has a good time.

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As you are talking to single guys, this topic should come up.

 

I always ask couples what there boundaries are, and where the left and right side of acceptable is. I have been with couples who wanted to experience a condom free night of fun with a young Drug/Disease free (with paper proof) single guy. We chatted back and forth and I was tested and got my clean bill of health from the Doc and showed I was interested and very serious and we talked about ground rules.

 

NO KISSING. That was an intimate act and only they shared it.

 

My stance and view is that a single guy is there for the pleasure of the couple. If you want me to join in a threesome, that is fine, your rules remember, or if he would like to watch her pleasured that's fine too....

 

Since you asked what we prefer, I prefer JOINING him in giving her pleasure. I want to be a part of the massage, the touch, the teasing and the pleasing.

 

I think if you chat more with single guys and find the guys who have experience with couples, you will find lots of guys are secure sexually and straight that can work in tandem with the MR to give you the pleasure of 2.

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I'm ok with whatever, if the husbands want to join in that's fine (no-bi stuff)

or...if he wants to just sit back and watch...hey, that's fine too.

 

In my experiences the hubby usually wants to watch me with his wife.

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I have to say I almost prefer the husband to be involved more fun that way, plus I love to see a women take on two men at a time

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I really enjoy watching my wife with other men and I think the better they are the more I like to watch. She has complained before that I didn't join in before. So now when she wants me she just tells me.

 

I don't understand the no kissing thing mentioned above. To me the foreplay and kissing is a big part of the whole sexual experience. but to each there own

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screaminggood said:
he should be less concerned about what the single guy wants, and more about what he/we want.

 

That sound there...that's the sound of a nail being firmly stuck in the head. :)

 

What do you both want, figure it out and then go find a playmate to match and enjoy!

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When I've been the second M, the husbands have participated, although they always hung back for a while (as did I) for variety. I've never had the experience of just being watched by the husband for the whole session, and imagine it might be a little odd. Is it?

 

One of our friends likes to direct the action. LOL.

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xyzzy07 said:
When I've been the second M, the husbands have participated, although they always hung back for a while (as did I) for variety. I've never had the experience of just being watched by the husband for the whole session, and imagine it might be a little odd. Is it?

 

One of our friends likes to direct the action. LOL.

 

I don't find it odd at all...in fact I kinda like putting on a good performance.

My experiences have mostly been in that kind of setting. Where it's about the woman being with me, and the husband watching...this was how my first lifestyle experience went, and thus far about 80% of my encounters have been similar...so having someone (husband) watching the whole session seems like the norm. for me.

 

I've only been to one club (just outside Chicago), and I was lucky enough to attend with a very attractive female friend...when we made our way to the upstairs rooms we were definitely the center of attention, there were dozens of folks watching us do our thing...and I did find that a bit more strange than just having one guy watch (but I got over it)...LOL

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I don't mind. Like the other straight males had said I rather not play with a bi couple, but I like to see the female take two at once. Gets me going.

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While I enjoy a good show, I don't think I could bring myself to completely sit it out. Maybe is my wife asked real nice, but damn that would be tough!

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Rackir said:
While I enjoy a good show, I don't think I could bring myself to completely sit it out. Maybe is my wife asked real nice, but damn that would be tough!

 

Same here... Not participating at all wouldn't work for me. We play fully separate though, so me actually being there, but not participating, would have to be deliberate (since she can always just play solo), so it would be an odd thing. If she asked for it (in reality, she'd actually be weirded out by me just watching, but hypothetically) I'd probably want to explore why.

 

Same goes the other way. If I were to say "tomorrow I want to pick up a chick, bring her home, and fuck her all night, but you can just sit and watch" her reaction would be "huh?"

 

Of course I *completely* understand the what and why of the guys who are purely voyeuristic and think it's great if that works for them. As a "third" (again, we play separate), I wouldn't mind stepping up to the plate while the other guy hung in the bullpen, as long as there was no real humiliation involved and it was just a voyeur thing.

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I'd be curious to know which side of the bed most men sleep on compared to which side they'd pick in a sexual encounter. I'm willing to bet my husband would take the right side because he sleeps on that side so most of our sex starts with him on that side!

 

Ummmm??? Never thought of that. I had a great play date Friday evening and we played across the bed, some times we play, "MFM" on the right side of the bed too. That has to do with convenience as apposed to preference. When we play across the bed, it works so her pussy is on the edge of the bed and we can go nice and deep in her pussy and it make for a great visual and when it is time to cum, she can slide off the bed onto her knees so we can cum over her face. :)

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The most fun MFM's I've had are ones when both I and hubby participates, I want both in the couple to be comfortable with me, I with them -and for all of us to have good clean dirty fun.

 

I have noticed, even when hubby mainly wants to watch or trade off with me pleasing his wife, the more comfortable he is with me the more fun his wife has -and the more fun she has -and with a secure couple the more fun we all have.

 

Whatever happens, it has to work for the couple so being open to them and what they want is what I tune into. I like it best when we can all three get a sexual synergy going together that be-cums creatively exciting and sexy, where everyone is turning everyone else on -that is when MFM gets the most fun for me. YMMV

 

So my advice to couples is to figure out what you want in a MFM, and select a playmate that fits that, and ask yourself what you want a SM to bring to the party that you don't already have just with yourselves or with FFM, couples and larger group play, etc.

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When swinging as a single male, I enjoy both, so whatever turns the couple on is fine with me. When swinging with my GF (or exwife), we always like a threesome...

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As the wife, it depends on my mood.

I may like to meet the guy alone also.

like to have the attention of both on me, touching and teasing.

Sometimes hubby watches, sometimes take turns.

But definitely I like them both in me. My favorites are: me doggy, one in mouth, one other side, and both DP in my pussy.

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Honestly, I would prefer if I was a part of the play instead of just a spectator. I mean there is a possibility that for a few minutes I may step aside to get a drink or to grab a toy to join the play, but as far as it goes, I think a threesome is about double pleasure, so why break the double pleasure?

 

If males have problems with having any contact between each other, than the female should always just stay in the middle...

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I've wanted to just sit back and watch my wife have sex with someone else almost since the beginning of our swinging. Early on, she very much wanted me involved. I certainly obliged her, and always did stay involved. Now, with some experience in swinging, she understands more and accepts that I would want to just sit back and watch sometimes. She's given me carte blanche to do so on a future encounter.

 

If I were a single male, I don't think I'd mind if the husband wanted to sit back and watch. So long as I knew he was in complete approval of everything going on, I'd be fine with that.

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I'd rather watch, but I would join in if I was comfortable with the couple. More then likely I would have to have some interaction with them beforehand.

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We have not done a lot of mfm threesomes, but in our instances we have done it both ways...my watching her with another guy and my sometimes joining in. There just are some encounters where I prefer to stay back and watch her with another a guy one on one. It gives a very different perspective, and there are some occasions also where I may be taking a few pics that she and I can share later. Other times however I agree with some of the others here when it comes to seeing her taking two of us at the same time, something that she also enjoys very much. So i guess it comes down to whatever is right for you and any certain occasion

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magnum said:
I would say your husband is mistaken...I have always played with the wife with the husband, I do not nor have not felt "awkward or uncomfortable". Part of the fun and turn-on is to see the woman taking two or more cocks at the same time. :facelick:

 

Although, I have not had the experience of playing with the wife while the husband just watches. I would not object if that were to happen but again, part of the excitement is to see the woman enjoying several cocks at once...:)

 

I would have to agree with this statement. I have played with several couples and watching a woman enjoy two or more cocks is a lot of fun. :cool:

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screaminggood said:
I've enjoyed many single men, but my (straight) husband always chooses to watch instead of join in for a MFM. He thinks it would make the single men feel awkward and that the single guy would find it less enjoyable.

 

So, single men, is he correct? Do you have a preference between the husband just watching or joining in the fun?

Your Husband is wrong as far as what I enjoy. I am not afraid of touching another man as long as a woman is involved and everyone is have an amazing time. Even though I am not even a little bit gay nor even bi (as I cannot get excited with just a man), I have given a woman's husband head along with her. When I was with my ex I gave a guy a great BJ with his wife watching and really liked it. But his hot wife sucked me off and let me fuck her after I got her hubby to get hard in my mouth and deep in my throat and then he shot his cum and I swallowed it.

That was hot as his wife loved it and went crazy.

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I am pretty open to either situation so I normally leave it up to the couple to decide.

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I'm a single male so when I'm invited into a MFM , I am happy to do anything that pleases this couple except anal. To me mutual sex is fun be it with a man or a woman or both. I think too many men have a hang up with the Bi thing, sex is definitely enhanced when it is shared with others, either watching or full participation. I prefer the man to participate in pleasing his wife but I'm ok if he just wants to watch it is a great turn-on watching.Anyway given the right circumstances I think all are bi sexual. Women are more open about it and it is acceptable with women and with men but the bi thing with men is looked upon by many as not ok. I like the husband to participate any way he chooses because after all he is part of the invitation.

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This question is a very interesting one. Since I am in the lifestyle to work as a team with couples, the lady's preference is what I would follow and respect. From the standpoint of what I find as a special turn-on in MFM, I love having all three be active participants and feel very very comfortable working together to sexually please his wife.

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screaminggood said:
I've enjoyed many single men, but my (straight) husband always chooses to watch instead of join in for a MFM. He thinks it would make the single men feel awkward and that the single guy would find it less enjoyable.

 

So, single men, is he correct? Do you have a preference between the husband just watching or joining in the fun?

 

I have done it both ways and have no preference. It is all about the woman enjoying herself, so I think she should let it be known if she wants both men at once or separate.

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Communication between all involved is important here (as in just about every other situation!). As the single male, I am there to please the couple, so talking about what they want and what everyone feels comfortable with is important. Personally, I find playing all three together is very hot and would be my first choice if asked.

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I have been on both side's, I have been married and dating and would watch my girl with another man, sometimes I would join in I liked sloppy seconds & thirds. Sometimes I am the single man being with a couple. I liked to watch and join in, and I like to be watched then have hubby join in.

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      All of a sudden she starts trembling all over and moaning guttural. She spits out my cock and tells us she is going to cum. Cum was an understatement, she literally gushed girl cum all over my hotel bed. I've never seen such a gush, it sounded like somebody flushed a toilet.  
       
      "Sorry about the bed, but I told you I was a gusher," she says.  I suggest we all move over to the other bed and pull her on top of me. She is so wet that my pubes are soaked immediately. Dave pushes her forward onto me not too gently and we kiss as he works his cock inside her asshole. She starts to buck wildly and again tells us how hot this is. Her pussy is so wet that my cock falls out with every thrust into her ass. I suggest we switch positions and push into her ass as Dave fucks her with that monster cock. I spank her with every thrust talking dirty to her which sends Dave off to cumming inside her. We collapse for a minute and Dave excuses himself to get a drink of water. We are all sweating profusely.
       
      But I'm not done with Cindy yet, and lay on her missionary, spreading her legs wide and fucking her well used, stretched pussy like mad. I fall out a couple times and then decide to put my slippery hard cock into her ass, butt fucking her missionary. I think this was a first for her, since she calls Dave in to check it out. He watches and nods then leaves the bedroom to sit on the couch outside and listen.
       
      I give it to her for another 30 minutes easily, fucking her ass and rubbing her clit. She cums again and again but my cock gets desensitized due to the rubber and I can''t cum. As she is getting wore out, she asks me what she can do to get me off? I tell her that I don't think I can cum from fucking or sucking, come sit on my face and I'll jerk myself off. She looks at me devilishly and climbs right on top, lowering her big cunt right on my face, holds my head with both hands, and slides back and forth, giving me an opportunity to lick her ass. After two minutes of this I feel my cum boiling in my nuts and explode a huge load on my stomach. She smiles, licks some up and then snowballs me! Another first.
       
      I lay there not believing what happened as they get dressed and pack up. I email her after to check if Dave was OK with all of this and she says sure. I never hear from them again.
    • By Billygoat
      We had met Darrell and Judy at a swingers house party that we used to attend way back when we first started in the lifestyle. We have been involved for about a year and a half, and we met a lot of great people and played with some. Although we were very friendly with this younger couple, we hadn’t played. We had been in the same room together, in the open room, but never really discussed or talked about getting together physically in our conversation.
       
      At the last party, they had learned that I had a service business, something they might be interested in. They asked if I might be able to come by the following Sunday morning when they’re both home and go over some of the things they wanted to have taken care of. Darrell asked that I arrive early on Sunday morning, so I was there about 10 minutes ahead of time, parked in the driveway. Darrell came out on the porch and waved me to come on it. It was about 8 o’clock.
       
      We went into his kitchen, and he poured me a mug of coffee. After we chatted for a few minutes, he started to describe some of the things that he wanted done. He also mentioned that Judy was still asleep but should be down shortly.
       
      After about 15 to 20 minutes of casual conversation, you could hear movement, with someone coming down the stairs. A sleepy voice called out, “Honey, I need my morning dose.” Darrell responded, “Here in the kitchen, babe, we have company.” Judy shuffled in wearing her pink fuzzy slippers and an oversized men’s T-shirt, her breast swinging freely underneath the fabric. She mumbled a sleepy, “Oh, good morning,” as she headed for the pot of coffee on the counter.
       
      Darrell and I continued chatting away as Judy prepared her mug of coffee and joined us at the table. Darrell explained to her that we had already discussed their needs and that I had come up with a couple of suggestions that I would get back to them on. Judy sat quietly, taking it all in, sipping at her coffee, gazing between Darrell and myself through the rising steam of her mug.
       
      The conversation then turned to the usual general talk about what we’ve been up to, what they’ve been up to, work, etc. Darrell got up to pour another cup of coffee. As he passed Judy, she mumbled, “I need my dose, babe.” He just shook his head. I wasn’t really sure what all this meant. I assumed some sort of medication, but who knows?
       
      As Daryl returned with his coffee, he stood over Judy, bent down as she looked up, gently kissed her forehead, and said, “Honey. You wrecked me last night. I have nothing left to give.“
       
      Now I had a good idea what they were talking about and must’ve given myself away with a muffled chuckle. “She can be quite the demanding vixen, “said Darrell. “She kept me up half the night, and I’m all tapped out.”
       
      Judy looked at me with a very mischievous smile on her face. Darrell looked down at Judy and said, “If you need more, you’re gonna have to get it from him,” Daryl stated, tipping his head in my direction. I have to say this took me by surprise. As I said before, we have not played yet other than sharing the same area in a group room.
       
      I did not know what to say just sat quietly with probably a very silly looking grin on my face not sure if I should respond or not. Judy is the one who broke the silence. “Hmm I think I would like that very much if he is willing” again a moment or two of awkward silence when Derek stated “buddy you’d be doing me a favor I need a break.”
       
      Now I will be honest: Judy is a very good-looking woman 15 years my junior, about five foot eight, with an hourglass figure, long brunette hair, and large full breasts. To say I was attracted to her, you’re damn right. I just was not expecting this situation and did not want to overstep my bounds.
       
      “Well?” Darrell asked. “Really?” I asked.
       
      “Please. She has been talking about you since the last party. She is very willing,” Darrell persisted. “She sucks me off just about every morning. I got nothing left.” Judy smiled and giggled.
       
      I quietly thanked myself for showering this morning. “I just need to make a quick phone call to check in at home, but I would have to say I’m greatly interested and would be happy to oblige.” Judy let out a squeal of glee, clapping her hands in front of her, and I could not ignore the shaking of her breasts underneath the thin T-shirt.
       
      I made a quick call to the Queen, stating what was going to happen, and she responded, “Good luck, enjoy yourself, be home by 1 o’clock. We have plans this afternoon.” I put my phone down on the table, looked up at Darrell, and Judy smiled and said, “Well, I guess I’m free.”
       
      Judy took a sip of her coffee, turned her chair to the side and asked me to come stand in front of her. Once there, she did not waste any time unbuckling my belt and jeans, pulling them down to my knees. In one motion, she pulled my boxers down and buried her face fully against my flaccid cock and balls, sniffing deeply. She rocked her head from side to side and softly murmured a gentle “mmmm” of approval. After nuzzling me a bit, she gave me two gentle kisses, and using only her tongue, she swept my soft cock into her mouth. I looked over to Darrell to see he had a big grin indicating to me he liked what he saw Judy doing. I relaxed a bit more.
       
      Looking down at Judy she had her eyes closed. She was rolling me around inside her mouth with her tongue. Then she sucked hard and gently bobbed her head a few times, then took me completely into her mouth again. She was making soft, guttural moans as she continued attacking me. “She really loves doing this,” Darrell stated. I did not respond other than a sigh on my part.
       
      Judy continued working me with her mouth, and I started to respond to her efforts. As I started to swell, she took less and less of me into her mouth. She started stocking me with her hand and mouth. After a short time, she “popped” the head of my cock out of her mouth. “Oh my,” she said as she stroked me with her two hands, “I didn’t expect this.” She gasped, then took the remaining length of my cock beyond her two fists in her mouth. “Dude,” exclaimed Darrell, “do you mind if I take pictures of Judy with that?” I could only nod my head in approval; I didn’t want to break the mood.
       
      Darrell fumbled with his phone and started taking pictures. Judy, with just the tip of me in her mouth, hands-free. And then one of my full length from her chin to her forehead.
      “Damn,” Darrell stated, happily clicking away. Judy used one hand to stroke me while sucking on my balls. Darrell had the sound activated on his phone, and there were times it rapidly stuttered as he excitedly took multiple pictures as Judy skillfully continued the assault on my full erection. She tried to take more of me in her mouth but could only manage about half of me before her gag reflex kicked in, and she loudly gasped, popping me out of her mouth and sucking in a large amount of air while stroking with one, then both hands. Every now and again, she would run her tongue from my balls and under the length of my cock, sinking as much of me as possible into her mouth.
       
      At some point, the shutter noise on Darrell’s phone stopped. I wasn’t sure when, but he continued to move the phone camera around Judy’s head and shoulders, I assume taking video. After several minutes of this, although I’m not very sure of the time, Judy stopped. “Let’s go in the living room.”
       
      I kicked off my sneakers and pants and, with her holding my cock in her hand, led me into their living room to a sectional couch and had me sit on an oversized ottoman. She took a pillow from the couch and knelt on it in front of me. She resumed stroking me. One-handed, two-handed, then into her mouth. Shallow, deep, gagging a bit, then back to stroking. Time drifted away as I was enjoying every moment of her efforts. “Tell her when you are ready to cum so I can get a closeup,” instructed Darrell. Again, no answer from me other than nodding my head.
       
      Judy continued vigorously, trying to get me to cum. She rested occasionally, stroking my length with her two hands. After a bit of time, I heard her ask Darrell, “Can I try this? I really want to try him.”
       
      “Hell yeah,” Darrell exclaimed. “Is that ok with you?” he asked me.
       
      “Sure,” I responded. Judy is still working on me. “Only cum in her mouth,” Darrell instructed. I mumbled an “ok” in agreement.
       
      Judy told me to lay back on the ottoman as she stood stripping off the tee shirt. Her breasts swung freely, jiggling with her every movement. I expected that I would be given a condom or she might roll one on me, but instead, she turned away from me and started to lower herself onto me reverse cowgirl. Seeing my concern, Darrell assured me it would be okay if I was okay with it. I agreed.
       
      My crotch was soaked with Judy’s saliva. I watched with eager anticipation as she positioned herself over me. Darrell was giving her some instruction so he could get his video of her lowering herself onto me. I witnessed a few rivulets trickling down her inner thighs. She grasped my cock with her hand and rubbed the end of it along her lips while slightly lowering herself back and forth but not penetrating. After a few moments, I felt her start to take me in. She gasped and stopped for a moment, then repeated, taking me out, rubbing me back in. God, she felt great.
       
      Judy shifted herself slightly, still holding my cock. She guided me back into her opening, taking just the head of me into her. After a brief pause, she lifted her hips up a little and then backed down a little further. A few strokes and then a little more. Each time she did this, shallowly stroking what she had in her, she would slowly take a little more. With each deeper penetration, her body would gently quiver a bit.
       
      “Damn, this is hot”! Darrell blurted out. If he thought what he saw was hot he should see this from my angle. Damn is right.
       
      I do not think either of us were aware of time. There was no rush, no frenzied groping or pumping. Judy was in complete control as it should be, all about her pleasure, her comfort.
      It wasn’t long before I was completely embedded inside the warmth of this woman. Using her body to stroke me, she would take me shallow, then deep strokes, occasionally stopping, deeply penetrating, and grinding on me, almost like dancing on me with her hips. I could hear her murmuring something from time to time, but I didn’t make out what she was saying. I was too engrossed with what she was doing to me.
       
      After a while, she stood, releasing my cock. She turned, facing me, and straddled my waist. Grasping my cock she guided me into her, and she settled completely on my cock. “Damn babe, do that again,” Darrell, now directing this video. I didn’t care at all; I was thoroughly enjoying myself.
       
      He directed her to rise up almost off me the slowly back down. I was lost in her breasts hanging down on me, her nipples brushing along my chest with her rocking motion. Judy’s breathing was quickening with the occasional moan. I loved stroking her breasts, using both hands to hold and squeeze while my mouth teased and pulled on her nipples. She started to ride me harder for a while, stopping every so often with full penetration, wiggling her hips. Once she started raising herself completely and then slamming herself back onto me, taking full, deep strokes, I started to feel that I was getting there.
       
      “I need you to take me,” mumbled Judy as she raised herself off of me. I stood, and she knelt on the ottoman. I accepted the offer of taking her from behind, but I took my time. Partial and shallow strokes, then slowly pushing in deep.
       
      Gauging that she was comfortable with this, I spread her cheeks apart with my hands, went as deep as possible, and paused. With each deep penetration and pause, she would gasp slightly and pump and grind against me.
       
      I’m not sure who was breathing more excitedly, Judy, me, or Darrell, who was totally lost in videoing and watching through the lens. He had swapped out his phone for a handheld video camera at some point, but I am not sure when. I hadn’t noticed.
       
      Judy set the pace. She started bucking back onto me hard and solid. I took the hint and picked up the pace, slamming back into her with full deep strokes. Her verbal jerky breathless “aaahhhs” and “oohhhs” excited me and Darrell. He was moving around us videoing from various angles commenting as he goes.
       
      Judy announced we had to stop. I was concerned if she was ok. She was; she just wanted to be on her back.
       
      She grasped my hand and, giggling, pulled me quickly down the hall, with Darrell a step behind me, to a bedroom. She sat on the bed and quickly took me into her mouth, running her tongue along my length. She laid back her butt on the edge of the bed, pulling me to her. “Fuck me hard,” she said, “but I want you to cum in my mouth.” I nodded that I understood.
      I position myself between her raised legs. She pulled her legs back and wide open, bent at the knees. I leaned in, pressing myself against her opening, grasping each breast in my hands. Bending to nuzzle and suck on her nipples made me enter her partially, making Judy wriggle a light and let out an audible sigh. I squeezed both breasts together and alternated between each nipple as I started to push deeper inside her. She wiggled her hips, trying to press onto me. Once fully penetrated, she ground herself on me.
       
      After a few minutes, I raised myself above her and started slowly pumping into her. I alternated shallow pumping with a few deep full strokes and, from time to time, pressing deep into her and just grinding against her. It seemed to excite her, judging by her body response and breathy moans. “Fuck me hard,” she said, “take me hard!” Our director shouted the same, “Pound her hard!”
       
      Placing a hand on each thigh to hold her legs open and back, I started a steady thrusting, alternating occasionally slamming against her hard. Judy responded with pleasing moans. She fondled and squeezed her breasts and then gathered them both on her chest, cradled by both her upper arms. Her breasts rocked and waved with each thrust. It was marvelous. I was desperately trying to keep the same pace.
       
      Judy traced her fingers over her lower tummy, bringing both over the top of her pubic mound. Her fingers, finding her sweet spot, started vigorously rubbing above her clitoris. I continued to piston in and out of Judy. Her mouth opened, and her breathing sounded labored.
       
      After a few minutes, she started to make a soft-pitched whimpering noise. I continued to thrust hard into her. Only slightly withdrawing, then slamming back into her, making her whole body jerk, her breasts jolting about with each impact. Her whining noise was getting a bit higher and louder, and then it hit. She suddenly sucked in a big breath of air, her head picked up off the bed, a long guttural moan that ended on a high note. “Aarrggeeeee!” Then, her back arched as she slammed her head back, followed by rapid breathing and intermittent uncontrolled giggling. I felt her contraction, an intense gripping of my cock as she climaxed.
       
      I slowed to a slow, deliberate, full-stroke penetration. I knew I was very close. I declared, “I’m going to cum!” and pulled out of Judy and stepped back. Judy slinked off the bed to her knees on the floor. I was pumping my cock by hand. Judy pushed it aside and started to rapidly jerk my cock by hand. “Cum for me, come on, cum” Judy repeated this a few times as the build-up reached its peak. I moaned low and loud. The first volley went across her open mouth and right cheek. The next, she aimed me directly into her mouth. Third and forth, under her chin and neck, the remaining small spurts and drops landed scattered over her breasts. “Wow, oh my god!” Judy squealed excitedly.
       
      Darrell was beside himself with excitement. Other than the pictures and videos they made themselves, this was the first video allowed with someone other than Darrell. He said, “This is crazy sexy, hot as hell”! The clock in the bedroom indicated we had been at this for about 90 minutes. A first for all of us. But to be fair, a hell of a lot of manual and oral play, stop and start, prolonged it all. Judy agreed, reached over, and pulled Darrell to her. She quickly pulled down his sweatpants and promptly took his cock in her mouth. I picked up their video camera and started videoing the two of them.
       
      Judy had Darrell hard in just a few seconds. She made an extra effort to lavish his cock with her mouth, bobbing her head up and down and then swallowing him whole.
       
      She then pulled him down on top of her. He quickly slipped inside her and started hammering away with Judy, encouraging him along, “Take me baby, fill me up!”
       
      From my view, I had a clear shot of him pumping his cock in and out of her. With her telling him to take her hard, cum for her, and watching the two of us for the past hour and a half, he had no hope of lasting very long. He started groaning, Judy telling him to fill her. He let out a bellow and started cumming inside her. I caught the whole thing on video. His pumping and cumming. His cum leaking around his cock out of her. And when he pulled out, the cum leaked out of her. When things calmed down, he viewed the video and couldn’t believe how hard he came and how much he gave her. Judy chimed in, “And you said you didn’t have anymore, holding out on me.”
       
      We didn’t get dressed. We went into the kitchen and talked about what had just happened and past swinging adventures. About an hour later, Judy walked over to me and asked if I could go again. I looked at Darrell, and he quickly shook his head yes. “If you can, that would be awesome”. I agreed.
       
      We walked back to the bedroom and climbed up on the bed. We kissed and fondled each other a little bit. I then positioned myself on my left side and maneuvered Judy on her back with her legs up and over my hip. I easily slipped my semi-soft cock inside her. She was very warm and wet from Darrell. My hands were free to caress and squeeze her breasts. Darrell switched between videoing and kissing Judy. He occasionally played and sucked on her breasts. I slowly pumped a little into Judy. After a few moments, she exclaimed, “I can feel you growing inside me,” and giggled in amazement.
       
      Once I was fully hard I changed position to a supporting missionary. Using my knees to keep Judy’s legs open and my arms keeping me up to watch and nibble on her breasts. I started slow, long thrusts and built up to harder, faster, full-length thrusts. In about fifteen minutes, I was pulling out and dribbling cum on her tummy. Judy sat up and slid down, taking me into her mouth, making an effort to suck and lick me clean.
       
      It was almost noon, and I had to run to get home on time. We promised each other we would get together soon, all four of us. And that we did. They joined our group and played once or twice a month at our parties. We also traveled and shared very often for 4 - 5 years. Then, they moved to New Mexico for Darrell’s work.
    • By dccc4fun
      So we are new to swinging for the most part. We've had some experiences in private with other males and females.
       
      We are very interested in going to a swingers club but also nervous at the same time. My husband is worried about boundaries being respected and possibly pushy men. We are a secure couple so that's not the issue, we just don't want to deal with that type of behavior.
       
      Is this a problem we might run into?
    • By SwingersBoard
      My story is about my ex-wife and myself and one of the adventures including my best friend. She was a quiet woman, but the quiet ones can be very wild. We had our first threesome shortly after our first child was born.
       
      We had been partying and all of us were feeling pretty good. Christen and I had a few encounters with my friend Jeff. On this particular night, she came up to me and kissed me while I was looking in the fridge. Some of our guests were laughing and joking in the other room. I gave her that glance that she knew I was asking if she wanted to have a smaller, more private party. She shook her head yes, sucked my tongue into her mouth, and went back into the other room. The party started winding down another hour or so later, and as the last of the guest were leaving my wife went upstairs. Just Jeff and I remained downstairs. I asked if he was ready for another party and he was. He always was with her. She isn't overly pretty or have that model body, but she could certainly fuck good. We went upstairs and found her in the bedroom.
       
      We both went over, me stripping off my clothes while Jeff just climbed onto the bed. My wife then rolled towards him and they started kissing. I just sat on the edge of the bed watching them, stroking my dick. I was so hard. I watched her unzip his pants and pull them down with his help. Once free of his pants the shirt came off. He laid on his side and she went down and took his cock into her mouth. She sucked the head nice and slow, running her tongue all over it. I heard him moan and then watched as he reached into her panties he started rubbing her clit. My cock was hard than granite at this point. I was stroking myself pretty good by this point, but was waiting for more action before I joined in. I saw her wrap her hand around his cock and pump it while she sucked him in over and over again. I reached over and pulled her panties down her legs and off. She wasn't wearing a bra so when I helped her out of her shirt, her breasts were free for the taking.
       
      They moved into the center of the bed, with him on his back. She again sucked his cock a few more times and then started to position herself above him. Straddling his body she reached down and grabbed his hard cock and aimed it at her pussy. I moved around the bed and watched as she lowered herself onto his pole. Slowly the head disappeared and inch by inch she took him until he was in balls deep. She ground on him for a few minutes, slowly gaining speed. My cock was ready to burst. I almost lose my mind when I see her fucking him on top. She really loves to be in control too. He was sucking her breasts and she was moaning really loud. She knows that I love to do her doggy style, but I thought that she had too much on her mind to stop in the middle of this and let me take her.
       
      To my surprise, she pulled herself off and started sucking him again between his spread legs. She rarely will suck any dick after she has ridden it for a while since she doesn't like the taste of her pussy, but she was sucking again with a passion. Her ass was sticking high in the air, with her back arched. I saw this as my invitation, and crawled on my knees up behind her, he with one stroke I was in the wettest, loosest pussy I have been in. I love the feel of her pussy after someone else has been in it for a while. I usually cum within a few minutes, but I guess my cock was extra hard from watching for so long. Also, I hadn't expected her to ride him so quickly which added to me being turned on so much. I was fucking her with long, hard, deep strokes. Fucking with a power that only sharing her with another man can give me. After a mind blowing 15 minutes, she slammed back at me real hard and I started cumming inside of her. I have to keep pumping until my orgasm is finished.
       
      I rolled over and she rolled off of him and in between us on the bed. We all fell asleep, but I was awaken to the bed moving. She was again riding his cock, but she was lying down flat on him. I started to jerk off at the sight of what I was witnessing. I heard her start to moan and soon she was cumming. She rode him a few more minutes until he too had finished letting loose another load of sperm in my wife. I came shortly afterwards all over my stomach. When we awoke in the morning, everyone had those morning after thoughts of what we had done. I left to take a shower and when I came back I noticed she was again blowing him through the crack in the door. I just watched as she sucked him for 20 minutes or so. Eventually, he groaned and filled her mouth with cum. She got off the bed heading to the bathroom I guess to spit the load in the sink. But as she went by she said I darling, kissed me and continued on her way. I couldn't believe she actually swallowed his load. Something she never had done with me.
       
      The next night I had to work and the three of us got it on just an hour before I was leaving. When I left I had cum and showered quickly. Leaving Jeff and my wife to fuck the rest of the night away. The next morning when he came to work we passed each other smiling in the hallway. I went home that morning to a very tired wife. She told me she loved getting fucked by other men.
       
      We divorced about six years later, but I have many fond memories of her sucking and fucking other men. I used to let her go out to get fucked by someone she had met in a bar. But, that is another story. I wish my current fiance would let another man fuck her, but she so far, isn't into it and I'm not pushing. These stories fill my need to have MFM threesomes. There is nothing like watching your woman with another man.
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