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As a Bull it is fun to find couple that are into the cuckold style or like S and L which is more like a hot wife. The most important thing is that it is fun for all involved. With some cuckold couples that does change when the wife really gets into a Bull when the husband is not a true submissive and willing to be in the background.

 

I have seen this 'BULL' term tossed around in a few places. Is this just a twist to make some of these couples feel more comfortable when dealing with a Dom, with separation from BDSM?

 

I've yet to find someone who knows what the slang means.

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I have seen this 'BULL' term tossed around in a few places. Is this just twist to make some of these couples feel more comfortable when dealing with a Dom, seperation from BDSM?

 

I've yet to find someone who knows what the slang means.

 

Let me give it a try and see where it goes.

Bull is the general term for the lucky man that the hotwife chooses to be unfaithful to her husband with, usually involving humiliation or sissification of her husband. I don’t really like or use the term myself. I usually think of and refer to myself as ‘the other guy’.

There are many variations of bull that a cuckold couple may seek. I believe the classic idea of a Bull might include:

• Some seek a nine inch black cock, known as BBC for big black cock. Interracial and magnificent endowment seem to be recurring themes in cuckoldry.

• Sometimes the hotwife takes a regular boyfriend.

• Some seek the young stud. So you have the 40+ wife hooking up with a 20 something athletic type. Cougaring.

• Some want an alpha male dom who will, along with the hotwife, seriously humiliate or punish the cuckold husband.

• Some seek a bisexual male so the cuckold can be made to perform homosexual acts and cleanup after the bull.

• Some seek the porn star stud to perform various porn acts that the cuckold is not allowed, and that the wife may not do otherwise.

 

I find the term Bull is also used where the wife engages another guy for other reasons, which are meant to stimulate the couple’s own sex lives without the need to severely humiliate the cuckold.

• Often, the husband is voyeuristic and gets great pleasure and sexual excitement seeing his wife with another man.

• Often the husband is auralistic and gets great pleasure and sexual excitement hearing about his wife with another man.

• Often, the wife wants to act out various fantasies such as; sex with a stranger, role playing, ‘forced’ sex, breaking taboos, sexual experimentation, bondage play, light spanking

• Sometimes, it is to validate the wife’s sexuality and desirability

• Sometimes, there is some mild humiliation of the cuckold (to serve as a stimulus).

 

I'll be interested to hear your thoughts.

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Guest rdy46227

A Bull is a dominate/alpha male who takes control of the female away from her then current SO. If she stays with her old SO, it's the Bull's decision that she do so.

 

Think about a farm. Bulls are aggressive and don't tolerate anyone messing with their heifers.

 

Traditional Cuckolding is driven by the Bull. Hot wife is driven by the female, or male who chooses to share. Big difference, but few care anymore.

 

This change of meaning gets confusing and leaves us without a word to use when we want the old meaning of "he took her away from her lover".

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It must take a special kind of man to fall in line with being the "cuck" in a relationship.

 

Any outside activities that my SO and I indulge in would require a "bull" to bring something to the party, other than a big johnson.

 

For example, he would be required to bring his lady, be it his wife, girlfriend, or, even his mother.

 

And any and all of them would be required to be able to work their stuff, if the party continued. :cool:

 

My Opinion Only.

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I'll be interested to hear your thoughts.

 

I don't get it.

 

I understand the concept, but I don't see how anyone, male or female, would willingly partake in it.

 

I think just about every married couple entertains in their thoughts the possibility of swinging, even if they reject it. There is SOME appeal there, and I've heard it brought up numerous times in vanilla conversation. The usual response is 'oh I couldn't do that' but then despite the fact that they would NEVER do it, they can't seem to not talk about it.

 

Cuckolding seems more like psychological issue.

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I don't get it.

 

I understand the concept, but I don't see how anyone, male or female, would willingly partake in it.

 

You may not get it, but there are a helluva lot of people who are into it. There are many websites devoted to it. In my experience, most are into softer versions rather than the classic Bull/humiliation scene. Also in my experience, both the hubby and wife are in on it and enjoy their respective roles.

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You may not get it, but there are a helluva lot of people who are into it. There are many websites devoted to it. In my experience, most are into softer versions rather than the classic Bull/humiliation scene. Also in my experience, both the hubby and wife are in on it and enjoy their respective roles.

 

I'm not denying its existence, but as I said I don't get it.

 

Most sexual deviations I 'get' even if I don't like them myself. Gay, BDSM, Poly, whatever, I can say 'I see how that's good for them'.

 

Cuckolding seems to be replacing fear and humiliation with being turned on which I just can't wrap my head around.

 

I checked out one of those sites as you mentioned and the term used for the husband was 'the sissy', and I can't see how a woman would respect you for being weak.

 

It is one of those things where I just accept it as an alien point of view.

 

I suppose thats the dividing line between something as a fetish and something that's under 'normal' sexuality. I don't get foot fetishes either ;)

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Thank you strathmore for the breakdown. Doesn't help much regarding some of the requests I've seen posted in various places, because none of them indicated what kind of 'bull' they were seeking. I had responded to one or two, with no replies back. So I just shrugged it off.

 

I believe we shall just stick with our friendly fun dating concept, enjoying if more happens. I really don't mind doing things for a woman that she might not consider doing with her hubby, however, I'm not really big on putting someone down. It doesn't get me excited doing such.

 

My intent of the question wasn't to 'highjack' I believe was the word, the thread. I was hoping for a fairly simple, or at least concise, answer.

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I've been under the delusion that true cuckolding is when a man (aka Bull) takes a female away from her husband, in such a way that the husband is involved and generally (sexually) humiliated in the process.

 

Keys include the Bull being much more "alpha" than the husband and the female switching primary allegiance to the Bull. It is not unusual for the Bull to dominate the female in the traditional meaning of D/s, and in turn direct/encourage her to dominate her husband.

 

For example, she will do things for the Bull which she refuses to do for her husband, and will order her husband to service or submit to the Bull.

 

The Bull demonstrates his alpha position not just by fucking married/attached females but by taking possession of them. His alpha-ness is so strong that the female can't help but switch to him, which proves his standing.

 

Some mates put up a fight against the Bull, so when the Bull makes him accept his inferiority (as validated by the female) it's another demonstration that the Bull is alpha. If the husband rebels by divorcing the female, as long as the female stays with the Bull, it's just a victory sign for the Bull.

 

(Note that the husband doesn't have to voluntarily accept, let alone solicit, the Bull. This is the biggest difference from "hot wife", etc.)

 

Sometimes there is a long running triad where both female and Bull benefit from having the husband subservient, e.g. he supports them or does the housework. An ultimate coup is for the husband to raise the Bull's child as his own with full acknowledgment he is not the father.

 

(This is the "cuckolding" -- the Bull's child raised by the couple, with or without acknowledgment by the husband.)

 

It's not unheard of for the female to eventually abandon (divorce) her husband for the Bull, especially if the Bull is concentrating on her or isn't trying to keep a stable. Marrying the Bull is another demonstration of the Bull's superiority, i.e. the female "traded up" to the better man.

 

Occasionally she and/or the Bull become tired of having the husband involved, or he becomes so degraded in the female's eye, he is kicked out (divorced). The Bull scores another victory, even when he does not choose to wed the female.

 

Bulls who choose to live that lifestyle can end up with stables of females, though some Bulls are more "serially monogamous" by continuously trading up and abandoning previous conquests.

 

In a Bull's stable, females known to each other may fight to be alpha female, and try for full (or primary) possession of the Bull. This is because the Bull is so attractive as the alpha male, and validates him as a Bull.

 

In summary, the cuckolding is all about the Bull. The female switches loyalty to him, and the husband looses control to them.

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That which is described, above may well provide an explanation for numerous homicides where the motivation isn't always clear, to all.

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I have seen this 'BULL' term tossed around in a few places. Is this just a twist to make some of these couples feel more comfortable when dealing with a Dom, and separation from BDSM?

 

I've yet to find someone who knows what the slang means.

A bull is usually the man who fucks a hotwife in a cuckolding relationship but are also the men utilized in interracial sex by women who may or may not be married. When a bull is with a hotwife in front of her husband, no acts of humiliation need be involved.

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I do act as a Bull for a few couples I know. It has been my experience a couple seeks me for a several reasons. One is the husband will have a very tiny cock, or can no longer get it up. The couples I have met with and in fact still play with on and off are very loving and the husband wants to see her pleasured; she may need attention and I or another male may be her only relief.

 

I have also met a couple that treated it a little different. She was in charge and let him know it. He seems to like the treatment, even when she had him perform oral on me (another thing a Bull must be open to, receiving not giving that is!). He also had a major erection issue although at least while I was there, he might have wilting problem in front of other men?

 

Anyway the bottom line is I enjoy the play and the couples do also.

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      She said, "Ok, I get it, but I hope this is coming to the end of it."  I then had her call John and had her say the following to him, "I hear  you have a job opening for me, can you confirm the dress code and expectations that I just heard from my husband."  She listened to his response and said "When do you want me to start?.  And for the next three months she arrived at John's house, always with a sweater on in case she got stopped by a police officer or if something weird happened on her way "to work." And the first thing she did when she got in the house was take her sweater off. 
       
      The very first time she was to go to work she came downstairs and took her sweater off and said, "Does this meet  your approval?"  She was obviously braless, wearing a thin, low cut tank top with low arm holes exposing plenty of side boob, and you could make out the color of her nipples through the top.  I told Sue I couldn't have picked out better work attire and then she went to work. 
       
      During the three months doing this I had to go on a business trip for a few days so I called John and told him to call Sue and ask her out to dinner and make plans to spend some time at his house.  I also told John I wanted "photo proof of him fucking her so I know she went."  This was also going to be a test to see if Sue would be honest about telling me what she was going to do. 
       
      About 30 minutes after talking with John, Sue called me.  She told me that John had asked her out to dinner and wanted to make sure I was ok with that?  She said it felt like she was going "on a date" rather than just being a friend with benefits.  I told her it felt the same way to me, and considering that she pretty much "went on dates" with the previous John without my knowledge, that she now needed to realize that she was about to start dating John WITH my knowledge.  She asked how much longer she needed to go through with this and I told her I hadn't even started to think about that yet because I had been hurt so much. 
       
      So Sue and John had their first "date" while I was away on business.  John sent me an email that included an attachment.  He laughingly wrote: "As you requested, my first date with your wife happened.  I also told her that you asked me to inform her that you wanted her to agree to start "dating me" rather than just me fucking her.  And she agreed to it, so once she's back teaching and can't come over during the summer anymore, she is going to start seeing me for longer periods of time rather than coming over for an hour to fuck each other, we'll grab dinner or take a drive somewhere."
       
      John also told me to watch the attachment as he sent "more than a photo".  I opened the attachment and saw two things: a photo of my wife's face with his cock in her mouth, pressing her cheek from the inside so I could see his cock bump pushing out her cheek. And he also sent me a video that lasted a few minutes of him fucking her.  He told me not to worry, that he'd delete both the photo and video, but I told him I wanted him to keep it so he'd always be able to look back on how they looked fucking each other. 
       
      And that relationship lasted around 15 years.  After fucking John about 10 times Sue told me that she noticed something different and wanted to be honest with me.  I asked her what she was talking about.  She said it felt like John was "fucking" her at times like he was paying for it but other times it was more emotional, it was starting to feel like he was "making love" to her. I told her I guess that would be normal after seeing someone consistently that you liked.  I told her I was ok with that. 
       
      She then said she was starting to feel like she was making love to him at times, that it was emotional for her as well feeling like she was giving her body to someone she cared about as a friend.  She wasn't having any feelings of being in love with him, but she was getting some emotional connection where she wanted to give herself to him when they saw each other.  It turned me on. The frequency of sex got less over the last couple of years but he and I estimated, that not counting the three months she worked for him and they fucked anywhere from 2-4 times a week, that he had fucked her somewhere between 50-100 times. 
       
      And to this day, years later, the thought that she's been fucked so much by the same guy is a turn-on.  We all still remain friends today.  I thought that would be the end of our openess in our marriage but there would be two other men that would enter our lives, both of which got substantial time with my hotwife.  And she wanted it. 
       
      If you'd like to read about it, let me know and I'll write it up.
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      Has anyone any experience of this scenario, they are swinger and cuckold couple.
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      We are looking to try to find some porn of swinging and cuckolding  to assist in our fantasies and hopefully bring us closer to taking the plunge. We have found a decent bit of full swap swinging porn, but almost all cuck porn we have found is fetishizing a black guy. Now there is nothing wrong with a black lover, but we are trying to find variety to help with our fantasies. Are there any sites or options y'all would recommend?
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      When my wife and I first started in the lifestyle, we had some hard rules.  One of which was no solo playing.  Six months and three BBC adventures later, she decided that the “no solo” play rule was nonsense and asked, more like begged, to be able to play alone five miles away. She was off for summer break.  Since I was working 30 miles away and she was home alone all day, I relented.
       
      About a week later, I came home from work and she was waiting for me in stilettos and a flowing summer dress sans underwear.  The dress was a halter type with a slit all the way past her thigh.  She also had the tell-tale twinkle in her eye that she usually gets after she climaxes.  Since she usually wears jeans and t-shirts during the day, I knew something was up.  She had a cocktail already made for me and an appetizer tray.  I was impressed.
       
      She led me to the living room sofa and when she sat down, her dress fell open and I could clearly see her bare pussy and one of her nipples.  Now I knew something great was about to happen.  I asked her how her day went and what was the reason for the seduction.  She then said, “I had a great day!”  Then she proceeded to tell me in detail what happened.
       
      Her BBC friend DJ came by on his tri-wheeled motorcycle to take her for a ride.  She was wearing a very short maroon skirt with a yellow sheer top.  She had a g-string but no bra.  She was not expecting a motorcycle ride.  He handed her a helmet and off they went.  Since she was in a short skirt, her pussy rubbed directly on the seat as they cruised.  The g-string enhanced he friction from the motorcycle vibration on the seat.  She nearly came from the ride itself.   After they returned to the house, she invited DJ in for some refreshments.
       
      Refreshments were quickly consumed and she led him to the bedroom where he helped her remove blouse and skirt.   As she dropped her g-string, her pussy stains were quite evident.  
      My wife is usually not very submissive. But for some reason, she enjoys when DJ dominates her and she tries things with him she never lets me or anybody else do.
       
      DJ is a former football player with a very muscular physique.  His cock is rather short for a black man, only about 5.5 inches long.  The girth of his cock however is unbelievable.  When he is flaccid, the circumference of his cock is close to the size of a Red Bull drink can.  When he is erect, he is almost as round as a beer can.  Since he is so wide, he easily hits her g-spot on every thrust which makes her cum in great quantities.  After he finished cumming in her pussy, they took a short rest to recover and replenish fluids.  As they were laying in each other’s arms, he made my wife get into a kneeling position and open her mouth.  He then grabbed her head and started to push his cock into her mouth which was no easy feat given his size. Unbelievable to her, she actually took most of his cock in her mouth and sucked him until he came down her throat.  Something she refuse to let me do.
       
      Next, he made her lay on her stomach with a pillow under her waist.  He then proceeded to flog her ass, thighs, and cunt lips with a leather flog.  She always said she didn’t care for BDSM activities but here she was, laying on her stomach with a cum load in her pussy, one in her belly, getting her genitals flogged by a stranger.  The more he flogged her cunt, the more she squirmed and moaned until she actually orgasmed.   
       
      She then felt cool coconut oil being rubbed on and in her sphincter.  She told me him was too big but he didn’t listen.  He then grabbed her by the hips and pushed his beer can cock into her ass.   After an initial painful gasp, she finally became accustomed to his cock in her ass and actually started fucking him.  When she grants me the rare opportunity to fuck her ass, she begs me to go fast so I cum quickly and finish.  Given DJ had already cum twice, there was no rushing him.  He pounded her ass for at 10 or more minutes until he came the third time.
       
      As she lay exhausted, DJ dressed and kissed her goodbye.  I came home about an hour later.
       
      As she related her experiences that day she noticed I was visibly aroused and decided it was my turn to have fun.  We went into the bedroom and I started to licking her all over.  While the shower she took after DJ left cleaned out her pussy, it didn't quite get all of his cum out of her ass.  I tasted another man’s cum for the first time in my life.  For some reason, she now enjoys an occasional flogging and ass fucking from me.                         
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