Do you talk during sex?

[SW_PA_Couple 4,026]

Do you talk during sex?

[slevin 1,374]

Yes!

[Tadahiko 156]

Do you talk during sex?

 

oh hell yes. when we threeway, anna and i (mrs tada) never shut up. todd no so much. i think it is because women are aurally stimulated and men are visually stimulated. also, todd is usually quite busy, physically, if you knw what i mean

[If_You_Please 81]

Do you talk during sex?

 

Sure!!

 

The weather, the ball game, what we're having for lunch, the stock market...you know, the usual.

[The Fuse 1,012]

Yes, especially with a new partner. It's really hot and a good way of giving and getting feedback and finding out what we both like.

[fun4Ds 1,098]

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wHAT'S ON yo ur mind ?

[SecretAsianMan 348]

I like to talk and get lots of verbal feedback (talking, moaning or just vocalizing) ... unfortunately, most of my partners have been "the quiet type"

[Tia Vampire 167]

Yep, works for me.

[femnewb4u2 328]

I like to talk and get lots of verbal feedback (talking, moaning or just vocalizing) ... unfortunately, most of my partners have been "the quiet type"

 

 

Without the feedback I cannot learn to be a better playmate. One of the great things about multiple partners is not everyone is in an identical sensory system. So much fun exploring

[realcplub2 513]

Sometimes it helps a great deal..

 

nothing worse than someone that it too friggin quiet..

 

"breath a little louder so I know you are here in the room"

[LFM2 1,482]

Yep, both of us are always talking.

[Spoomonkey 421]

Some of the sexiest things I've ever had said to me were during sex.

 

Mrs Spoo and I laugh a lot together, so there is no telling what we are going to say. With playmates we are more subdued and focused, but we do talk a lot. As has been mentioned already, the feedback is especially important with someone new.

 

Spoomonkey

[The Fuse 1,012]

A regular partner of mine does talk a lot during sex, but only when we are in separate rooms from Mr. Fuse and Mrs. Playmate. In general he is less inhibited when we are by ourselves, and it comes out verbally as well as in other ways.

 

I seriously like it when a partner is verbal. I'm always trying to encourage Mr. Fuse to say more. He is very quiet.

[J&JSwinginPA 18]

Mrs. J and I have been talking more and more over the last few years and we both really enjoy it.

[shymxcpl 71]

I've been asked to SHUT UP during sex!! hahaha

[Alura 2,775]

Mrs. Alura and I always talked during sex. Sometimes when we wanted to talk something over, we'd copulate and have the conversation, moving just enough to keep us hard and lubed. After we'd settled the issue, the love making would get hotter. I remember that's the way we made the decision to quit the pill and try for our first baby. The next day she didn't take her pill. No, it took a few months.

 

I miss the sex, but I think I miss the conversations more.

 

Mr. Alura

[perkygl 26]

yes..maybe too much!!

[sweet_tna 680]

Yes . . . and no . . .

 

I'm definitely vocal, and have been known to crack jokes here and there during sex. Didja' ever notice a woman laughing during sex makes her muscles contract?

 

That said, as far as actual "sex talk" . . . not so much. I do make a LOT of noise though, so unless he's totally clueless, my partner will know whether I'm happy or not.

 

=)

[Spoomonkey 421]

I'm definitely vocal, and have been known to crack jokes here and there during sex. Didja' ever notice a woman laughing during sex makes her muscles contract?

 

Funny you should say that...

 

This past weekend, Mrs Spoo and I were together and I don't remember what was said, but remember both of us laughing to the point of not being able to breathe.

 

That was the BEST laugh I have ever had!

 

 

Spoomonkey

[good times 991]

I've been asked to SHUT UP during sex!! hahaha

Me too .....more than once.

 

I was once even told to shut up by my imaginary friend while masturbating.

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

Me too .....more than once.

 

I was once even told to shut up by my imaginary friend while masturbating.

 

:ROFLMA:

 

OMG that was too funny.

 

I too have been told to shut up during sex, although I must say my imaginary friend is usually quite quiet.

[truckerbuddy 127]

talk during sex?

 

don't, please, no, stop, yes, oh god,

 

let me think about it some more.

[tiger4play 36]

Harder, faster, more...more...more, yummy, deeper, cum for me.... talking? Yes, definitely!!! If you don't.... your missing out on something arousing and telling!

[NCfuncouple98 367]

Harder, faster, more...more...more, yummy, deeper, cum for me.... talking? Yes, definitely!!! If you don't.... your missing out on something arousing and telling!

 

Exactly. That's how I talk during sex too.

[truckerbuddy 127]

tiger4play you missed one that i hear from time to time ( is it in yet ) lol jk

[WesternSwing 504]

Yes I do. Mrs. WS even has to ask me to shut-up sometimes and just fuck her.

[truckerbuddy 127]

Oh I just thought of one more... Did you know there was a crack in the ceiling?

 

But I'm the one on the bottom most of the time, so I try not to say it. LOL

[Tadahiko 156]

My two hens constantly chat with each other during sex, quite often about totally non-sexual topics! Anna once said to my wife while I was fucking her, "I am soooo craving a taco!" So Kari goes over and starts to squat over her face. Anna says, "No, really! After we're done let's run out to Taco Bell!"

[VanHlebar 187]

It all depends on the situation, but yeah we both talk a lot during sex. When we are playing we have been known to joke around and laugh quiet a bit also. We try to keep moments pretty light and have fun and if you can't laugh with a bunch of friends naked...

 

Can't say it has ever been a problem though.

[Trace Ekies 186]

I talk too much.

 

With that said, I've never been told that I talk too much during sex...by Mrs. Ekies or any of my other partners. I do try to keep the subject narrowed to the task at hand and not get off on a tangent about something weighty like the potential for an asteroid to wipe out life on planet earth.

 

I like to talk and I like for my partners to know what I think about them and how they make me feel. Some of it is light-hearted, some of it sexy and some of it down-right filthy...Mrs. Ekies loves to hear about how sexy I think it is to watch her take a cock in her pussy while she sucks me...there I go again.

 

It's fun and suits me well.

[Meetussoon 68]

If you can't or don't laugh in a pile of naked swinger friends, something is wrong. We are vocal, Marie especially. But, be careful, sometimes too much talk can get you in trouble, such as...using the lady's wrong name!! And, getting called on it.

[PB&J 1,086]

Which is why "Oh baby, oh baby" is so much safer

[SW_PA_Couple 4,026]

Which is why "Oh baby, oh baby" is so much safer

There's this woman we sometimes see at house parties. For the longest time we thought her husband's name was Jesus.

[PB&J 1,086]

There's this woman we sometimes see at house parties. For the longest time we thought her husband's name was Jesus.

 

I think I must be married to her husband's father!

[Additude 457]

Does chanting count?

[willyoats 324]

Sometimes. Depends on the partner.

 

The most intense sex was with beautiful women who clearly were concentrating on the sex act. I didn't think about it at the time, but chat just was not appropriate. The sex was all we were into.

 

At other times, the sex is just kind of fun sex, so joking and chatting seems quite natural. That is often the case now with my wife as we happily recall other sexual adventures while I am inside of her.

[magnum 78]

Do you talk during sex?

 

Yes... I am also a visual guy.

[Karmickiss 28]

Hi All,

Had to write a little something, as a situation I remembered started me laughing. I used to be pretty quiet....my late partner got a surprising vocal gal over time....it just came naturally.

 

So, I was with this younger male, a fling at one time, but we are still friends to this day. He's a sweetheart, and was a virgin when we got together, which turned out to be an odd turn on...only b/c he was my first and only "virgin" male. Anyway, I was trying to coax more talking, and thought to lead by example. He was giving me oral, and I was remarking and moaning loudly. I was really getting into it, and was experimenting with this at the time(more talking)

 

Something happened so out of the blue.....one and a million chance...one, I didn't lock the door to the house, while 'busy'. Two, my mom had brought my kids back earlier than expected...way earlier. She would normally never come in unless I answer the door, but she needed to use the rest room, which is right by my bedroom:blush: I was blissfully unaware until we heard the car horn she was beeping....and went to see what the commotion was all about..we were taking a break. I waved and the kids were let out. My oldest is the one that told me she came in to use the bathroom, and came out flustered and started beeping......Hope that was okay to share....so embarassed, of all people.....karmic

[Additude 457]

Ya know, at the time it's gotta be a really, really embarasing situation to have stuff like that happen to ya. But then later, as the embarrasment wears off, when you look back at it, it can become a cherished memory.

[couplers 4,718]

I hadn't thought about this question before. Yes I do talk, but it is different with David and Red. With hubby David it is pretty much a realistic conversation, even the fantasies. We talk about what we are going to do and in what order (Do you want me to lick you first?) I really like to get him to talk about other women he has had what they looked like naked, how they had sex, etc. and fantasize about other women, especially Anna. I will also talk sometimes about what I liked about the sex Red and I had (sometimes just had) or are going to have. Stating the fact I have a lover and a boyfriend, or that there is another woman hubby is fucking, is a big turn on fo me.

 

 

When Red and I are making love there is a script and it is assertive. We got into the groove early on, before I even met David, of Red asking me if I want him, if I love him and me saying to him that "This is your pussy," "You can have my cunt anytime you want it," "I want to keep your cum inside of me," etc. If anything, this riff has gotten only stronger since Red and I stopped living together and when I married David. (David has heard all this and calls it my "porno talk.") Red is a good guy, self-absorbed, and I think he needs these reassurances since he is the beta male in the relationship and I am his only love and sex partner. Another thing that we do that is a strange turn-on is that Red now asks if I need money. At first I turned him down (although Red is now doing pretty well, both David and I still each earn much more than he does), but now I sometimes say "yes," and ask for $10 or $20. It's not a prostitution fantasy, but he wants to show that he wants to and can support me. For me it's the turn-on of being wanted. I told hubby about this, and his response in his typical fashion was, "Why don't you ask him for a new car?"

[Expulsion 40]

You really can't get me to shut up and I'm pretty loud. If being quiet and discreet is a must, I can tone it down, but I prefer not to have to do that.

[caddy257 16]

yes.....but more like whisper

[EastInWest 1,524]

With Mrs. EastInWest and I, it depends on the sex. If we're taking our time and going slow, we'll chat and joke. If we're "fucking", there's a good chance I have my hand over her mouth to keep from alarming the neighbors anyway. A lot of our best dirty talk comes in the middle of oral.

[let's do it again 416]

You bet that I do! I warn the gals that in the heat of passion, no telling what bullshit will come out of my mouth so don't take it personally. 

[Numex 2,459]

On 6/9/2009 at 8:46 AM, The Fuse said:

A regular partner of mine does talk a lot during sex, but only when we are in separate rooms from Mr. Fuse and Mrs. Playmate. In general he is less inhibited when we are by ourselves, and it comes out verbally as well as in other ways.

I can understand that and that's one of the reasons we often play alone - to be totally uninhibited.  That's also the reason that I've told Daniela that she can say anything to a lover in my presence and to me whenever she is engaged in having sex.  I don't mind if she tells another guy or woman that he/she is the best, or that she loves him/her, or whatever.  She also know that I don't mind, and actually find it exciting, if when we're having sex she talks about someone else, or calls me by someone else's name, etc.  She appreciates these freedoms and takes advantage of them. 

[couplers 4,718]

On 12/18/2022 at 3:46 PM, Numex said:

I can understand that and that's one of the reasons we often play alone - to be totally uninhibited.

In our poly family situation, the moments that used to gave me the most jealousy weren't the hard sexual ones, it was tender moments in everyday life between Lora and David.  The brush of their hands, the way she looks at him.

Edited December 21, 2022 by couplers