First Threesome, her First time with another guy

[juanjimal 15]

Last week my wife and I had our first threesome and she loved every minute of it.

 

We started off by having her in a kimono and only a kimono. We had her standing next to the bed blind-folded (to help prevent awkward stares), and started touching all over her body. After a few minutes we got her kimono off and let it fall to the floor as we laid her down on the bed. He went around to her head and started kissing her neck and breast while i was down by her pussy kissing her softly. I hear him groan and look up to see he is now fucking her face and she has one hand on the back of my head and her other on his ass as his balls slap against the bridge of her nose. When she finally is able to speak all she can say is, "Why isn't anyone fucking me yet?" to which we quickly oblige and I start thrusting myself into her pussy. It was a beautiful sight to see her lying there and being sawed by to guys. The sounds of her muffled moans and of our balls slapping against her face and ass were amazing.

 

Her favorite part was when I was in her mouth and he was behind her pounding his 8 inches into her, she especially liked it when we all came at the same time in either end of her. she loved having the cum drip from her mouth and pussy as she lie there panting between two guys.

 

 

all in all the whole experience took 2 and a half hours, but would have probably been longer if he didn't already have plans.

 

She is now wanting to do a foursome and maybe a gang bang and is actively learning and practicing for full anal and cum swallowing (its too inconvenient to run to the bathroom between orgasms so she wants to be able to just swallow and not lose the rhythm of a gangbang).

 

the threesome turned my wife from a prude 100 pound 5ft tall cute blonde who wouldn't try anything but missionary, to a complete slut and down right sexy woman in the bedroom. We went from 3 to 5 times a month, to 11 times in 3 days. I couldn't be prouder. And to think, he was only the second guy she has ever been with ever for anything.

 

Now all she can think of is her first threesome and is extremely eager to have more.

 

damn my wife is hot.

[lustylearning 705]

Ya! Your wife IS hot:)

[qreskupl7476 137]

Glad you had fun, and I totally feel your "pain", LOL. Not too painful is it?

 

We've been in the lifestyle for a little over a year, and just had our first full swap experience this past weekend. My wife has always been extremely shy as well, but it seems that we may have created a monster, LOL. We ended up in an 8some. Lots of different scenarios happened during the course of the evening, some of which made her a little uncomfortable, but near the end of the festivities she found herself between me and another guy, one of us kissing her while the other fucked her from behind, all three of us laying on our sides. The sounds she was making during, and the smile on her face afterward, made it quite evident that she thoroughly enjoyed the situation, even though she's said from the start that she had no interest in being with more than one guy at a time. Turns out that she may not have had any interest before, but now that it just sort of happened, she's not at all opposed to it happening again. Truth be told, it wasn't high on my fantasy list either, but now that I've experienced it I have to say it was the hottest experience of my life . . . so far.

[Guest lascivo]

I hope you don't mind me asking.

 

Please help a man out...how did she arrive at the decision to try the threesome in the first place? Ms. Lascivo is currently much how you described your wife was before. Any tips on how you opened her mind to the possibilities or did she come to the decision on her own?

[dumbasarock10 49]

I hope you don't mind me asking.

 

Please help a man out...how did she arrive at the decision to try the threesome in the first place? Ms. Lascivo is currently much how you described your wife was before. Any tips on how you opened her mind to the possibilities or did she come to the decision on her own?

 

 

Yeah. What he said.

[qreskupl7476 137]

I don't mean to hijack the thread, but since neither of you specified who you were asking I guess it's not taboo for me to answer?

 

I don't think you can "open her mind to the possibility", she has to do that on her own. Simply plant the seed, and if she wants it to, it will grow. I put off confessing my interest in the lifestyle to my wife for a long time, thinking she would view it as perverted, ect. Turns out that I just sort of blurted it out one night during a discussion regarding several of our friends that had gotten divorces due to cheating. I told her that our relationship was more important to me than sex, that she was my best friend, and that if she ever felt the desire to have sex with someone else to simply be honest and tell me. Not only was it ok with me so long as she followed a few simple rules (condoms, discretion, honesty), but I actually found the thought of it rather arousing. I then sat back and waited for her to unload on me for even suggesting such a thing, instead she said that she herself had been thinking it might be hot to have a 3some with another girl, but she wasn't particularly interested in other guys. The conversation ended up with MY jaw on my chest, instead of the other way around like I thought it would, LOL. I had absolutely NO idea that she was the least bit bi curious, but she had just admitted it to me, and I was absolutely floored . . . and a bit turned on too I have to admit.

 

The 3some with myself and another guy just sort of happened however. Through our lifestyle involvement we found ourselves in a situation where it COULD happen, and it did. Had we tried to plan it, it probably never would've since she had stressed from the beginning that she wasn't particularly interested in other men. Even though it happened, and we both enjoyed it, it's still something that she's not interested in "planning". If it happens again she's all for it, but she's still not interested in trying to "make" it happen if that makes any sense at all.

 

The one thing that I CAN say with some assurance however, is that if your relationship situation is not one where you and your spouse can openly discuss such things, then swinging is probably not for you, at least not at this time. Sometimes the only way you can find out if you have the type of communication necessary is to try it, like I did. You might be pleased with the results, but then again you might not so proceed with caution. We had no idea that we could be so open with each other until we crossed that barrier, but it's been the best thing to hit our relationship in years since we did. Had she not been interested in the least however, I would've dropped the subject like a hot rock. Turns out that she had been thinking some of the same things that I had, and damn that's a beautiful thing when it happens.

[Guest lascivo]

qreskup....thank you for responding. I will try to be brief as I too don't want to overstep and take away from juanjimal's thread.

 

I understand and in my research into whether we are going to pursue this lifestyle I've learned you one is not forced (and they do not have their minds forced open) to participate/become part of the lifestyle. Yet, everyone who has a story has a point of revelation, a point when the idea focused itelf, or when they opened their minds to it all. That was what I was looking for. Your story on the discussion with your wife was exactly what I was interested in. I don't want to do the wrong thing or say the wrong thing when speaking of this with Ms. Lascivo. I am taking all information in and learning what I can to make certain this is truly where I/we want to go.

 

We are discussing the matter at home. Communication is key, but we are taking it slowly (or in a holding pattern right now).

 

Again, thank you. And thank you to juanjimal and the rest of the SB community for all the help and information here.

[BnTOhCpl 16]

Hi, Our first 3 some happened at a spur of the moment. Our best man was visiting us from out of town as his wife was out of town on a class trip. The 3 of us decided to go to a drive in movie where a Russ Meyer flick was playing. He was in the front seat and heard a few moans from my wife as I was playing with her. He turned and saw her top off as she was sucking my cock. He mentioned that we were killing him and she lifted her head up and told him to be patient and that things would heat up when we returned home. Was I ever surprised to hear that from her. After getting home, we enjoyed some wine and then my wife helped him out of his clothes and he looked at me and I slipped her shirt. shorts and panties off as she proceeded to help our friend with the blow job of his life. We had soft swung with them before but never full swap and she really seemed to be enjoying it as I then began to fuck her hot blonde pussy. All 3 of us came at about the same time but for some neat reason she was able to receive his man milk and swallow it all. Really surprised me as she always had a gag reflex when ever she tried swallowing my own loads. After that she started to 69 with him to get him back hard again and directed me to pound her rear end. He had no problem returning hard at which point she turned around and sat on his erect cock. I could tell she was really enjoying it as his cock was curved upward to really rub her g-spot. She really moaned this time around as it was her first time with 2 cocks in her. It must have lasted 2 to 3 hours with us doing every position we knew. We spent the rest of the weekend nude together taking care of our sexual needs as things got hard. The next time that we visited them, the 4 of us had the greatest sex ever as his wife had some catching up to do.

So some times things will happen when you least expect it.

[juanjimal 15]

the way I introduced her to the idea was by having her use a dildo when she was giving me a bj. This helped to get her at least fantasizing about it making it less awkward when the discussion came up. It took a few months but it finally became a fantasy of hers and then we set up an account on AFF (adultfriendfinder) and I let her search through all our potential matches and then show me her selection. The whole time I was trying to make her feel in control of the situation. I already knew I was open to the idea, so I made sure once we got the ball rolling to let her decide the pace.

[Guest lascivo]

Thanks. We'll give 'er a try.

[CXXC 435]

We actually planned ours. Mrs. CXXC has a boy toy that she plays with at least once a month. However, before their first date, I suggested that she bring him over for a 3some. The idea hit her pleasure center so hard, she virtually jumped my bones right there. Their date was a success.

 

The very next day she and I spoke of the threesome again. Another bone jumping. This time, however, we planned.

 

The day arrived, we all sat drinking wine and soon relaxed in the hot tub. Things got hot and heavy in the tub but soon moved to the bedroom. It was there that he and I gave her a full body massage with a happy ending and from that moment on, the festivities began.

 

In most cases, we do not plan or have expectations. We will go with the flow and are generally not dissapointed if nothing happens. In this particular situation, our plans worked out. Her expectations were met. Everyone had a great time!

[juanjimal 15]

Yeah. What he said.

sorry it took so long to reply, we came to the decision after fantasizing about it. Me personally I dont have a problem with it so long as it is under control and we are honest about it and the strict rules were to be followed. My whole thing is that I love seeing my wife happy and having been with her for as long as i have i know how she can be in bed. While we may have been boring and not done much, I still would get her to a point where I could get her to fantasize.

I got us some porn to play in the back of our love making sessions (which was probably the hardest part of all this since ALOT of it turned her off, you know some of the porno guys look like douchebags or its obvious the girls are faking, or they look too hookered up with coke nails and 9 inch heels, or they do waaay too much ass to mouth to the point where they do it deliberately... damn finding a wife approved porno with MMF was quite difficult. Surprisingly enough she likes mild hentai more than live action porn, i guess it doesnt have to look real if its a cartoon.) So anyways I would find some wife tolerant porn with a few MMF scenes in it and would be doing stuff to her while having her watch it.

Other things I tried is while she was giving me a bj I would use a dildo on her and tell her to imagine us with a threesome.

Finally she agreed to get a aff account and we started looking for a guy. All the attention she got made her get more aroused which only fueled it.

it took a very long time to get her to that point because the whole thought of it is taboo. But we finally got there and are happy we did.

[juanjimal 15]

So an update to our life since the threesome.

 

Since our first threesome we haven't had another. Largely because of the difficulty in finding another guy. The first guy felt like he was just a piece of meat and I think we hurt his ego when we agreed. lol. We figured why bullshit, we dont want to be his boyfriend, we just want him for sex. He could have been flattered that he was only my wife's second guy and we picked him out of at least 50 but w/e he never responded to any of our other messages.

 

Finding another guy for a threesome doesn't seem like it would be that difficult but it actually was quite a challenge.

 

I had gotten a vasectomy a little under a month before our first threesome and my wife has been off the pill since December. so now the chance of us having a spontaneous threesome is extinguished with the chance of her becoming pregnant.

 

We haven't ruled out a trip to a sex resort like Desire or Hedonism where she can get back on the pill far enough in advance to allow her to perform.

My wife is much more open now.

 

She does anal now, and likes to has her ass fingered while fucking, and enjoys having her ass eaten more than having her pussy eaten.

 

We purchased a cock ring that has a small dildo attached and she can imagine having her ass and pussy fucked at the same time when I use it.

 

We use her butt plugs regularly, they make her feel tighter and she says she likes how they feel in her ass and that they make me feel bigger.

 

Since she has been off the pill her intensity has shot up during sex, the other day while sucking my dick she tells me she wants me to fuck her face and finger her ass. usually the only time she tells me to do anything is when I am doing something wrong. lol.

 

In November the week before she stopped the pill, we had tried to have a spontaneous gangbang at a hotel which got my wife very hot. She was exchanging pictures and text messages with a guy and his friends and was going to meet them at a hotel where it would be to two guys and a girl who all knew each other and then my wife. My wife was very excited to finally get to use all her new skills she had acquired, like being able to have her ass fucked and wanting to be fucked in her pussy and ass at the same time really turned her on, she had wanted to try being double penetrated while standing up the most.

 

Though she still doesn't like to swallow she has learned it is just as hot to let it roll out her mouth down her chin and onto her tits. I had opted to stay at home so my wife could find her sexuality. My thought process there was that you act differently around your friends than you do your spouse. So my presence acts kind of like a hindrance when trying to find ones sexual self (especially since she never masturbates). So it was to be two well hung young guys and a girl who just wanted to watch and take pictures, though my wife fully expected to girl to do something to her at some point and was just going to let whatever happen.

 

But from what we had heard from other swingers is that 50 to 60% of the time the other party flakes out. Sadly that night no one showed up and we had already paid for the hotel. So instead my wife and I enjoyed the hotel room just the two of us which was still ok since she was already aroused and dressed sexy for her gang bang. I think her main motivation for wanting to essentially be gang banged by 2 guys and a girl was largely due to her stopping the pill.

 

We were thinking about going to Canada for a vacation this year, but now I might just see how she feels about doing a trip to a sex resort.

[Playman64 205]

Your wife sounds wnderful, I like small petite women.

So does she like doin anal, butt would like to do anal in a GB.