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Your First Swing Encounter - Foursome or Threesome?

Our First Swing Experience Was  

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  1. 1. Our First Swing Experience Was

    • A foursome play with a couple, swapping mates for sex.
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    • A threesome - MFM
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    • A threesome - FMF
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It appears that for many, if not, majority of couples in the lifestyle, the first swinging experience was a threesome. This is supported by results of some of the polls on this Board and also from private conversations with swinger couples. Most men we talked to said that their first swing experience was a mfm threesome. The man did this to pleasure the wife or SO, and to watch her having intercourse with another man, as she was fucked by and brought to orgasm by the guy.

 

If true, this may tend to disprove the widely held presumption that swinging is primarily a male enthusiasm to satisfy his urge to have sex with other women besides his primary mate. It could also mean that the man wanted his wife to experience sexual intercourse with another man so she could discover that multi-partner sex can indeed be a very pleasurable and satisfying activity for her. The threesome, it seems, then prepared his wife/SO for a foursome with another couple for a full swap of mates for play followed by intercourse.

 

Another recent poll on this board showed that men preferred a mfm to fmf. So it seems that the male was willing to forgo his own sexual pleasure in order to pleasure and satisfy his wife/SO sexually. And, therefore, he preferred to bring another man into the couple's bedroom so the wife/SO could enjoy the play followed by pleasurable sexual intercourse with another man.

 

That brings up the question. What was your first swing encounter? A threesome, mfm, fmf or a foursome?

 

What were your reasons for preferring a threesome over a foursome, if that was the case?

 

If it was a threesome was, it mfm or fmf and why?

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My first "swing encounter" was actually one-on-one with a gal who's a swinger ... she later brought me with her as a guest to a swinger party where I also had another one-on-one encounter. Then a mffm foursome...

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My first swing encounter was I happened to be in a hotel bar and a lady introduced me to her man then took us to a room for a MFM threesome.

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Ours was with another couple equally inexperienced. We traded partners with them for a while before we did FMF. I'd say about two thirds of my swinging has been one on one trading partners. My current partners are both inexperienced at swinging so our first experiences together won't be swapping until and unless they are comfortable with it.

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Our first time was an MFM threesome. It was an awesome experience and we prefer MFM over anything else.

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Our first time was an MFM threesome. It was an awesome experience and we prefer MFM over anything else.

 

Same for me (actually us). I agree 100% - MFM's are wonderful!

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Ours was with another couple equally inexperienced. We traded partners with them for a while before we did FMF.

 

Traded partners for what? Did you have intercourse with the other's mate?

 

I'd say about two thirds of my swinging has been one on one trading partners. My current partners are both inexperienced at swinging so our first experiences together won't be swapping until and unless they are comfortable with it.

 

Not sure what you mean by one on one "trading". With a couple or singles?

 

Just trying to get clarification.

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My first "swing encounter" was actually one-on-one with a gal who's a swinger ... she later brought me with her as a guest to a swinger party where I also had another one-on-one encounter. Then a mffm foursome...

 

By definition, one-on-one fuck with a partner, strictly speaking, does not qualify as swinging (even tho the gal was a swinger).

Therefore, your first swing experience truly was a four-some or a more-some, where you fucked more than one gal.

 

:D

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For us it was a 6-some. It involved ourselves and two other couples.

 

Mrs. Ekies had intercourse with one of the guys and traded oral sex with him and one of the women. For my part I got to go down on the two women and received the same from them.

 

I was a night of many firsts that we have repeated since, although not with the same group.

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For us it was a 6-some. It involved ourselves and two other couples.

 

Mrs. Ekies had intercourse with one of the guys and traded oral sex with him and one of the women. For my part I got to go down on the two women and received the same from them.

 

I was a night of many firsts that we have repeated since, although not with the same group.

 

Trace

 

As an afterthought, and with hindsight, wish we had thought of adding a fourth category to the poll, called "more-some", for those whose first swing experience was a six-some (as in your case), group sex (multiple fuck partners) or an orgy where everyone fucked everyone else.

 

Oh well, we are still learning about the many possibilities in swinging encounters where a couple can interact, play with, do oral and also have intercourse with multiple partners. That's what makes the swinging lifestyle so very exciting, since it offers numerous ways of enjoying sex, two men fucking one gal, one gal fucking two men, dp, etc.

 

:D

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By definition, one-on-one fuck with a partner, strictly speaking, does not qualify as swinging (even tho the gal was a swinger).

Therefore, your first swing experience truly was a four-some or a more-some, where you fucked more than one gal.

 

:D

 

Technicalities of exactly what one defines as "swinging" or not ... let's not get into this debate again.

 

I've been to plenty of swinger parties where couples break off and find other partners to play with... By your definition then, this isn't "swinging". (What would you define this as, then? Just a sex-orgy?)

 

If that's the case... then maybe I've *never* swung.

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I've been to plenty of swinger-parties where couples break off and find other partners to play with ... By your definition then, this isn't "swinging". (What would you define this as, then? Just a sex-orgy?)

 

The difference is that other couples are present along with you and your SO, date, or what have you. And couples do break off, play, and fuck some else's wife, hubby, SO. We thought that just one-on-one play and intercourse with one's gf, with no other couples present, with no possibility of swapping mates with another couple for fucking, was exempted from definition of swinging.

 

We could be wrong on this, and no offense meant. Not trying to split hair as to what swinging is or is not. When I was dating I fucked the gals one-on-one after the date, most of the time. Even so I did not think I was swinging until there was a second gal in the room (a threesome, fmf) to play with and fuck.

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I've been to plenty of swinger-parties where couples break off and find other partners to play with ... By your definition then, this isn't "swinging". (What would you define this as, then? Just a sex-orgy?)

 

The difference is that other couples are present along with you and your SO, date, or what have you. And couples do break off, play, and fuck some else's wife, hubby, SO. We thought that just one-on-one play and intercourse with one's gf, with no other couples present, with no possibility of swapping mates with another couple for fucking, was exempted from definition of swinging.

 

We could be wrong on this, and no offense meant. Not trying to split hair as to what swinging is or is not. When I was dating I fucked the gals one-on-one after the date, most of the time. Even so I did not think I was swinging until there was a second gal in the room (a threesome, fmf) to play with and fuck.

 

I didn't mean to take offense or come off as upset or angry - far from it.

 

But I think if you limit your definitions of swinging to ONLY situations where there are multiple partners involved or when there is a "swap" - it leaves out a fairly large group of us. (And what if one's partner/spouse/significant other were not a part of one's "group encounter" in a threesome/foursome/more-some- does that mean it doesn't count?)

 

Many swingers go out and play with other swingers in one-on-one situations ... either at a swinger-event/-party where they are separated from their partners or as a "date" and to deny that these are "swinger-experiences" seems a bit closed off.

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I didn't mean to take offense or come off as upset or angry - far from it.

 

Many swingers go out and play with other swingers in one-on-one situations ... either at a swinger-event/-party where they are separated from .

 

We presume that these swingers, couples or singles, have had previous partner swap experience, where they played with another couple/s and had fucked someone other than their own spouse, gf/bf or mate. So, they are already qualified as swingers. In case they had not previously had sex with someone other than their own mate, and if they agree to go to a party (or different parties) singly, or, separately, and fuck another partner, that we think, is still swinging. The couple had agreed to swing separately.The purists may disagree.

 

If those with previous partner swap experience go to parties singly, and, play and have, or, do not have sexual intercourse (soft swing maybe) with someone else's mate, that still is swinging.

 

We do on occasion, go to sex parties, or, a small group play session, or, a threesome, singly, i.e., without the spouse present, and do fuck or get fucked by someone else's spouse, mate or SO. If intercourse does not happen, and I eat the other gals' pussy or she sucks guy's cock , but does not take the guy's dick in her pussy, we suppose that is still swinging.

 

We suppose that the definition of what exactly is swinging is pretty wide. We have to agree with you there.

 

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yes, I can remember my first, long, long time ago. Does not fit into any of your poll questions though.

 

There was about 30 naked people in a hotel suite having sex with each other. :D

 

I guess that would be a "moresum". ;)

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By definition, one-on-one fuck with a partner, strictly speaking, does not qualify as swinging (even tho the gal was a swinger).

:D

 

Depends on who's definition you wish to use.

 

The first definition of a swinger was "Recreational sex between consenting adults." Nothing was ever defined as couples or other wise years ago.

 

The new "Swingers" now define it for mostly couples.

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We started with MFM then went to MFMF then ended up with a FMFMF. LOL We like it best, so far, when it is MFMF, two couples.

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My wife and I pretty much dove in feet first. We enjoy sex too much, comfortable enough with each other to not worry, and she is as sexual as I am (or vice versa). A couple swap pretty much balances the scales for both of us and that is what we had as our first encounter.

 

No MFM or FMF yet, but can see that coming (pun intended) in our future :D. We still really really like the same room couple swap....

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Depends on who's definition you wish to use.

 

The first definition of a swinger was "Recreational sex between consenting adults." Nothing was ever defined as couples or other wise years ago.

 

The new "Swingers" now define it for mostly couples.

 

We suppose the first definition makes more sense. Somehow the "official" definition says sexual intercourse, one-on-one, with between bf/gf was not considered "swinging". There had to be a third person present who you could play with and fuck.

 

Actually, if one considers swinging as recreational sex, then why exclude one-on-one sex?

 

You do have a valid point. Perhaps, we should put it to a referendum. lol

 

:D

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Hey, if you think you're swinging... you're swinging. Let's just all enjoy ourselves, shall we?

 

*Ding Ding Ding*... we have a winner! :) OK... this is just my opinion, anyway!!

 

We just wanna have fun when we play with others. We don't care what people call it. :)

 

We started off with another couple, full swap and have been having an extremely great time ever since. Nothin' wrong with that!

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Swinging is defined by the users.. And lets be honest, the whole, you aren't swinging if it is one on one doesn't fit. We have had 4somes where yes, the couples swapped but it was one on one.. and then everyone involved for the following rounds..

 

Our first experience was a MFM threesome, and the following encounters were as well, for the first year... then we graduated to other couples.

 

HOW you start is not as important as, WHY you start, and WHAT happens after... between the parties playing, and between the couples afterwards.

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Just realized I mis-voted here. When I voted I was thinking of my first experience with my husband (current) and put foursome. However, my first swing experience was with my ex-husband and it was a threesome with one half of a couple he was friends with. Eventually we had a threesome with the other half too, but oddly I don't think we ever had a foursome with them.

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Just realized I mis voted here. When I voted I was thinking of my first experience with my husband (current) and put foursome. However, my first swing experience was with my ex-husband and it was a threesome with one half of a couple he was friends with. Eventually we had a threesome with the other half too, but oddly I don't think we ever had a foursome with them.

 

In order to make this poll cover other posibilities, could we add:

 

4. Moresome, or more than 2, upto, 6 couples

5. Group sex-more than 6 any number

6. An all out orgy

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Foursome, totally unplanned (by us) and unexpected. It was with a couple we'd known for a long time. They had, actually, sort of planned it. I thought it was about the hottest moment of my young life. My young wife said she didn't enjoy it that much but I was watching and I know differently. She's not that good of an actress!

 

It led to four other couples before she decided 'we' didn't want to do that anymore.

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Our first was a threesome. It was fmf. Both my husband and me really enjoyed it. The female was very inexperienced so there were lull's in the threesome. A few mistakes. We weren't quite as active because we had not learned to multi task and its importance haha.

 

We love fmf. I don't think my husband would ever admit to or be willing to take another man into the bedroom. But, I am completely and totally bisexual so fmf are so great for me too haha. We are planning a fmff very soon and extremely excited about that. And we also have another fmf planned too.

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The first time was a Mfm, which I never expected to get any sexual pleasure from doing it, I thought it would only bring sexual pleasure to my wife, and to my surprise it turn us both on. From the moment I seen my wife sucking the other guy cock I was hooked. Seeing her become so wet and horny, was awesome.

 

We also try doing a FMF at a later time, but I could not get my wife to do anything sexually with the other woman, being with another woman did not sexual turn my wife on.

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Hey, if you think you're swinging... you're swinging. Let's just all enjoy ourselves, shall we?

This!

 

 

[sarcasm]Hey guys! Let's make an official version of swinging, with our own board of directors. They'll be like your Homeowners Association board, but even more anal. Wouldn't that be awesome?[/sarcasm]

 

 

Our first experience was with another couple.

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This![sarcasm]Hey guys! Let's make an official version of swinging, with our own board of directors. They'll be like your Homeowners Association board, but even more anal. Wouldn't that be awesome?[/sarcasm]

 

Awesome, as long as there's more anal :lol:

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Our first experience was with another couple. We've had threesomes, but they were with one half of a couple that were swinging friends, but I do believe that still counts, right? :)

 

Life has sort of gotten in the way of our swinging so we haven't tried expanding our horizons much of late, but I think we both really did enjoy the threesomes and that might be something we look for a little harder in the future.

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We started with my wife playing separately with an ex-boyfriend, then separately with another ex-boyfriend (and back and forth). Eventually we added MFMs with them (separately) and me into the mix.

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Foursome. We were invited to hang out by the pool with two other couples, one of whom we knew, to see if we were into it. Mrs. E managed to get the nerve up to get it going with the husband she knew, and once he got her top off and his cock out, the third wife came by to get started with me. Couldn't have had our first experiment go better.

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None of above. Our first was a swap, separate rooms.
A bold, but in my opinion, a good way to go. Separate play eliminates much of the anxiety about what you should do and what your spouse thinks. There's enough going on with just getting the right rhythm with a new sex partner. The threesomes and same room play can come later when the twosomes are comfortable and all are ready for new thrills.

 

We still keep going back to mostly separate rooms and alone play.

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Separate rooms isn’t really on our radar at this point . To be fair , it’s really mfm we are looking at . My honey,s pleasure is the main theme ?

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For us, the first experience was with another couple, which was soft swap. The first time with sex with someone else was an MFM.

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. . My honey,s pleasure is the main theme ?

If that's the case, then let her decide what would work best for her.

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We did decide . And that’s how our theme went and still does . ? ? I don’t see anything in my post that suggests otherwise ???

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Our first was actually just same room sex (if that counts). When we went to the room I thought we might swap. When we undressed, the other couple started playing with each other. I loved watching them - I remember seeing his penis getting erect and I instantly started masturbating. My husband started doing me from.behind while I watched and that continued. They did start touching is as we finished but there was no real swap.

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We described a number of our earlier experiences in the stories section of this site. We were slow starters but once we were certain that sexual variety really IS the spice of life we had and continue to have a blast more than 15 years later. The key for us was the acceptance that we can have wild, orgasmic sex with other people without guilt, sneaking around, or recriminations afterwards. This is our reward for decades of kids, church, pta meetings, coaching soccer, cheerleading, and girls softball and generally being pillars of the community.

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We searched for a ff or fmf and settled for a couple. Our search for a f led nowhere. We met a couple who answered our ad. I got to watch my wife play with a very attractive younger woman. She was not the first for my wife who had played before I met her. I got to be with her too. Unfortunately the male who was well endowed was a dud for my wife.

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Our first time was in 1984. It was totally nude, body touching, same bed sex with a much younger couple. We were on a weekend camping trip with them in our very small camper. We did not exchange partners, but there was a lot of nudity, touching, and sex and, to my surprise and joy, my wife really got into it. I had never seen her turned on that much before.

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Neither, if you call it swinging. I went back and forth between my new boyfriend (future husband) and my ex-fiance. Both knew and were fine with it. Turned into MFMs, two years later we added other women.

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    • By C3po
      This all started around forty years ago when my wife Beth and I had dated for a few years then married. It wasn't long after we married that I introduced her to her first big realistic porn star dildo.  When she first saw it she laughed and said, "That'll never fit in my pussy, are you nuts?!" But she agreed to trying and found not only did it fit but she really enjoyed it. She was amazed by how much she enjoyed it.  So much so that she requested I use it on her quite a lot. She also discovered she enjoyed big cock porn, she was fascinated by it. Soon was I combining using a huge dildo on her at the same time she watched big cock porn, this led her to experience huge orgasms. She couldn't get enough. She was finally exploring her sexuality and expanding her outlook on sexual pleasure.
       
      One night after some really hot sex I  questioned her if she ever fantasized about fucking other men, especially well-hung men. She responded that of course she did, stated that most women had this fantasy, and she believed it was quite common. So I pursued it further and asked her if she wanted to try another man's cock and how much did she really desire to do it? She said that it sounded exciting and fun but she would never do anything to endanger our marriage. I said,  "What if I told you that I wanted to watch you have sex with another man, one that had a really big cock. Would you then consider it?" She laughed and said she'd be game if it was something I was serious about and really wanted her to do. She said, "Come on, let's be real. It's exciting and fun to imagine it, but to really do it? Please! That's a major game changer."
       
      So I said, "I'm very serious. I've watched the way you enjoy the dildos especially while watching big cock videos. It turns me on big time seeing how excited you get and how many times you climax from doing these two things at the same time. I want to watch you do it for real. No BS, just watching you getting slammed by a big cock would be a huge turn-on for me. So what do you really think now that you know that I'm serious and am giving you this opportunity?"
       
      I could see her giving it some serious thought, she didn't get mad or upset at me or the idea, no resistance whatsoever to my request.  The more she considered the idea the more it appeared to me that she was very intrigued with the idea and it excited her.
       
      She started asking all kinds of questions, like wouldn't I be jealous, or think the worst of her, or what if she really enjoyed it and wanted more or didn't feel comfortable screwing another man, then what? Were there any rules and what were the consequences? Was I absolutely sure that I really wanted her to do this, because once done there was no going back!
       
      After she finished asking everything she had concerns about I answered all her questions and we talked about the rules/boundaries we would have in place to keep it fun and exciting without any reservations or guilt. This was to make sure she fully understood my concerns and alleviate all of hers as well. It seemed she came to a decision at which point she smiled and enthusiastically said yes, she'd do it! Did I have someone special in mind she wondered? She said she had to agree to my choices for her sexual escapades or it wasn't gonna happen.
       
       I then informed her I was thinking of Bruce. Beth squealed with glee, she admitted she has had fantasies about Bruce for some time now and I couldn't have picked a better choice for her first time. She would absolutely love to fuck Bruce. She said she was getting wet thinking about sex with him.
       
      A few days later I met up with Bruce for an after work drink. As we enjoyed several drinks we talked a lot. Soon I steered the conversation towards my wife Beth. I asked  Bruce to be honest and tell me what he thought about Beth. He admitted he thought Beth was smokin' hot. She had a killer body and was just gorgeous, always was friendly, and liked flirting with him when they were together. I asked him if he' ever had the chance would he consider having sex with her? He looked a bit concerned by my question but answered yes, he wouldn't hesitate to take advantage of such an opportunity. So I told him that Beth really wanted to have sex with him, and that I was okay with them hooking up. I explained that was my kink watching her get fucked by other men, it really turned me on. Bruce considered it for several minutes then said okay sure, he'd love to fuck Beth. Just give him the details when we're ready to make it happen.
       
      When I got home I told Beth about my conversation with Bruce and what he said. She looked startled and said she couldn't believe I did that. So I asked her if what I did was so wrong and did she still want to go through with it? She excitedly said Oh hell yes she did, and no I wasn't wrong! So we made plans and set a date for Beth's first cock. 
       
      The night arrived finding Beth both excited and hot with anticipation. She was dressed to kill showing off her sexy body wearing no underwear. When Bruce knocked on the door I answered it and escorted him into our house. Beth entered the living room and gave Bruce a big hug pressing her chest and pelvis into him and then kissed him on the lips. Bruce kissed her back and he sat down pulling her on to his lap. Nether one of them wasted any time, tongues going everywhere, hands exploring and groping each other, clothes coming off. Soon they were both naked and Beth got a pleasant surprise, Bruce was very well hung. She giggled with delight.
       
      Beth took Bruce's hand and led him to our bed. She pushed him down on the bed and went to work on Bruce's big cock giving him an enthusiastic blow job. After a while Bruce flipped Beth on her back and went to work on her pussy and clit. Beth orgasmed in minutes, fully enjoying Bruce's skilled tongue. I stood in the background watching the show.
       
      Soon Bruce moved into position between Beth's legs. As he rubbed his cock against Beth's open pussy and clit she responded with loud moans and started pressing her pussy against Bruce's cock. As he slid his huge cock into Beth's pussy she had a big climax. As he went deeper he increased his speed and Beth climaxed again. She was enthralled with his big cock pumping her pussy, she was moving her hips and swearing, telling him his cock felt so good. She looked over at me and said she loved how good his big cock felt inside her. She told Bruce to stretch her pussy good, to fuck her hard. She was in sexual ecstasy, a place she'd never been before. Her facial expressions showed pure bliss and the sounds she was making were hot as hell. I never seen her so turned on, she must of had a dozen orgasms, many of which were huge.
       
      They fucked each other hard for a good twenty minutes then Bruce erupted into Beth's pussy, filling her with his cum. This gave Beth another climax. Afterwards he laid on Beth for a minute then rolled off her. He'd destroyed her pussy, it gaped open with his cum dripping out of her. They kissed and he got up to dress while Beth laid there spent. She looked at me and smiled big time. She said, "Your turn!", so I took sloppy seconds and enjoyed it beyond belief. Bruce watched us have sex then commented that watching real sex was so much hotter than any porno ever could be. He understood my enjoyment of watching my wife fuck other men. He said he'd like to do it again and Beth was all for it. So they made plans to hook up again. Then Bruce left.
       
      Beth and I talked about how well things went, and how she wasn't prepared for how much she enjoyed his big cock. It was mind boggling! She thanked me profusely for asking her to do this, the opportunity to experience such awesome sex. She says she'll never be the same again and is looking forward to more big cock sex. So our new lifestyle began.
    • By Falcon88
      My wife and I have been together for almost 25 years. Through out the years sex has been fantastic. No complaints on either side. We are very faithful and never cheated on each other.
       
      Then one day two years ago we were having a few drinks and watching porn. We watch all kinds of porn. That night we were watching some really good gangbangs. Curiously, I turn to my wife and asked her if she ever thought about swinging and group sex. If it ever crossed her mind. Surprisingly, she looked at me and said she’s been thinking about it for while. So we ended up talking about swinging and group sex for hours. We got online and read stories on experiences about swinging and group sex. The pros and cons. It turned me on taking about it but at the same time I got a crazy feeling in my stomach. Nerves I guess.
       
      So to make a very long story short we ended up having an open marriage and took up swinging. We both decided to have (safe) sex with other people until we felt comfortable on having our first group sex. All this took very long planning and preparing, especially mentally.
       
      Finally last November we planned out her first group sex. We carefully selected three familiar friends to join in the fun. Of course they decided to do it and agreed on our rules.
       
      So, it finally happened that November night. I really enjoyed watching my wife get screwed by more than one man. She had the time of her life. She had multiple orgasms one after another. The crazy feeling never left my stomach but I really enjoyed watching though. After the guys left we kicked back and talked about our experience. Then we go back about agreeing on what we’re doing and never to do it without the other knowing. We keep an oath of trust. Every time we have a date with someone we let each other know. It’s always planned out days in advance so it will never interfere with our personal lives. We have a great understanding.
       
      Since last November she’s been involved in several group sex averaging 3-4 guys each time. Of course I joined in most of the time. Lots of lube is needed. But now she wants to go a little further. She wants to do a gangbang of 6-8 guys. Seriously.
       
      Lately she’s been playing with large toys to get her vagina ready. She wants to try double-vaginal penetration. I’ve been preparing her by inserting a dildo in her while I’m inside. Very carefully with lots of lube. We practice every time we have sex. She even carefully inserts a large thick toy in her vagina while watching a movie and keeps it in there. Yes, our sexual curiosities has increased tremendously. My wife wants to explore even more and I’m all in.
       
      Well the day we both have been looking forward too occurred this past weekend. We managed to round up 7 guys for an all night gangbang. It involved a lot of planning and phone calls. We’ve noticed that guys will be all in at first then drop out later. But eventually we got things going. That night when everyone arrived she was kinda nervous but excited to have that many cocks at once. Most of all, she finally had double penetration in her vagina from two guys for the first time. The strange thing I seemed more nervous than her. Lol But she absolutely enjoyed it as much as I enjoyed watching her. She came hard many times. She doesn’t like anal so that wasn’t attempted.
       
      So after joining in all the fun and after almost two hours of great sex we had the grand finale. My sexy wife knelt down and we all gave her an awesome bukkake. Her face was drenched with cum. It was one heck of a hot night. After everyone left we took a long shower and stayed up almost all night talking about it. We were both so turned on that we were already making plans for the next one. But we are gonna take a break for about three weeks. It’s just going to be me and her for now.
       
      Yesterday she mentioned about having a messy cum sex in the near future after watching a great creampie movie. I was like, a messy cum sex? She asked me what I would think about her having a messy gooey bukkake and creampie night. Having about 4 guys cum all over her face while 4 guys cum inside her. Then rubbing the cum all over her breasts. Man, just listening to her drove me crazy. My wife was willing to be explosive. But that would take lots of planning because we are very cautious. My wife cannot get pregnant anymore so that’s really something we don’t have to worry about. It’s about the unprotected sex. We do know many cool friends well enough that we can trust but still we must remain careful. Yet, I’m sure it’s gonna happen very soon.
       
      I’ve been asked if we have taken it too far. If there’s actually any sign of regrets. Some close friends wonder about my wife wanting too much now. Our answer is no because we enjoy it and have a deep understanding and trust. We are responsible adults and are having fun. We first talk about what we’re going to do and have to both agree 100%. Any sign of doubt from either side we will not do it. We are friends with our sex partners but no feelings are involved or ever shared. We have proven that to ourselves already.
    • By AdamGunn2
      It was a fairly typical night at D.J.s Island, an early autumn evening. Mary and I hadn’t set anything up in advance, we’d decided to go almost at the last moment. From the second we entered the door our radar was beaming across the club, searching for a couple that might be searching for what we were also interested in - an enjoyable tryst.
       
      Mary took a few minutes to change into what she called a ‘trolling outfit.’ As I remember, that night it was a black babydoll with a loose bodice, thong, low heels. Many men admired her legs as I checked the forty or so women, many as scantily clad as my wife. None of our regular playmates seemed to be in attendance that evening, but we had our customs, we weren’t concerned. Perhaps an hour and a half later, I sat at a table next to the dance floor, Mary was on her feet, on the parquet, moving her body, seeing if anyone would move in. A slow sequence of men approached her, danced with her. Some would take liberties such as moving their hands under her garment, feeling the small of her back, perhaps place their palm on the roundness of her ass.
       
      I’d seen this many times before, I waited for one of two reactions.
       
      The first was that she’d spin away from the man; it signified she wasn’t interested in what he had to offer.
       
      The second was that she’d get closer, I’d watch her whisper in his ear. I knew the question, “Where’s your wife?” Some of them would shake their heads, they were attending as one of the few single men the club allowed, and when they received Mary’s response, they’d move away - that’s not what we were looking for at the moment.
       
      But the man might indicate where his wife was dancing a few feet away. When this kind of thing happened, Mary would glance to me and give our special signal - she’d put one hand on the back of her head, one on her stomach. When I got the cue, I’d come out, we’d dance as a foursome.
       
      As I approached, a man grasped the elbow of a tall attractive lady who was more modestly dressed, at least for the club. There was no conversation on the dance floor, the heavy volume of music and the thumping of the bass wouldn’t allow for speech. But I could tell the woman was interested in me, the four of us paired off and I often found myself facing this vixen. It was obvious they were as interested in us as I was in them, I could tell by the way Mary was rubbing against the man that she felt the same.
       
      After a couple of songs, Mary led the way off the floor, holding his hand, leading us off into a corner away from the speakers. As we sat, the man said, “I’m Ed, this is my wife, Marilyn.”
       
      Marilyn and I softly shook hands, I believe she raised the hem of her skirt to give me a view of her upper thighs. Ed had no problem seeing Mary’s legs, or where they met - she was sitting so that the babydoll was gathered to her side, leaning forward so her globes were exposed to his view.
       
      “Do you come here often?” Ed asked.
       
      “Every few weeks,” I responded, “you?”
       
      “This is our first time here.” Mary gave him a look that asked for further info. “We’re just starting this,” he admitted.
       
      Marilyn picked it up. “We’ve only had one time with a couple of friends. We liked it, heard about this place, decided to see if we could get into more trouble.”
       
      “Trouble’s our middle name,” I joked.
       
      Our conversation continued, where do you live, what movies have you seen lately, etc. It was a screen, of course, we were all calculating if the four of us would be pleasurable bedmates. I paid my attention to Marilyn, my wife had told me numerous times not to worry about her, she can take care of herself. My hand found Marilyn’s knee, she smiled at me, encouraged me to reach a tad higher. We bent towards each other, our mouths met.
       
      Marilyn opened her lips to me, the kiss was ardent, her mouth moist. She licked at my upper lip, her hand fondled the back of my neck. Our tongues clashed, promising cupidity, mimicking what I presumed our bodies might be doing in a few scant moments.
       
      We broke for a moment, Marilyn invited, “Would you guys want to go to one of the rooms?”
       
      I, of course, was all for it, but then I heard Mary. “Uh, not right now. But thanks.”
       
      We’ve always had the guideline that if one person doesn’t want to do something, she speaks for both of us. Regretfully, I pecked at Marilyn’s lips a last time, we stood, went separate ways.
       
      “You’re not upset, are you?” Mary asked me.
       
      “Of course not, not at all. You’re not in the mood?”
       
      “Oh, I’m in the mood all right, just not with Ed.”
       
      “Something wrong with him?” I asked.
       
      “I tried to get him interested,” Mary revealed, “but his kiss was a little cold, indifferent. I put my hand on his leg, he was too busy watching you and Marilyn, he never responded. My guess is that if we went into a room, he’d be watching you two, I’m not even sure he’d get hard for me.” It was a reasonable thought, it had happened to us a couple times before. “Hope you don’t mind, bet she’d have been a firecracker.”
       
      “Maybe. But you’re a firecracker too.”
       
      We headed back to the dance floor, in search of another couple.
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