Question for couples who gang bang....

[duo33470 15]

First, let me say we have just registered on this site, and are impressed with the amount of information and thought that has gone into this forum. I hope our questions and concerns can be answered by some with experience in the area of gang bangs for the wife.

 

We are not exactly new to swinging. We have done a little bit of swinging with other couples. This has included full swapping, as well as bi-fem action. My wife and I are equally engaged in swinging, and neither of us is pulling the other along. We are in our late thirties, live in Florida, and are otherwise "normal people" I work in the banking field, and my wife is an ICU nurse at a trauma center here. We have family, with two kids at home. So all of our swinging has been done while we are away travelling alone. We don't really have any swinger friends that we can talk to.

 

We have toyed with the idea of a gang bang. My wife knows i totally get off on watching her with other men... I enjoy watching her more than swinging with another wife. She also knows I am a little passive.. and like to see the other guy make full use of her.

 

So we have been discussing a gangbang. She is understandably very nervous about it. So am I. We are both concerned that a situtation like that could get out of control. We also know that since we can only swing while out of town, that it is likely that the men involved would be total strangers, which kind of adds to our concern about it getting out of control. We have discovered several "gangbang groups" which seem to be groups of men who are organized to provide this activity to married couples. Has anyone been with such a group? Are they for real, or just an internet hoax. What do we need to be concerned about? Has anyone had bad experiences with gang bangs?

 

We really would like some input from those of you that have done something like this.

[SecretAsianMan 348]

I don't know about where you're living at... but there are several such groups in Southern California - so they are real.

[spicylife42 31]

Um let me see......book a weekend at the casino or something of your choosing.......have drinks or meet and greets throughout the day with several guys. get their cell numbers and for those that pass the test, you could txt them later, with "gang bang at 11:00" lol sounds like a plan.

 

Oh and btw (couple here) we are close to a casino can we play too!

[joaninla 162]

Look, I love sex and I love sex with multiple guys. That said, sex with a number of total strangers is not a safe activity for a number of reasons. I'm not trying to cast a downer on your plan, but don't let an exciting fantasy overcome (no pun intended) good judgement.

[SecretAsianMan 348]

I had a friend of mine who was trying for a gang-bang for her 50th birthday party...

 

50-guys or 50-inches of cock in a night was what she was going for... I never did hear from her to find out if she managed to accomplish that or not.

[Expulsion 40]

I had a friend of mine who was trying for a gang-bang for her 50th birthday party...

 

50-guys or 50-inches of cock in a night was what she was going for... I never did hear from her to find out if she managed to accomplish that or not.

 

Woah, holy hip cramps.

[Additude 457]

Well the 50 guys might be a bit much but the 50 inches averages out to about 8 guys which would probably even be quite an undertaking in itself.

 

But the comparison of the two, 50 guys and 50 inches is quite a diverse difference.

[SecretAsianMan 348]

Her original plan was for just 50-guys ...

 

I asked her how far along in her invitation she was ... (guys who she knew would be okay with it & were safe to play with , would play by her rules - etc., etc.) ...and she was at less than a dozen

 

So I suggested ... "Maybe just 50-inches of cock would be easier"

 

She liked the idea of that a lot...

 

I'll probably see her at the end of this month & I'll have to ask her how that went for her.

[Expulsion 40]

I could probably handle fifty inches, as long as it was spread out over the course of a whole night. But too close together would cause a lot of leg cramps.

[SecretAsianMan 348]

I could probably handle fifty inches, as long as it was spread out over the course of a whole night. But too close together would cause a lot of leg cramps.

 

 

...hmm - maybe a bit more salt or potassium in your diet is in order

 

Or maybe ya just need to switch-up positions a few times during ... take a good stretch and fire on up again before the next guys comes knockin'

[realcplub2 513]

Ok, Lest we Diverge from the ORIGINAL QUESTION...

 

First off, your questions are totally normal.

 

Given your location I would suggest looking at the area you are traveling to, Tampa, or Orlando.. Hell if you are so inclined Daytona. yes there are a number of groups that suggest they can provide the event you are seeking but you are still playing in the stranger realm.

 

Now, I am not going to begin to think where you are used to going to play, however, a number of reputable clubs CAN set up such events too.. We know the one in Tampa does on a regular basis it seems

 

Beyond that, if you choose to do it privately, its best to allow yourself plenty of time to converse, meet and see if they are willing to be part of your bullpen, waiting til its game time, making it clear the event is still in the planning stages..

 

One more rule of thumb, if you are planning on having 5 guys, invite 10.. And pray you get the 5.. cold feet tends to occur more frequently than you can imagine

 

Best of luck

[magnum 78]

First, let me say we have just registered on this site, and are impressed with the amount of information and thought that has gone into this forum. I hope our questions and concerns can be answered by some with experience in the area of gang bangs for the wife.

 

We are not exactly new to swinging. We have done a little bit of swinging with other couples. This has included full swapping, as well as bi-fem action. My wife and I are equally engaged in swinging, and neither of us is pulling the other along. We are in our late thirties, live in Florida, and are otherwise "normal people" I work in the banking field, and my wife is an ICU nurse at a trauma center here. We have family, with two kids at home. So all of our swinging has been done while we are away travelling alone. We don't really have any swinger friends that we can talk to.

 

We have toyed with the idea of a gang bang. My wife knows i totally get off on watching her with other men... I enjoy watching her more than swinging with another wife. She also knows I am a little passive.. and like to see the other guy make full use of her.

 

So we have been discussing a gangbang. She is understandably very nervous about it. So am I. We are both concerned that a situtation like that could get out of control. We also know that since we can only swing while out of town, that it is likely that the men involved would be total strangers, which kind of adds to our concern about it getting out of control. We have discovered several "gangbang groups" which seem to be groups of men who are organized to provide this activity to married couples. Has anyone been with such a group? Are they for real, or just an internet hoax. What do we need to be concerned about? Has anyone had bad experiences with gang bangs?

 

We really would like some input from those of you that have done something like this.

 

Yes, there groups that can accomodate your wants and needs in regards to a GB.

 

Have you thought to go to a party and ask the host, ahead of time if possible if there will be men at the party that would like to participate in a gang bang? That might be a bit safer and comfortable for you both.

 

Good luck, have fun, let us know what happens.

[duo33470 15]

Thanks for all the input... I thought I would give an update...

 

We arranged to meet a few guys from a group in Tampa when we were down there. We met in the bar of the hotel we were staying at, there were 4 of them, plus me and my wife. It felt so naughty to both us meeting them in public... we wondered if anyone realized what we were up to, but I guess we will never know. We were in the bar a few hours, drinking, talking, and having a good time. My wife April was nervous at first, but loosened up after a few drinks, and started flirting. After 5 or 6 drinks i could tell she was ready to go upstairs to our room, so we took the party up there.

 

The elevator ride upstairs seemed like it took forever. Everyone was curiously silent, and April and I didnt even make eye contact on the ride. It was a very intense experience.

 

Once upstairs we put on some cd's we had brought and the guys got comfy. It was a small suite with a living area... April went to the bathroom, and called me to her. We had one final discussion, she asked if I was sure, and I said yes, and I asked if she was sure and I could tell she was very nervous about it, but said yes... she put on a short nightgown, after taking off her dress... she was wearing stockings and heels I had picked out.

 

So she and I re-entered the room with the guys, and they all gave positive comments, and welcomed her back. She nervously danced with them, and i just sort of soaked it all in. They kissed her, fondled, etc, and then started undressing. They slid off the nightgown, leaving her in only the stockings and heels.. She looked over at me after they undressed her, I nodded, and she nodded back. She was totally stunning standing there with their hands all over her body.

 

I wont go into the gory details of what happened next, but they all left satisfied. I satisfied myself while watching the show, and then had April again after they left. Overall it went pretty much as planned. The one thing that was a bit troubling is that I had to remind three of them at several different times that penetration was not allowed without condoms... they claimed they kept forgetting, and on more than one occasion mounted her without one on... I was able to catch it early and get them out of her, and back in a condom. I am not sure if that is something that gang bang guys try or not, but I felt like I had to keep a constant watch on them for that.

[xxxboxy 139]

It's not something that you just "forget". You should have kicked them out for violating your rules.

[cari and mar 45]

Congrats on putting it together and having it happen successfully! Just imagine how many men and women want to do what you have, but haven't pulled it together (for a huge host of reasons).

 

C&M

[bbarnsworth 2,637]

It's not something that you just "forget". You should have kicked them out for violating your rules.

 

 

Nobody "forgets" to use a condom. If they are capable of forgetting that, they're dumb as a rock and your wife probably wouldn't want to fuck them anyways.

[Additude 457]

"I wont go into the gory details of what happened next"

 

DAMN!!!

[Additude 457]

I would have done exactly as you did, but only for the reason of not ending the fun and festivities. The guys are just anxious, maybe pushing the envelope a bit, but all is well that ends well.

 

Glad it turned out for ya.