Watching wife getting fucked

[Japafloridian 18]

How common is is for men in this lifestyle to arrange watching the wife getting fucked by another guy (or 2,3)...I fantasize about it not as a classic cuckold type, but as her master who brings in the guys to do her under my supervision, then leave promptly for me to fuck her.

We tried it once so far (in a private, discreet setting) and i still get-off just looking at the pix i took!!!

 

Any comments on it's popularity or advice is appreciated!!!! TY

[realcplub2 513]

How common is is for men in this lifestyle to arrange watching the wife getting fucked by another guy (or 2,3)...I fantasize about it not as a classic cuckold type, but as her master who brings in the guys to do her under my supervision, then leave promptly for me to fuck her.

We tried it once so far (in a private, discreet setting) and i still get-off just looking at the pix i took!!!

 

Any comments on it's popularity or advice is appreciated!!!! TY

 

On a scale of one to ten, gauging commonality, its about a 5..

 

the key to all of this is, while it may be a source of constant excitement for you, is/was it for her?

 

Mini gangbangs, and full fledged gangbangs can be fun, but can also be extremely difficult, due to the amount of exertion involved..

[Japafloridian 18]

On a scale of one to ten, gauging commonality, its about a 5..

 

the key to all of this is, while it may be a source of constant excitement for you, is/was it for her?

 

Mini gangbangs, and full fledged gangbangs can be fun, but can also be extremely difficult, due to the amount of exertion involved..

 

yes, this is HER fantasy...a secondary one for me, knowing she gets off on it...and she is mult-o, so goes a long time....BUT i am there to make sure she calls time when she is done.

 

TY for the comment!!!!

[red96 17]

We have a similar interest although she chooses our playmates. It was something we had discussed for several years before we decided to give it a try. We have made connections through swingers sites and have had many MFM's over the course of the past couple of years. For us it is not a cuckold thing either, it is about her pleasure and my voyeuristic enjoyment. It is a turn on to see her with other men and to be actively involved.

[fun4Ds 1,098]

How common is is for men in this lifestyle to arrange watching the wife getting fucked by another guy (or 2,3)...I fantasize about it not as a classic cuckold type, but as her master who brings in the guys to do her under my supervision, then leave promptly for me to fuck her.

We tried it once so far (in a private, discreet setting) and i still get-off just looking at the pix i took!!!

 

Any comments on it's popularity or advice is appreciated!!!! TY

 

I too not only fantasized about it, but found a partner that perhaps was my perfect match, Mrsfun. I wanted to be the camera guy and she definitely got off on creating a show for me. To me she is the most erotic sexual being on the planet if not the universe. Not trying to over rate her and place her on a pedestal, but can't imagine underrating the way I feel, from what I see through My eyes.

 

I hope you feel the same about your wife, if so we're not alone

 

For me I wanted to see that, visually from a viewpoint. So I ventured into the realm of the digital video. No, not perverted obsessive so much because I only searched for perfection. I cared about the setting, the back ground and even lighting I even played runway judge one night selecting her outfits. We learned a little about most of that by ourselves but I wanted something more.

 

So we did it, I now have two DVDs of Me, Mrs fun and two male friends (separate DVD's). Ill always be greatfull to one, for actually helping with the formats. The sound track should be mentioned as well, because we dubbed in Peter frampton's "Baby I love your way" (My choice) and a few romantic tunes through-out, that are special between us. There are no Money shots.... It was a very sensual night, recorded while the camera was placed strategically on the wall. The best angle we could get.

 

The second has the music from AC/DC through Metallica and Nickel Back. it is raunchy. Both of us took turns with the camera and used a tripod at times also. My favorite shot is me behind our friend, he is siting in a chair, I'm standing behind him looking down over his shoulder while Mrsfun is giving him a blowjob. She gave me a show in this film intentionally, while still she is enjoying the benefits.

 

They are our films, they are personal and private for my eyes only. I have to say as of now, more and more of my porno is being thrown out. I suppose its because I am no longer looking in the well or at least when I do I see Us.....

 

Other than that I see my wife getting the attention she loves in our MFM experiences.

 

It is what you make of it, its how I saw it then, and now.

 

Fun4ds

[willyoats 324]

We have had lots (probably 30 or 40%) of MFM threesomes, as opposed to foursomes of MFMF or separate. That way I get to watch, which I really enjoy. Maybe it does not qualify as my "arranging" because she always chose the partner and then invited me to come along or not!

[Japafloridian 18]

We have had lots (probably 30 or 40%) of MFM threesomes, as opposed to foursomes of MFMF or separate. That way I get to watch, which I really enjoy. Maybe it does not qualify as my "arranging" because she always chose the partner and then invited me to come along or not!

 

yes, we have done the full swap and that was great, but i as well enjoy focusing on my wife being pleased...i seem to fantasize about that more than any other fantasy. she likes me to play the role of her master as i "make" her get fucked by another guy and i then make her tell me how she is enjoying it...we have done it only once, but WOW!!! she came 2 times quite loudly w/ him, then twice again with me after he left.

i also took pix, and have jacked off just looking at them!!!

next time video!!!

[foozballnow 31]

Female half of our couple enjoys one man at a time, unless it is a MFM. Male half is not a watcher. It is enjoyable but he likes to participate. We try to stick with couples that way both of us have something to do, or maybe we should say someone to do.

[JDApopka 54]

I really injoy watching my wife with other men and Funds I'm like you we create our own little dvd's .

[rick181au 85]

We were 35 when we started swinging (it was the wife’s first time with another guy) and we got right into the lifestyle for 10 or so years as family commitments allowed, then we had a spell away from it and when we started back into it the whole scene had changed, you had to be more careful health wise (all our sex with others is bare back sex). We found it difficult to find couples where you could have a commitment and the four of you all got along after the initial lust had worn off, after a couple of let downs we decided that M F M threesomes was the way to go for us, she enjoys the attention of two guys and I love seeing her going with other guys and going silky seconds (and I was getting older and finding it harder to perform with other women all the time)!

The one thing that did surprise me was when it came to selecting guys to join us was the preference of my wife to go for married guys who wanted a bit on the side with no complications, almost all the guys we have had threesomes with have been married.

We have now been married 47 years and in and out of the lifestyle for 25 + years on and off, we are still very much in love and still have a happy active sex life between ourselves.

[djjwp 129]

The one thing that did surprise me was when it came to selecting guys to join us was the preference of my wife to go for married guys who wanted a bit on the side with no complications, almost all the guys we have had threesomes with have been married.

 

We agree. The last thing we want is a single guy who can become a hanger. Come play, go home. We have found it really strange how much rap married guys get for cheating, etc. We are hardly the morality police and want men to go home after we are done. Besides, every single guy we meet has proven to always have a reason he is single... be it being a jerk, idiot, etc. May not be the case all the time but it has been for us.

[joaninla 162]

How common is is for men in this lifestyle to arrange watching the wife getting fucked by another guy (or 2,3)...I fantasize about it not as a classic cuckold type, but as her master who brings in the guys to do her under my supervision, then leave promptly for me to fuck her.

We tried it once so far (in a private, discreet setting) and i still get-off just looking at the pix i took!!!

 

Any comments on it's popularity or advice is appreciated!!!! TY

 

My husband can't get enough of watching me with other men. It is a huge turn on for both of us, and it is something we are fortunate enough to enjoy on a fairly regular basis (and many times he will fuck me as the perfect ending). Hubby does not have the 'master' role you refered, but will often suggest someone for me. Although I did not get this at first (a guy watching someone he loves getting fucked by another), I have come to appreciate that this is a common male fantasy (and for many on this board, a reality).

[kewlcitycpl 16]

Although we often swap with other couples, we have also recently had single males join us. The guys have all been younger men (which Marilyn really enjoys) and are chosen by her. I have always been there also, but I don't join in, but rather I enjoy watching her pleasing them and being pleased. Afterwards it is our time together, and I have to tell you the sex we have after i have watched her with other guys is absolutely fantastic.

[The Fuse 1,012]

We have found it really strange how much rap married guys get for cheating, etc. We are hardly the morality police

 

They get taken to task here because they are betraying their wife! Deceit, lies and disrespect. It's "strange" that they get a bad rap? That's hard to wrap my head around. I think it's "strange" that anyone would be puzzled by the rap they get. It may be convenient for you and your wife, but there is a cost to other peoples' lives and marriages, that you are part of exacting from them. We can't be responsible for everything they do, but it's sure as hell we don't have to be part of something that is, in most cases, horribly wrong.

 

To the OP: sorry for the thread jack. I think the rest of the posters have it right: there are plenty of husbands out there who very much enjoy watching their wives get fucked by other men. Have at it, everyone have fun, make your recordings, and enjoy them for many years in good health.

[Guest newplaytoys]

my husband loves sharing me with other men, we play with a small group , quite regularly. he is always participating with the guys with me . he loves listening and watching my pleasure , me enjoying all they can give me . giving and recieving , total pleasure and exhausted when we are finished. but so great

[bbarnsworth 2,652]

Besides, every single guy we meet has proven to always have a reason he is single... be it being a jerk, idiot, etc. May not be the case all the time but it has been for us.

 

I don't know. Seems to me a man cheating on his wife is a jerk.

 

Sorry, but we don't want anything to do with deceitful cretins like that.

 

To the OP;

My wife wants me to do all the arranging for swing dates, whether it be with couples or singles. She's always involved in what's going on in setting things up in that I keep her in the loop at all times, but she lets me do all the contacting. So, I guess you could say I'm finding men for her to fuck, but she's really doing the selecting, not me.

[FitCpl30s 17]

This past Saturday we were at a house party and I let my husband pick out another guy so we can have our first mfm boy was it great and the sex after wards with my husband was incredible.

[vep050176 16]

I also love to watch my wife with single guys. She also seems to like younger guys, I call her a Cougar now. She was very hesitant when we first started, but now she really gets into it. The only issue is she won't do it in our hometown, we have to be out of town. We also sometimes invite the guy back for the next night.

[spamcatcher 36]

We're an older couple -- I'm 59, she's 57 -- who have been full-swap swingers for about 3 years, although we don't play more than about 3 or 4 times a year. It took a long time to get to this point, as we were in a 'traditional' marriage for the first 35 years together. But the idea of watching her fuck somebody else started way back in 1971, when we were contemplating marriage.

 

We were have a soul-baring pre-nuptial discussion, where the subject of previous lovers came up. For me, it was easy: I'd never gone beyond groping and petting with my girlfriends. She was a little hesitant to reveal her experience, but confessed that she'd been with about 3 guys, one of whom was a longtime, somewhat older boyfriend, who fucked her regularly for a couple of years or more. (I didn't learn about the frequency until several years later...) She was afraid that I'd be hurt or jealous that she had not 'saved' her virginity for me.

 

Outwardly, I revealed little emotion at all, acting casually and with understanding, accepting her experience as something that occurred before we met, and not as a personal affront.

 

Inwardly, I had a strange mixture of thoughts and feelings. There was a minor bit of jealousy and hurt that I wasn't her 'first and only.' But there was more than a little excitement and curiosity, thinking of her being taken by those young boys, and liking it. I didn't disclose these feelings at the time, and we didn't discuss it further. Life carried on -- we married and enjoyed a torrid sex life from the beginning and continuing on for the next 3 decades.

 

As we got to know each other better, we would occasionally reveal fantasies that we both had, which served to stoke the fire of our sexual relationship. There were various kinks that we briefly discussed, but that we didn't act on. We maintained the ideal of a total and complete fidelity to one another and our sex, while frequent, was basically vanilla.

 

At some point during about the first 10 years, we must have discussed voyeurism. My wife commented to someone that if she were to have sex with someone else, I 'would probably want to watch.' (I wasn't there to hear this -- she told me about it later.) My reaction to her comment was something like, "Mmmmmm....", but I didn't enthusiastically endorse the idea right then and there. Inside, however, it was a turn-on that she even talked that way!

 

Eventually, I broached the discussion with her, stating that I thought it was time that she enjoyed a 'fresh' cock after all those years of being with just me. While the idea did seem appealing, she was having confidence and self-esteem issues about her age and weight, and replied 'Not at this time.' That was about 8 years ago, and I didn't press the issue any further.

 

I retired 3 years ago and we embarked upon a sexual reawakening, confessing to each other our deepest and most personal fantasies. And we made it a point to gift each other by actualizing those fantasies that were within both of our value systems and that were possible to bring to life. The result has brought us even closer together that we'd ever been.

 

Part of that has been that we've become swingers. Given my age and reduced level of sexual prowess, we don't play with couples as much as we do with other males, either in an MFM situation, or with my simply watching as my wife enjoys sex with another man.

 

I love everything about it, but my favorite is watching the initial contact up to penetration. When we're at a party, she is almost always the only one 'dressed up', which is the way I enjoy seeing at women the most. The others will be in pants or jeans, but my wife is always in a dress or skirt with hose. (my big turn-on)

 

I love to watch a man sit down and begin to seduce her, kissing and whispering into her ear, reaching over to fondle her breasts -- his hand eventually disappearing into her blouse or up her skirt. The heat builds in me as it it building in them, and it's not long before they get up to retreat to a bedroom for the 'main event'. Often times, my wife will whisper to the man that I like to watch and/or participate, and they'll ask me to come along.

 

Once in the bedroom, I'll play mostly a passive role and remain almost fully-clothed, at least initially. I'll watch them undress each other, touching and discovering their exposed intimate parts. Often, she'll soon be on her knees, topless, but still in her skirt and hose, sucking the guy's cock.

 

Then, I know it won't be long before she's on her back in bed, with her legs open, preparing to be entered. That's my absolute favorite part! I love watching her face as a 'new' cock slides into her for the first time! I love to her her soft moans as she tells us how good it feels.

 

Even though I'm straight, I also enjoy the occasional experience of guiding a hard, erect dick into her pussy, when the other guy is not uptight about male-to-male contact of this sort.

 

When I do participate, often times I'll be holding her legs in the air while she's being fucked, sometimes sucking her toes through her nylons. Inevitably, I'll wind up on the bed next to her so that she can suck my cock while the other guy is in her pussy.

 

We've both loved it from the first time we tried it -- no jealousy, regrets, second thoughts or guilt. It's only sex, and it's great fun. Our marriage has never been stronger or more fun!

[rick181au 85]

The wife and I met just before our 18th birthdays (she is 3 months older then me) on a blind date, she was a strict Church going (at least 3 times a week with her family) Catholic girl who did not then, never has and still don’t touch Alcohol or drugs, as we got to know each other I found out she knew nothing about sex at all, to the extent that she thought ever time a woman had sex she had a baby and that her mother must have been a real sexy woman as she had 6 children (I told you they were a strict Catholic family) lol, I had to buy sex education books and teach her the facts of life myself, just after we turned 19 we skipped the theory and got down to the practical side of it and I took her cherry.

We got engaged at 19 and her father told us we could not get married until she was 21 so we married between out birthdays she was 21 and I was 20, we had our family at 28 and 30 and she had her tubes tied after our last child was born. Not long after that I started hinting about us playing with other couples, (this was early 70’s and their was a lot of swinging and swapping going on) when we were in the heat of having sex she would respond real good and gave me hope but out in the broad daylight it was a no go situation, she would not even talk about it.

I met a mate I used to go to school with and we had a few social BBQ’s with him and his wife, after socializing with them a while it came out that they belonged to a nudist club and they invited us along for a visit, my wife surprised me by agreeing to go, you were allowed three visits and then you had to make up your mind if you wanted to join or not, at our third visit once again she surprised me by saying “YES”! So we joined and soon had our own onsite van where we could go and stay weekends and holidays. We were not in the club long before we found out their was an underground swinging movement in the nudist club and God their was some good looking women involved, most of the swinging was done off club premises at private house parties, and their was a rule that the swingers would not go with a guy or girl if their other partner was not in the swinging scene to cut out the jealousy but their sure was a lot of teasing going on between swingers and non swingers.

We were soon friends with some of the swingers and eventually got invited to what was potentially a swinging party, we were made aware that no swinging would happen unless we were going to be involved, I was already getting along with one of the women there and my wife was getting along real well with one of the guys, all she had to do was go to one of the bedrooms with him and we would have been in, but instead she came to me and said that she wanted to go home, the old story you can lead a horse to water but you cannot make him drink, after we left the swinging began.

We went to a lot of private parties through the nudist club, some were 100% straight parties, others were nudist parties and we knew that a lot of the nudist parties often turned into swinging parties when the non swingers left, this Saturday night we were at a 100% straight party and I was called away to work, I knew their was no chance of me returning to the party so I arranged for the wife to get a lift home with a friend and owing to the fact that most of us were going to the nudist club the next day and my work was half way between home and the club we also arranged for her to get a lift to the club the next morning and I would go straight there from work.

The next day I arrived at the club and parked next to our van and as I was going in I seen my wife drinking tea at another van with friends of ours, as I went to leave our van my wife met me at the door and said “I was a naughty girl last night with Joe”, Joe was a friend of ours that I thought she was keen on, I replied “that’s OK a bit of a kiss and cuddle never hurt anyone” and she came back with “it was more then a kiss and cuddle” I started to bare up then and there not the done thing to do at a nudist club, I took her back into our van and laid her on the bed while she told me what happened, her and Joe got flirting with each other and she got real turned on and made up her mind that she was going to do it with Joe, I had put here in that many situations where she knew I wanted her to go with other guys and I had told her that if ever it happened it would be OK with me, so the time was right for her then and there but the only trouble was finding the place to do the deed, the house was full of people and they could not find a place to do the deed, Joe ended up asking the hostess “who was another swinger” what they could do and she agreed to stand guard outside a bedroom door telling anyone that approached she was getting one of her children to sleep while they had it off inside, which they did, by this time I had went down on my wife and then fucked her with the hardest cock I’d had in ages, when we left the van I could see smiles on the faces of other swingers who knew what happened, they had another couple in the swinging group to play with, the bubble had burst “more like the dam had burst”. A couple of days later Joe and his partner came to our place and we swapped, that was the start of 25+ years of swinging, swapping and M F M threesomes for us, I had no idea just how big a Pandora’s box I had opened lol, but it’s all been good fun I can tell you.

Sorry this was so long but I do like writing about it, I am sure that if we had not started swinging we would have been divorced by now as I could not help playing up when I got the opportunity and I would have been found out with dire results, instead we have now been married 47 years .

Hope you enjoyed reading this and please feel free to ask any questions.

All the best rick181au.

[dr_pepper 25]

Back in the early 60's, I was in the service as a photographer. My first assignment was to a base in Japan. I was just out of high school and this turned out to be a real education. I learned more about life in those 2 years than I did in the 19 before. One thing that I found out about was men sharing their wives.

 

In those days, copy machines didn't exist and everything had to be photostated if you wanted a copy. Well, in the base photo lab that was one of many duties. I can not remember how many times I copied files about men on base who had a friend or other man fuck his wife. I am sure there were many many more that were never found out. How these were discovered still puzzles me, because I would think that no one would complain or rat them out. Reading these reports was really great stuff. As I say, I learned a lot.