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By Stevnjack
I’m newly married, this isn’t my first marriage. My husband and I have been thinking about going into this lifestyle, but I’m worried that once I come home he may never be enough and vice versa? Is this a common feeling? Am I ready? Are we ready? Well I know he is, but am I?
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By lott
I was wondering how would the man in a couple feel if another man makes his wife have more orgasms than he has and they were also more intense than anything she has ever felt before from sex?.
Do you think this will cause a break in the marriage or will it make it better?
I ask this because I know some techniques that can do exactly what I described but I don't want to cause a rift in a relationship. When I do it with a single woman I don't have to worry about her significant other getting mad at her constantly thinking about the orgasms I gave her but if it's a couple I don't know if this is the same case.
The techniques I use require a lot of exercises on my part to build strength and can't be accomplished in a week and some men might not even feel like doing the work and I'm worried the women might try to cheat with me to get these orgasms and I'm not into that. I really want to try some group sex with this knowledge because I love to see a woman in total ecstasy but I don't know if it's a wise thing to do.
Can anyone help me out?
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By tmayou
I would like my wife to have sex with another man. My concern is that what if he has a much larger penis then me and she enjoys it more than mine?
And, if so, how would that effect us?
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By Skullsawange
We've been 'in the lifestyle' for about 5 years and have had multiple experiences in groups/couples/singles.
My husband is the plan maker.
When we talk to new people, he does the majority of the messaging and planning. When it comes to talking to the couple (or person) and actually making the plans, he gets very insecure. The few weeks leading up to making plans with someone, there has to be no snags in our day to day lives. If he sends me a message on snap or in text and I miss it, then he feels like it's more important to me to be talking to and making plans with other people.
I've been trying very hard to empathize and go his pace, but even if we get a text from a couple we've been speaking to and I ask him what we should reply, sometimes he takes that as being too eager of me. Like I should let them hang before we reply to them.
Does that make sense?
My husband is a very emotional person, me not so much. He needs constant consoling. We have a lot of fun but I'm really confused about him a lot of the time. As much as he seems to want to keep going in this direction, he also really digs his feet in and it's..exhausting trying to constantly gauge where he's at. Anytime we try and talk through this problem, it turns into an argument.
I'm at a loss.
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By Violet75
Hi, wife narrating here. I'm 35, hubby is 31. We have been together 3 years. I'm not sure if what we have been talking about and exploring would really be considered swinging. Hubby has slowly been opening up to me about fantasies about watching me with other women and men.
In my life before hubby, I was very sexually open. He knew this when we met, but acted as though none of that interested him. I had a sort of sexual awakening when I met my husband and lost interest in all the wilder things I had been doing.
After we had been together for about a year and a half, my husband confessed to me that he was a little envious that I had experienced so many different sexual things and he had only done the basic vanilla stuff with his first wife. He was envious of me, and of the people I had been with, that they had shared something with me that he hadn't.
Gradually he has expressed interest and desire in experimenting with role play, and with watching me with another woman. Then he finally told me that he has fantasized about seeing me with another man.
I stepped away from this life when I met him because he satisfies me completely. I don't need anything more than what he gives me. I'm cautious because when we first met he said that stuff didn't interest him at all.
So here we are, to learn more about what we may be getting ourselves into and if we can handle it.
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